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poc-friendly picrews

[plaintext: poc-friendly picrews / end plaintext.]

reblogs are appreciated, this will be updated whenever i find more! if you want to suggest picrews to be added, do so in my asks or dms!

note: i don't tend to read the notes or reblogs here for uhhh Obvious Reasons (6000 notifs) so if you have a suggestion to make, do it via my asks or dms

edit (03/02/2024): added 11 picrews to the list!

edit (03/07/2024): added 1 picrew to the list!

actionpilot's character creator

adriotes' character creator

adrisona maker

aiden's picrew

alli's oc creator

alohasushicore

amiiraux's chaotic gay maker

among us sona creator

anew's girl maker

astrolavas' character creator

avatar

aworus' friend maker

baydews avatar maker

bean beaningtons tupper

bex's first picrew

bighead kid

black centered picrew

black centered picrew (fullbody version)

block game oc creator

bright's picrew hell,

bunnieclaire's character maker

caramael's character creator

cartoony maker

casual gay creator

cherevrie's avatar maker

childishspite's avi maker

cool kid maker

cosmitasia's character maker

cute girl creator

cutetimes (hair options are a bit limited)

djarn's character maker

djarn's character maker 2

doshi's oc avatar maker

elenaa's windswept oc maker

friend factory

friend maker

judelta's character maker

julliapple's character maker

gay time 2: electric boogaloo

girl maker

ghostofadragon's character maker

harvey's picrew 1 (only has straight hairstyles)

harvey's picrew 2 (only has curly hairstyles)

lichtenstyler

lima0nada

little guy maker

lulljevic's icon maker

makowka's character maker

makowka's character maker 2

marice creator

nah's picrew

nellseto's maker

nuclearvessel's character maker

nudekay's character maker

nuggts character maker

overwatch league icons

peculiar icon creator

perisceris' icon maker

piney's icon maker

pixel dating simulator maker

poicon maker

potatolord's persona creator

rainheal's character maker

rychu's picrew

sagravi creator

scuff's icon maker

semirealistic icon creator

smitty's ultimate maker-inator

something about them

sph.jpeg's icon maker

static maker

toon me! (a)

toon me! (b)

uris space maker

witchcrew

who me?

yee haw character creator

yet another character creator

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[estrogenism]

yes you love and cherish trans people but are you normal about intersex people, who are significantly more likely to be trans than a perisex person (at least in terms of intersex youth)?

do you acknowledge that they are directly targeted by many bills that also target trans people or do you say that they're just another group being indirectly targeted by anti-trans bills?

do you say that no kids are being forced on hrt or do you acknowledge that intersex babies are often forced on hrt?

do you acknowledge that intersex people can often have a complex experience with gender or do you just scream "intersex people can be cis too!!" whenever an intersex trans person tells you to stop disregarding their unique relationship with gender?

do you see a post asking for people to listen to intersex people and respond without sexualizing us or do you conflate your allyship with sexuality by saying "yeah i'd totally fuck an intersex person!"?

do you call animals with intersex conditions "trans icons" or do you actually acknowledge their intersex conditions?

do you treat us like human beings or do you ask us invasive questions about our genitals like we're some kind of lab rats?

do you listen when we tell you not to call us hermaphrodites or do you just make the excuse that animals are called hermaphrodites so you should be allowed to call us that too?

do you acknowledge intersex transfems and transmascs regardless of their casab or do you screech about how intersex people are co-opting your terms?

do you try and group intersex people under terms like amab/afab and tme/tma without acknowledging their actual experiences or do you just yell about how intersex people are trying to take your language away? (edit: this also includes very conveniently not mentioning intersex people's concerns and experiences when yelling about this)

do you acknowledge that not all intersex people are white? do you care about intersex poc?

do you care about us outside of the times that you can use us against transmisic people as a gotcha?

[estrogenism]

"bi lesbians are centering men in lesbian spaces-" you literally use "nonmen loving nonmen" as the definition of lesbian.

[estrogenism]

i wanna scream at the perisex trans people on my post so badly. like yes you do make good points but you're coming onto my post that was first and foremost about intersexism in trans spaces and framing yourself as having a stronger vantage point to criticize the tme/tma dichotomy than intersex trans ppl.

like it's not that you're wrong, it's that i made that post specifically to vent my frustrations about how perisex trans people looove to ignore the concerns that intersex trans people have about the black and white language they use. and then you came onto my post and basically said 'well as a perisex person, i can confirm that your concerns are valid' as if intersex people need perisex validation in order to discuss or vent about intersexism

[estrogenism]

your insecurity about your own sexuality is not my problem. get therapy instead of harassing and blaming random queer people for your problems.

