#mlnb post

[stupid-nblm]

even though i’ve looked at him a million times, he gets prettier and prettier each time <3

[muttmedley]

stomach bouncing when you fuck someone is just as hot as tits or ass btw

[prettyboyfairythoughts]

men?!! tummy?!?!?! HAIRY?!?!

this has been a bear appreciation post

[f4gwithf4ngs]

*with the intention of watching all your favorite shows and movies, listening to your favorite music, going to your favorite spots in town, giggling at 3am with you* hey- *slips and falls*

[callistoscollection]

SCENE NEGOTIATION

A scene in basic terms a time where two or more people engage in BDSM and/or power exchange. Sex is optional, but it is a common feature of many BDSM scenes.

BDSM negotiation forms are forms used to negotiate and discuss everything you need to know before a scene, basically an extensive consent exercise.

Consent: What are your limits? What safewords do you use? What words will be ignored if any?

Goals: How do you want to feel? What toys/tools do you want to use, if any? What kinks do you want to incorporate? Will you include sexual contact?

Safety: What barriers will be used for sexual contact, if any? Does any participant have a mental or physical health problem that might affect the scene? What safety equipment may you need? First aid kit? Medications such as asthma inhalers? Safety scissors for rope play? Water for fire/wax play? Etc.

Setting: Where will the scene take place? When will it take place?

Structure: What is your story? What order do you want things to go? How will you incorporate foreplay into it?

Aftercare: What's your aftercare plan?

Of course you don't have to rigidly adhere to the plan. The scene can change or stop at any time you want; this is just a guide.

I've included a negotiation form template and two example negotiation forms for inspiration.

Negotiation Form Template.

Negotiation Form - Example 1.

Negotiation Form - Example 2.

[kalsbrainmush]

Please imagine this w me

You, your partner (in this case my non existent bf or partner or wtv), and your pet(s), on the nice futon yall have, cuddled up while watching stupid romcoms, your favorite snacks and dinner on the coffee table, both of you guys just woke upp from a nap that was mid movie, hair disheveled, eyes a bit puffy and you just know youre at home. You know this is who you wanna spend your life with. You kiss them and they kiss back, and you guys lie there, sleepy headed and in love, you pamper them and they pamper you, getting each other gifts and random hugs from behind and kisses on the cheek and stupid romantic dances in the kitchen when yall get hungry at 2am. The morning coffee you guys share before work, that tenderness, domestic life, but not by force, its just how it came to be, especialy when yall met in eventful parts of your life. This, this is your life.

im not crazy for wanting this right

[mythosmediablog]

[comorbidcuriosity]

I love forehead kisses so much like genuinely 10/10. Obviously kissing on the lips is intimate but the feeling I get when I get kissed on the forehead?? asdfhjdsfakhjlklhjdfs. It just makes me feel so safe and cared for it's the best thing ever.

[stupid-nblm]

watch a storm with the person you’re in love with. play music that reminds you of each other. you can hold each other close when the thunder gets too loud, or the wind gets too scary. listen to each others heartbeats, and talk about everything and anything that comes to your mind. <3

[muttmedley]

"god, do you have any idea how fucking pretty you look like this?" with your cock halfway down their throat and drool dripping from their chin

[fella-lovin-fella]

something about me is im always thinking about my partner. that guy is on my mind all day every day

[transpecter]

when you're fingering them and you can hear how wet their cunt's getting with each stroke >>>>>

(op uses he/him)

[prettyboyprettyeyes]

i have never been loved by a man so gentle and kind and sweet and protective and just… i don’t use the word perfect, but he is perfect for me.

manifesting this for every lgbtq man searching for love who thinks they’ll never find it

[bl00dymlm]

i want a boy i can lay under the stars with. to look up and look for constellations and enjoy the quiet around us

[f4gwithf4ngs]

feeling particularly gay tonight (i keep smiling when i think of him)

[callistoscollection]

DOM DROP

Dom drop is an emotional and physical low a Dom may feel after a BDSM scene. And can bring feelings such as depression, anxiety, or guilt.

Dom drop can come moments to days after a scene. And can last up to weeks at a time if not properly taken care of. Some people experience Dom drop often and some have never experienced it even after years of play.

Dom drop can be caused by:

- Feeling exhausted from all of the physical and/or mental work you put into a scene.

- The drop of adrenaline and dopamine after a scene.

- Disappointment if the scene didn’t go as you’d hoped.

- Doing something at your Submissive's request that conflicts with your morals.

The best way to help with Dom drop is openly communicative with your Sub and make sure that your limits are being addressed and aftercare needs being met.