#how am i supposed to remember things really i need some tips😭😭

[aroaceofthesea]

Ppl who aren't out of sight out of mind kind of people will never understand the writing something important that you cant forget on your hand and then forgetting to look at your hand

[jade-jini]

imagine loser g!p yunjin…

(These pics came to save my writer block)

Imagine? I breathe for every word in that sentence anon😭. You get me too well we should kiss anyway.

Loser Yunjin who made you fall for her with her silly jokes and pickup lines and loud personality😭 Yunjin is part of the loser puppy line (yes with minjeong) so you know she gets excited easily. Girlie is loud. Even at lunch time where is crowded af you can easily tell whose loud ass laugh is that. That kept catching your attention, until you recognized her in one of your classes and for some reason couldn’t stop looking at her.

Oh but Yunjin? No she’s noticed you since day 1. Not only noticed you but she fell HARD. She had Sakura already tired ‘cause of how much she’d talk about you. She has dreamy eyes and a dreamy smile just mentioning something you did, something as simple as “today the professor asked a question and nobody knew. Well, I did, but then- KKURA LISTEN! But then y/n raised her hand really fast! And her answer was even more correct than my answer!”

“How is it more correct if you had the same answer Yunjin—”

“IT WAS MORE CORRECT OK? IT WAS PERFECT! She is perfect :(”. Loser. Loser and simp.

Whenever you walk into the room her friends would tell her and she’d go from playing around recreating this fight scene she saw while playing genshin to just quickly shutting up and be like 🧍🏻‍♀️pretending she was all well behaved and cool but it was too late you saw the whole thing ndkdjdj. She got so embarrassed but you thought it was cute 😭 you’d exchange a few words from time to time but nothing too serious, and she always had either a silly joke or a “pickup line” that was so bad it made you laugh every time. Yunjin in her brain be like: I failed successfully :D!

One day tho some mf saw the way she’d stare at you and told her somebody like you would never even look at a loser like her in that way :( poor baby got so sad that day but plot twist! You started playing genshin ‘cause of her 🥺, favorite character being Yunjin Ofc for obvious reasons (when you told her she blushed so hard ‘cause you winked at her and everything nsjdncjf) and that’s how you started talking to her, asking her questions that you could totally figure out by yourself but shush you needed an excuse to talk to the cute nerdy loser in your program.

I feel like I already talked a lot 💀 so I won’t make it too long explaining exactly how you started dating (here it is!). So now the smut part uhuhu.

Since you bonded well ‘cause of genshin, you’d have a lot of play dates. Sometimes tho, you prefer to watch your gf playing sitting on her lap. At first it was cute, but she moves so much when playing, and you and her dick noticed it before her brain did “... Yun is your mic off?” “Yes baby, why? Hmm? Where are you go—” And before she can process it you’re already on your knees sucking her cock and moaning ‘cause Omg doesn’t it taste and feels amazing in your mouth?? Also thank god you checked if her mic was off because she let out the loudest moan. remember I said she was loud? Yeah it continues here bro. You looked up at her and she was so ready to forget the game and concentrate on only you but you stopped her from getting up and told her to finish playing.

“H-how am I supposed to c - oh fuck ~ concentrate when you’re doing that??…” she said while “complaining” but in the end, obeyed. it was so hard to focus tho, when you kept swirling your tongue around her tip, giving her those hungry sexy eyes that made her whimper every time she looked down at you “Ah! y/n ~ that’s so good baby…”.

She LOVES when you ride her when she’s playing. Being balls deep inside you the moment she wins a match in a game? What’s better than that?! Nothing. “I WON AGAIN YES!” She’d celebrate and get so excited she’d just grab you like you weigh nothing and either pin you against the wall, her desk, the bed Idk anywhere and she’ll fuck you sooo good with the biggest smile. When she gets frustrated or loses tho, you know damn right she’ll grab those hips and make you jump on her dick so hard, relieving her frustration on your pussy (she can use me like this I don’t mind-) and she won’t slow down until the pleasure is bigger than her anger. “Holy fuck Yunjin..!” “That’s for killing me when we were in the same team.” and that’s something you did last week Tf 😭

As I said she gets excited but not only on a daily basis with stuff she likes, she gets hard sooo easily and it’s fun to tease. You’re straddling her, grinding on her lap, teasing her about how hard she got just by kissing and she’d try to come up with something to tease you back but her brain is off because of how good you feel doing that and because she’s a loser “w-well my dick is bigger than yours!” Like ??? Yeah it is bro it is 😭 you just laugh making her embarrassed. “well yes, yes it is baby. And I love it” you’d say and she’d just blush and go back to kiss you neidjdq.

