#dykefag rights

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happy pride from your local neighborhood trans butch #DykefagRights

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you can be bi lesbian i understand some people don’t fit into labels. anti bi lesbians are the most chronically online take i’m done arguing with somebody who would rather insult and manipulate before they even try to listen men and women (and the ones between) can be a lesbian and you can be a lesbian and like men. and idc if your followers are laughing at me because i know i’m right on this. people agree with bi lesbians

Submitted by @hella-cute-and-fruity-dykefag (feat. an anon received by @thatspookyagent)

[degenderates]

I am a lesbian but also a gay man. A faggot but also a dyke. A queer girlboy. A bigender boygirl. Only a girl if I can be a butch and only a boy if I can be a femme. You understand?

[humanmaybe]

Hey ⚡️

[awbrainno]

Hate it when "progressive" spaces have binary gendered restrooms. Hate having to choose which binary gender more closely aligns with my own. I don't fukken know, they're different things! Is 3 or blue more closely aligned with Paris? Are crawfish or boots more closely aligned with ceiling tiles? These things have nothing to do with one another!!!

[480pfootage]

sorry for reblogging so much mandy.... she just elicits something out of me

[syssyadmin]

*throwing on a lab coat over my leather in a hurry* sorry can't talk i have important academic conferences to attend

[angelusargent]

I'm so obsessed with myself the sound of my own belt buckle turns me on

[falinscloaca]

dyke (along with fag for that matter) for me is starting to turn into the queer community equivalent of gender-neutral ‘dude’ inasmuch as its a weird and nondescript generalization with no clear meaning and a bunch of gender baggage it paradoxically is often used specifically to spite itself against. these could mean anything really.

[genderkoolaid]

Tell us about the gay trans man 50s housewife story please....

GLADLY

it's not very fleshed out but the general idea is a woman has recently been married and is trying to fill the role of Good Wife, but privately is struggling with dysphoria that she hoped would be "fixed" by getting married and putting all her effort into getting a good grade in womanhood. she tries to befriend other wives in the neighborhood but it never really clicks. one of her neighbors is a single man living alone who becomes the first person she is able to connect with. she eventually admits her desire to be a man, not just in the "it would be nice to have rights" sense but that she desperately wants to look like a man– and then she tries to laugh it off with "haha but i'm not attracted to women so I guess I'm just weird!"

the neighbor is actually a gay man who starts to introduce her to queer culture under her husband's nose, which is both extremely alluring but also disturbing to her because she's tried so hard to be a Good Straight Woman, so she goes back and forth between "giving in" and lashing out. she tries to break off their friendship, partially because people are starting to get suspicious of them but also in an attempt to force all that self realization back into a tidy box. but her already shaky relationship with her husband starts crumbling and eventually she breaks down to the neighbor because no man will love her in the way she wants. the neighbor insists that he is attracted to him, and tells him that he's no different than the thousands of other gay men pretending to be someone they're not. the neighbor gives him a haircut and new clothes and they run off together in the middle of the night to start a new life together.

related idea to this is a story in which a bride runs away from her wedding because she can't make herself marry her husband, finds a gay bar, meets a butch who helps her realize her own butchness, both of them are actually achillean trans men but don't have the language to understand it and so they have t4t dykefag sex about it

[apollos-boyfriend]

i think. something that a lot of young queer kids who engage in online discourse don’t realize is that none of it matters in the real world. at all. i have been in so many queer spaces with queer people of all ages and never once have i witnessed anyone ever make a fuss about someone’s identity. i’ve seen lesbians who identify as dudes in the same room as the most femme women you’ll ever meet. fagdykes and dykefags and old bisexuals who call themselves half gay or half lesbian because that’s just the terminology they’re used to. and no one cares. no one even acknowledges these things half the time because it’s all just normal. it’s the queer experience. if you do make a fuss, a lot of people aren’t going to debate their right to exist with you. they’re going to ask you to leave, because you’re being a dick. and in my experience, if you do find a place that does care, that regulates and polices identities and labels, there’s a 90% chance you’ve found yourself in some terf-ran bullshit, because exclusionism is and always has been rooted in terf ideology. no one else gains anything from creating walls and strict limits in queerness. no one.

[kuruk]

that persons already a lost cause for that whole essay on that post where rhe joke was extremely clear to see but even on like serious posts about lesbians' boundaries (bc it's always about lesbians not dating men) it's always the transandrophobia truthers claiming they're keyboard warrior-ing for multigender people everywhere when no babe you're talking about YOU specifically. Bc how do you have the confidence to feel that you are so unique in your identity that no simpler string of words can describe you other than "ftmtftm dykefag boy girlboy nonbinary transmasc trans woman faggy butch queer female man mlmlwlw" which whatever that's your right I suppose but then you don't have the confidence to think that maybe you need to be the exception not the rule bc words still have meanings in society and if we made every statement to try to include the people online trying really hard to imply that they're tma then nobody would be able to say anything more specific than "people who love people love other people 😊💞"

