#needtoletgo

[drmarr]

The same thing that causes you STRESS can be the same thing that allows you to LET GO… Seeing life in black & white… The more we see things as black and white, right and wrong, the more judgmental and opinionated we are. We all know (well, as we get older we tend to find out more 😆) that A LOT of life happens in the grey zone. But at the same time, seeing things in black and white has saved me. It has allowed me to let go of things causing me pain. Namely, in relationships that are no longer working. I remember a relationship I needed to let go of but was having a hard time. When I was justifying and making excuses for the person (even if they were true), I was living in the grey. And in the grey was uncertainty, hope, and a bit of losing myself… The only thing that allowed me to let go of this relationship was seeing it in black and white. Ie: he wants to be with you, or he does not. There is no in between that works for me. And seeing it as black or white allowed me to see no grey… grey wasn’t an option. If it was white and I wanted black, there was NO MORE CONFUSION. It actually made sense! Which made the excuses in the grey completely irrelevant. This is another benefit of understanding how you see your world. You become incredibly aware of how your viewpoint is helping you, or hindering you, and you are able to adjust it accordingly. I’m not usually a “black or white” thinker, yet here we are with another paradox of life… I mean, would this Ellie 🐘 Sunset 🌅 be the same if it were in black and white? ➡️ I don’t think so… #blackandwhite #thepowerofperspective #perception #mindset #mentalwellness #strongmindset #mindsetshift #relationshipcoach #howtoletgo #lettinggo #blackorwhite #rightorwrong #livingingrey #internationallifecoach #needtoletgo #situationship #situationships #walkaway #howtowalkaway #lifeinblackandwhite #judgements #howtojudgeless #breakupcoach #breakingup #breakuprecovery https://www.instagram.com/p/ClRhnAVvA6s/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[jaxxphotographyy]

#others #needtoletgo #jaxxphotographyy #tarot #tarotreading (at Chillicothe, Ohio) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cb825s5Fmk5/?utm_medium=tumblr

[boozer1]

You are my unhealthy desire...

[notmynamelife-blog]

I hold on to the past too much, God dammit.

Anonymous

[neverfreee]

Six years

This is so Fucking hard

[ticklemyelmoo]

When someone keeps proving time after time they don't care about you and don't love you but yet you keep holding on cause your hoping it will change smh need to make a change

[fidelito78]

Sometimes life takes you in a surprising direction #needtoletgo

[becca543]

Sometimes you just need to take a moment a do some reflecting and look inside yourself and make the change you need to make. Take the time to yourself to have those moments is what will keep you sane. Sometimes you just need a beautiful Christmas tree and fireplace to help ☺ #takethosemoments #selfreflect #ineedtodothismore #lookinsideyourself #beenarough2days #takemetime #workonme #keepyousane #needmoremetime #overwhelmed #needtoletgo #timetostartlivinglife #christmastree #fireplace #theclambeforethestorm #takethosetimeoff #dontloseyourself

[meggyhomer]

If you call I'm coming to get you

but you wanna sink so I'm gonna let you

[poeticuma]

4:29am

I literally just sat on the phone with a guy I should hate. For 2 hrs. I do hate him, but I am in fucking love. it just sucks.....

[heavenonice99]

Life is too short to hold on to people who moved on. Pick your fucking chin up off the floor and stop feeling sorry for yourself. They left you. So leave the feelings you had with them.

[kapahoe]

Nothing hurts more..

Then when the person that you love with everything in you, and once told you that they love you and could never live without you, is falling for another girl. It's not fair.

[smileforthewholeworldtosee]

Tinanung niya ako kung galit ako. Pero never nyang titanung kung nasaktan ako. :((

[justanotherfeministlez]

Excuse me. Can I have a new life with an extra side of fun please?

Maybe the biggest reason I hold on to dumb shit is because I'm bored. 

I mean seriously. I don't do shit. I need excitement in my life so of course I'm going to hold on to people and things that really don't do me any good at all.

I'm eager to start a new chapter. I'm looking forward to my trips this summer, but (although I'm nervous and I'm going to miss my family and friends) I'm ready to leave. I need something real to be excited about. I need new experiences- fun experiences. New people in my life and according to my horoscope, a new romance. (HA, good one zodiac)

I just hope going to Reno will give me that.