#pro mspec lesbian

[haunted-thing]

hey daily reminder that if you say “but multigender people aren’t actually men!” in your argument against mspec lesbians / lesboys that is, infact transphobic. if you don’t deny whatever womanhood that person may have or lack there of gender that person may have why would you deny their manhood? you cannot bend other peoples gender identities just to fit YOUR beliefs. It’s their identity not yours.

-sincerely, a multigender lesboy

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this is just a reminder that there is such thing as a good faith contradictory identity such as the bi lesbian <3 <3 lesbians can be attracted to men, period, and to imply otherwise is blatant textbook lesbophobia no matter how many rainbow heart emojis you add after it.

Submitted by @autisticfordprefect

[sirenium]

Exclusionists will be blatantly bigoted and then turn around and claim that the pan lesbian they sent death threats to is the true danger to the community 💀

[bilesproblems]

"how can you be bi and a lesbian that doesn't make any sense" it's called multitasking next question

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

no way did I just see someone make a whole LIST about who is "allowed" to be a lesbian based on how "close to manhood" they are. exclus stop defining lesbians by their relation to men challenge (impossible)

[ravagen]

Can anti mspec lesbians not use “colonizing” to describe queer ppl identifying in a way they don’t want

[your-rutherfurr]

What should we call lesbian and gay attraction?!

So alot of the queer community when talking about lesbian and gay attraction we usually use the 'non-men loving non-men' or 'non-woman loving non-woman' definition which we found out that it's quite exclusionary for multigender people who also are boys and/or girls, not to mention the racist roots😬. So what could we put it as then? I mean it's kinda obvious but it's simply the queer attraction to women/men and feminine/masculine aligned ppl, anything but the hetero attraction. So let me introduce you to the more inclusive terms I came up with...

QAM and QAW!

QAM = Queer Attraction to Men/masc aligned

QAW = Queer attraction to women/fem aligned

How to pronounce these terms?

QAM - kwam or kam

QAW - kaw or even claw 🤷‍♂️

Being a part of the queer community we want to include ALL queer ppl and their wonderful experiences, I know it's nearly impossible to include every single experience out there but I'm willing to try! We don't have to know every single identity under the sun but we can be aware that there are a plethora of experiences out there and more to come.

[fandomsoda]

fucking astounds me whenever people say that mspec gays/lesbians are somehow offensive to gays and lesbians like,,, lesbian here; stfu someone else’s complicated experience of sexuality is not offensive

Believing that sexuality must fit into these boxes and that we’re not allowed to combine concepts for further understanding is TERF shit.

lesbian should not be treated like it’s some sort of holy word that must always be held to an exact definition or else it is sacrilege or some shit, it can and should be used as an umbrella term because once again, being super policey and weird about this stuff is TERF SHIT.

[gokbukethings]

The terms "bi lesbian" and "lesbian man" are older than y'all think but none of you are ready for that conversation yet

[aquariclione]

[ID: 2 flags. 1st flag has 9 stripes. colors are listed in order from top to bottom: blue, light blue-green, mint, yellow, black, yellow, orange, red, magenta. 2nd flag has 6 stripes. colors are listed in order from top to bottom: bright red, orange, yellow, black, mint green, blue]

HAZARDQUEER / DANGERQUEER

hazardqueer is an identity/movement that i thought of last night and i really liked the concept so i thought about it some more and made some flags. i made it partially in response to an exclusionist term called "safequeer" which excludes some marginalized identities like mspec gays (not very safe huh)

its about being your unapologetic and queerest self, supporting and uplifting disabled people, POC, ND people, and queer people, and solidarity and unity amongst each other!!

its also acknowledging that we shouldn't have to pander to non-queer people by having to have "safe" and "palatable" identities and that we should strive to be happy and authentic with ourselves rather than trying to put each other into boxes non-queers have tried to put us in for so long

this is an inclusionist term/movement, so no meanies!! >:(

this is also pro mspec gays, pro lesboys/veldigirls, pro chronosians, and pro systems of all origins, so if you don't like that, then don't use hazardqueer!! simple as that

this is however against: pro-contact/anti-recovery of harmful paras, "consang", and bad faith/harmful trans-x identities

the empty yellow triangle in the middle is its symbol bc it can be replaced with any of these and more if you want!!! (personally im an explosion risk queer idk about you)

