#lord forbid there be a tiny minority space they’re not allowed to be a part of
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Perpetually annoyed by the attitude straight women have about gay men and the gay men who encourage it 😒
#it’s the F*g Hag phenomenon yall#and it’s a sickness#I say this as a gay woman so don’t come for me#they like to latch onto lgbt culture and spaces and make it part of their own personality#because even though they have literally the vast majority of the world as their playground#lord forbid there be a tiny minority space they’re not allowed to be a part of#whether it’s shipping or celebrity stanning or using their irl gay friends as part of their aesthetic#it’s just so ingrained in them#the using gay men as accessories the commodifying the exploiting the leeching the boundary issues the passive homophobia#mind you they all have one of 3 attitudes toward queer women#either they’re grossed out and uncomfortable around us#or they just don’t ever acknowledge us and pretend like we don’t exist#OR they try to add us in there at the last minute to get a few more woke points without ever obsessing over us the way they do queer men#cause we just don’t fit that little slot they’re looking to fill#they’re so fucking obsessed with gay guys it’s not ever funny#but only as long as they gay guys play the role of their token bestie and act femme and like watching stage race with them#because media has taught us that that’s a gay man’s only role#I hate it here#rant over#it’s just… y’all this is EVERYWHERE#it’s so much more common these days than just run of the mill homophobia#(and yes I 100% meant to imply that this weird fetishising thing is ALSO a form of homophobia)#and yes Ik straight men have a toxic ass attitude toward gay women but that’s a whole other post#sigh#gay men#straight women#lgbt#stop fetishizing gay men#gay bestie#lgbt discourse
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