#infpthoughts

[wordsforintroverts]

Self-reminder #youreenough #selflovequotes #selflovematters #loveyourself #selfawareness #selfsufficient #selfsufficiency #mentalhealthawareness #selfloveisthebestlove #selflovejourney #selfwawareness #infpthoughts #infjthoughts https://www.instagram.com/p/CS9effKLy7x/?utm_medium=tumblr

[an-infp-mess]

Survival tips for infps:

These are little pieces of advice I give myself, a hot mess of an infp-t just trying to get through it. (this advice may not be relevant to all infps)

Listen to podcasts or music when out in public - it will make you feel a little less self-conscious, especially podcasts

Avoid eating solely junk food - it will make you feel lethargic and unmotivated! (i know this is common sense lol but seriously)

Recognise when ur negative feelings stem from ur physical needs not being met (e.g. not enough sleep or eating badly). Sometimes I get so caught up wallowing, thinking my life is the worst, when I actually feel bad because I’ve drunk a gallon of coffee and haven’t eaten all day

Avoid drinking coffee before being social - it gives me anxiety!!!

Instead drink coffee when at home trying to be productive - coffee is the sole reason i have any sort of productivity

Journal your thoughts and feelings and just cry it out - this is especially helpful when you feel like you can’t talk to people about your feelings. ik i lot of infps are very private and feel uncomfy being vulnerable with people about their issues. because i’m like that I find it therapeutic to just write it out. don’t worry about being angsty! Let the angst out!! no one but u is going to read it :)

Find solace in escapism - I go on youtube and netflix for a good old distraction

Also find solace in close friends and family

Find infp celebrities and characters to look up and relate to

Make a list of favourite things (e.g. fav movies or links to fav videos) to fall back on when you need a pick-me-up. I add to a pages doc whenever I find something that inspires me or makes me laugh.

When you feel energetic and motivated - take advantage of it and clean ur room!!! or do SOmeThing productive omg

Spend time with individuals u love - I get SO much more out of one-on-ones with friends than hang outs with a group of people. Often i feel like such an outsider in groups, especially with my loud extroverted friends (i cannot match their energy levels for the life of me). These sorts of interactions leave me v drained. However, when I have meaningful convos with individuals i feel like i’m going to be ok.

Avoid drinking in excess - hangovers mess with ur e-mo-tion-s

Consume feel good movies, shows and books

Watch infp videos on youtube and read the comment sections. Infp comment sections are so heartfelt and relatable they will make u cry! (I rlly enjoy lex morningstar on YT for great relatable infp content)

[thestoryinyourheart]

My love for you is like Fever.

Hopefully gone in the morning.

[glamasaurus]

Our time is now Social distancing level: EXPERT #introvert #corona Reposted from @introvertdoodles #infprelatable #infpthoughts #infptribe #ambivert #infplife #stayhome #staywell https://www.instagram.com/p/B9uHN0kHAb-/?igshid=1n7o09y79fodg

[luna-lilium-nineteenth]

I just tried to cry in the shower and couldn’t. I’m somehow constantly numb, but bouncing between multiple emotions. And I can’t even have a cathartic cry...

Instead I wrote sort of prose poem as I felt my soul fill with bitter anger, and exhaustion ached in my bones as I realised and accepted the fuckability of responsibility and the suckiness of so called success....

.

Society and I

I am not made to fit your design,

I am not made to fit into your story,

I was first made unconfined without shape,

I was shapeless at the start (yet now I am spineless),

I was not made to ONLY conform to your astringent model,

There are a 100 of you but there was only meant to be one me.

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I was not made to be moulded into your infrastructure;

I am not another brick to be added into YOUR walls.

Each of my days lived is a brick on its own,

I was made to be my own castle,

My own fortress.

.

But this life, this model, this world,

It knocked down my walls before I began;

Before I even had the change to build on the foundations.

We are told this life was meant to be lived in a certain way by all,

The life that they told us was the one we wanted, was not the choice I thought I made.

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The choice I made was an illusion, a manipulation, a stipulation

A blood oath signed before I even had the capacity to decide

A bond forcing me into conformity before knowing reality

Forcing me to believe I chose the safety of a false truth.

.

The same standard life everyone leads,

only wrapped in a bow that is supposedly unique to me,

A pretty little lie of freedom, disguising that my 'choices' were in fact set,

A game you forced me to play that only leads to the same ending as everyone else.

