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industryinsights01 · 1 year
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Monitor your ovulation window and estimate when you are likely to ovulate.
Pregakem is a quick and easy-to-use pregnancy detection test kit. It allows to self-confirm pregnancy in 5 minutes. Pregakem confirms pregnancy by detecting the presence of pregnancy hormone (hCG - human chorionic gonadotropin hormone) in the urine produced by body during pregnancy
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ullalshreya · 2 years
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A Guide to the Best Ovulation Tests available in India
Trying to conceive but can’t determine your ovulation period? Or it is too confusing to track your menstrual cycle to determine your most fertile days? Worry not! Because there’s a simple solution for it. Easy at home ovulation test kits are the best way to know your fertility days which will increase your chance of conceiving a baby.
What are Ovulation tests?
Often, ovulation tests are used to plan pregnancy. Ovulation is the process in which a mature egg is released from the ovary, travels to the fallopian tube and stays there for 12–24 hours where it can be fertilized.
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Ovulation tests assess a hormone called luteinizing hormone (LH) produced by pituitary gland. This hormone is a signal that is sent to ovaries to start ovulating an egg. This hormone signal circulates in the bloodstream, gets filtered by the kidneys and ends up in the urine. When this hormone is detectable in urine, it means the ovulation will start in the next 12 to 36 hours.
So, ovulation tests use urine samples to determine if you have started ovulating.
Type of Ovulation Tests-
LH-only ovulation tests- This type of ovulation test detects only luteinizing hormone (LH) in urine and gives you the result.
LH and estrogen ovulation tests- Apart from LH, some ovulation tests can also detect estrogen metabolites in your urine. When estrogen is detected in your urine, it signals LH that ovulation is approaching. These types of tests are useful as LH is released in pulses and there is a possibility that you might miss it if you take the test once a day.
Progesterone ovulation tests- As the hormone progesterone is released post-ovulation, this type of test is used after you have ovulated. These tests will give confirmation that you have been ovulated.
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According to the ease in usage and the reviews, here are some of the best home ovulation tests
I-Know Ovulation Test Kit- This ovulation test kit detects LH hormone in your urine and gives results. It comes in a pack of 5. It gives you a result with 99% accuracy. Drop three drops of urine in the sample marked ‘S’ and you will get results in the next 5 minutes. The double pink line indicates that your fertile days have started while one line indicates that your fertile days have not started yet.
Innovita Ovulation Kit- Innovita Ovulation Kit comes in a pack of 7 test strips. It is quick and easy to use and gives you a result in under 5 minutes. Collect urine sample in a clean plastic container. Take out the strip from the pouch and dip it in the sample for 5–10 seconds. After dipping, lay it on a flat surface for 5 minutes. Read the result and match with the index at the back of your pack.
Pregaplan Ovulation Test Kit — Pregaplan Ovulation Test Kit is regarded as the most advanced test kit In India. The procedure of testing is the same where the drops of urine on the cassette will determine the result. This product also gives you results with 99% accuracy.
Homecheck Ovulation Test Kit- Homecheck Ovulation Test Kit provides you with results within 3 minutes. It is easy to use where you just dip the strip in the container of urine and lay it on a flat surface. It is highly effective as the results are 99% accurate.
ClearBlue Digital Ovulation Predictor Kit- ClearBlue is the most preferred digital test kit. It comes in a pack of 20 digital sticks. It is also easy to read as it shows a smiley face when it detects LH surge in your urine with 99% accuracy. It identifies your 2 most fertile days.
Apart from these kits, you can also use Pregakem Ovulation Calculator which also gives you a certain date of when you will start ovulating. This will help to determine your fertility window. You can also check fertility monitor and tracking devices to track your fertility.
To wrap it all, ovulation predictors are a reliable source to keep a tab on your fertility days that will help increase your chance of getting pregnant. Also, you can always consult your doctor for any further information or query that arises. Have better pre-pregnancy planning which will lead to healthy pregnancy.
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pregakem · 2 years
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Pregakem helps you check your most fertile time with the easy at-home ovulation test kit.
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playgard-india · 2 years
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A Pregnancy Detection Kit with a unique collection tray
It could be a good idea to perform the best home pregnancy test if you have any doubts about whether you are pregnant. With the help of a pregnancy test kit, you may quickly and easily determine whether you are pregnant. Let’s see how it functions.
Making use of a pregnancy test kit
System testing may differ slightly from pregnancy at home test kits. When it comes to handy test kits you must carefully study the directions that come with the pregnancy test kit you bought in order to follow the right protocol.
Most pregnancy test kits require you to gather a urine sample and use a dropper to apply a few drops to the test device. You observe the results window and interpret them as instructed after a brief delay. Two pink or red lines indicate the test is positive (and that you are pregnant!), like in the case of Pregakem- the best home pregnancy test kit .
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What is the purpose of a pregnancy test kit?
In order to identify whether a pregnancy is present, a pregnancy test kit looks for the hormone known as human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG) in the urine.
Approximately 7–9 days after fertilisation, when a fertilised egg attaches to the uterine wall, a woman’s body produces the pregnancy hormone. When a woman becomes pregnant, her pregnancy hormone levels double every 2–3 days and only reach a plateau when the pregnancy enters the second trimester.
You can rely on Pregakem.
Pregnancy kits are widely available, but the actual trick is picking the most reliable one. Every time a woman experiences this difficult phase, she is filled with uncertainties and worries. Prior to holding the adorable baby in your arms, there are several other stages in the pregnancy preparation process that come after this one. The best option for determining whether you are pregnant is Pregakem’s at-home pregnancy kit.
A simple and straightforward pregnancy detection kit is called Pregakem. This can determine and confirm your pregnancy in considerably less time than five minutes. By detecting the pregnancy hormone hCG (human chorionic gonadotropin hormone) in the urine secreted by the body during pregnancy, Pregakem detects pregnancy quickly.
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· One bag of the Pregakem kit is included in each monocart bag.
· One test device, one dropper, and one silica gel bag or desiccant pouch are included in each Pregakem kit.
· It includes a special urine collection tray.
How to Use the Pregakem Pregnancy Detection Kit
· Collect urine in the urine tray.
· Lay the stick on the ground.
· Drop the urine onto the stick using a dropper.
· The lines will then show whether you are pregnant, so wait patiently for them to appear.
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You’ll be able to see the results in a short while. Even if the result is reliable, you can always go to your doctor and have other pregnancy tests performed if you’re still unsure.
Selecting a trustworthy procedure is essential for any medical examination. You shouldn’t rely on a pregnancy test that can yield inaccurate findings. Pregakem a digital pregnancy test kit in India is probably the finest at-home pregnancy test kit and the best easy at home ovulation test in India. Using Pregakem is really simple. Simply follow the directions on the packaging, then wait for the results. Pregakem’s accuracy percentage is 99 percent. You might need to retake the test occasionally under exceptional circumstances.
There is virtually no justification for not using Pregakem to determine whether you are pregnant. A mother has always had support from Pregakem. If you’re looking for some positive news, get Pregakem!
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letosmauddib · 3 months
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TRYING < :) / :0 >
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Carmy Berzatto x Original Character (Grace) Just want a sappy/smutty/cute moment for Carmy :)
Carmy and his wife are trying for a baby :) 1.4 K-ish words, edited somewhat? (be nice to me )
SMUT 18+ this is your warning :p
Warnings: sex lol, sexy talk, mentions of pregnancy, etc.
‘I’d say, for the next delivery less tomatoes and more heads of lettuce? A crate less and three heads more ?” Carmy sighed as he searched his pocket for a pen. 
“I’d agree, I'll write that in my notes. Hey it’s 6pm didn’t you need to return some books or something?” Syd commented as she jotted down inventory notes. “Hm? Books?” Carmy replied distracted by thoughts of produce. “You told Richie something about needing to leave early to return Grace’s library books?” Carmy got pulled from his daze, “Fuck me, I gotta head out.” He pulled his scrap notes into his notebook and tossed them onto his desk. He tossed his jacket on haphazardly: “Syd, I’ll have some more notes before the delivery call needs to be made. I’ll make sure they get done.” Syd grabbed a dish towel and closed her notebook: “Two days Chef, Tuesday so we get it on time.” “Noted, have a good rest of your Sunday. I’ll see you soon.” Carmy bid a quick farewell to the staff before heading out to his car. 
As Syd grabbed her notebook to place in the office, Richie came in to drop off a few dirty dish trays. “Where’s Carm?” “Headed out early to make it to the library..” Richie nodded and let out a chuckle: “He’s so slick, it's fucking Sunday. Libraries aren’t fucking open.” 
Carmy felt like his lungs were gonna collapse as he made his way up the stairs to the apartment loft. The sun was starting to set, casting that orange glint into the apartment building. His watch alarm screamed 6:45 as he grabbed his keys from his pocket. He shut the door behind him, kicking off his shoes; “Baby?” He called out, hearing the soft footsteps against the hardwood floors. Sunshine stepped into the room, at least that’s how it felt. Grace happily made her way over to him, soft short pink nightdress on. “So happy you’re home.” She exclaimed sweetly with a kiss on his cheek. Carmy’s hands slipped around her waist, holding her close. Soft fabric, soft skin under his rough grip. “Am I late baby, are we still okay on time?” “I need to take another test but we’re okay. Happy you’re home early on a Sunday with me.” She beamed. Her fingers lingered on his cheek. 
Carmy and Grace agreed he would hop in the shower while she took another ovulation test. He was happy for the chance to wipe away work, as much as Grace insisted he smelled fine. Carmy followed a specific routine post-work, showering for an hour, putting work clothes in the correct hamper, or throwing them in the washing machine. Grace made sure to help him incorporate a skincare routine and actually eat a meal. But at the moment, he was rushing through trying to be as thorough and as quickly as possible. “Baby?” She called out to him as he wiped the droplets. He wrapped the towel around his waist and made his way back into their bedroom. She had settled on their bed, cheek pressed on the soft ivory sheets they’d spent a week deciding on. “What’d the test say, still good?” He asked as he dried his hair. “Still good, still ovulating.” Grace flipped onto her back, the sheerness of the nightgown much more apparent. Carmy felt like a teenager, the blush on his face apparent as he glanced over her supple breasts. 
