probably a take that a LOT of people are going to be angry about but I'm gonna preface with: I'm speaking on a general trend I've seen in online spaces, and my thoughts on it are not a direct callout to anyone nor an inherent indicator of if someone's DID is "real" or "fake."
but like. the way that some people will use public spaces to "chat intra-system" is so wild and even at times uncomfortable as fuck, if nothing else it's pretty wildly unsafe because like you have NO IDEA who's reading what you're writing out. Having a private discord server or a journal or a notes app or something is a much safer way to facilitate that kind of thing.
that and lowkey..... sometimes ppl doing it in public or actively sharing screenshots of it on tumblr like it's some "the group chat going wild tonight" type content just feels. So much like roleplay. It skeeves me out a bit. I know in my heart that generally using a space to try and communicate with other parts of the system is a healthy coping mechanism that a lot of therapists recommend but so many times that I see that posted it feels like that meaning and healing has been lost and in some cases borders on roleplaying or content farming and it makes me so uncomfortable
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“Look for the strengths in yourself” this. “Your trauma doesn’t define you or make you inherently wrong” that. Do it out of spite. Value yourself out of spite.
What? Those douchebags told you that you weren’t worth anything? Fuck them! Treat yourself like you’re worth something! Get back at those fuckers!
Those assholes conditioned you into thinking you were terrible by treating you like shit? Condition yourself back! Keep valuing yourself and doing self care over and over until you drown them out. Until they’re as stupid and small in your brain as they are in real life.
Fucking win the emotional manipulation game! Win it! Draw something shit because it makes you feel happy! What, you can’t say no to people because you’re not worth as much as them? Fuck that! Say no all the time! Treat yourself like the most important person in the universe because they would hate it!
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god i wish they'd just give up on the bab thing and let that "joke" die. not only is it not funny but also it's pretty shitty......
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where the hell is the content for butch lesbians aziraphale and crowley, i need aziraphale as a femme jazz singer and crowley as her butch bodyguard, i need crowley in a jessica rabbit style dress and heels hanging off of her bookworm butch aziraphale, i need he/they butch crowley in a dykey leather jacket clinging to he/they aziraphale in a butch waistcoat and shaved head
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my mom just explained how she looks through my dad’s phone sometimes because “if you’re in a relationship and you trust each other you should be able to look through each other’s phones” and when I said that I wouldn’t be comfortable with that and the thought actually kind of scares me she just said “oh you’ll think differently if you’re really in love” so excuse me while I go up to my room and cry until I throw up because 𝓌𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝒻𝓊𝒸𝓀
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