The illusion of your putative freedom.

.

But the fear has instilled itself within me now.

And the realisation of the trap does not free me from the cage.

I've been trapped in your home, wondering in your world, thinking it was mine

For so long now that I no longer know where the exits are.

Nor do I know what is on the other side.

.

But I know one thing...

.

I want it.

[luna-lilium-nineteenth]

The 'forced to confront someone' is currently what is happening in my life right now as I'm sending lots of honest emails at work about my stress and mental health to management and HR. So far I'm holding it in but if I have to have a face to face about it, my emotions are gonna explode out of me, like so

Life of an INFP (with Friends gifs)

when someone tries to convince you to do something that’s against your values because “it’s no big deal”: 

when you have to explain to someone why you’re crying for no apparent reason: 

when any two people are arguing about anything, anywhere: 

when someone calls you instead of texting: 

when you try to say no to someone but then end up saying yes anyway: 

when you’re finally forced to confront someone:  

and finally, when someone is kind, respects your values and has emotional depth: 

[wordsforintroverts]

Gain inspiration from others who got where you’d like to be. Learn from their mistakes and how they overcame challenges. But don’t forget this is YOUR journey. Embrace your flaws. Use your natural talents and passion to become the best version of yourself. #inspirationquotes #inspirationquote #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmatters #spiritualawakening #spiritualgrowth #selfawareness #selfawarenessjourney #infpthoughts #mbtitypes #selfhealers #meaningfulquotes #motivationalquotes #motivationalquote https://www.instagram.com/p/CdD0NnltqGn/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[bathorysixx13-blog]

INFP life ✌🏼️ #infp #infplife #infppersonality #infpgirl #infpthoughts #infpsunite

[infpdaily]

I am homesick for a place i am not sure even exist. One where my heart is full, my body loved n my soul is understood

Melissa cox

[glamasaurus]

Reasons I love cuddling I always come across as cold, but I'm not. I always had an issue with this, knowing when to initiate physical contact. I always overthink this. "Is it the right moment?" "Do I come across as needy?" How do you deal with this? Help a fellow lost INFP 😢 Reposted from @infp_the_creative_soul #physicaltouch #physicaltouchismylovelanguage #infpproblems #infprelatable #infpthoughts #infptribe #infp #infplife #infpquote #infpmemes #infppersonality #cuddles https://www.instagram.com/p/B9KxCtgnTVY/?igshid=raklotrmjd7m

[evyramadani]

Can’t Say No

Being asked for help but can't say no, be like.  T: " Can you go with me to see .... “ Me: " .......... " *giving my reasoning of my objection but can't simply say no.  T: " don't worry,” *still persistent to ask help.  She's the one asking help and she's the one saying don't worry. Somehow i'm amazed at people’s ability persuade others.

[patethenovice]

You know how the Korean alphabet was engineered by wise sages rather than inherited from antiquated evolution?

Sign language should be a designed language. Not influenced by the speaking patterns of wherever. Sign language shouldn't be a English word for English word. There could be tons of adaptations to syntax, grammar bits like denoting a modifying clause, etc.

And if sign language was its own language free from the influences of translation, it could be universal.

The UN could have done some campaign benefiting schools that do at least 1 course to the point everyone knows a tiny minimum at the very least.

/infpthoughts if I were governor of the world we'd all be swimming in lollipops

[wordsforintroverts]

Isn't that so? #introverted #introversion #introvert_ #introvertlife #introverting #introvertthoughts #introvertiert #infppersonality #infpproblems #infppersonality #introvertproblems #introvertstruggles #infpthoughts #introvertart #meaningfulilustration #illustratedquotes https://www.instagram.com/wordsforintroverts/p/CS65u31rKfj/?utm_medium=tumblr

[flying-without-wings]

Dependency

I’ve learned that no one’s really there for me, even though they said they would be. I have to stand on my own feet. I can only depend on myself.

[infpdaily]

i’m very emotionally loyal and attached to the people i care about but once i cross that point where enough is enough it’s strangely easy to just disappear from someone’s life

[glamasaurus]

It me!! Credit @infp_the_creative_soul #infptribe #infp #infprelatable #infplife #infppersonality #infpquote #mbti #myersbriggs #infpproblems #infpthoughts Reposted from @infptribe https://www.instagram.com/p/B8Wv6k4n116/?igshid=1knz0jpvt6ztw