His daze interrupted; “I feel like we’re orchestrating this and it's making me feel a bit weird” She stated softly twisting a strand of hair in her perfectly manicured finger, fixed on their ceiling. He crawled over her, letting the towel slip away. Grace’s hands settled on his broad shoulders, immediately feeling her nerves a bit relieved. “I know..” He sighed, “I thought that having a baby was going to be really easy. Thought we were really good at  the making babies part too.” He chuckled. Grace’s fingers crept up his neck, feeling his curls at her fingertips. She giggled as his nose pressed against her cheek lips against her neck. “I feel like I’m ruining it bear I’m sorry..” He pulled away to glance over her soft features, lips a bit pouty. “You’re okay baby promise.” Carmy knew she was feeling a bit desperate, a bit disappointed and the doubt was creeping in on her. He was feeling the same way. People fuck and have kids every day, they’d even had pregnancy scares before, but it seemed like the second they were being more purposeful it was taking much longer than expected. She had gone off birth control almost six months ago and they had gotten to the point of timing her ovulation periods. They were hoping this would help them. “D’you still want to?” He asked softly fingers resting on her chin. 
She nodded in response, her hands slipping down to graze his shoulder blades. His thumb pressed against her lip: “Good, now use your words…” He pressed a kiss to her nose, She was feeling her cheeks go warm. “Want you Carm…” She muttered softly, feeling a bit shy. He took his time, pressing kisses against her jaw.  She was feeling dizzy; “Want you to fuck me please bear?” She panted, Carmy bit down on his bottom lip, and his hand cupped her breast as he pressed his lips against her neck. Her nipples pebbled against the soft fabric of her nightgown, his callous hands against her breasts. He pulled the straps down of the soft nightgown, lips pressing against her nipples.  
 She squirmed parting her knees gently for him, she glanced down as his cock pressed against her thigh. Soft thighs spread and wrapped around his waist, feeling his hard erection against her.  Her nightgown rode up exposing her bare cunt, his hands slipped down and around her waist feeling her plump bum. “No panties…all for me hmm?” He chuckled pressing a kiss to her sternum. Grace was flustered, feeling warm all over her body.  She glanced over his features, flushed and aroused for her. 
Grace pressed a kiss to his nose and a few pecks against his cheeks. As she nibbled against his jaw, his hands shifted her onto his lap. She tugged on the hastily wrapped nightgown around her waist, wanting to be free from the silky fabric. Carm’s hands slipped around her back pulling the night gown off and tossed it hastily away. He lifted her up to adjust himself, her hands slipped around his neck, cheek pressed against his curls. Carmy reached down between them, their bodies pressed flushed together. His hand lingered between her thighs, feeling how she was dripping for him. He gripped his aching member, guiding it towards her. She moaned, squirming in his hands. He chuckled. “You’re so squirmy today baby.” He teased as he guided himself, teasing her slick mound with the length of his cock. She groaned, biting down on her bottom lip. “Bear, please?? Want you in me..” She whimpered. He felt like he could cum right there, just from hearing the desperation in her voice. “S’okay pretty baby..” He sighed. She gasped as she sunk down onto his length, his hands held her upper thighs as he found his pace. Grace moaned as she nuzzled her nose into his neck. “Feels good baby?” He breathed out. “So good bear, so so good.” She whimpered, much to his delight. 
Carmy slowed his pace, hands slipping up to her waist and guiding her to lay down. He towered over her, hands slipping down to her waist as he picked up his pace once again. Grace gripped the sheets, as she felt like she was gasping for air.  Carmy’s hand slipped between their flustered bodies fondling at her most sensitive area. Her back arched feeling overly-stimulated by his touch. Carmy’s hips stuttered against hers, her lips parted as her eyebrows furrowed in pleasure. 
“Taking me so good baby.” He uttered softly. Grace groaned softly,  as he leaned over her pressing his lips to her collarbone. Carmy’s hips stuttered as he kissed her neck. “Not gonna last much longer baby.”. She moaned softly: “I’m so close Carmy.” “Come for me baby.” He moaned against her cheek. Her fingers slipped into his curls, tugging gently. “Oh Fuck.” She whimpered, as she arched her back knees squeezing his sides. “Oh god..” He groaned as he rutted slowly into her, pressing his hips against hers. Filling her up with his load, she squirmed in his arms; feeling overstimulated. “Stay still for me sweet girl.” He said with a peck on her cheek. She looked disheveled and sleepy, but satisfied. His lips pressed against her neck trying to bring her back down to him. Her hands slipped up to caress his neck, “I love you so so much Carmy.” She muttered sleepily. Carmy’s arms slipped around her waist, holding her close. “I love you too sweet baby.” 
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jarofstyles · 2 years
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Oh Baby, Baby III
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Year later… oopsies. Here is oh Baby Baby part 3!!! I hope you enjoy it.
Warnings/ smut, breeding kink, lactation kink, tall of pregnancy and doctors, etc.
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They’d done it.
After two ovulation cycles and days worth of trying, they’d finally done it. Y/N had noticed a bit of a change in herself, how she was having fits of nausea and how she was feeling a bit more sensitive then usual and decided that maybe it was time for her to take a test.
They bought a few to keep in the bathroom and that morning she had peed on the stick while Harry was cooking breakfast, she let the test sit hidden in the drawer because she didn’t want him to know she took it, and waited till he left to see the result.
It was positive. She was pregnant. At first she didn’t really believe it, so she waited till she needed to pee again to check and it came out positive again. Y/N was in tears, rubbing her now small tummy with a smile on her face. Soon she’d have a little piece of her and Harry that she’d wanted this whole time.
After thinking about how she would tell Harry, she decided to go searching for a little toy bunny, wanting to put it in the oven along with the tests. She couldn’t wait to find out, to see his reaction. They’d been waiting for this moment for so long.
He was hoping that she would be pregnant soon. The more they tried, the more excited he got for an actual little one. They looked at parenting blogs together at night. Y/N has become a staple in his bedroom with the bigger bed, walking around in his shirts. It was oddly domestic already, and he has a feeling that perhaps he was in trouble.
He adored Y/N before but now she was even more precious to him. He wanted her to be comfortable and pregnant soon. Wanted to know he was a father as soon as possible. That was a goal of his. Not that the sex wasn’t incredible. It was.
Mind blowing, fantastic, even more so because they shared a common goal. He was in his prime.
She was sweet to him, and gave him affection and it had changed their friendship. Sure they were goofy and stuff but... there was a shift. Neither of them talked about it though.
“Y/N, babe. You okay?” She seemed antsy this morning. He’d made breakfast and went to the bedroom to change, coming back to her sitting on the counter twiddling her thumbs.
“Yeah, I’m alright.” She let out a little yawn, “I’m gonna do some groceries today, but... think I’m just going to chill out.” Y/N explained, laying back down comfortably on his bed. They’d really just been staying in his room, it’s been a while since she’d ever touched her room. Thankfully, she’d hidden the test there so he wouldn’t find them too early. She still had to make sure.
“When are you gonna be home?” Y/N asked, admiring him as he fixed his hair in the mirror. She wanted to think of what they’d have for dinner, something easy and simple. She had a feeling that she would have a hard time keeping it in, she was already wanting to blurt it out.
Y/N wondered if things would change now that she was pregnant, wondered if he would still wanna have sex if they ever got horny of if he’d still cuddle her and kiss her in bed. She had yet to kiss him in any other situation, only when they were getting intimate. She’d had to stop herself plenty of times though.
“Around 4, I think? We’re doing a bit of writing and meeting with someone. I’ll hurry up though cause I know you wanted to get frozen yogurt tonight.” She has been wanting it for a bit but Harry hasn’t been able to get out to grab it for them, so they’d planned on going out later to get some together. A nice outing.
“Are you going to cook or did you want me to grab some dinner?” He asked as he turned around, buttoning up his cowboy themed embroidered shirt.
It never got old, seeing her laying on his bed and in his clothes. They’d had great sex last night, but still he felt locked and loaded. If she wanted sex he would drop anything for it. Maybe he was pussy whipped? It didn’t matter to him though. He just wanted it.
“Okay, just keep me updated and grab whatever you’d like for dinner, babe.” Y/N nodded, planning in her head. “Text me a list of things you want me to get at the store, yeah? Be safe. Love ya.” She got up to give him a quick hug and kiss on the cheek before she sent him on his merry way. It felt incredibly domestic, but she was okay with that.
Once he left it was go time, deciding she needed to get a plan in action. She was so excited about telling him that she was nervous, she’d just kept it from him and that was hard enough but, she needed to figure out a way to make it as inconspicuous as possible. Yes she wanted frozen yogurt but this was more important.
It felt like things were falling into place though. She knew realistically she couldn’t have been all that pregnant, but she had to make a doctors appointment and get all that sorted. She checked Harry’s schedule and booked an appointment for a day they were both free. It was happening.
Harry worked and texted her about his clementine wants, waiting eagerly to get home to see Y/N. It had been like this for a bit now. He couldn’t wait to get home to Y/N for their tome to hang out and cuddle and kiss and then fuck. It was one of the most fun times of his life if he was being honest.
He grabbed pizza and salad on the way home from work, making his way up the stairs with a spring in his step. He missed her quite a bit. It was odd, the shift in their relationship. Always had been attached at the hip, but even more so now. It was great though. He didn’t regret a thing.
“Honey, I’m home!” He joked, kicking the door closed behind him. Coming to see her every day was a relief on his soul. Harry wasn’t an overly anxious person normally, but any stress he had melted when he walked in and felt her.
Y/N has set everything up, feeling herself getting all anxious as the clock came closer and closer to hitting 4. She’d spent the whole day feeling all giddy, that bubbly feeling in her stomach while she wondered if she should film his reaction or if she should just keep it between them. It was the little things that she thought would make one hell of a difference in the long run.
When she heard him bust through the door she smiled, letting out a little chuckle. “Hi, Angel boy, how are ya?” She asked, noticing the pizza box. Y/N was wondering if she should tell him now or later, feeling like she wouldn’t be able to keep it in for much longer.
