#not to be ''wow she is LITERALLY me'' about her but the nonbinary lesbian vibes are insane

[weaver-z]

Moral of the story: we need more children's media about girlbeasts who are fucked up and evil (affectionate)

[mediocre-noodle]

OKAY! more characters in this lik series (ive dubbed it ‘something wicked this way comes’ which isnt very original imo but meh. it works)

i tried to be diverse making the OCs’ genders and sexualities instead of making them all aroace

note: sorry this took so long—mom came in around 7:30pm and gave me a talk about how im not prepared for real life and being on my own (yeah i know i get it hh) anyways here they are!!

the resistance

dallas but hes had his cameo. his title is “Striker” and also “Gladiolus”

Alibi - The Jester/“Zinnia”. all pronouns. trans/nonbinary/pangender. panromantic, asexual, pansexual. also AuDHD. very close to dallas— heavily implied to be in a qpr w dallas (theyre just REALLY close friends /gen. and dallas is also quoiromantic under the aromantic spectrum, which doesnt help)

Asmodae - The Sheild/“Cypress”. she/her, cis, lesbian, autism. shes inspired by astrid from HTTYD, with the take no shit vibes and the badass-ery and still being kind. (supposed to be more tan tbh)

Skip - “Clematis”. he/him, cis, bisexual. autistic. older brother figure of the group. not much developed on him.

Juno - The Dahlia/“Dahlia”. they/she/fae. genderfae, idk about romantic/sexual orientation. autistic, adhd, anxiety disorder. has either/both POTS or EDS. uses forearm crutches. also a hella good sniper. (hispanic— one parent is something similar to mexican?? except idk if mexico exists in this world? i havent decided the map yet)

The Family

AKA The Eyes, The Syzygy, The Keepers, etc. context will come in the ask specifically about them!!

dallas! (wow hes so special :0)

Aji (ahgee / ă-jē) - The Apogee. all pronouns. literally agender. panromantic asexual. AuDHD… again (i keep projecting ;-;).

it normally takes the form of a human teenager or child. xey are older than one could imagine, as they were created when the first world came to fruition.

- many actually have a betting pool on how old she is. none of them are winning.

- he is very parental tbh: “no. no, aji. we can’t take in another kid.” “BUT LOOOOKKKKK! THEY WERE ABANDONED AS A SACRIFICE TO THEIR MORTAL GODS— CMONNNNN PLEASEEEE *puppy dog eyes*” “ugh fineeeee”

seraphina! nicknamed sheriff by dallas. she/they. panromanic lesbian. dallas saved them from their universe and now theyre besties and also gossip buddies. shes also very traumatized as well! just not as detailed as dallas. (their backstory has a bit of the source material and inspo for dallas until i changed A LOT)

Mempis. they/she/he/it. agender + pansexual (realizing how common pan is in my ocs…) autism!! literally hot- so pretty oh my god /p

ive read this ask so many times how have i not answered it yet im so sorry dude 😭

anyways I LOVE THEIR DESIGNS!!!!! they all look so cool and chill!!!!!

[theultimatefanficwriter]

Pride Month Headcanons!

So its Pride Month! And as a proud member of the alphabet mafia I wanna give my opinion on all the Danganronpa characters' sexualities! So let's go, starting with THH!

Trigger Happy Havoc

Makoto Naegi- Pansexual. I'm under the belief all protags are Pan. Transgender(ftm). So I have this whole hc that the reason his door was jammed was that the lock was quickly removed when they found out SHE was actually a HE and I just like the hc lol.

Sayaka Maizono- Straight. I just think she has a big thing for Makoto, but other than that she cares for her career more than a relationship.

Leon Kuwata- Bisexual, heavy female leaning. I ship him with Hiro, but honestly this fucker would probably take forever to admit he likes guys.

Chihiro Fukisaki- Gay. Dont really have a reasoning. Just my opinion lol

Mondo Oowada- Bisexual. He mentions trying to confess to girls, but come on. This guy is fruity for Taka.

