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#just... give me a break please life
dragoon811 · 1 year
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One of the cats has been peeing on fabric. Fallen curtains, dress-up clothes, comforters, you name it. And ofc, having two kids and a not-quite-all-there partner means I fell behind on picking up this week.
Cue 3 loads of wash, the use of my bioenzyme spray and cleaners and I just... I am so, so tired. I have a migraine from chemicals. I am so stressed I want to cry. My partner is stressing about it and since he already hates the cat we suspect, this is not helping matters.
I have ordered an over the door laundry hamper so we can just SHOVE things in there instead of a laundry bin/hamper said cat can pee in.
We have cleaned the floors. De-smelled it. Cleaned the clothes. Picked everything up. Cleaned out and refilled the litterbox and committed to a more frequent change.
Can... can I just catch a break? Please?
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the-woman-upstairs · 4 months
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It’s just…so painful to watch Armand readily submit in order to obtain the love he so desperately craves. And while it’s most assuredly a manipulative tactic, it’s still one borne out of fear and desperation. He cannot lose this person he’s come to love and so will become whatever they want, do whatever they want just so they’ll stay with him. But it won’t be enough. No matter how much he acquiesces or seeks to control (himself, others, the environment), he won’t be able to make Louis stay with him in the perfect life, perfect self he built in the hopes of finally being loved. It will all crumble with Armand left alone in the rubble of what he created, the author of his own abandonment.
#this unfortunately hits way too close to home for me#let’s not even get into Claudia’s anger at never being enough#iwtv spoilers#interview with the vampire#armand#this is just me speaking from personal experience…but there is definite manipulation at play here from Armand#and I don’t necessarily mean that pejoratively- when you’re desperate for people to like/love you you’ll become whatever they want#or whatever you think they’d want and you give it to them so they’ll want to keep you around#I’ve done it so often with the people in my life- and make no mistake it’s also a survival tactic#you give someone what they want they won’t hurt you#and when that’s how you survive for years and years it becomes the default method of interacting with others#even with normal people who genuinely mean you no harm you revert to that people pleasing mode#as a means of control both external and internal#this is what i see armand doing- his way of surviving that he’s never truly broken out of#armand ceding coven control to Louis and curating the Dubai penthouse for Louis are part of the same pattern of behavior#and even tho it’s ultimately harmful and will only end badly for armand and Louis’ relationship#idk if armand knows how to not exist that way with someone he loves/desires#all of this also ties into louis and daniel#because of course Armand will lose it over Louis finding connection and interest with someone else aside from him#someone HUMAN no less#and I can see Armand taking out his anger on Daniel as a way of expressing his own frustration at still not being enough for Louis#breaking daniel’s mind in a desperate attempt to understand why this human could reach Louis in ways he couldn’t#not saying any of this to excuse Armand and his behavior obviously (I’m very upset and worried over the trial looming on the horizon)#but I do understand this impulse and how you’ll throw ANYONE under the bus in order to preserve your place with loved ones#it’s all horrifying but unfortunately I empathize#like even if Louis is right to walk out on him when he learns/remembers the truth of what happened to Claudia#I’ll probably still find myself saddened by Armand’s fate because I’ve absolutely been there myself#it’s a tragedy of his own making- his fear and desperation birthing manipulative and controlling behaviors#that ultimately result in your own abandonment#god this fucking show
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aq2003 · 23 days
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like i'm trying to find the words to explain why i found don juan in soho to be so profound and interesting but all i'm coming up with is "they stabbed dj in the dick and when he comes back up to do the curtain call you can see the blood on his pants 10/10 attention to detail and commitment to the bit"
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girl-hwat · 12 days
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you ever think about how william wisp has parents that love him
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stinkymicrowavedfish · 8 months
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Can we please talk about @bozers rainko fanfic?
Can we PLEASEEE TALK ABOUT THAT ONE RAINKO FANFIC. CAN WE PLEASEE TALK ABOUT RAINKO PLEASEEE PLEASEE PLEAASEEEE
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daddy-long-legssss · 5 days
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i took a sick day and took myself out to breakfast and baby waved me. life feels good again.
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thefrogdalorian · 4 months
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My therapist just cancelled ANOTHER appointment with me on very short notice.... feeling an overwhelming urge to go as feral as Din Djarin in The Prisoner rn.... complete with red lights......
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ilovereadingandstuff · 2 months
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In Honor of Izuku Midoriya
The Greastest forgotten Hero
How will...
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...The Story End?
Edit: I updated the drawing I made by fixing the hair and shading.
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i-am-a-whimsy-boy · 1 year
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iguessitsjustme · 1 year
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It took all of two seconds with Nawin for the fandom to collectively go “ah yes. the perfect man” and I love us for that
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the-eclectic-wonderer · 5 months
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Summary:
Three little scenes on the theme of singing.
:) I was in the mood for something short and sweet. Hope you enjoy!
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nabaath-areng · 11 months
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Fuck Sweden as a nation for turning the woobification of our history and culture into one of our greatest exports, pretending to be wholesome and peaceful while profiting from conflicts elsewhere. For never having the fucking spine to take any stance ever and acting high and mighty for being "neutral", all while frothing at the mouth to get a piece of that colonial cake from the cool kids table where the superpowers are seated. For recognizing Palestine's sovereignty only to then consider a withdrawal of said recognition in response to the current genocide. For allowing islamophobia to get to the point it is now and then pointing fingers at jews as a whole. For giving less of a flying fuck about swedish jews during WW2 and until now, yet patting ourselves on the back and taking credit for heroic deeds done primarily by individuals.
I wish nothing but absolute hell and misery for Ulf Kristersson, who is even more spineless about his inaction than I thought possible. Who had nothing to say about the burnings of the torah and quran, only to claim that he stands for fighting antisemitism. Who puffed up his chest and was acting so tough about the things he would do once he became prime minister, only to hold up on none of his lofty promises in true conservative fashion. Both he and his lackeys (as well as their fanclubs of raging screaming bigots) deserve nothing but hurt and hell for continuing to destroy the lives of all marginalized groups in Sweden, all while shamelessly increasing their own salaries blatantly in the open, to then have the sheer and utter gut to declare that actively supporting genocide is within our best interests.
This country's audacity is one that only became possible because we sacrificed our neighbours safety for the sake of maintaining our own, because when your most recent war was in 1809 it's apparently not possible to even try and comprehend the horrors of modern warfare. That is, besides producing the tools for it to happen elsewhere.
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b0nelessdoodles · 8 months
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How am I supposed to work when I just wanna go home and be deranged about Narinder and Shamura and make a whole ass video about it fuck you capitalism
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cptnghoulowl · 2 years
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I'm a Hunter fan blog now. He is my son and I'm so proud of him for existing and growing and just
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LOOK AT MY BOY, PRECIOUS BABY
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MUST PROTECT
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hyunniesgirl · 7 months
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Well my ex, who's my best friend now, just tried to get back with me and to say I'm freaking out is an understatement ☠️☠️
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lemongrass77777-moved · 11 months
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Some people really just can’t stand the idea of queer media where the characters are happy. Like sorry babe not all of us want to be pessimists all the fucking time.
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