She set up her phone secretly next to the jar of flower and hit record, going to give him a hug and help him put the food down. “How was the writing session?” She asked, wanting to keep the conversation normal.
“S’good! You know how they go. Same old same old. Got a few choruses done.” He murmured, placing the pizza box down. For some reason she seemed off. Not in a bad way but, different. He was confused as to why but he squinted his eyes at her a bit, watching carefully. Hm. What was she up to?
“What are you up to, babe?” He asked, approaching further and holding on to her waist. His fingers wiggled a bit against the warmth of her body, tickling her sides. “You seem a bit different.”
He was just like that with her. He could tell the differences in her and the behavior she showed very easily. They hadn’t been best friends since birth without reason.
“Ah! There’s that smile. What’s goin’ on. Did that copyright deal go through?”
Y/N couldn’t stop giggling, shaking her head as she tried to get him to stop. “Harry!” She squealed, “I’m okay I— stop!” Y/N whined, pushing at his arms to get him to stop. It was now it never. She realized that she couldn’t keep anything from him and well, she wanted to celebrate with him.
“Yes, it went through but, could you check the oven for me?” Y/N asked, looking up at him as if she was simply just asking him to do something for her. His confused expression had her laughing a bit, “go on, check it.” She spoke, nodding towards the oven.
Inside was a little bunny stuffed animal holding her two positive pregnancy tests. She decided that since he often called her bunny she decided use the play on words of, bunNY in the oven. Hopefully if he didn’t understand, the test would give him a clue.
He furrowed his brows but nodded. Did she make cookies or something for him? That would be amazing.
He opened it and was confused. Why the fuck was there a stuffed bunny in the oven. But it was holding something. Looking at her with curious eyes, he reached inside to pull it out. His heart nearly stopped as he realized just what the rabbit was holding.
He choked slightly, looking closer to make sure they said what he thought they said. Positive. Two positive tests in the stuffed bunnies hands. Turning to look at her with wide green eyes, he looked between her and the rabbits hands over and over again.
“Are you kidding?” He asked slowly. “This isn’t a joke, right? Cause if I cry over a joke, I’ll be mad.” He felt his eyes burn. Was he going to be a dad? He needed to hear it from her mouth. Her confirmafion.
Y/N made sure that he was in frame before her looked in, standing there watching him with her hands covering her mouth. The look on his face was priceless, tears pricking are her own eyes as he took out the bunny and the tests and started putting the pieces together.
“I’m not joking.” Y/N said honestly, letting out a little laugh because she couldn’t hold it in anymore. It was hitting her that she and Harry were going to be parents. “I found out this morning, but I wanted to tell you in a cute way.” She felt the tears threatening to fall so she let them.
Of course she’d expected to get emotional about this, but not like this. She thought that she’d be emotional because she was finally having a baby, finally going to fulfill her dream of being a mom, but she was more emotional because she would be doing those things with harry.
“Baby?” His lip trembled as he put the bunny and tears down and immediately scooped her up. He hugged tightly, kissing whatever skin he could get to. He was quieter than he had expected, but he also hadn’t expected himself to cry so much because of it.
Letting her go, he got to his knees and picked up the shirt, hiding himself under it and whispering to the baby. It wasn’t a bump yet but Harry was goinf to protect her and her tummy like no ones business.
“Hi, my baby.” He kissed over the skin, feeling Y/N pull the shirt up for him so he could breathe better. “Hello in there. Daddy is so happy you’re here, yeah? We love you so very much.” He rubbed his cheek against her skin, holding her hip in place and the other hand tracing on her tummy.
“The most loved and spoiled baby in the universe. Gonna have all the love and care you could possibly get. Yeah? Mummy is so happy too, I know she is.” He pressed tender kisses to her stomach all over, feeling her hand massaging his hair.
“Yeah.” Y/N let out a tearful giggle, nodding her head as she immediately wrapped her arms around him and gripped him tight. She swore she was the happiest girl in the world. This was certainly the best day of her life, she’d never forget this moment and lucky for her she had captured the whole thing.
When he got on his knees and let himself under the shirt she left herself let out another little happy sob, smiling because she knew exactly what he was doing. She’d done the same thing earlier in the bathroom. Y/N looked down at him with the happiest look on her face, her hand gently combing through his hair to comfort him.
They were doing this together. She’d never have it any other way. Y/N couldn’t imagine anyone else who would be better, she was confident this was the right choice. She knew then that she was in love with Harry, more than a friend. He was the father of her child and the man that made her the happiest.
When he came back up she hugged him tightly again, nuzzling her face against his chest and just swaying their bodies peacefully. “I’m so happy.” She breathed out, sniffling a bit.
“I don’t even know how to describe it:” he knew they’d been trying but it seemed so distant. Now that they had what they wanted, he was the happiest man on earth and that was it. He didn’t need anything but his baby and Y/N and that’s the truth.
“Got so much to do. Gotta make appointments and go shopping and get you more vitamins...” he breathed. “Fuck, I should have gotten you more protein besides pizza. M’sorry, Bunny.” He leaned down and pressed a soft kiss to her mouth. He was so happy.
“I’m unsure how to express how happy I am besides with crying and kisses.” He sniffled with a watery giggle, cupping her face in his hands and wiping her own wetness from her cheeks before he kissed all over her soft face and ending it with a bit of a steamier kiss to her mouth.
“I know H, but we have time.” Y/N spoke with a hum, “made an appointment for Monday with my obgyn... I made sure your schedule was clear. I also looked up the vitamins and have them on auto ship every month. And I bought a bunch of food at the grocery store so... pizza is perfect.” She had a lot of time on her hands today.
What she wasn’t expecting was to receive a kiss on the mouth. Y/N wasn’t complaining though, his kisses had become one of her favorite things if not the favorite and she’d happily take them whenever she could get. “‘s okay, I know how you feel.” She cooed, sniffling a bit herself.
That last kiss did have her heart rate picking up as flutters erupted in her belly. Y/N happily gave him the same energy back, hands traveling up his arms. She loved this. She loved him. Y/N let out a little moan against his lips, not expecting to get so turned on. They didn’t need to try anymore, but he still managed to get her going.
She was wearing little shorts and a shirt. He wanted her. It was sudden but his emotions were hard and hot and he wanted her so badly, he kissed harder and grabbed her ass in his hands, motioning for her to jump up into his arms. Yes.
“Shhh, sh. Let me.” he grabbed the fabric and shuffled them as he put her on the counter, letting them get down far enough so he could get his hand in there and rub over her cunt.
“So sexy, givin’ me what we need. My good girl.” He was high on emotion and need and happiness. Who could blame him for it? He needed Y/N and her pussy and he couldn’t stop it. Her gasp was loud but he didn’t care. All he cared about was showing her how much he appreciated her and how she was going to be treated with him. She was going to love it.
“Jus’ let me play. You did such a good job, growin’ my baby in there. My good girl. Givin’ me everything I want, have a perfect mouth and pussy, just.. fuck.” She was easily wet with his fingers rubbing her clit and through her slit. He loved her.
Y/N let out a loud whine, jumping up when he tugged upward and wrapped her legs around his hips. It was definitely unexpected but certainly welcomed, especially with how excited and happy she was to know they’d finally done it. His reaction to it just made her even more emotional and then that kiss? He could take her now if he wanted.
She had started kissing at his neck, nipping and biting here and there. It was then that Y/N remember her phone was still recording all of this and what had originally started as a sweet video was now turning into a sex tape but she didn’t care. She’d crop the two videos later. Now was her time to enjoy.
“Fuck Daddy...” She breathed out, feeling herself throb against his fingers. Y/N was wet already but in all honesty, when was she never not wet when around Harry? The realization that she loved him just made her even more reactive, whines and whimpers escaping her as she continued on with her steamy kisses.
“Mm, yeah. I need you. So badly.” He knew he had been inside of here just mere hours ago. But he had found that her cunt was addicting and he wasn’t ever getting tired of it.
Moving her pants down with his free hand, he moved them so they were thrown to the ground. No panties? It’s like she knew that Harry was going to fuck her as soon as he came home.
“Cmon. Need to be careful with you.” He picked her up and carried her to the bed. “Can’t fuck you on the counter right now, as much as I want to my sweet girl. Have t’be safe.” He placed her in the bed, tossing his belt to the side. She looked beautiful. Bare on the bottom, mouth swollen and wet just like her cunt.
“How do you want me to have you, hm? On your back? Want to ride me? Or do you want to go on your knees for me first.” He had found she had quite liked that.
Y/N let out a happy sigh, glad he wasn’t going to tease her because she just needed him now. “Can I ride you? Please...” She had been thinking about it all day. He was always the one to fuck her and she loved it, but lord knows she could give him one hell of an orgasm while being on top.
She had reached out to pull his pants off, allowing him to unbutton his shirt while she pulled hers off. Once he was on the bed she wasted no time in climbing on top of him, cupping his jaw in her hands while she kissed him passionately. She let her hips roll over him a few times, letting out a pleased moan. “I need you so bad..” Y/N whimpered, moving her hand to guide him into her.
Having sex while your pregnant is certainly the safest sex you can have. There is no way to hurt the baby so long as you don't go crazy, no way to get pregnant again, and naturally you’re more sensitive and hormonal. Y/N especially felt it in her nipples, even her shirt rubbing on them felt tender.
“I know you do, my sweet girl. God…” he groaned. Everything about her right now was his absolute dream. His best friend, his favorite person in the world, was giving him a damn baby. A child just for them. Harry wanted to be a father more than anything and now he got to do that, all thanks to her. “Have so much to thank you for. So fucking gorgeous… full of my baby, thank you.” He nuzzled into her breasts. “Gave me the greatest gift anyone could ask for.”
Harry was truly grateful for her. When this idea had just been a concept he had worried it would strain their bond but if anything? It’s brought them closer in more ways than anyone would ever be able to believe.
She was the perfect mother for his child. Kind, intelligent, strong, creative… everything he could ask for in a partner to raise a child. This mind blowing sex was only an added bonus.