Kiyotaka Ishimaru- Gay. This dude meanwhile is just straight homo. He's probably closeted in fear it would bring shame to his family name again.

Hifumi Yamada- Straight. I honestly dont think about the guy enough to give this enough thought, but the way he simps over Celeste proves he likes girls at least. Plus he kept calling Alter Ego she, so...yeah.

Celestia Ludenberg- Straight. Honestly I think she'd be homophobic? Idk i really dislike Celeste, sorry 😅 She just gives me those vibes.

Sakura Oogami- Bisexual. I wanna label her as lesbian, but Kenshiro exists 😒 Women leaning possibly

Kyoko Kirigiri- Bisexual. Though i dont personally ship her with any girls, I can see her going both ways.

Byakuya Togami- Gay. And it's a problem with his family, so he's closeted.

Yasuhiro Hagakure- Pansexual. He just wants to love someone, man lmao.

Aoi Asahina- Bisexual. Again, wanna label her as lesbian, but the Bad End exists, showing she willingly got with three guys. And she does ask Makoto to pretend to be her bf. But she leans heavily towards females imo.

Toko Fukawa/Genocide Jill- Bisexual. It was straight until she met Komaru. Then she realized "Oh shit. I'm gay." But she still has a small thing for Byakuya ig 😒

Mukuro Ikusaba- Straight. We pretend the thing with her sister doesnt exist, alright?

Junko Enoshima- Straight. And definitely homophobic.

Wow a lot of bi peeps lol. Alright, onto the next game!

Goodbye Despair

Hajime Hinata- Pansexual. Again all protags are Pan. Fight me, prove me wrong you literally cant.

Ultimate Imposter- Panromantic, Nonbinary, Asexual. Though I call Imposter he a lot, I think it's almost canon they're nonbinary. I just have stupid brain and type he first without thinking. I also dont really have a reason for thinking they're asexual? I just think they are. But they're probably panromantic in order to fit their talent better.

Teruteru Hanamura- Pansexual. He's so painfully pan. He even says his options are, and I quote, "pretty open." Dis bitch gay.

Mahiru Koizumi- Lesbian. Dont think I gotta explain myself.

Peko Pekoyama- Bisexual. She's totally dating Fuyuhiko, but I can see her having small crushes on other girls.

Hiyoko Saionji- Lesbian. Also dont think I need to explain myself.

Ibuki Mioda- Bisexual. RAGING bisexual. Also I can honestly see her being Gender Fluid as well.

Mikan Tsumiki- Bisexual. She honestly needs therapy more than she needs a relationship, and she probably doesnt really understand her own labels completely, but I think shes bi.

Nekomaru Nidai- Bisexual. Homeboy was a little TOO eager to be rubbed down by Teruteru 😏 Just kidding, though I do think Nekomaru is bi. No real reason honestly

Gundham Tanaka- Bisexual. He obviously has a thing for Sonia, and in a perfect world(i.e. my perfect world) he would be holding hands with Kazuichi daily. Speaking of holding hands he basically breaks Hajime's in the FTEs. Gay 🥰

Nagito Komaeda- Gay. He's very obviously gay coded, mostly towards Hajime though I dont personally ship that.

Chiaki Nanami- Pansexual. She loves everyone equally. Honestly she probably doesnt put too much work on her labels and would probably go by any pronouns as well, so maybe Gender Fluid?

Fuyuhiko Kuzuryuu- Bisexual. Like Leon I think it would take him a while to accept he likes guys, and he probably leans towards girls more, but he's definitely fruity lol.

Sonia Nevermind- Pansexual. Our girl fucks. She dont care who, she just FUCKS. 🤣 But seriously, I think she just sees love as love. As she should.

Kazuichi Souda- Gay. Transgender, (ftm). He's so very closeted, so badly even he doesnt recognize it. He probably even has internalized homophobia, probably because of his father. Not sure why I hc him as trans, I just think it fits.