(symbolless flags below the cut)

@kenochoric @frightfulfangz @neopronouns @epikulupu

if yall are intereseted :)

p.s. i have scp queer terms planned

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you can be bi lesbian i understand some people don’t fit into labels. anti bi lesbians are the most chronically online take i’m done arguing with somebody who would rather insult and manipulate before they even try to listen men and women (and the ones between) can be a lesbian and you can be a lesbian and like men. and idc if your followers are laughing at me because i know i’m right on this. people agree with bi lesbians

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[sirenium]

God I'm so fuckin tired of trying to find new xenogender servers to join and almost all of them are anti mspec lesbian/gay, anti endo, or both. Like Jesus Fuckin Christ, dude.

Anyway, if you're xenic and are an mspec les/gay or endo system (or supportive of mspec les/gays AND endo systems), please feel free to join our server. Yeah I got ya, this is an ad/hj

⚠️new plan for joining, DM me for a link to the server, as I am too bad at keeping up with replacing the link here⚠️

Also we're age regressor friendly.

Exclusionists, please respect that this is a safe space, so keep your opinions to yourself and leave us alone. Thanks. <3

Plain text: Exclusionists, please respect that this is a safe space, so keep your opinions to yourself and leave us alone. Thanks. <3

Oh, and any contradictory label havers/supporters are allowed. This includes, but isn't limited to, lesboys and gaybians. Hope to see you there!

Edit: so we've had a few people join and then leave — not that that's an issue! — so I feel the need to explain how to get verified if that has been or is a problem for anyone. You go to the channel labeled 'rules-verification' and fill out the form by interacting with it. Once the form is accepted by a mod, you'll be verified. Please note that you have to have an account (It can be on any platform, not just tumblr) that we can look at to ensure that you're chill (as in, not an exclusionist): this is a security measure to help keep this space troll free. Thank you.

Another edit: heads up, our mod team gets inactive at times, meaning the verification process can get rather slow. Additionally, if you're likely to just up and leave, maybe don't join the server; I don't mean to vague anybody, but we've had people do that and it causes me slight to moderate stress when people just… leave.

[bilesproblems]

Every time someone says "lesbian means nonmen loving nonmen" in response to bi lesbians, there is a kitten out there who will find a bi lesbian and cuddle with them to make up for your shit

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

”safequeer” is such a fucking self-righteous label. “Here are the identities that are safe and here’s the ones that are not :)” shut up omfg. I do not at all feel safe around y’all.

[lairofsirenium]

𝔐𝔶 𝔱𝔞𝔨𝔢 𝔬𝔫 𝔞𝔫 𝔞𝔲𝔱𝔦𝔰𝔱𝔦𝔠 𝔩𝔢𝔰𝔟𝔦𝔞𝔫 𝔣𝔩𝔞𝔤

My take on an autistic lesbian flag

[ID: two different versions of a rectangular flag with seven horizontal stripes. The left version has a black infinity symbol on it, which is a commonly used symbol for autistic people. The stripes, from top to bottom: dark red, red, pastel yellow, white, pastel yellow, turquoise-ish blue, dark turquoise-ish blue. All the colors, aside from the yellow and white, are dulled. End ID]

I wanted to make an autistic lesbian flag, as I kept coming across flags made by exclusionists (and didn't really connect with the ones that weren't made by exclusionists).

This flag was made to include all autistic lesbians, therefore it is for anybody who identifies as a lesbian for any reason: lesboys, gaybians, mspec lesbians, straightbians, he/him lesbians, etc are allowed in this flag as long as they're autistic. If you're not okay with that, go cry to your exclusionist friends, snowflake :3

Edit: Oh also self diagnosed are allowed to use the flag as well because the validity of your autisticness should not be measured by what an allistic person says on a piece of paper. <3

[para-normalcanine]

No DNI and we will most likely not check your DNI. We block liberally You're allowed to ask who's fronting if there's no signoff.

Collectively you can call us Canine (he/it/mutt). We're a fictive heavy system of 120 and counting. We have autism, ADHD, NPD, BPD, and struggle with chronic pain/fatigue. I am a zoophile and several other paraphilias (at this point it's a hoard). We talk about it from time to time, so if you're uncomfortable with this, hide the #🍐🐾 tag. We are a former radqueer, we now identify as feralqueer. Radqueers are blocked on sight, fuck you.

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