“Can't wait until you’re fully swollen with our baby, darling. Until you’re so sensitive you’re begging for my cock… mm, I’m not going to be able to keep my hands off of you, am I?” A rhetorical question because there was no way in hell he could. His hands ran over her hips and settled one over her stomach. It wasn’t extended by much yet but it was firmer than normal, the observation felt straight in his cock as she sat on top of him. Stuffed full of him, enjoying the delicious stretch in her walls.
Harry enjoyed watching her head roll back and her hands grab on to her breasts, his mouth watering when he realized just how fucking perfect they were. How soon, they’d be full of milk. How he could take full advantage of that. It was definitely a more taboo want other his, but sitting up and taking one of her nipples into his mouth had him confirming he couldn’t fucking wait.
“Fuck.” He groaned against the spit sticky skin, tongue lapping over the swollen nipple. Her hips rolled and squeezed around him causing the both of them to moan. One hand steadied her hip while the other held the breast he hadn’t tended to yet, making sure she didn’t feel lonely. “Can't wait for you to be full of milk… n’let me fix it all. Want to taste it all over my tongue, pretty girl. Always want that.”
Y/N didn’t expect that to fall from his mouth right now, but it fed into her own desires. Another slow roll of her hips, cock clenched hard inside the slicked up cunt, she felt incredible. Her best friend, father of her child and completely and utter sex match talking about taking a taste of her in a brand new way… She couldn’t ask for more.
“Mhm… can have whatever you want. Anything you want, your mouth feels so good. Going to take such good care of me and our baby, won’t you?” Her hands threaded through his silky locks, pulling his face back to her chest and giving a breathy sigh of pleasure as her nipple was taken back into his mouth.
He moaned into the skin while flicking his tongue back and forth against the bud that would eventually produce it. Knowing she was seriously pregnant now lit up a fire inside of him. A primal one that called to the most deprived human nature there was. In his mind, he was going insane knowing people would see her and know she was taken by someone. Eventually they’d know it was him, and know she was satisfied and full of his child. No one else’s.
“I’ll take care of your every need. You and my baby… fuck, I have to.” He flipped them over again, pulling her legs back around his hips. “I’ll let you finish on top, Angel. But I need to take it for a bit.” Harry’s green eyes flashed darkly as he connected their lips, pulling his hips back and began to fuck into her. It wasn’t fast, no. It was deep. So fucking deep it had her seeing stars, the hands in his hair tugging roughly and whines crawling from her throat as she clung to him.
“Fuck, fuck, fuck.” She sulked as she felt every single inch of him slam inside of her. Sensitive beyond belief, Y/N swore she could feel every vein on him, every silky inch of skin of him. “You’re so deep… no ones ever been this deep.” She arched her back as he thrust back inside.
Harry lowered on to his forearms, mouth at her ear as he kept the steady thrust of his hips. “N’No one ever will, Darling. No one will ever be this deep, no one else will have their cum catch like mine has. No one else has the pleasure of knowing… you’re full of their fucking child. That this cunt belongs to me.” His gravely tone sent chills through her body as she clung closer, a weak attempt of a moan escaping her throat as he got deep again.
It was the possessive words that had her cunt sopping wet. The deep timber of his voice radiating through her body and going back down to her cunt, the slide of Harry’s thickness inside of her edging her closer towards her own orgasm. It was almost embarassingly fast but it was like Harry was hand picking things from her brain to make her the most aroused she had been in her life.
“It does.” She simpered. “Belongs to you, H. Please- you’ll make me cum talking l-like that.” The warning fell in eager ears. Oh- he knew.
“Then cum. M’not stopping at one.”
Harry knew all about about he was going to do. The orgasms he was going to give her with his hands, his fingers, his cock. How he was going to wreck her into a crying mess and spend the rest of their night cuddling and him keeping her as close as humanly possible, hand on her stomach and kissing all over it when she let him. He knew that this was only the beginning of the multitude of pleasures that they were going to provide for one another- and he couldn’t fucking wait.
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“Harry, please. For the love of god, sit down.” The pregnant woman was stressed. Watching the father of her child and best friend pace the examination room at their first doctors appointment was slightly endearing. Knowing he was so anxious and excited to be here made her even more happy and solid about their choice to do this together- but… “if you keep pacing I’m going to get motion sickness from watching you.” An exaggeration of course, but he didn’t know that.
Harry snapped out of his trance and his stressed features softened, pulling the chair to sit next to her. Her smaller hand was taken into his warm one, knuckled brough to his lips as he smudged a few kisses on to them with his slightly chapped lips. “Sorry. I’m just excited. And nervous. Want to make sure everything is going okay with them.”
If there was one thing she could say, it was that Harry was attentive. Since finding out just a few days prior, Harry had multiple new prenatal vitamins delivered to the doorstep. Amazon packages with parenting books- the ones they didn’t already own- a new pregnancy pillow, pregnant woman teas so she could drink safely… he had been horrified when researching how many herbs could potentially harm their little one. He was extra cautious and Y/N couldn’t help but appreciate his attention to detail.
“I know.” She softened up and gave him her best warm look of reassurance. “I’m sure everything is fine. Please, love.” His hand was tugged up to her mouth and given a kiss on the wrist. “I love that you’re just as excited. The doctor will be in any minute. You’ve got to relax for me.” It was comical really. One would assume that he would be the one soothing her nerves but Harry was the parent that was stressing out. Normally cool, calm and collected Harry was a mess over a fetus.
Their fetus, though.
To his credit, Harry calmed down significantly and behaved well when the doctor finally made it. There was a feeling he couldn’t describe in his chest as more than warm and fuzzy when she had greeted them as ‘mom and dad’. Knowing he was cemented as their child’s father even in someone else’s eyes, his hands holding her single one as he leaned against her and watched. The sticky ultrasound gel was applied as she chatted with Y/N about her feelings and morning sickness while Harry kept his eyes bouncing from her face to the wand on her stomach to the fuzzy looking screen.
He always knew he would be emotional, but the tears that choked him as he heard the wooshing of their little one’s heartbeat sent him spiraling. The view was a bit difficult because the doctor said they were turned away from them, but it didn’t matter. Harry sniffled, leaning down and pressing warm kisses to the top of Y/N’s head.
“S’our baby.” He said in awe, the sound filling the room. “We made them, yeah? Keeping it alive and cozy inside of you… I can never Thank you enough.” He tilted her chin up and gave her a small kiss, one appropriate enough for someone else to witness. “Can I record it? On my voice notes?” He asked quietly to the doctor who looked at the overwhelmed father to be with fond eyes, nodding at his request. It was saved immediately, recording sent to Y/N.
The man was reeling even as the sound cut off. Fuzzy in the brain after hearing their child’s signs of life for the first time. They were too small to feel for Harry, to see, but he was looking forward to every and any change she would be going through. He wanted it all. Wanted to experience and document it all. The photos of the ultrasound were printed and his was tucked right into his worn brown wallet. Safe keeping, but more than anything else, ease of access.
Y/N knew why he was oddly quiet as they left, a protective hand wrapped around her and cradling her nearly flat stomach as they walked out to the car. Helping her in as if she was made of glass, kissing her knuckles, buckling her in. He was moving eyed and giddy, but so utterly overwhelmed was ridiculous. Y/N looked at him in understanding, holding his hand in her own once he sat in the driver’s seat. Radiance exuding from her skin, looking more beautiful than he had ever seen her, he knew his life was about to change in the best way possible.
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We Have Some News (Jude Bellingham) Y/N's POV:
Jude and I have been trying for a baby for so long now.  We got married 4 years ago, when my son was 11. It was weird for him. It's always just been me and him. His father's family left the country after finding out he got me pregnant as a teenager. They were too concerned about their reputation. Ilyas and I were very close. I made it a point to do the best I can for him. He won't suffer for my mistake. We've had some hard times like most do. It wasn't easy being in my sophomore year in high-school with a newborn, or a freshman in college with a 3 year old, but I made it work. When I met Jude, he turned it around for us. He made sure to spoil Ilyas with all the toys and gadgets I couldn't afford. Even when I insisted he shouldn't, he went behind my back to give Ilyas everything he could. Jude and I met when Ilyas was 7. He wasn't fond of him at first, but Jude slowly gained his trust through playing video games with him and taking him to see his favorite players in the stadiums.
Back to the present day, Jude and I were very excited. We've wanted a baby for so long, but it wasn't happening. I've been feeling sick lately. Jude and I never stopped trying, however we became less strict. We don't track my ovulation, or take tests every week to make sure. I haven't taken a test in over 2 months, but I decided to try it. Maybe I should talk to Jude about it first. I'll wait for him to get home. I'm interrupted from my train of thought by the door opening and a hurricane of a boy running in.
"What happened to you??" I question my son in pure shock. "I was- Oh my god. Give me a second." He says, holding his  chest, panting. "Okay, so...I was walking this girl home. First, I had to deal with her dad who interrogated me, then I got chased for 5 kilometers by Mr. Evans' racist dog." He says, rummaging through the cupboards, scavenging for food. "The dogs' not racist, Ilyas. He's just scared of you." I say to him, laughing at his accusations. I tell him to sit down so I can give him his lunch. "Mom, did you see the way he was barking at me and Jude?! That's a racist dog if I've seen one." He says, barbarically digging into his food. "Alright, baby." I say.
Ilyas and I both finished our lunch and are sitting on the couch together. I feel my stomach turning inside out. "I'll be back, baby." I say to him as I quickly get up and head to the bathroom. (I'll spare you guys details about Y/N's delicious vomit) "Mama? You okay?" I hear Ilyas asking, sounding very worried. I'm sure he heard me. Fuck, I didn't mean to scare him. "Yeah, I'm okay." I say, attempting to calm his worries. I hear a quite "okay" as he walks away. Just as I get up to go back to the living room, my stomach flips inside out again. (will spare you guys again)
Jude's POV:
It's been a long day. I can't wait to go home to Y/N. I can't wait to see what she's cooked. I love her food. (hungry boy) "Y/N/N, I'm home! Hey, Ilyas." I say, walking into the living room and sitting on the couch next to Ilyas to take off the shoes. I place them at the front door and head over to the kitchen. I open the pot on the stove to peek at what's for dinner. "Hey, Jude?" Ilyas asks me. "Yeah, what's up?" I ask him, turning my attention towards him. He looks concerned. Is everything okay? "Mom's not feeling well. She's in the bathroom. I think she's throwing up." He says to me. "Why? Did something happen?" I say, walking towards the downstairs bathroom. "She was fine, but then she got up and went to the bathroom." I knock on the bathroom door. "Y/N? You okay?" I say through the door.