Akane Owari- Straight. She probably doesnt think about it much. All she knows is she likes fighting, meat, and Coach Nekomaru.

Alright and onto the last game!

Killing Harmony

Shuichi Saihara- Pansexual, Transgender(ftm). Its. THE RULE. I didnt make it. Sue me. Also fuck it I dunno I think it fits with his whole character if he were trans. Hard to explain lol

Rantaro Amami- Biromantic, Asexual. I admittedly dont know much about Rantaro, but from what I do know, I think he would fit well with just about anyone. I dont have much of a reason for him being Ace.

Kaede Akamatsu- Pansexual. She was the protagonist first, so the rule still applies lol. But even beyond that it just fits her. Hard to explain, it just seems like it works.

Ryoma Hoshi- Straight, Asexual. I know on my ship list I said I shipped him with Gonta, but theres a reason that ship was so low. I heavily think Ryoma is straight. It's just the vibe I get from him. Maybe hes bi curious, but idk. As for the ace bit, it's really dark. I hc it's because of the trauma he endured during prison.

Kirumi Tojo- Lesbian. Idk I look at her and I think "Lesbian power. Powerful wlw moments." Dont ask me my brain just does things.

Angie Yonaga- Pansexual. She always seemed like she was flirting with Himiko and lowkey Tenko, and in the FTEs she straight up wants to get married to Shuichi so like....I dunno what you want me to say.

Tenko Chabashira- Lesbian. Literally no explanation needed.

Korekiyo Shinguji- Pansexual. Putting aside the....obvious....he finds all of humanity beautiful, so he most likely doesnt have a preference when it comes to choosing a partner. Just like with Mukuro we pretend that entire plotline never happened.

Miu Iruma- Pansexual. I see her as pretty open to everyone....Yeah. That's all I got.

Gonta Gokuharu- Bi-curious. Honestly I dont think Gonta knows what he is himself. He probably hasnt given it too much thought, if hes given it any. The best I can think of is bi-curious, assuming hes currently exploring his sexuality.

Kokichi Ouma- Gay. I dont ship him with anyone cause I personally think he'd be a bad partner to anyone he got with based off of his personality, but yeah. He gay lmao.

Kaito Momota- Pansexual. THE LUMINARY OF THE STARS IS FOR EVERYBODY! Probably took a while for him to admit he wasnt straight, but then he admitted it with his whole heart, precious thing.

Tsumugi Shirogane- Straight. Fuck I dunno I dont think about her in a positive light enough to care. Sorry I really tried 😅

Kiibo- Panromantic, Genderfluid, Asexual. Like Imposter, I've called Kiibo he all the time, including every story I put them in, but technically they have no gender. So that does make them nonbinary, but at the same time it leaves the opportunity for them to go by any pronoun they want, so I hc they go by all of them lol. I also think they just love everyone, and for the ace bit, unfortunately, robots probably dont have dicks 😔 Even if they did, I dont think he would be very interested in sex.

Himiko Yumeno- Lesbian. Despite her treatment of Tenko, her reaction at the end of chapter 3 shows she cared for her, and Angie. She probably loved them both, so, lesbian for sure.

Maki Harukawa- Straight. Kaito was probably her first ever crush, so I doubt she ever had a chance to feel out if she was anything other than straight. Even disregarding that, I dont think she'd be anything else.

Alright and those are my headcanons for all the Danganronpa characters! As a bonus, I think Komaru Naegi is a Lesbian! No real reason other than Tokomaru is top tier lol.

Now remember these are my opinions! If you dont agree that's fine! Just be kind!

And HAPPY PRIDE EVERYONE! 🥰🏳️‍🌈

[dekusbrokenarms]

Class 1-A Gender and Sexuality Journey Headcanons

This is mostly just me really liking messy self discovery because I am a messy bitch.

