I remember seeing the flyers for domestic violence in the bathroom whenever I’d go to urgent care.
I usually would be getting in to check if I had a UTI
It was the easiest way to get antibiotics on short notice
Or to be validated in my IC diagnosis!
Anyway
I’d think to myself -
Well I’d dissociate first -
And I’d think
That’s not my situation
They’re not physically abusive
I’m not scared of my best friend
They would never hurt me
And my body would plunge into more pain as I left my urine sample for the nurse
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I really wish i could make really quick meme art like i’ve seen others do because I get so many ideas that arent funny described but, visually, would be very funny in my opinion. sigh
anyways tldr listeining to antihero by ts is really funny when u imagine the lines being read by the red prince
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PSYCHOPATH and NARCISSIST SURVIVORS GROUP Roundup of Recent Posts https://groups.google.com/forum/#!topic/NARCISSISTIC-PERSONALITY-DISORDER/F7sQzoJUP_Q
Angry Reacts Only - Harvesting Cash from the Media Ecology
https://www.tapatalk.com/groups/thepsychopath/angry-reacts-only-harvesting-cash-from-the-media-e-t23471.html
Hungary's RTL TV: The confinement may exacerbate domestic violence in
domestic quarantine
https://www.tapatalk.com/groups/thepsychopath/hungary-s-rtl-tv-the-confinement-may-exacerbate-do-t23472.html
5 Ways To Develop Serenity During Anxious Times, With Susan Gold
https://www.tapatalk.com/groups/thepsychopath/5-ways-to-develop-serenity-during-anxious-times-wi-t23473.html
Narcissistic-Borderline Couples: Daddy Issues
https://www.tapatalk.com/groups/thepsychopath/narcissistic-borderline-couples-daddy-issues-t23474.html
Please respond to this poll - thank you
https://www.tapatalk.com/groups/thepsychopath/please-respond-to-this-poll-thank-you-t23475.html
Deconstructing Narcisissm ~ Sam Vaknin IceCream on Radio Tilos
https://www.tapatalk.com/groups/thepsychopath/deconstructing-narcisissm-sam-vaknin-icecream-on-r-t23476.html
Sam Vaknin, Member of the Organizing Committee of 32nd Edition of
International Conference on Psychiatry and Mental Health
https://psychiatryconference.euroscicon.com/organizing-committee
Sam Vaknin, Member of the Organizing Committee of 4th International
Conference on Psychiatry and Psychological Disorders, Paris, November 2020
https://mentalhealth.global-summit.com/organizing-committee.php
Additional international conferences on mental health, neurology, brain
studies, psychology, and psychiatry
http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/mediakit.html
Sam Vaknin, Editor in Chief of Journal of Psychiatric Studies
https://www.boffinaccess.com/journals/journal-of-psychiatric-studies/editorial-board
Sam Vaknin, Member of the Editorial Board of Psychiatry Research Treatment
http://worldsciencepub.com/Editorial-Board-Psychiatry-Research-Treatment.html
Sam Vaknin, Member of the Editorial Board of Journal of Mental Health and
Substance Abuse
https://gnoscience.com/journals/1
Sam Vaknin, Member of the Editorial Board of Journal of Addictive Behaviors,
Therapy, and Rehabilitation
https://www.scitechnol.com/editorialboard-addictive-behaviors-therapy-rehabilitation.php
Sam Vaknin, Member of the Editorial Board of Annals of Psychiatry and
Clinical Neuroscience
http://www.remedypublications.com/annals-of-psychiatry-and-clinical-neuroscience-editorial-board.php
Membership in additional Editorial Boards
http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/mediakit.html
NEW VIDEO Brain, Brawn, Body, Bluff: Narcissists, Somatic, Covert, Cerebral,
and Classic https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A4KhA5vKlAc
https://archive.org/details/bowesinterview3
NEW VIDEO A-social Media and the Fracking of Mankind (Champagne Sharks
Podcast) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WgjOH0kDErw
https://archive.org/details/champagne_202004
NEW VIDEO COVID-19: Nature's Revenge, Culling, or Eugenics? (and
Homosexuality) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J7PUDKUeOkA
https://archive.org/details/naturepandemic
NEW VIDEO Pandemic Slaves and Their Neo-feudal Masters: Envy-fuelled
Insurrection https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6CAE9sEfSp4
https://archive.org/details/pandemicslaves
NEW VIDEO Love Your Sex, Hate Your Gender: Women, Men, and Me
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kgaWEQQPJDA
https://archive.org/details/gendersexemotions
NEW VIDEO Cuckolds, Swingers (Lifestyle), and Psychopathic Narcissists:
Death of Intimacy? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=alGmDyjvRZM
https://archive.org/details/cuckoldry
NEW VIDEO Covert Narcissist=Borderline+Psychopath+Passive-Aggressive (Convo
with Charles Bowes-Taylor) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u-OhW7elNKg
https://archive.org/details/bowesinterview2
NEW VIDEO Men and Women Battlefields: Marriage, Family, and Other Failures
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=odavg4S2oT4
https://archive.org/details/marriagefamily
NEW VIDEO ET to the Rescue: Narcissists and Psychopaths as Aliens - Part 1
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4bkYRpIdcNI
NEW VIDEO ET to the Rescue: Narcissists and Psychopaths as Aliens - Part 2