Y/N's POV:
Ugh, why is Jude home? I already scared Ilyas, now Jude too? "Yeah, I'm okay, baby." I am so not okay. "Can I come in?" He asks me. I open the door and let him in. I see Ilyas at the door looking horrified at the sight of me on the floor. "Hey, baby. I'm okay, don't worry. Go play your game." I say to Ilyas as Jude steps in the bathroom. Jude shuts the door behind him and sits on the floor with me. He puts his hand on my cheek. "Are you okay, baby?" He asks me looking into my eyes that are watering. I hate vomiting more than anything. "I've been feeling sick all day. I wanted to take a test but I wanted to wait for you." I say to him. He asks me if I wanted to take a test now. I got up from my surprisingly comfortable place on my floor and step out of the bathroom. Ilyas comes up to me and asks me if I'm alright. "I'm okay, baby. I'm just not feeling well. I'm going to take a nap." I say to him, placing a hand up high on his shoulder. He's about as tall as Jude, which is scary because of how young he is. He takes after his father. He really is a gentle giant, though.
I walk into Jude and I's shared room with Jude trailing behind me. Instead of heading to my room like I told Ilyas, I headed to the bathroom. Jude made it there before me and handed me a pregnancy test from my side of our counter. "Ready?" He asks me, sticking the test at me. I sigh and take it from him. I do my business as he looks away. "Set a timer." I tell him, placing the stick on the counter and leaving the bathroom to sit on our couch at the foot of the big bed we have. "It'll be okay, baby. Don't worry." Jude says, sitting down next to me. "I know it will." I say, giving him a reassuring smile. A few minutes of small talk is quickly stopped after hearing Jude's blaring alarm coming from his phone. He stands up and puts his hand out to help me up.
"You look." I tell him. "I don't wanna look!" He whines. "It's your kid!" I argue back. "It's your kid, too!" He says. We're both avoiding the news. Either we can be disappointed again, or our entire lives can change forever. No pressure though. "Okay, same time?" He nods at my suggestion. "3, 2, 1." And we look down. Two lines.
Jude's POV:
Is this real? After so many years? "Oh my god. Oh my god!" Is all I can say. I immediately hug Y/N. "You're PREGNANT!!!" I say dropping to my knees, kissing her belly. My baby is really in there. "Shhh!!!" Y/N yells, her pointer finger in from of her mouth. "Whaaatt??" I say, extending my words. How could she not be jumping off the walls right now? "Ilyas will hear you!" She whisper yells. "How are we going to break this to him?" She asks. "I don't know, love. That's up to you. If you want to keep it secret for a little, or tell him now. Whatever you want to do, I'll be here." I say to her. She cares so much about him. She's an amazing mom. "How is he going to react? Oh my god. This was a bad idea." She starts spiraling into a panic. "Hey. Hey. He'll be fine. He loves you so much and just wants to see you happy." I say, rubbing her back. "I know. I know. I just don't want to change things for him, you know? Things have always been crazy for us, and were just starting to settle a little, and now I'm pregnant. This will change everything." She says with pure fear in her eyes. "I know things won't be the same, but that's not a bad thing. He loves babies. Just think of how happy he'll be. Everything will be different, but it'll all be okay, my love." I say, pulling her in and kissing her head. She takes a deep breath, and relaxes into me.
(Time Skip)
Y/N's POV:
"Ilyas! Get in here, please!" I yell from the living room with Jude sitting next to me, rubbing my leg soothingly. We just had dinner, and it's us now what we consider 'alone time', so it's unsual for me to call him out of his gaming trance. He comes in the living room, questioning me. I tell him to sit down. (doing the next part in message format to make it more understandable )
Y/N: So, you know I haven't been feeling amazing lately.
Ilyas: Yeah...
Y/N: Well, I had a hunch about what it may be, and I tested it a few weeks back. Jude and I have been together a while, and him and I are pretty settled in. And I think you like him as well, right?
Ilyas: He's fine, I guess."
Y/N: We've been thinking for a while about this, and we decided now is the right time.
Ilyas: Are you sending me away?! Mama, I'm sorry! I'll be good, I promise!
Y/N and Jude: What?
Ilyas has been scared of being sent away to a boarding school since he was 4. It was never even an idea in my head. He's been scared since I fell asleep while the TV was on and the grown up shows started playing. He saw a little too much of "The Awakening."
Y/N: Baby, we're not sending you away. Actually, quite the opposite. Instead of loosing a kid, we're..."
I hesitate as I look to Jude for a little reassurance. He gives me a smile and rubs my knee.
Y/N: I'm pregnant.
I can feel my eyes sting up. Is he upset? He's my baby forever. I don't want him to forget that. Oh god. This was a bad idea. I can get rid of it. It's okay. It's still early. The thoughts are interrupted by Ilyas.
Ilyas: Ew...Why?
Jude: What do you mean "why"?
Ilyas: I'm talking to my mom here. Not you.
Y/N: Ilyas, don't talk like that.
Ilyas: Why would you have a baby with him?
Oh no.
Jude: What is that supposed to mean?
They're both standing up now. (dw judes not gonna fight a 15 year old) I'm in shock at this point. I don't know how to react. Ilyas storms into his room and slams the door after cursing Jude out in our language, so he doesn't understand. I leave the room and head to the bedroom to cry it out.
Jude's POV:
I follow after Y/N. When I get to the bedroom, she's in bed, silently crying to herself. I sit down on my side on the bed. Her back is turned to me. I have my hand on her back, rubbing it how she likes. "Hey, baby. Don't cry. It's okay. He's just scared of what could be. Give him some time. He'll come around. He loves you more than anything. No one loves their mama more than him." She silently turns around to face me. She nestles herself into my chest. My hand goes into her hair to rub her head. Next thing I know, she's fast asleep. I need to talk to Ilyas. I can imagine how much he's going through. (antiasshole stepdad jude)
Ilyas' POV:
Knock. Knock. Knock. I take out my air pods that are blasting your classic angsty teenage music. I really don't want to be lectured by my mom about how Jude is only looking out for me, or how he loves me or some shit. I put my headphones back in, hoping my mom will take it as a 'I don't wanna talk right now.' Knock. Knock. Knock. Oh my daaays, man. I simply up the volume on my song. KNOCK. KNOCK. Bro. I get up from my very comfortable position, laying on my stomach on my bed. I swing the door open, expecting to see my mom. "Yes, mama?" I say, slight annoyance in my voice. Then, I realize who's at the door. "Oh. What do you want?" I ask. "Can I come in?" What does this guy want? I step out of the way for him.
"I get it. You want the best for your mom, and you don't think that's me. I get that, but I just want you to know I'll treat her the best humanly possible. I know she's not new to this parenting thing, but I am. Even though I haven't done this before, I can promise you I'll be the best dad to this baby. Your mom's not gonna forget about you. She loves you more than anything on this world, and she makes that clear to me everyday." Why is he saying all this? I thought he was going to lecture me. Why should he? He's not my dad. "Look, I'm not here to lecture you, or tell you your behavior was unacceptable or anything like that. I'm not your dad." Wow. How ironic. "I'm scared." Why am I talking? "What if she forgets me?" Stop talking, Ilyas. Why are you confessing to this guy? "She will never forget you. Every night, she tells me how much she loves you. How you're the most important thing in the world to her, much more important than me, might I add. She says she's lucky to be your mother. I can't help but agree with her. You're an amazing kid, Ilyas. Neither me nor her will ever forget that." Why is my face wet? Fuck, I cannot be crying at this shit. I quickly wipe my face and give Jude a smile. He places his hand on my shoulder and wishes me a goodnight after leaving and closing the door.
Y/N's POV:
Yesterday was horrible. I have to make it up to Ilyas. I can't believe I upset him that much. I turn over and see a sleeping Jude. He looks so peaceful. My peace is quickly ruined by my nausea. I quickly head to the bathroom to throw up. I feel a hand wrap around my hair, holding it back. Once I'm done, I look up, my face red. "Good morning, beautiful." Jude leans in for a kiss, but I quickly pull back. "Vomit breath." I say. He ignores me and goes in for another kiss. "I don't care." He says in between kisses. "Alright, enough. I have to go talk to Ilyas." I say, getting up from my designated spot on the floor. I wrap myself in a robe to keep myself warm and walk into the kitchen.
"Good morning, mama." I look up from my phone to see my baby, covered in flour. He rushes over to me to give me a kiss on my forehead. "Good morning, baby. What are you doing?" I say, giggling at his face covered in all sorts of breakfast items. "Making you breakfast! I feel bad about yesterday. Maybe Jude isn't so bad..." He says, avoiding eye contact. "What's that smell?" I say, sniffing the air. "Fuck!" Ilyas yells, looking back at his burning bacon. "Ilyas!" I yell at him. He knows better than to talk like that. Ilyas is about as stubborn as I am, so what changed his mind?
"Good morning, Jude. Pancakes?" I look behind me to see Jude walking towards the kitchen. "Yum. Yes, please." What is going on? My boys getting along? More like, Ilyas tolerating Jude? I slowly waddle towards the kitchen counter where Jude is sitting. The boys are making conversation. "I'll be back." Ilyas says as he leaves to go to his room, hearing his phone ring. "What black magic did you do on my son?" I ask Jude, him stuffing his face with a pancake. "He's not as tough as he seems." He says, nudging me. Ilyas comes back into the room. "So? Opinions?" He asks me as I take a bite of his food. "I love it, baby. Thank you." I say. "It is really good." Jude agrees with me. "Good. Didn't wake up at 7am on a weekend for nothing." Ilyas says, taking a bite of his creation then dusting his hands on his apron that is far too small for him. "I'm glad you two are getting along." I say. "Me too. It's nice not living with an opp." Ilyas says. Jude gives him a sarcastic smile. I kiss Jude. "Ew. I don't like him that much." Ilyas chimes in. I grab him by his tiny apron and snog his face with kisses while tickling his sides. Ilyas is struggling to breath and Jude is laughing his ass off. My perfect little family is growing.