But she’s also so sweet :( you’d tell her you missed her and she’d softly say “I missed you too y/n…” while hugging you by the waist tightly, and leaving a little kiss on your nose. (Random cutie moment sorry I felt like it 🧍🏻‍♀️).

Oh yeah! Yunjin loveeees kisses. She’s always all over you kissing your face, your hands, your neck and shoulders and back when is exposed, and the rest of your body when is just you and her 🙊. She loves praising you by doing this. And she LOVES when you do it back. A sad day gets better the moment she sees you and you leave a kiss in her forehead (istg her tail goes brrr and she shows that perfect teeth smile).

She loves when you go from her neck to her chest to her stomach to between her legs. When you leave kisses and little bites on her thighs, and shower her cock with kisses that come with a little whimper every time. She finds it as sexy as it is cute too. You for sure have several pics of her dick with lipstick prints.

Cockwarming? Yes. But with her, this is a way of teasing YOU. It’s the only way she knows 😭 I’ll explain. Trying to overstimulate her does NOT work ‘cause her stamina and sex drive are HIGH. If you get tired when riding her be sure that she’ll grab your thighs and pound you fast and hard. She can go for hours, in different positions, never running out of cum.

“Yunjin.. please I can’t feel my legs”

“Hmmgh just one more.. feels so good, need to come in your pretty pussy..” she says as if she didn’t come in it so much already that even your floor is full of it ‘cause of how much it’s dripping down your legs. But you cant say no to her :( her cock feels too good you could die the happiest as long as it’s deep inside you <333.

Pussy drunk Yunjin? Uh yes FUCK YES. She can eat you out for HOURS. And not just ‘cause she loveees to make you feel good but it’s for her own pleasure too that woman just loves the way you tastes and how you make a mess in her mouth when you come. You’re the one ending up overstimulated ‘cause her mouth is Fuckin attached to your pussy like she’d die without it. “Just one more, for me baby please~” and ughhh there she has you coming for The Who knows what’th time already. Random but she’s 0 dom most of the time (I’d call her a service switch) all silly 😭

“Good girl, hehe.”

“Shut up and come kiss me.”

Just as she asks for “one more” in bed she also does it after it when you guys are cuddling and resting and pampering each other 🥺 in the morning when you both have to get ready she’d pull you back to bed “baby we have class in 30 minutes” “just 5 more minutes, please~” “I don’t wanna fail class Jen!” “I’ll do all your homework let’s just cuddle a little moreee~” and how to say no to that (the cuddles I mean-) lets bfr you can’t. You just can’t.

I’m genuinely so in love with her like y’all don’t understand. I could fantasize about her all day. Thank you anon I love my girlie so much <3

[yandere-romanticaa]

To the anon who was asking abt sex! Here’s my two cents based off of experience..

1. Cockwarming is not like,,, pleasurable. Like when I read fics abt it and the reader is all squirmy and whatever it really doesn’t make sense. If the guy isn’t moving then it doesn’t really feel like anything, and it gets a little uncomfortable after a few minutes of no movement. It’s kinda like using a tampon. I definitely think that the pleasure derived from this is more mental than physical. Only the guy really gets anything physical out of it.

This kind applies to vibrators too. Like internal vibrators are not crazy stimulating but it is enough to make you distracted. But to each their own I suppose.

2. Sex in general. Internal stimulation (P in V) is good, and if I had to describe it I would say it feels like a bruise repeatedly. It’s hard to describe. Like it hurts but not in an ‘ow’ way, it feels good. Definitely a feeling that gets the legs shaking after repeated thrusting against that spot.