Kyoka Jirou

First off, Kyoka is a trans girl. She socially transitioned when she was really young and began medically transitioning in high school bc her parents are super supportive and great (we stan a supportive parent)

She first thinks she's bi when she's 14 and comes out as such at 15

She dates Kaminari for a while second year and after they break up she's pretty certain she's a lesbian

After high school, she has a couple years where gender is kinda nebulus. For a while thinks she's a nonbinary lesbian but then decides she's just GNC and punk but definitely full girl

She gets more comfortable in her gender after that, but starts questioning her sexuality again

And ends up back at bisexual, but like not attracted to dudes. Girls and nonbinary people only please

Also she and Momo reconnect in their mid twenties and hit it off and get married

Denki Kaminari

Denki is completely comfortable calling himself straight up until he's 17

But don't get it twisted, he definitely was already acutely aware he was into dudes

Because wow boys are pretty

But he also just kind of ignores it because OMFG GIRLS

But after his other friends start coming out, he gets more comfortable thinking about his sexuality but doesn't bother labelling it

Specifically he doesn't want to label it because he gets comfortable with it after her starts dating Kyoka and doesn't want anyone thinking he's calling himself not-straight for dating her

But a couple months after he breaks up with Kyoka, he starts fooling around with Hitoshi and like really he's at the point of no return so he just slaps the bi label on himself and goes about his day

Towards the end of third year, he starts playing around with GNC and really vibes with the genderqueer label, but still uses he pronouns because he's used to them

He and Hitoshi break up after graduation and Denki really throws himself into exploring his gender and sexuality

And starts using he and they pronouns and typically dresses on the masculine side of androgynous but with lots of cool makeup

He gives polyamory a shot, but he keeps finding himself feeling like he's third wheeling other people's relationships and decides its not for them

In their late twenties, he and Hitoshi hook up at a reunion party and hit it off. They keep things casual for several months before suddenly they decide to move in together and in a blink of an eye, they're in a legit committed relationship without knowing how it got there but it feels right to them.

Eijirou Kirishima

No flavor for this one. He figured out he was gay when he was 12 and it stuck. His moms are lesbians and support him wholeheartedly.

Katsuki Bakugou

I think Bakugou also grew up with queer people in his life so he was never really in the closet

He was pretty certain he was asexual and aromantic until Kirishima weedled his way into his heart

At 17, he decides that he's probably demi-pansexual and demiromantic but that feels like too much so he just says queer.

This boy knows all the words though. Keeps very up to date with the local and global state of queer communities but doesn't talk about it unless prompted or provoked

At first he was very private about his relationship with Kirishima because it was no one's fucking business but after seeing the rampant homophobia in the hero business, he became very loud and very proud of his boyfriend very fast

Eijirou and Katsuki probably got married at, like, 21 and did not give one shit when people pointed out they were young. And they're together for the rest of their lives so those fuckers can suck it

Mina Ashido

Mina is your classic bisexual disaster and spends her teens and early twenties going between calling herself straight, bi, and a lebsian depending on who she's currently into because this bitch has zero object permanence

She chills out in her twenties though and is comfortable calling herself bisexual at long last

Hanta Sero

Sero is pretty comfortable being straight right up until all his friends come out

He spends a couple months questioning his sexuality before knowing for certain he's straight

But he's that one straight dude that always ends up dating bi and pan girls by complete happenstance

Hitoshi Shinsou

He really does not know what his sexuality is

Sometimes its yes

Sometimes its no

He says queer because he can't be assed to look into any of the microlabels

He just knows he's not straight and that's good enough for him

Momo Yaoyorozu

This girl is a lesbian but trying to convince herself of that was A PROCESS

She denies it for years and years

Its not until after graduation she thinks, but doesn't dare say, she's bi because she tells herself she's "mostly into guys anyway" so "it doesn't really count"

Slowly her percentage shifts away from guys and to girls

She's 23 before she accepts she's a lesbian

But she doesn't come out until she's 28 because she's scared since her parents expect her to end up with a man