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YfZKq-SgwmA
NEW VIDEO Manosphere - Misogynistic Suicide by Woman: PUAs, Incels, MGTOWs,
and Pillers (Red and Black) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q93tYnmTEpM
https://archive.org/details/manosphere
NEW VIDEO Vaccination Primer and COVID-19 Good News
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a1uhltLLwRk
https://archive.org/details/vaccination_202004
NEW VIDEO ack to the Future: Spectacle of Narcissism, Spectre of Psychopathy
(Convo with Alex Kazemi) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wsbw2Y3ikSA
NEW VIDEO Rejection and Abandonment in Cluster B Personality Disorders and
Their Intimate Partners https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gAPyxgKyu4s
https://archive.org/details/rejection_202004
NEW VIDEO Vaccination Primer and COVID-19 Good News
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a1uhltLLwRk
NEW VIDEO COVID-19: The War of the Olds (against the Young) and Narcissism,
of course https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TYtIsf-OB_c
YouTube created a Sam Vaknin Mix:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KDrcf4ZVPNg&list=RDCMUCLadFapyecCYAeuTqc12avA&start_radio=1
NEW VIDEO Ten Plagues of COVID-19, How Viruses Work, Message (last 3
minutes) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8bbRjxVx4M
NEW VIDEO Narcissist: Traumatized Child Invents God, then Abuses
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KDrcf4ZVPNg
https://archive.org/details/bowesinterview
NEW VIDEO Borderline Woman as Dissociative Secondary Psychopath
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I01x0o_OISE
https://archive.org/details/bpdpsychopath
NEW VIDEO Narcissistic Coronavirus for Narcissistic Civilization
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oN6i3Gx22kc
https://archive.org/details/coronavirus_20200314
NEW VIDEO COVID-19 Punishes Our Narcissism (Original Sin)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K5TC1ghG70U
https://archive.org/details/coronaupdate
NEW VIDEO Borderline to Narcissist: I Will Abandon You First
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vc0__AzrQVA
https://archive.org/details/bpdnpd
NEW VIDEO Borderline Triangulates with Rescuer to Silence Pain, Abadonment
Anxiety https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2pxXjQwJy-Y
https://archive.org/details/bpdcheating
NEW VIDEO Borderline Woman: Partner Devaluation, Self-harm, Alcoholism
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UBemOsUOd8c
https://archive.org/details/bpdqna
NEW VIDEO Pandemics: COVID19 and Daddy Issues in Borderline-Narcissist
Couples https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=23tQTkf2F0U
https://archive.org/details/bpdnpddaddy
NEW VIDEO Pandemics: COVID-19 and Life's Meaninglessness (also in Abusive
Relationships) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HhN_GekoFek
https://archive.org/details/meaninglessness
NEW VIDEO Post-pandemic Sex and Relationships Rules
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HrgOeOQSz6k
https://archive.org/details/sexpandemic
NEW VIDEO Social Distancing: Isolation with the Narcissist
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmrvknD_loM
https://archive.org/details/isolationnarc
NEW VIDEO Viral Brave, New World of Lonely Narcissism
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-6bd2Mc4URM
https://archive.org/details/viralworld
NEW VIDEO COVID-19: Mutating Viruses, Grandiose Doctors
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-xO05rl1uYw
https://archive.org/details/medicalnarcissism
NEW VIDEO Ten Plagues of COVID-19, How Viruses Work, Message (last 3
minutes) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8bbRjxVx4M
https://archive.org/details/covidplague
NEW VIDEO Breaking Through the Narcissist's Indifference by Becoming a
Psychopath https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VheWNglo4SU
https://archive.org/details/provokenarc
NEW VIDEO COVID-19 Panic Merchants: Lies, Conspiracies, and Statistics (Oh,
and Science) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XDZLIOeRYLM
https://archive.org/details/covidconspiracy
NEW VIDEO Promiscuity: Psychology of Self-Soothing with Sex (oh, and
Relationships) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LhA8HGz_VqY
https://archive.org/details/promiscuity
NEW VIDEO Casual Sex Q&A: The Fake Intimacy of Bodies
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dWZCh-B6j8
https://archive.org/details/casualsexqa
NEW VIDEO COVID-19: Sheeple, Pandemic, and Power Grabs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3P3ehWjiuH4
NEW VIDEO COVID-19: The Panicdemic and What's to Come
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZiOdxRluLF8
https://archive.org/details/panicdemics
NEW VIDEO COVID-19: WHO Benefits? And Epidemiology Lesson
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XgXWqFUs8c4
https://archive.org/details/covidconspiracy_202004
NEW VIDEO COVID-19: Good News and is God Evil for Allowing It to Happen?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xXvqYV_YwNQ
https://archive.org/details/covidevil
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Alfred Alfer: The Covert Narcissist
Guys lol its me. It all makes so much sense....