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naturallyalisia · 7 months
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Day.. 8
(I'm just guessing at this point) (and procrastination but will jump into it after this)
Medical gaslighting, discredit, nexplanon and my miscarriage story
so I needed mostly wanted to get this out. I had a visit with my gyno yesterday after shift for pelvic pain I've been experiencing. During my visit I got validation and confirmation of an event I haven't really talked about in depth.
Nexplanon to Pregnancy
So in June I had a miscarriage while on nexplanon. For 3 months since that time I've struggled with doctors not believing me because of how "effective" it's suppose to be at more than 99.9%.
Listening to my doctors I've kept in my nexplanon a little over 3 years because it's supposed to still be effective for up to 5 years. I did a 5 year stretch once without any issues. This was my second round. Depending on your body nexplanon can cause irregular bleeding thats really, really short, sporadic or none at all if youre lucky. For me it started of short and light nearly non-existant than it would come sporadically sometimes lasting over a week. It was a down side I was willing to deal with to avoid forgetting taking a pill and getting pregnant by accident.
Now at a pattern I've noticed is when it's coming close to replace the nexplanon for me my period would start getting back into it's normal cycle. Bleeding is more manageable and starts earlier like it usually does. At this moment, I believe I got pregnant end of may/early june. I either ovulated some point before or a bit after. I never kept track because of how irregular my periods were and with nexplanon being a progestinol (dont hold me on this ) it apparently thins the lining of the uterine wall which can cause bleeding. To add this nexplanon is suppose to make it harder for the sperm to meet the egg based on the mucus being thicker thus making it harder for it to move through.
With all that pregnancy was the last possibility on my mind, plus I wasn't active enough for it to even happen (but hey it only takes one time). A wee bit in early june the first week, I did get my period however, it was much easier this time around and much shorter. I thought the period fairies blessed me with such an easy period. After this things started to get weird for me. Emotionally, I was just feeling off and very sad, emotional, tired alot. I chalked it up to dealing with the outcome of moving towards getting divorced. I figured it was all because of that and the feelings surrounding it. Made sense.
Shortly afterword like a week and change after I noticed some scalp pain, and bald/thinning spots in my crown. I had styled my hair differently and stretched it but the loss of the hair was so profound I made an appointment with a derm immediately. The diagnosis was CCCA a form of scarring alopecia. Which devastated me because I was only 28, I didn't style my hair crazy, I wore it mostly natural. I took my new diagnosis and cried in the bathroom before making my next appointment.
In this moment, I thought I was being punished for wanting a divorce and trying to change things. I couldnt imagine what I could of done for this to happen to me. I called my grandma and cried to her on the phone about it and she told me the same thing happened to her around my age. (which made me cry more) She says it was probably triggered by stress but it mostly started when she was pregnant with my uncle. Her hair started to fall out. (yet at this moment it still thing register with me to take a test)
I bring the news back home and let my partner know whats up and the days go by. I started my meds and the following week closer to end of june my partner and I discussed what they wanted to do for their birthday. Regardless of the status of our relationship we still care about each other and still were keeping to birthdays, holidays etc. I started my period again that week and my partner thought it was weird as I just finished a few weeks ago. As I mentioned having sporadic bleeding wasn't unusual for me on nexplanon so I just thought it was that. Plus I was a bit moody before so once again I made sense of it (nearly chewed my partner's head off about peeling a boiled egg)
This time I was experiencing different cramps for the days leading up to D-Day since the "period" started. At some point some where so bad they woke me up. Still thought nothing about it. These cramps had me crouching, stretching and rocking them out. It wasn't super heavy bleeding so up comes my partner's birthday, pop some pain meds and we made a day of it. It was great.
Came home later that night with a huge craving for a ham and cheese with lettuce tomato, swiss, salt and vinegar (iykyk) on a hero. I remember mentioning it and my partner making a joke on how specific the craving was because it sounded like I was pregnant. Laughing it off like yeah, no.
D-Day : The unusual period
So I wake up with the intention to have brunch outside to continue the festivities but my partner wasn't up for it. I started to make breakfast and was hit with a sharp cramp on my right/center side of pelvis. It happened a few more times. I had to grab to the counter to steady myself. Then cramps started to come in waves, consistent. I moved slow got us the breakfast and tried to search for places to go after since the weather was so great. Then the cramping, started to spread from my pelvis, to my lower back to my legs, I could barely finish eating. I couldnt get comfortable, I shifted here, there but the pain wouldnt let up dull but distracting.
I went to bathroom try and see if it was the period poops but nothing. I repositioned myself and saw some blood when I wiped and assumed I overflowed my menstrual cup. I started to feel a bit better and I take cup out and I'm met with one of the biggest clots I've ever seen come out of me. It was more of a clot than blood in the cup. Because of it's unusual size I took it out to take a photo for my doctor as I was suppose to see them anyway that week. I lay it out and I see a small lump in it.
Upon discovery the first thing that came out my mouth was "wtf is that?" I investigate the lump and see that the lump has an attachment, to a string into the larger clot. I separate it from the string and it looked like it was made of smaller string or veins. I poked it and it was hard, the color changed from trom the blood color to a flesh tone. I'm not sure if it was the shock or if it was because I bled alot or because my body expelled this and it was alot but I started get dizzy. I nearly fainted.
I document the event in video and photos and discarded everything. My partner asked me if I was okay, I told them I saw something really concerning in my clot and I don't know how to feel about it. I left it at that. I'm still trying to wrap my mind around it. Progressively my energy dropped so low I could barely walk. Yet, I still was unsure. With my appointment days away, I tried doing some research on my own.
Eventually, a day after I called my mother talked to her about it, shared the experience and the photos/video and she pointed out what I was most afraid of it being a miscarriage. My grandmother the same. So I dug and dug, every answer pointed towards early miscarriage. The following day I bought a pregnancy test to check and see as a lovely redditor told me pregnancy test can read even after miscarriage if you want to confirm, I cross checked with more research on my own.
I both a 2pk, went home took it and it was positive 2x. The interaction between this time and to the doctors was hard. I didn't know how to feel and the experience was terrible trying to find someone to help me sooner rather than later.
Medical Gaslighting and Discredit
When I finally got to my doctors, I found the gyno wasn't available that day so I had to push for 2 days later to see someone to make sure I was all clear internally. From the start, I was hit with skepticism about what happened. As the doctor wasn't a gyno she couldn't say much on the matter. They took my blood and urine (by that time I fully expected it to negative since the lines on my test were faint) I've already stopped bleeding by this point but am still having cramps and pain.
2 Days later I see the gyno, Im nervous as all hell when I try to explain to her immediately she starts at me. She tells me it's impossible, how it could be if I'm on birth control nexplanon. My HCG levels were 0.06 and that I wasn't pregnant. Despite me telling her about the positive at home. She wanted to draw blood again and I said no, she was obviously very annoyed with me because I said I didn't want to get poked again. The doctor that took my blood earlier was very harsh and I don't want someone who's annoyed with me drawing anything from me.
I get an ultrasound same day, it's clear with the exception of some small ovarian cyst not unusual for me. The sonographer also had a hard time trying to figure out how I could have gotten pregnant. Mind you this is well over 5 days since the miscarriage. I went back to the gyno to get the test gone over and she points out I have cysts. That I need to change my birth control because it failed and how I can change it with them or try a new birth control.
I tried to prob for answers, if it wasn't a miscarriage what was it? It's weird this has never happened to me before. She gets annoyed again as if I wasn't suppose to ask and tells me it was a cyst. I passed a cyst. That didn't sit right with me but I said okay and that I'd let them know if I want to remove my birth control here. When I looked at my chart she listed it as a dermoid cyst. A cyst that doesn't pass and needs surgical removal. I got another opinion and was told that cyst rupture they don't pass in your period.
When I went back to her and expressed what I found out during a pap smear, she was quiet and didn't say anything else in regard to it being a cyst. From that point her tone changed with me. Haven't gone back since.
Today and more understanding..
I've struggled for months wondering, asking, probbing on what happened. I thought I was crazy even though I believed me, my family believed me, friends. It felt like because they didn't discover the pregnancy that it didn't happen. If their test didn't show and confirm it I was wrong, no consideration for what I physically went through.
But my most recent visit, I went in for something else and pregnancy past and present always come up. When I mentioned it to her, she listened, she asked me questions and didn't write me off because I was on nexplanon. I even told her it made it hard to really understand what was going on because of how it was effective was, they didn't believe me yet they wanted me to change the birth control because it failed.
I asked my current gyno about the possibility of it being a cyst instead of a miscarriage/pregnancy. She told me no just as my original 2nd opinion. She calmly explained to me that whether it was you or them that took the test and it was positive, it was a early pregnancy loss. The fact that I took two and they were both positive. She made note on my chart confirming the pregnancy and the loss.
Now that it is confirmed, I feel such a weight off my head. When she said nothing is 100% certain and if mary can get pregnant without having sex, then this isn't impossible. Now I feel better, I feel like I can grieve properly and know that this happened and it wasn't all in my head.
Aside from this, smaller things I've notice that support this, my hair started growing back. I shaved it off to start fresh, but it's growing slowly but surely even in the bald spots. Now if it'll be as thick as before I dunno but next I may have to see if i need a re diagnosis for my alopecia.
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How To Get Pregnant: 6 Natural Ways to Get Pregnant
In their anxiety to have a child at the earliest, couples try out many ways and undergo expensive tests. However, by following natural ways fertility increases and so does the chance of a woman becoming pregnant. Pregnancy occurs when all conditions are favorable and in order to bring about such conditions, it is advisable to follow the natural ways to get pregnant. Here are some most important read more here natural ways which are very simple, inexpensive and effective to get pregnant. Just check it out below.
1. The first thing is to have a perfectly natural and healthy body. This is important for the man as well as the woman. A nutritious, healthy and balanced diet is important to have a healthy body. It is advisable to shun alcohol, caffeinated drinks and nicotine if you are planning to have a baby. Make sure you are taking in adequate vitamins and minerals in your diet. Also, have a complete medical check up before you decide on conception. Regular exercises also help.