Ochako Uraraka

This girl is mostly into guys. Like she's pretty sure she's straight because all the crushes she had so far have been on boys

When she's 18, she starts to suspect she might like girls too but is really too shy to explore that feeling at first

But when she does? Oh boy she will not stop talking about how wonderful and perfect girls are and how unfortunate her attraction to men is because she feels insecure in her validity as a bisexual woman with a preference for men

Tsuyu Asui

Tsuyu has known she's a lesbian since she was 15 and was very comfortable with that

She questioned if she might be bi a time or two but always came back to being gay

She does realize she's an ace lesbian at 18 though but she's also okay with that

Her goals in life are to own a house by a lake with a beautiful wife

Tenya Iida

Tenya is pansexual

Literally he just cannot see why gender would be a factor in choosing a potential partner

He never came out because he was 20 before he realized that this was not the default state and others weren't just being picky by having a different sexuality

And by then, every knew because he made no attempts to hide his partners

He was really stressed at first about it, and asked Tensei why no one ever told him he should be more careful with publicly showing his sexuality but Tensei was just like "we just thought you knew what you were doing, dude. And it looks like it worked out"

Izuku Midoroya

Again, Izuku is too swept up in "nghh girls pretty" to think too much about his sexuality when he's younger

When he gets a crush on Shouto, he doesn't recognize it as a crush at first because it felt so natural and comfortable and he was used to being uncomfortable around people he liked

So he has a crush on Shouto for years before it hits him: Oh I'm not straight

He stays in that nebulous not-straight state for months because he does not have time to deal with that

But once he stops procrastinating his sexuality, he cannot decide if he's bisexual or pansexual or polysexual and he gets super wrapped up in researching microlabels and its super overwhelming

He even questions his gender for a little bit but settles on he's a cis man pretty quickly

He does eventually start dating Shouto and just calls himself gay for a while because it's easier than trying to piece together ten microlabels like he's tempted to do

However after Shouto begins exploring his gender identity, Izuku gets more comfortable just calling himself pan because he realizes that gender never really played a part in who he likes.

Shouto Todoroki

He came out as gay at 14 to piss off his father depsite the fact he didn't actually have any feelings about his sexuality at the time

No he decided he didn't care what his sexuality was. He was gonna be gay.

And he forgot he did that until he was 17 and was like, oh- I should probably figure out my actual sexuality, after being questioned due to his close relationship with Izuku

So he thought about it for about 15 seconds to say, well, I do like Izuku so I'll just be actually gay now

That stuck until after graduation and into his twenties when he started questioning his gender

He figured out he wasn't particularly attached to masculinity or femininity and found comfort in the agender label

They started using gender neutral pronouns and grew their hair out long but that's really all that changed

They came back to their sexuality after that and decided it was just "men"

Izuku tried to be helpful and offered terms like androsexual, but Shouto didn't find them very useful so they like to tell people their gender is no and their sexuality is dude

It gets the point across

Yuga Aoyoma

Okay, so we all know he’s gay

But despite how flamboyant he is, this boy is a closet case

He definitely had a crush on Izuku first year, but he couldn’t handle that yet so he definitely lived vicariously through Ochako’s crush on him

I don’t think he came out until after high school

And zero people were surprised

He probably does drag too

And he’d look fabulous doing so

Kouji Koda

I think Kouji is ace 

I don’t think this is a word he had for himself until he was in his mid twenties

He just assumed he was a late bloomer and he’d been told he just had a low self esteem

But he finds the ace community and suddenly everything makes sense and he feels comfortable in his own skin

Once that falls into place, he discovers he’s also aromantic

He ends up having a platonic life partner and they have lots of pets and plants together

Fumikage Tokoyami

Fumikage figured out he’s bisexual when interning under Hawks. Like fuck, he had the most embarrassing crush on this guy who’s aesthetic is so embarrassing

