#husbandtag

[lesbxdyke]

I would like to again big up libraries as safe spaces for people of all types!

I had a psychotic episode in my local library while I was in there working and had convinced myself that I was in a bubble dimension and if I left the library I would die, and that being what had happened to the librarian because I hadn't seen them in an hour (it's a small, local library. You can see the librarians desk from where I sit to work)

Now obviously they weren't dead, they were just in the little office that I couldn't see into.

I'm also lucky enough to be a very self aware psychotic, so I reached out to my support network to make sure I got home safely. But none of them could actually get me OUT of the library and I was still absolutely certain that if I stepped off the carpet and onto the tile, I would die.

So I got up, I made my way to the desk, I found the librarian and I said "I need your help. I'm having a psychotic episode and this is what I currently believe. Could you please come out from behind your desk and stand on the tiles so I can see it won't kill me?"

And they did. They didn't shame me, or laugh, or tell me it wasn't real. They said "Yeah, that must be scary." And thanked me when I admitted I'd thought them dead and been really upset about that because I liked them.

And then stood there on the tile, while I stood on the carpet, for ten minutes while I chatted shit and tried to build up my courage to step on the tile, just in case. Including telling me that if this happened again and I needed to call someone, to disregard the usual 'don't call people in the library' rule and just do so after I promised I was going to be calling my husband the second I was on the tile so he could safely walk me home.

(& so no one worries: my husband got me home safe, and a friend came to check on me a little while later and brought me food and I'm fully Cognizant and out of it now)

I cannot imagine another place where I could approach someone and say that and not get the police or an ambulance called on me. Neither of which I needed or would have been helpful.

I cannot imagine another place where a member of staff would stand somewhere for ten minutes to make sure I felt safe enough leaving.

I cannot imagine another place where I would not only be explicitly welcomed back, but be told "If this happens again here, disregard our normal rules to take care of yourself."

I cannot imagine another place on this earth that I would feel safe enough returning to, 3 days later, after an episode like that.

Libraries are a fucking Godssend and should be protected at all costs!

[shirayuki7]

Me: I bet I can make you upset with just one sentence.

Hub: nothing you say can make me upset

Me: the third Punic war was completely justified.

Hub:

[areksv]

#sunset #husbandtag #curlyhair #glasses #river #sun #columbiariver (at Vancouver, Washington) https://www.instagram.com/p/CYsPZJiJTGW/?utm_medium=tumblr

[xigseri]

the relationship of Rue & Xigbar part 1 (I’m Eric)

[thepropertylovers]

We spent all day at the pool yesterday and maybe sorta kind of got burnt ☀️ but on the plus side, we did our first #FacebookLive last night with our first #husbandtag! Go like our page "The Property Lovers" on FB to watch it because we answer a lot of FAQs. Happy Monday y'all! #husbands #sundayfunday (at Cleveland, Tennessee)

[yesrubythrifts]

#Datenight w/ ma babies 👶🏽👶🏽 daddy 😁 #MCM 💋 • • @ugo.maduka • #couplegoals #husbandtag #blacklove #igbokwenu #LA #Caliswag #Bossup #Booedup (at Western Union) https://www.instagram.com/p/B36KjaXBfof/?igshid=1mft0s1z6f1xl

[starbuckie]

i can’t wear his initial around my neck so this will have to do :))

[ginnosaya]

⠀⠀❛⠀✧⠀≀⠀my soul will find 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔.⠀@avstardust◞ ⠀⠀⠀⠀maya & jamie shepard⠀,,,⠀𝖼𝗁𝖾𝗇'𝗌 𝖻𝗂𝗋𝗍𝗁𝖽𝖺𝗒 𝗉𝗋𝖾𝗌𝖾𝗇𝗍.

[loveyourselfxox]

Come chat with my husband and I!!! We answered some questions about each other and it was so funny lol some of them we didn't even know how to answer! If you need a good laugh watch it 😝

[lesbxdyke]

List 5 things that make you happy, then put this in the askbox for the last 10 people who reblogged something from you! get to know your mutuals and followers (ू•‧̫•ू⑅)♡

Spending time with @commienumber-fucker , @demisexualemmaswan , @snowsisterskiss & my husband (not all together but spending time with any of them makes me very very very happy!!!)

Playing FFXIV! Especially if it means I get to see my boy, my little lord Alphinaud! (Quick plug for my XIV blog over at @littlelordalphinaud !)

My blanket nest! I have so many blankies and I love nesting in them to sleep!

Food at this little cafe in my town. They do really good soup and panini's and if I could get myself there every day I wouldn't eat anywhere else!!!

Creating characters with my brothers ( @steelshard (baby brother) & @instantbee (older brother)) ESPECIALLY because they both enable me in my angst goblin ways!

Bonus one!

-Thinking about my Selfship with 🔪 & daydreaming about her~!

[bet-youthinkaboutme]

let me just post my two favorite wedding photos and let’s just talk about my husbands crying. 😭😭😭

[terriannhearts]

Hey y’all my new video is up! Featuring @sofakingmarvls Go! Watch! Subscribe! Like! Share! Comment! You still here? Click the link in bio #newvideo #youtubevideo #videoislive #beautycontent #beautyvideo #muatoronto #mobilemua #mobilemuatoronto #mua #makeup #makeuptutorial #husbandtag #newvideo #makeupbyme #mobilemua #undiscovered_muas #husbandvoiceover #videocontent #voiceover (at Terriann Hearts Beauty)

[starbuckie]

look at me n’ my husband buck looking after our daughter riq🥰💐

[sunusunuk]

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Have you guys watched my latest video #husbandtag #nepaligirl for more link at my bio! 🤗😇 #blessed🙏 #thankyoumoreplease

[stopandimagineloveforever]

dlanceblack Tom subjected me to a Holiday #HusbandTag Q&A on his YouTube channel. Went a bit like this.

December 23, 2018

[thepropertylovers]

First #husbandtag on our Facebook @thepropertylovers

https://www.facebook.com/1666768716915290/videos/1916947178564108