I don't even get it because it's mostly people who used to just be trans men and thought that wasn't confusing or different enough so now people who honestly hate women are calling themselves dykes and the dykeness they're referring to is dating other transmascs who hate women too.. sometimes you can tell it's because they see trans women as inherently confusing and having "weird" genders and they so desperately want to replicate that by obscuring the fact that they're not transfem. it's just funny how no one who calls themselves a dykefag is ever actually a dyke and I don't want to entertain that like I think we have to go back to when lgbt people online thought it was cruel to throw around the word dyke like this when you're not a lesbian. because it is just cruel to talk down to women about men's rights while throwing around the word dyke it almost feels like it's on purpose. like the slur calling combined with the insistence that trans men have a right to access to lesbians because they're afab it seems like there's a weird obsession these people have with putting lesbians and trans women in their place

[neopronouns]

flag id: three flags with 5 stripes. the left flag's stripes are orange-red, medium dark orange-red, very dark purple, dark faded blue, and faded blue. the middle flag's stripes are light pink-red, orange-red, medium dark indigo, faded blue, and turquoise. the right flag's stripes are very light orange-red, light pink, indigo, light blue, and very light seafoam green. end id.

banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.

bisexudyke | bisexufagdyke | bisexufag

bisexudyke: being a dyke in an explicitly bisexual way; when one's dykeness is directly connected to or influenced by their bisexuality

bisexufagdyke/bisexudykefag: being a fagdyke/dykefag in an explicitly bisexual way; when one's fagdykeness/dykefagness is directly connected to or influenced by their bisexuality

bisexufag(got): being a fag(got) in an explicitly bisexual way; when one's fag(got)ness is directly connected to or influenced by their bisexuality

[pt: bisexudyke: being a dyke in an explicitly bisexual way; when one's dykeness is directly connected to or influenced by their bisexuality

bisexufagdyke/bisexudykefag: being a fagdyke/dykefag in an explicitly bisexual way; when one's fagdykeness/dykefagness is directly connected to or influenced by their bisexuality

bisexufag(got): being a fag(got) in an explicitly bisexual way; when one's fag(got)ness is directly connected to or influenced by their bisexuality. end pt]

for anon! colors are from this dyke flag and this fag(got) flag and are arranged like the bisexual flag (warm colors on top, purple in the center, cool colors on the bottom). the terms are 'bisexu' from 'bisexual' + 'dyke'/'fagdyke'/'dykefag'/'fag(got)'!

tags: @radiomogai | dni link

[butchdykekondraki]

why are people following us. you guys know i post about mary magdalene and judas iscariot t4t dykefag sex right

[fefairys]

i just lost a long time mutual over this so let me just say: mspec lesbians/gays are valid. if ur really going to tell someone that they are Wrong about their fucking sexuality label get the fuck out of here. just because you don’t relate to or understand someone’s reasoning for it doesn’t give you the right to police their fucking identity. identity is a personal thing and you have to be okay with not understanding every single persons identity. you have to be okay with the fact that not everyone’s identities fit into neat little boxes. you need to expand your worldview.

i am a dykefag. it is literally in my tumblr description. i’m bisexual as in both a lesbian and a gay man. while we’re at it, i’m genderfluid as in both transmasc and transfem AND neither. if you have a problem with any of that you can block me. it’s my identity i get to choose what to do with it. and everyone else is free to do whatever they want with theirs.

someone using the same label as you but in a different way does not mean one of you is wrong, it means you just both happen to vibe with the same word despite having different experiences. isn’t that cool? i think that’s awesome! i love meeting genderfluid people who have a completely different gender experience than me! the world is full of such variance and it is a beautiful thing. maybe if you got your head out of your own ass for a second you would realize that.

[thishazeleyeddemon]

Commission Me So I Can Buy Christmas Presents For My Partners + The Assorted Ghouls I Call My Immediate Family

Hi! I'm a genderqueer dykefag who is in college and also poor. I want to buy shit for my crew (meaning my partners (I have three of them) and also the wretched ghouls and goblin beasts who are apparently related to me) (I love them very much).

Buy art from me.

^ I kinda fucked this up on clarity - when I mean "shaded" I mean like, an illustration of a person. If you want like minimal cel shading that'd probably run ya more like 70$?

(I am open to discussion + the idea of paying me in stages if you need)

(We'll get all the details of payment hashed out before I start working.)

(however I also reserve the right to refuse service to anyone if I feel you've disrespected me/my time)

Backgrounds is tricky, the price goes up if you want something traditional because then you're also paying for coloring the damn thing in by hand instead of making judicious use of the paintbucket tool.

^ THIS IS TRADITIONAL ONLY if you want a color fill that's for free for traditional because you're not paying for coloring it in by hand.

There's some wiggle room depending on what you want. I am open to discussion but I am DEFINITELY not going below 40$ for any traditional pattern, no matter what.

^ price added to the character price

anyway. like I said. buy art from me so I can buy Christmas presents for my ghouls

EXAMPLES BELOW 👇

note: some of these are other commissions or from art fight, just included as art examples