I don’t think he had much trouble accepting that he’s attracted to guys though

Like a demon lives in his head

He’s mostly suffering because he has a crush on his cheerful, friendly mentor

Dark Shadow is very happy about this development because it’s a chance to embarrass him and make him uncomfortable

Fumikage gets renewed interest in being able to control Dark Shadow to shut his whore mouth

Unfortunately Dark Shadows outs him to his mentor

Fortunately Hawks is really cool about it and tells DS to have some chill and doesn’t give Fumikage a hard time about it, but Fumikage doesn’t get invited back for another internship with him and finds himself assigned to do work with sidekicks afterwards

Mezou Shouji

Mezou doesn’t fuck with gender

It’s not that he necessarily feels disconnected from his masculinity but rather that he just feels like gender is archaic and useless

So he’s pan and bigender (male and agender)

Definitely would make jokes about be attracted to frying pans and this is how he comes out to Fumikage in their third year. 

Rikidou Sato

Rikidou doesn’t really date in high school

Soon after graduation he ends up in a relationship with a girl that lasts five years before he realizes he’s gay

One time someone tells him he should have known sooner since he likes baking so much and he punches them in the face (I like to imagine this person was Mineta for face punching purposes)

He ends up good pals with the woman he was dating and she’s his maid of honor at his wedding :’)

Tooru Hagakure, and Mashirao Ojiro

I’m sorry if one of them is your fave. They’re both straight and cis and have never questioned it even once. 

[gerrydelano]

I'm also Grey's trash and not to be controversial but Cristina should've been bi/pan, nonbinary, and should've been allowed to romance Teddy Altman with how HARD Cristina went for her. || A TMA Au where Meredith is an avatar of the lonely/end-touched and we know this bc the archivist kept finding statements about a messy blonde who uses her loneliness to hook up with every basic bland white dude character in the hospital she works at and everyone who works at that hospital ends up dying. Derek is spiral-toucjed because THE LIES THAT HE TELLS, THE MANIPULATION, HOW HES SOMEHOW STILL MCDREAMY AFTER ALL HIS BULLSHIT?! Spiral, maybe tinged with Deso.

you’ve unlocked the special interest i’m going to ramble under a cut now

AAAAAAAA

cristina gives off MASSIVE lesbian vibes to me personally, but regardless, she DEFINITELY loves women or could if they’d let her! it’s as clear as her Really Obvious Autism, i s2g. every relationship she has with men is Horrible! owen DIE challenge i fucking HATE owen. it’s so painful to watch, they treat her so badly and i’m like ma’am you could have been with teddy... it could have been okay... i honestly was so into that ages ago and life woulda been better if they’d just done that instead of what they’re doing with teddy Now because YIKES

like i kind of rly hate the way they revealed her bisexuality as like. the reason she’s a serial cheater like it really sucks to see what she became now suddenly coming Back to her being sapphic like oh no come on i didn’t want it to be like This!

also FUUUUCK. lonely/end meredith... i can’t do this you’re RIGHT even her limbo is an empty beach she can’t run on, me and ren LITERALLY said it was like a lonely/spiral domain when she couldn’t run towards derek so SPIRAL DEREK IS KILLING ME LMAO. 

honestly, he did some Crap for Sure, but everyone kind of did, given that it’s a medical drama meant to be endlessly convoluted, and like. personally i miss him, he defended meredith so hard when a lot of other people didn’t and he loved her so much. Definitely hated his everything with addison + hated the whole “temptation” subplots they gave him they were Stupid and Bad but like. when it came down to it, he did his best i think. though FUCK that last lady before his death OOGH i’m still PISSED about her too lmao!!!!

basically your brain is HUGE i’m gonna be thinking about lonely/end meredith until i DIE because boy howdy that shit hurts actually! g-d she has SO much about drowning and water and everything, too, like. g-d.

okay meredith big borderline also js. also bisexual. she’s so bisexual. remember when she and derek and callie were coparenting for a little and got into that little routine and she and callie kissed each other bye before work that was so fucking cute jVHBKN.