2. Lifestyle should not be stressful or taxing. If need be, the woman should change her job for a less demanding one that is less stressful and gives her time to relax and refresh herself at home. Clothing should not be tight but should be free and comfortable. The man too should refrain from wearing tight underwear. Lowered testicular temperature results in higher sperm count and thus better chances of impregnation.
3. Ovulation is important and a deciding factor in pregnancy. If you know when you are ovulating and engage in sexual intercourse on the day preceding ovulation, on the day and the day after, you increase your chances of impregnation. A few signs of ovulation commonly observed in women are an increased basal body temperature, increase in quantity of cervical mucus, mild pain in the abdominal area, tenderness in breasts and vagina, increased sexual desire and headaches.
4. Adopt the most recommended sexual positions and indulge in relaxed, enjoyable sex with the focus on getting the woman to achieve an orgasm as all these contribute to making it easy for the sperm to enter the cervix. A woman should remember to remain prone for at least 20 minutes after intercourse and keep hips elevated so that sperm can slide easily towards the cervix, not away from it.
5. Certain herbal preparations can actually help in facilitating fertility in women. You could check out the herbal supplements that help in increasing fertility both in women and men.
6. If possible, try out meditation or yoga as a means to harmonize body and spirit. It is far better to try out natural ways to conceive rather than go in for expensive and stressful medical tests and procedures.
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Ovulation occurs during the female monthly cycle when elevated hormones trigger an ovary to release a mature egg in preparation for pregnancy. The average woman is at her most fertile in the ovulation phase. The process ovulation generally takes place from 13 to 20 days before the next period. Each month, an increased production of the hormone estrogen in the body thickens the uterus lining. It also leads to a surge in the luteinizing hormone (LH), which in turn causes ovulation, that is, the release of a mature egg from the ovary, 24-36 hours later. Typically, one egg is released per menstrual cycle of 28-32 days. If the egg isn’t fertilized within 24 hours, it’s discarded by the body during the next period.
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Ovulation occurs during the female monthly cycle when elevated hormones trigger an ovary to release a mature egg in preparation for pregnancy. The average woman is at her most fertile in the ovulation phase. The process ovulation generally takes place from 13 to 20 days before the next period. Each month, an increased production of the hormone estrogen in the body thickens the uterus lining. It also leads to a surge in the luteinizing hormone (LH), which in turn causes ovulation, that is, the release of a mature egg from the ovary, 24-36 hours later. Typically, one egg is released per menstrual cycle of 28-32 days. If the egg isn’t fertilized within 24 hours, it’s discarded by the body during the next period.
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When is the best time to do a pregnancy test
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Most women have found themselves eagerly staring at a pregnancy test, wondering if now is the right moment to take it. The timing of a pregnancy test can significantly impact its accuracy and reliability. Knowing when to take a pregnancy test can save you from unnecessary stress and confusion. So, when is the best time to do a pregnancy test? Let's explore into the details to help you make the most informed decision.
The Biology Behind Pregnancy Detection
How HCG Levels Affect Test ResultsFor many women, the excitement of taking a pregnancy test can be overwhelming. The key factor in detecting pregnancy is the hormone human chorionic gonadotropin (HCG), which is produced by the developing placenta after the embryo attaches to the uterine lining. HCG levels rise rapidly in early pregnancy, doubling every few days, and this hormone is what most pregnancy tests are designed to detect.The Role of Ovulation in TimingAn important factor to consider when deciding when to take a pregnancy test is the timing of ovulation. Ovulation is the release of a mature egg from the ovary, typically occurring around midway through the menstrual cycle. In a typical 28-day cycle, ovulation usually happens around day 14. If the egg is fertilized by sperm, it travels to the uterus and implants in the uterine lining, triggering the production of HCG.Role: Understanding the role of ovulation in the timing of pregnancy tests can help women determine the best time to test for accurate results. Testing too early, before implantation occurs and HCG levels rise, may result in a false negative. Waiting to test until after a missed period or using early detection tests can increase the likelihood of obtaining accurate results.
Types of Pregnancy Tests
It's important to understand the different types of pregnancy tests available when you're trying to determine if you're pregnant. There are two main types of pregnancy tests: Home Pregnancy Tests (HPTs) and Clinical Pregnancy Tests.Home Pregnancy Tests (HPTs)Clinical Pregnancy TestsConvenient and easy to use at homePerformed at a doctor's office or clinicDetects the presence of hCG hormone in urineCan also detect hCG hormone in urine or bloodResults are usually available within minutesResults may take longer to processMost HPTs are over 99% accurate when used correctlyClinical tests are highly accurateHome Pregnancy Tests (HPTs)For many women, Home Pregnancy Tests (HPTs) are the first choice for determining if they are pregnant. These tests are convenient, easy to use at home, and provide results within minutes. Most HPTs are over 99% accurate when used correctly. It's important to carefully follow the instructions provided with the test to ensure an accurate result.Clinical Pregnancy TestsWith Clinical Pregnancy Tests, you can get tested at a doctor's office or clinic. These tests can detect the hCG hormone in either urine or blood samples, offering high accuracy in confirming pregnancy. While the results may take longer to process compared to home tests, they are a reliable option for confirming pregnancy. Any concerns or questions about the results can be discussed with your healthcare provider during the visit.
Ideal Timing for Taking a Pregnancy Test
Best Time of Day for TestingWith modern pregnancy tests being highly sensitive, you can take a test at any time of the day. However, many women prefer taking the test in the morning when the urine is more concentrated, increasing the chances of accurate results.Signs and Symptoms to Look ForIdeal timing for taking a pregnancy test is usually after you miss your period. However, if you can't wait that long, some tests can detect pregnancy hormone levels as early as one week after conception.TestingWhen you're trying to conceive, it's easy to get caught up in every twinge or change in your body. Remember that symptoms like fatigue, nausea, and breast tenderness can also be attributed to other factors like stress or illness. It's best to rely on a pregnancy test for confirmation.
Factors That Influence Test Accuracy
Unlike what many people think, the accuracy of a pregnancy test can be influenced by various factors. It's important to consider these factors before taking the test to ensure reliable results.The Impact of Irregular Cycles- Factors such as irregular menstrual cycles can affect the accuracy of a pregnancy test. This is because the timing of ovulation and when implantation occurs can vary, making it challenging to pinpoint the best time to take the test. - An important factor that can influence the accuracy of a pregnancy test is the potential for false results. False negatives can occur if the test is taken too early, while false positives can be caused by certain medications or medical conditions.A false result can be frustrating and confusing for individuals trying to conceive or avoid pregnancy. It's important to carefully follow the instructions provided with the test and consult a healthcare provider if there are any uncertainties.
To wrap up
So, deciding when to do a pregnancy test depends on various factors such as the type of test, your menstrual cycle, and when you may have conceived. For the most accurate results, it's best to wait until after you have missed your period before taking a test. Remember to follow the instructions carefully and consult with a healthcare provider if you have any concerns. Ultimately, trust your intuition and take the test when you feel ready to know the result. Good luck!
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Q: When is the best time to do a pregnancy test?A: The best time to do a pregnancy test is after you have missed your period. This is when the test is most accurate and will give you reliable results.Q: Can I take a pregnancy test at any time of the day?A: Yes, you can take a pregnancy test at any time of the day. However, for best results, it is recommended to take the test in the morning when your urine is most concentrated.Q: How soon can I take a pregnancy test after a missed period?A: You can take a pregnancy test as early as the first day of your missed period. Some tests are sensitive enough to detect pregnancy hormones at this early stage, while others may require a few more days to provide accurate results. Read the full article
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The Best Intracervical Insemination Kits for Easy Home Use
Intracervical insemination (IUI) is a fertility treatment that involves placing sperm directly into the cervix. This method is often used in conjunction with other fertility treatments or for couples experiencing infertility. While some couples may opt for in-clinic procedures, intracervical insemination kits are available for home use. These kits offer convenience and privacy, allowing couples to perform the insemination at home under the guidance of a medical professional. Get more information please click here "intracervical insemination kit"
Clearblue Fertility Monitor and Ovulation Test Kit The Clearblue Fertility Monitor and Ovulation Test Kit are famous for at-home IUI. This kit includes a digital fertility monitor that uses advanced algorithms to identify the most fertile days in your cycle. The monitor comes with two ovulation test sticks, allowing you to monitor your hormone levels and pinpoint the best time to conceive.
Premom Fertility Tracker and Ovulation Test Kit The Premom Fertility Tracker and Ovulation Test Kit offers a comprehensive solution for fertility monitoring. The kit includes a fertility tracker that uses advanced algorithms to detect changes in basal body temperature, indicating ovulation. It also comes with ten ovulation test sticks, allowing you to monitor your hormone levels accurately.
Fertility Friend Ovulation Predictor Kit The Fertility Friend Ovulation Predictor Kit is famous for couples who want a user-friendly and affordable at-home IUI kit. This kit comes with a basal thermometer and ovulation predictor strips. The thermometer measures your basal body temperature to track ovulation, while the strips detect a luteinizing hormone (LH) surge, indicating ovulation.
Predictor Plus Ovulation Test Kit The Predictor Plus Ovulation Test Kit offers accurate and reliable results. This kit comes with ovulation test sticks and a basal thermometer. The ovulation test sticks detect the presence of LH, indicating ovulation. The basal thermometer helps monitor your body temperature to identify the most fertile days in your cycle.
Fertility Friend Plus Basal Thermometer The Fertility Friend Plus Basal Thermometer is a reliable tool for fertility monitoring. This thermometer uses advanced algorithms to detect changes in basal body temperature, indicating ovulation. It's easy to use and provides accurate results, making it a great addition to any at-home IUI kit.
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Main Approaches to IVF in a Fertility Clinic Danforth
Fertility clinics Danforth serve as critical centers for advanced reproductive technology, offering hope to many who face difficulties in natural conception. Among the array of services provided, In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) stands out as a key offering. This sophisticated process, entailing the external fertilization of eggs with sperm, encompasses multiple, intricately planned stages, each essential for enhancing the probability of a successful pregnancy.