BUT, I cant finish without stimulation to my clit. It’s definitely different for everybody, but in my case I need clitorial stimulation or else it just feels like I’m on the edge the whole time (which, by the way, is a very unsatisfying feeling).

And thrusting it all in like in one go isn’t possible, remember that your vagina is one giant muscle, and when you stretch a muscle to hard and fast it strains and it doesn’t feel good. Foreplay is very helpful bc it loosens you up first, but even then you can’t force it in at one go. You kinda gotta start with the tip first and use short movements to slowly fit the whole thing in.

AND YES!!! THE STRETCH HURTS!!!! If you aren’t prepared properly or your partner just shoves it in it feels like your skin is being stretched (like a rubber band being stretched so much that it’s about to snap) and it’s a sharp pain and you could tear. SO FOREPLAY MATTERS!!!!

3. Cervix stuff… 😭😭😭 Guys. You can NOT thrust into the cervix. These fics are LYING TO YOU!!! It’s literally like trying to thrust through bone, the cervix is hard and even inserting thin items like a Q tip fucking HURTS. Unless it’s like monster fucking with ovipositors then it’s just straight unrealistic. A díck can NOT push through.

Some women find it painful even when their cervix is just thrusted against. (It doesn’t hurt for me so I don’t mind but majority of all the gals I’ve spoken to DONT like it. One of my friends even threw up during sex one time from the pain.)

4. Mind break. Not a real thing. Sorry. After so many rounds, no matter how high your drive is, the sex just starts to feel uncomfortable. Don’t push yourself past that point, listen to your body and know your limits. Because once it feels uncomfortable it kinda starts to hurt. This applies for the guys too. It just stops feeling good after a while and you leave that sort of lust-haze and become very lucid (post-nut clarity LMAOOO), which also makes you feel the discomfort even more.

So yeah, mind break via sex just isn’t a thing because your body literally has a limit. Overstimulation is real but your body has limits for that too. Like after so many orgasms I can’t touch my clit or it feels like a sharp pain. (Again, everyone is different but that’s just me)

And yeah. That’s all I can rlly think of.

This was an interesting read!!!!! I think that smut may or may not have poisoned my brain a little bit so this felt like a breath of fresh air. Of course, one should never take smut too seriously as it is primarily for entertainment, but it really does feel like things can mess you up if you're an inexperienced pookie such as myself!

Truth be told, sex scares me. Like, a lot.

I am in my early 20's and there is this societal expectation that I need a boyfriend. I also live in a fairly conservative country which honestly doesn't help me at all. And it's low key expected from couples to just go at a few months into the relationship, sometimes even after a few weeks depending on the person. That's how most of my friends/acquaintances did it anyway.

Just the thought of a man seeing me so naked and vulnerable like that, it brings tears to my eyes. It legit scares me so much. Buddy, if you see me in my birthday suit you are NOT going anywhere LMAO, you'll have to marry me, I'm sorry -

I've been called an uptight and boring prude for having this kind of mentality and I get it. But I can't help it, I just can't. I don't think I'll ever be able to have that kind of physical connection with anyone unless I know them inside and out 😓 I'm too scared and too insecure for my own good... I also have a few stretch marks on my stomach, which I really hate, I really do. I don't think I could handle the humiliation of another person ever seeing them.

[jeanmoreaux]

I am truly in awe of how much you are able to read each month! Please reveal your secrets 😭

oh you're so sweet, but i promise there is no secret! it's all just thanks to stress-related coping lmao. like, when i am a little overwhelmed and feeling stressed, i tend read so much more. mostly to distract myself (a sort of avoidance behaviour, i suppose) or just to relax. and since i am currently running on a 120% workload with work and graduate school i am almost constantly stressed so my recent reading habits reflect that. ((when i am reading, i don't have to sit with my thoughts and remember everything i should be doing...))

but, like, if you want to get some actual tips on what you can do to read more, here are some habits that are probably reasons for my quite extensive monthly wrap ups.

i read while commuting—it's valuable reading time that i can't really spend doing anything else anyway. i commute around 1-2 hours a day (with public transport), and i always bring a book with me.

if i struggle with a book, i get the audiobook to help me push through. some books are either really dense or difficult to get through (for whatever reason), and i found that listening to the audiobook in addition to reading the text helps me get through these tougher books faster.

i parallelly read books from different genres. i am always in the middle of at least two books. it prevents me from falling into reading slumps, because i can just switch to and read whatever i am in the mood for that day.

i always read before i go to sleep. at least 30 minutes, but more often close to an hour. it helps me wind down and makes me tired enough so that i have no trouble falling asleep almost immediately after turning off the lights.