[estrogenism]

i don't want to make this month about discourse, because most discourse is arbitrary and pointless at best, and self-destructive and dangerous at worst. but happy pride month to all queer people in the community that have been targets of exclusion, abuse, or erasure by certain jerks in the community.

trans people, intersex people, black queers, aces/aros, mspecs, neopronoun users, xenogender people, transhets, gnc queer people, multigender people, people who use microlabels, mspec lesbians/gays, polyamorous people, queers with split attraction, and any other groups who have been targets of abuse, exclusion, or erasure by other queer people who should have had their backs.

i don't need to tell you that you're valid because it's not for me or anyone else to decide that your way of describing yourself is "invalid." you are the only person who can label yourself in a way that is fulfilling to you- and if that means not labelling yourself at all, that's great too! but i love you. i'm proud of you for existing, despite the fact that you have to deal with some queer exclusionists hating you on top of the queermisia from non-queers. your existence is beautiful. your queerness is beautiful. be proud of yourself, because you deserve to be.

love you. have a wonderful month, because you deserve to celebrate it just as much as every other queer person <3

and to the exclusionists in question: you don't get to blame the rest of us for hating you when you help make queer spaces unsafe for queer people. worrying about how other queer people identify is such a waste of time, because they're going to identify that way no matter what you think. your opinions on other peoples' validity means absolutely nothing. you are wasting valuable time that you could be using to be proud of your own queerness instead of reveling in your misery about other queer people daring to exist in a way you don't like. so try changing and growing as a person and stop spending all of your time worrying about what other gay people are doing.

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i love you black lesbians.

i love you indigenous lesbians.

i love you pasifika lesbians.

i love you asian lesbians.

i love you muslim lesbians.

i love you jewish lesbians.

i love you fat lesbians.

i love you lesbians who are in systems.

i love you neurodivergent lesbians.

i love you blind lesbians.

i love you deaf lesbians.

i love you lesbian cane users.

i love you lesbian wheelchair users.

i love you all other disabled lesbians that i didn't mention here.

i love you butch lesbians.

i love you studs.

i love you bulldykes and bulldaggers.

i love you femme lesbians.

i love you fishes.

i love you androgynous lesbians.

i love you lesbians who can never decide on how you wanna present.

i love you gnc lesbians.

i love you trans lesbians.

i love you nonbinary lesbians.

i love you aspec lesbians.

i love you mspec lesbians.

i love you he/him lesbians.

i love you intersex lesbians.

i love you hairy lesbians.

i love you stinky lesbians.

i love you lesbians who take hrt.

i love you multigender lesbians.

i love you genderfluid lesbians.

i love you lesboys.

i love you closeted lesbians.

i love you lesbians.

[estrogenism]

FISH FLAG

[plaintext: Fish Flag / end plaintext.]

i made a flag for all the fishes out there! for those who don't know what a fish is, here's a good article about it! i find it incredibly sad that there's virtually no discussion of the term fish, since i think it and stud are really important terms for the black queer community.

i used the tropical fish as a symbol because of how many different shapes, sizes, and colors they can come in- and i think that's a great symbol for the diversity of the fish experience. please do NOT use this term or flag if you are not black- it is not for you and never will be.

[photo id: two pride flags that are nearly identical, except the first pride flag also has a black symbol of a tropical fish. the pride flag itself consists of six equally sized vertical stripes. the color order from right to left is: wine red, dark reddish brown, liquorice red, salmon, pale purple, and royal purple. / end id.]

[estrogenism]

💜 this blog is a safe space for all sapphics. 💜

this blog is a safe place for lesbians of all kinds. in this house, we support, love, and cherish lesbians regardless of pronouns, lesbians of color, trans lesbians, nonbinary lesbians, multigender lesbians, lesboys, intersex lesbians, fat lesbians, butch lesbians, femme lesbians, futch lesbians, aspec lesbians, mspec lesbians, mesques, abro lesbians, SAM-using lesbians, gnc lesbians, hairy lesbians, lesbian sex workers, lesbians who are plural, polyamorous lesbians, and anyone else who labels themself as a lesbian in good faith.

this blog is a safe place for bi sapphics of all kinds. in this house, we support, love, and cherish bi sapphics regardless of pronouns, bi sapphics of color, trans bi sapphics, nonbinary bi sapphics, multigender bi sapphics, bi sapphboys, intersex bi sapphics, fat bi sapphics, butch bi sapphics, femme bi sapphics, futch bi sapphics, aspec bi sapphics, bi lesbians, mesques, abro bi sapphics, SAM-using bi sapphics, gnc bi sapphics, hairy bi sapphics, bi sapphic sex workers, bi sapphics who are plural, polyamorous bi sapphics, and anyone else who labels themself as a bi sapphic in good faith.

