my parent is so frustrating, when she's stressed she takes it out on me and gets mad at me about dishes, or other things on top of that.
when I hardly have any energy or I don't mean to in the first place.
Sometimes I say nasty shit to myself because of this, I think of myself as lazy when really it's internalized abelism I'm trying to face.
She "apologized" but I never accept them or want to, she'll just do it again.
I wish she would take accountability instead of making excuses and saying how hard it is. We have no team work ethic and she still pushes her abelism onto me.
It used to be a lot worse when I was a kid and she showed no love or support.
I'm still trying to heal from it.
I try my best but my body, brain and depression sucks. I hate being isolated having no friends, then dealing with so much rejection and my parents neglect ontop of it fucks me up in so many ways.
I just can't wait to move out, I doubt it'll happen but I can imagine it will I guess.
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devastating: guy with excessive fear and anxiety is also type of person who doesn’t like being wrong, thus making it so any attempt to alleviate the fears and do away with the horrors will come across as ‘corrective’ !
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every time someone (or even myself) jokes about the "it's not dead it just went to live at the farm<3" classic lie, I remember the time when I was a kid and my family hid the fact that my grandfather had died for like a whole month by saying he was at the hospital recuperating 😭
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