((and of course i just read in my spare time, on weekends...... i am also not a big movie person and *really* picky when it comes to tv shows so most of the media i consume are books.))

these are things that have increased my reading, but that doesn't mean they'll do the same for you. thb it doesn't really matter how many books you read in a month anyway. it's always better to pick up stuff you enjoy and spend as much time with it as you need. don't let booktube, booktok or litblr (or me, for that matter) fool you into thinking it's the norm for people to read dozens of books each month. it's not. just finishing one is a great accomplishment. not finishing a single one i completely fine as well. you do do, and hopeful that will lead to you discovering some amazing reads!

i wish you happy reading <3

[andypantsx3]

andie!! i hope you're doing well 💖🥺 i was wondering - do you have any tips for resetting yourself to be in the mood to write? i've really been struggling lately and my head feels like a jumbled mess when i try to write. like the ideas are there but not the motivation and it's super frustrating 😭 i want to take a hiatus but i wouldn't even know where to start, if that makes sense? i feel like writing is my only hobby so i guess it's a struggle to think of what i could do to make myself like writing again :'( any advice is welcome if it's not too much hassle!

either way i hope that this week will be kind to you! i always look forward to seeing you on my dash and it makes me incredibly happy to hear when you're doing well 💖 please remember to take care of yourself as summer approaches and the weather gets hotter! 🙏

Hello my angel!! I hope you're doing well too!! This is something I am still figuring out too but I can share some of the things that have worked for me so far, and I hope that they will work for you too!

It sounds like a hiatus would be good, honestly! They have always worked for me. Sometimes you get to the point where you feel like you should be writing but you can't, whether it be burnout, writer's block, plot holes, etc, and you end up feeling really guilty about it. Having a negative emotion like that attached to your writing is the last thing you need right now, so free yourself from that however you can! Tell people you're on hiatus so you don't feel obligated to keep uploading right now, or go work on a different story if you're in the mood for that one instead. Close out your story doc and go do something with friends for the weekend; anything where you are very visibly or literally moving away from the story.

Second, don't beat yourself up!! This is literally part of the process for everybody, and you do not need to feel like this is somehow a failing of yours, or that you won't know how to return to your work. You will. When you feel interested in it again, enough that you can't resist opening the doc, that's when you will know. Until then, just enjoy life and try not to stress. I haven't published a chapter in a month now (last year I think I went close to three months without writing anything, and once i abandoned a story i was publishing for like six months??) and sometimes it just takes that long! Let it happen and know it's supposed to happen.

Another thing you probably need is some inspiration. I have noticed that if I spend too much time writing instead of reading, I lose interest and all of my motivation. Dedicating too much brain power to just one hobby can really take it out of you. Give yourself the freedom to consume instead of writing as your only outlet! Read new fics, new books, watch a new show--the change of pace can be really refreshing and inspiring, and will again give you that little bit of distance from your own work.

Lastly, this is the most trivial tip I have but I'm throwing it in here anyway just in case!! I have read like a million things where writers say taking a walk helps them. I imagine this is different for everyone and it might not work for you, but it works for me! I like going for a run or a series of long walks over a couple of days and just taking the time to think about my work while I am physically very distant from the tools of authorship. Then there's that distance again, and less pressure to commit it all to paper--there is just the abstract, and sometimes the thinking something but not being able to write it makes me excited to eventually get it down, and that motivates me to return to the work so I can! Maybe something like chatting about your work to a friend while you're out, or another activity where you're thinking about it but distant from it would work the same!!

I hope you're doing well and being very kind and patient with yourself during this part of the process! Please just remember this IS a part of the process, whether we like it or not lol, and its purpose is to force you to refresh, so don't feel guilty and make the most of that break time!!

Sending you all my most positive vibes!! 💕✨