The guy assumes everyone who watches this is coming there because they’re with someone who’s a Covert Narc. Everyone in the comments are there because they’re with someone. What about all the people who are researching it because they think they are one themselves?
AHHAAHAH
Not sayin’ im one completely, it’s all a spectrum. But this video makes too much sense guys... atleast in terms of Alfred! : ]
“They feel entitled, they feel they deserve more than everybody else, but at the same time they hold the conflicting thought, ‘I’m not good enough’, that they don’t deserve it....” (loosely quoted) “A covert narcissist may be a brilliant painter, he’s better than anybody else out there, and that he is more deserving, But at the same time he has this voice inside his head that says You Suck You Suck You Suck ....”
And sooooooo much more!
>: ] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-WVLZXLyO-M
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There will always be a part of me that wishes I had never left.
I had to leave, knowing that I woke up that day (and every single day prior for the past several years) choosing and falling in love with someone who was not choosing and falling in love with me.
I had to leave, not knowing whether I'd be begging to return ("I'll do anything - I'll isolate for 30 days or forever. Please, I love you. I'll do whatever you want.") or never returning again ("Hi Jon. This is Pri. I am safe. I am going to hand the phone over to a friend who is helping me. Her name is [--] and she is going to read from a script. Hi Jon. I am helping Pri. They are safe. I am reading from a script they wrote and gave me permission to read to you. Pri no longer feels safe being in a relationship or in contact with you. They will be seeking a divorce immediately. They have no desire to hear from you or speak to you except in relation to concluding your current lease, the logistics of the divorce, and ending utilities under their name. Ideally, Pri will continue to pay their half of the rent and utilities until your lease concludes in the summer.").
I had to leave, loving you.
I had to leave when I thought I would die if I left.
I had to leave, hoping you'd tell me and everyone else that you were wrong. That you were hurting me. That you were sorry that you hurt me so many times. That you would get help. That you would finally go to couple's counseling with me. That YOU WERE WRONG.
I had to leave, knowing that you might never get it. That people might not believe me. That I would lose so many people in my life.
I had to leave, knowing that you'd hate me.
I had to leave, blowing my entire life up and not knowing how it would turn out.
I had to leave, questioning myself "why? this isn't real abuse. this can't be real abuse. they tell me they love me every day. there is virtually no physical violence. i've been raped and assaulted so many times before - this isn't like that, right? this isn't really real mind control. they can't do this knowing what i've been through. they know what consent is. they know what it looks like when i'm in pain. they love me. they're doing what's best for me. they will take care of me. we made vows. we're married. we're family. we're best friends. i married my best friend. i married my best friend. I MARRIED MY BEST FRIEND."
I had to leave, not knowing what I consented to and what I didn't consent to.
I had to leave, disabled and in pain - not knowing if I'd flare so hard that I wouldn't be able to walk or be functional... or if I'd get better. I got so much better. Can't you see that I'm healthier now? Can't you see that you took my shine away from me, all those years, without remorse or acknowledgment?
I had to leave, knowing that you took years off of my life - that you put me in such stressful situations, my brain couldn't process it. I just wanted to stay until I couldn't feel anymore. If I stayed, there was no doubt I'd become more visibly disabled... maybe then you'd actually internalize that I am disabled (or maybe you'd just resent me more).
I had to leave, with everything I could fit in my car, including my violin.
I had to leave, just to be homeless for several weeks... and dysregulated for months.
I had to leave while fighting to be strong when I didn't want to. I DON'T WANT TO BE LIKE THIS. It's entirely too hard and too unreasonable. I don't want to be strong anymore. I'm so tired.
I had to leave while my brain was screaming, crying, fighting, pleading, yearning, persuading me... that it isn't that bad, please just stay. Go back to being monogamous. Go back to being a girl. Go back to masking. Go back to being subservient. Go back to people-pleasing. Go back to ignoring things that don't make sense to you. Go back to being yelled at for communication styles that only your partner yells at you for. Go back to apologizing profusely. Go back to your nervous system being constantly on alert. Go back to feeling like the way you touch, kiss, move, and behave are all wrong. Go back to not really being kissed even when kissed. Go back to the weaponization of intimacy. Go back to being the stupid epidemiologist who should take healthcare advice from a programmer with no experience in healthcare. Go back to trying not to mess up, but messing up anyway, then being yelled at, then trying to remember all the things not to mess up, then messing up again, then being yelled at that you don't really care/love them, then being yelled at that you're doing it on purpose, then being yelled at about how much they have to put up with, then getting so stoned or dissociated that you can think again... all the while wondering if you were the abuser all along.
I had to leave, loving and believing in you so hard that subsequently, for weeks, I told everyone that you didn't mean to hurt me, but that you did, and that maybe you'd change and make it up to me... and having everyone I confided in look at me with such sadness and pity, while I fell apart.
I had to leave, knowing that there will always be a part of me that wishes I had never left.
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