Step 1: Ovulation Induction in IVF
The initiation of the IVF sequence in a fertility clinic Danforthinvolves ovulation induction. This phase employs pharmaceutical agents to stimulate the ovaries, prompting the production of multiple eggs. The rationale for generating several eggs is grounded in the reality that not all eggs may reach maturity or undergo successful fertilization post-retrieval. The development of these eggs is meticulously tracked through blood tests and ultrasound imaging, ensuring optimal timing for retrieval.
Step 2: Egg Retrieval
Upon reaching maturation, the eggs are extracted through a minimally invasive surgical procedure. Typically conducted under mild sedation, this technique involves the insertion of a specialized needle through the vaginal wall to aspirate the eggs from the ovarian follicles. The duration of this procedure is generally between 20 to 30 minutes, with patients possibly experiencing slight discomfort or cramping subsequently.
Step 3: Sperm Collection
Concurrent with egg retrieval, sperm collection is undertaken for the purpose of fertilization. Standard collection methods involve ejaculation, but in scenarios where sperm quality or count is compromised, advanced methodologies such as Testicular Sperm Extraction (TESE) are employed. These techniques are pivotal in addressing male infertility issues.
Step 4: Fertilization
Following collection, the next critical step in a fertility clinic is the actual fertilization. Here, the harvested eggs and sperm are combined in a controlled laboratory environment to encourage fertilization. In cases of pronounced male infertility, Intracytoplasmic Sperm Injection (ICSI) is utilized, whereby a single sperm is meticulously injected into an egg, thereby enhancing fertilization prospects.
Step 5: Embryo Culture
Post-fertilization, the embryos are cultured in the lab for a duration spanning several days. During this period, embryologists closely monitor the embryos' growth, ensuring they develop appropriately. Ideally, by the third to fifth day, the embryos reach the blastocyst stage, which is considered optimal for transfer.
Step 6: Embryo Transfer
The final step in the IVF process at a fertility clinic is the embryo transfer. Here, one or more embryos are placed into the woman’s uterus. This procedure is usually painless and is done using a thin catheter that passes through the cervix. After the transfer, the patient typically rests for a short period before going home.
Post-Transfer Procedures
After the transfer, patients are generally advised to take it easy for a few days. Blood tests are done about two weeks after the embryo transfer to check for pregnancy. Depending on the results and the specific circumstances of the patient, additional steps or treatments may be recommended.
In summary, the expertise and capabilities of a fertility clinic Danforth are instrumental throughout the entire IVF journey. From the initial stages of ovulation induction to the nuanced care post-embryo transfer, each phase is meticulously overseen by specialized professionals. The combination of advanced reproductive technologies and individualized patient care positions fertility clinics as pivotal in assisting individuals and couples on their path to parenthood. Despite the challenges and emotional complexities associated with IVF, the support and guidance provided by these clinics play a vital role in helping many realize their dream of starting a family.
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theemotionaltherapist · 5 months
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The irony of it...
You know, I think it's pretty damn ironic that I am a therapist sometimes. Even my own therapist pointed this out given all that I have been through in life. Growing up, things were hard and I shouldn't be where I am today. Where am I today, you ask?
I am a 29 year old married female, working in private practice and months away from graduating with a doctorate in social work (over achiever, I know). My husband is aGodsend and I do not deserve such an amazing man like him, but I am beyond thankful he is mine. We are currently trying to get pregnant and lets just say... it's not as easy as it was made out to be in middle and high school where you were afraid to cough on someone out of fear of conception. Sadly our reality lately is defined by ovulation test strips, scheduled sex, and two week waits. Now I will say, we are early on in this journey but it still hurts like hell when those cramps turn into a period rather than a baby.
We have only told a few people in our lives that we are actually trying. One of which being my coworker because we were both in the process of trying and lucky her, she got pregnant and I still am not. Another person I have told about it is one of my clients... a bit more self disclosure than I probably should have, but she is in a similar situation and I will be honest, the early stages are a lonely place to be. You hear about couples who have been trying for years with no success but it almost seems like those of us who are new to the game are not allowed up be sad and upset. Spoiler alert... we are.
But back to the irony... majority of my childhood I don't fully remember which fun fact, is a defense mechanism that your body uses to protect you from traumatic events. This can be sad as the few memories I do have aren't actual memories but rather recollection from home movies or remembering stories I had heard my family share. Growing up it was just my mom and I with some court ordered visitation with my grandparents who were raging alcoholics every summer from 3-12 years old. This led to a number of blanks in my memory as I often disassociated to keep myself safe. Since all of that we have discontinued contact with said grandparents after a massive blow up argument... I may share more about that later, and while it has been nice not having to listen to complaints of the weather in the midwest every other day, there are a lot of emotions that go with that.
I have some history of anxiety along with other events in my life but recently depression has been looming, and that is really new for me. It sucks and has given me a new sense of empathy for my clients but I am struggling to climb out of the hole myself. I encourage a lot of my clients to journal but admittedly have never tried it myself. So here is my attempt to journal, I'll be it in a more public platform, but I also hope that this can show some of you out there that you aren't alone.
-The Emotional Therapist
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What Are The 5 Stages of IVF?
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Undergoing IVF treatment can certainly feel like an emotional rollercoaster at times. As you navigate the process and undergo this assisted reproductive technology, it helps to understand the key stages involved so you know what to expect. This overview will walk through the 5 main stages of the IVF process to help you prepare and hopefully ease any anxieties.
Stage 1: Assessment and Preparation
The first stage is assessment and preparation. Before beginning actual treatment, the IVF clinic will start by thoroughly assessing your medical history, along with your partner’s if applicable. They will evaluate factors like hormone levels, ovulation patterns, reproductive anatomy, and more to determine if IVF is advisable and if so, devise a preliminary treatment plan best suited to your circumstances. 
You may undergo a hysteroscopy at this stage to examine the uterus for any structural issues. Various baseline scans and bloodwork will also help establish starting benchmarks key to monitoring progress in later stages. Age, lifestyle factors, and the specific fertility challenges identified will further inform the treatment protocol.
Once given the green light to proceed, preparing your body helps maximize chances of success. The clinic may provide instructions for supplements, dietary changes, and managing other health conditions prior to treatment. Staying active, limiting alcohol, quitting smoking, reducing stress, and attaining a healthy BMI set the stage for the best outcome.   
Stage 2: Ovarian Stimulation
Ovarian stimulation aims to facilitate development of multiple mature eggs for optimal IVF results. This starts by administering fertility hormones each day to stimulate the ovaries and follicles. The most common drugs used are injectable gonadotropins. The specific medications and dosing depend on your diagnostic results and customized treatment plan.
Progress monitoring becomes very important at this stage. You will undergo regular blood tests to check hormone levels and transvaginal ultrasounds to examine follicle growth. Your gonadotropin dosage may require adjustment based on these follow-ups to achieve the ideal stimulation. Once tests indicate the follicles have reached maturation of ~18-20mm, you are ready to proceed.
Stage 3: Egg Retrieval 
Now you are set for egg retrieval, which is done as an outpatient procedure. About 34-36 hours before your scheduled retrieval, you will inject hCG (human chorionic gonadotropin). This prepares the eggs for optimal maturity and triggers final development. 
On retrieval day, IV sedation or general anesthesia provides comfort. The doctor then inserts an ultrasound-guided hollow needle through the vaginal canal into each ovary to collect the fluid and egg cells from the follicles. This takes about 30 minutes. The eggs are immediately handed to the embryologist who will prepare them for fertilization. 
You can go home shortly after to rest while the next stage begins. Soreness, cramping, and light spotting are normal post-retrieval. Taking it easy after this intensive process allows your body to recover properly.
Stage 4: Fertilization 
Fertilization unfolds promptly after egg retrieval while the eggs are at peak health. Here, the eggs collected are combined with sperm from your partner or donor in the embryology laboratory. Common techniques include standard IVF, ICSI (micro-injection into the egg), or PICSI (selecting sperm with proven completion ability) depending on indications. If using frozen eggs or frozen donor sperm, these must properly thaw beforehand.  
After some time culturing the fertilized eggs (now embryos) in the incubator under stable conditions, the embryologist will check for successful fertilization and monitor cell division progress. If this key milestone is reached within the timeframe expected for a healthy developing embryo, we arrive at the final stage.
Stage 5: Embryo Transfer
Day 3-5 after fertilization marks the window for embryo transfer into the uterus, typically after some additional screening. Timing the exact day for transfer optimizes implantation potential for each patient scenario. The procedure itself is relatively quick, placing the chosen embryo(s) into the uterine cavity via a thin catheter through the cervix. Accompanying progesterone supplements continue to support pregnancy progression.
Two weeks later, preliminary blood tests can determine if implantation was achieved this cycle leading to a continuing pregnancy. If so – congratulations! Your spirit of perseverance through intensive IVF produced the new life you’ve waited so long for. If not achieved this round, take heart that future attempts or supplementing with a gestational carrier may yet realize your dreams of parenthood.
Understanding the structured flow of stimulation, retrieval, lab work, and transfer intrinsic to IVF helps you know what milestones mark progress. While emotionally trying at times, focusing on each next step moves you forward. Our clinic provides resources and counsel every step of the way so you do not have to navigate solo. Lean on us as you give your best to achieve a much longed for positive outcome!
Srishti Hospital and Dr. Mamta Gupta for IVF Treatment
Srishti Hospital in Jaipur, Rajasthan is a leading fertility and IVF center under the direction of Gynecologist, Obstetrician and IVF Specialist Dr. Mamta Gupta. With over 21 years of experience helping couples conceive, Dr. Mamta Gupta offers comprehensive fertility treatments including IVF, IUI, ICSI, egg/embryo freezing, egg donation, and gestational surrogacy.
As both a gynecologist and infertility specialist, Dr. Gupta provides science-based care paired with emotional support throughout the challenges of infertility treatment. Srishti Hospital has state-of-the-art IVF labs and nursing staff to monitor progress every step of the way. From your first injection to your embryo transfer, you can trust Dr. Mamta Gupta and her team at Srishti Hospital for your best chance at successful conception through IVF.
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