#i can’t be expected to handle this

[redroyalblues]

this is my brain rn btw… if you even care

[cynical-demon]

While out and about someone runs into Damien, seemingly in a rush. “Oh! Terribly sorry!” There’s a bit of panic in his voice. Also he’s British.

@rainbowsidesofacat

[theghostofashton]

thinking about carlos being so worried this would be the dealbreaker, about him not fully believing that tk was okay with him not being ready for kids. thinking about the tension that exists between him wanting to give tk everything but also not being able to get past certain traumatic things within his ideal timeframe. he wants to be what tk needs and he wants to give him his entire self but there are things he's hurt by that he can't make himself move past as quickly as he wants to, and he's sorry, for that.

we watch him beat himself up for it, worry like it's the thing that'll have tk leaving, ultimately, and it's just so...... the amount of healing that must come from tk every time being like hey. (i love you) it's okay. (i love you) i'm happy to be in this with you. to do this at your pace. okay?

it's so foreign carlos doesn't believe it at first, but tk just keeps saying it, over and over. there's something so unbelievably caring about that, about watching carlos learn just how loved he is, as a fact. he doesn't have to do anything or be in a certain place or earn it, in some way. he just is.

[valewritessss]

Growing up as an only child people would always like talking to me and say I’m nice and generous then when they found out that I’m an only child they’d tell me “oh so you’re spoiled and don’t know how to share?”. And it was always so frustrating because why would I be spoiled? Yes both of my parents attention was only on me but they raised me right? And I’ve met people that are spoiled and not brats, like spoiled brat and spoiled are two different things.

And I love sharing and always have bc I never had anyone to share with so I like letting other people use my stuff. One of my friends that I did so many things for all of middle school (I gave her homework answers, pencils, erasers, bandaids, some of my lunch, gum, etc) told me that I don’t know how to share because I’m an only child. We’re not friends anymore because at one point she started rushing me to do my work so she could copy and she would not let me concentrate and she wouldn’t copy my shit while I was doing it and then she’d get mad at me because she was failing. But anyway, I was a little mad because you KNOW me, but you’re just gonna say that because why, exactly? It was like people were always telling me what I should be like and telling me that I don’t understand any childhood experiences.

And then I get told I must not know how to compromise just because I’m an only child? Like what? I will do anything to please you so what the hell are you talking about.

And people go on rants saying that parents need to start having more than two children because they hate only children. I’ve seen this so many times and it makes me a little sad because my parents tried, okay? Generalizing is not cool. They’ll hate only children just because they had a bad experience with someone that happened to be an only child. And then I’ll make friends with someone and when they find out I’m an only child they’ll tell me they never would’ve guessed because they hate only children. Thanks, I guess?

“You must not have a very good family bond” uhh why? My cousins are the closest thing I ever had as siblings growing up and I genuinely don’t understand when they would say this because it doesn’t mean I can’t bond with people my age.

“You probably get everything you want” i was told this just because I bought a new notebook when my old one ran out of pages. Again, what is the thought process here because it’s not like I can ask for anything and get it just because I’m the only kid my parents have.

I would say I’m lonely and want a sister and people would get straight up mad at me. “No you don’t you’re lucky” and you think there aren’t things I want that you have too? I literally feel so alone 24/7 but I guess I’m not allowed to feel that because at least I get privacy.

They also always assume I’m rich. I am very much not rich and I did have friends that lived in bigger houses and it made me so insecure about mine. Idk what it is about assuming only children are rich. I wish being an only child came with that bc then I’d never complain again. But unfortunately it doesn’t work like that.

Anyways. This was a random rant. I just remembered that I would get so frustrated because I would literally cry from the fact that I didn’t have a best friend or someone like a sibling to talk to, and then I’d be told my feelings weren’t valid. I know this is such a non issue, but just sharing I guess.

[clarabowmp3]

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[youkilledpetunia]

so yak has his necklace back on in the preview. they’re in the same outfit as the kiss in the opening title. and yak is crying.

i am simply not okay.

[kaylazer]

back on my bullshit (meeting men im in love with). Ben Schwartz is so kind and tall :-) I didn’t totally freeze like when I met the Jonas brothers but the selfies we took are blurry so 😔

(at least I have these bc I told sam to record the whole thing heheheh)

[badlydrawnhoruss]

[peaches2217]

I’m gonna need some encouragement.

I’m telling my dad tonight that I’m trans.

[littleheartsdesire]

American Girl, Hangout Festival, Alabama, 18.5.18

2/2

[chipjrwibignaturals]

I am not BUILT to handle heat man I was outside for less than a minute in 88F (31C) temps and it fucking collapsed my entire mood. bestie I have a fucking outside Event I have to go to in an hour im gonna have a goddamn breakdown there at this rate

[wildsaltair]

[jaekyungsrustyattitude]

Peeps on TikTok when Natsuo doesn’t live up to his future profession of health and welfare worker as a child, and proceeded to “neglect” his older brother Touya be like…..

[deus-ex-mona]

s. s ave me, meoto…

[killrisma]

Moots, you fucking did it. I’m going to watch dungeon meshi

[waterberry-strawmelon]

So maybe this is just me, and I really can’t speak for everyone who’s non-binary, but if you ARE non-binary and interested in seeing the Barbie movie, just don’t go in expecting any revolutionary takes about gender or feminism beyond the milquetoast neoliberal slurry we already get from, like, Law and Order SVU and shit like that. Go see it if you want (the production design is genuinely the best I’ve ever seen for ANY film), but don’t go in with super high expectations :(