this blog is a safe place for pan sapphics of all kinds. in this house, we support, love, and cherish pan sapphics regardless of pronouns, pan sapphics of color, trans pan sapphics, nonbinary pan sapphics, multigender pan sapphics, pan sapphboys, intersex pan sapphics, fat pan sapphics, butch pan sapphics, femme pan sapphics, futch pan sapphics, aspec pan sapphics, pan lesbians, mesques, abro pan sapphics, SAM-using pan sapphics, gnc pan sapphics, hairy pan sapphics, pan sapphic sex workers, pan sapphics who are plural, polyamorous pan sapphics, and anyone else who labels themself as a pan sapphic in good faith.

this blog is a safe place for omni sapphics of all kinds. in this house, we support, love, and cherish omni sapphics regardless of pronouns, omni sapphics of color, trans omni sapphics, nonbinary omni sapphics, multigender omni sapphics, omni sapphboys, intersex omni sapphics, fat omni sapphics, butch omni sapphics, femme omni sapphics, futch omni sapphics, aspec omni sapphics, omni lesbians, mesques, abro omni sapphics, SAM-using omni sapphics, gnc omni sapphics, hairy omni sapphics, omni sapphic sex workers, omni sapphics who are plural, polyamorous omni sapphics, and anyone else who labels themself as a omni sapphic in good faith.

this blog is a safe place for poli sapphics of all kinds. in this house, we support, love, and cherish poli sapphics regardless of pronouns, poli sapphics of color, trans poli sapphics, nonbinary poli sapphics, multigender poli sapphics, poli sapphboys, intersex poli sapphics, fat poli sapphics, butch poli sapphics, femme poli sapphics, futch poli sapphics, aspec poli sapphics, poli lesbians, mesques, abro poli sapphics, SAM-using poli sapphics, gnc poli sapphics, hairy poli sapphics, poli sapphic sex workers, poli sapphics who are plural, polyamorous poli sapphics, and anyone else who labels themself as a poli sapphic in good faith.

this blog is a safe place for sapphics of all kinds. in this house, we support, love, and cherish sapphics regardless of pronouns, sapphics of color, trans sapphics, nonbinary sapphics, multigender sapphics, sapphboys, intersex sapphics, fat sapphics, butch sapphics, femme sapphics, futch sapphics, aspec sapphics, mspec sapphics, mono sapphics, SAM-using sapphics, abro sapphics, gnc sapphics, hairy sapphics, sapphic sex workers, sapphics who are plural, and anyone else who labels themself as a sapphic in good faith.

on this blog, we love and support sapphics despite their countless different experiences. we love and support sapphics regardless of their background. we love and support sapphics no matter how simple or complicated their sexuality journey was. we love and support sapphics with or without partners, we love and support married sapphics, we love and support sapphics who want to get married, we love and support sapphics who don't.

we love and support all sapphics who have dated or currently are dating men, we love and support all sapphics who do not want to date men, we love and support all sapphics who have dated men in the past but found that it isn't for them. we love and support sapphics who don't label themselves beyond that, whether it's because sapphic is fulfilling as a label for them, because they haven't figured their sexuality out beyond that yet, or for any other reason.

we love and support questioning sapphics, sapphics who are still on their journey of self-discovery. we love and support sapphics who are still in the closet for any reason. we love and support sapphics all around the world.

this blog will always be a safe place for sapphics of all kinds, no matter what anyone says. because being sapphic is something to be proud of. 💜

[photo id: an icon of a violet flower with five petals. the center is yellow with a pink rim. end id.]

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i love intersex people who are trans men and trans women at the same time. i think more people should love intersex people who are trans men and trans women at the same time.

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i will be hardblocking anyone who posts about eurovision in a positive light. eurovision has continued to include israel despite mass protests, stating that eurovision is a non-political event. they banned russia for the war on ukraine, but they can't ban israel for the genocide on palestine. they have made it very clear that they take online harassment more seriously than genocide.

fuck eurovision, now and forever. and fuck anybody who continues to support them.

[estrogenism]

how are you going to post about the complexity, diversity, and beauty of lesbian history and expression and then be against bi/pan lesbians. like do you actually hear yourself

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i hope all mspec lesbians are having an amazing day/night. you all are so incredible and brave and you deserve the world

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so glad to see that transfem tumblr is as normal about intersex people as always /s

[estrogenism]

Hi, can you explain how you're bi, gay, and a lesbian all at once?

no

[estrogenism]

not to be too political here but my life became significantly less miserable when i stopped wringing my hands about what consenting adults did with eachother no matter, focused my efforts on curating my own space to remove things i'm uncomfortable with instead of harassing ppl, and started worrying more about actual predators