#i’m curious if other cluster b folks have similar experiences | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

bnyrbt · 2 years

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in some ways i prefer people hating me over people being neutral on me cuz if they don’t hate me but also don’t love me it makes me anxious that i’m doing something wrong and need to MAKE them like me. but if they hate me i know they’re not worth my time and their opinion doesn’t matter

#sasha #cluster b #bpd #npd #anxiety #social anxiety #like if they HATE me then i can just remove them from my life! it’s only a problem if we’re forced into proximity #but someone with no strong feelings on me it’s like… they COULD like me!! why don’t they like me?? what am i doing wrong??#(especially if i don’t dislike them either)#the indifference to being hated is fine & even useful but that obsession with being liked is a real self esteem issue #i’m curious if other cluster b folks have similar experiences

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