g-d. 

g-d yeah wow okay fuckign. lonely/end meredith i’m???? i’m having a stroke i’m just thinking about the bomb in the body cavity and the shooter in the OR and the lengths she goes and how little she valued her own life before other people really depended on her to stay alive and now she’s so tempted to stay on her beach and just be finished but she can’t oh i’m so fuckign sad jgvhbkjn i’m SO fucking sad!!!! fuck. i love her so much jvhbkn

i should also out myself and say i’ve made the gerry = meredith connection ages ago and that should say a lot about where my heart lies

[ridasverkisto]

"I’ll also shamelessly admit that a good portion of this is also fueled by my personal head canons of William being a trans guy, Dorothy being feminine presenting nb, and Rhya just straight up being pan" — wow. Mind if you talk more about your other head canons regarding gender and sexual attraction for other characters mainly the captains and black bulls? 👀

Whoo boy this is a can of worms! Mainly because I...tend to approach sexuality/gender headcanons with the mindset of “everyone is queer until explicitly stated otherwise,” so. Yeah. Also, if I don’t mention someone it’s not a “I think they’re straight” and more of a “I don’t really know them well enough to have a headcanon” or a “they have Queer Vibes but I can’t put words on it right now”

With that being said, let’s get started. (And as per usual, if this needs a page break someone just lmk)

So for the Black Bulls! First off, Finral and Vanessa are both gigantic bi disasters, I’m sorry, I don’t make the rules. I’m also fairly certain that Grey is some flavor of nonbinary--maybe agender, but it honestly depends on how I want to interpret it that particular day. Also I just really love the idea of Grey being gray-ace and biromantic, because hell yes puns!!

Luck and Magna...I’m not really certain whether I’d call them gay or pan, because I honestly just see them as dumbass-sexual for each other. Like--there’s no one else for them at this point. If you ask them what they find attractive it’s basically just a list of the other’s traits, and Vanessa constantly teases them about it. Again, I don’t make the rules, sorry.

I’m pretty firmly in the camp of Gauche being demisexual and demiromantic, just because...I can’t really see him being anything else. This guy is absolutely demi across the board. 

Perhaps an unpopular opinion, but I also headcanon Yami as some flavor of aromantic. This is a bit complicated in my reasoning, so I’ll just leave it at he shows absolutely no romantic interest in anyone and also just let me have the Tired Exasperated Dad(TM) of the Black Bulls share one of my orientations, thanks!!

Since we just talked about Yami, let’s talk about the rest of the captains! Some of them I’ve already talked about previously--like William being a trans guy (and I also see him as demi), and Dorothy being feminine presenting nonbinary, so let’s talk about the others.

Rill, for my money, is absolutely ace and panromantic. His type is just. pretty people. Guy, girl, nonbinary, it doesn’t really register to him beyond “oh they’re really pretty!!! I want to paint that--ooooh, can I get them to model for me---?” I can actually see him being a bit horrified at the other Captains teasing him later about his crushes, because it just genuinely never occurred to him that sexual attraction was a thing outside of books. (And yes, I do speak from experience here, as an ace myself).

Honestly, if it weren’t for her crush on Yami, I would have pegged Charlotte for absolutely being lesbian. She just...has that Vibe. With that being said, given her crush on Yami, I say bi, but with like. Yami being the only guy she’s ever really had a crush on. It’s very frustrating because she really does strike me as a sword lesbian, but I also think her crush on Yami is at least somewhat reasonable and has potential for character development. Sigh. 

....I just had the realization that Charlotte would also probably make a very good subject for an animatic of Little Miss Perfect (this song), which is literally about a girl coming to terms with the fact that she’s a lesbian. Hhhhhhhh, fuck, now I have Ideas. Damn you brain! *shakes fist*

This next one isn’t so much a gender/sexuality headcanon so much as it has that implied, but I adamantly headcanon it because it’s funny as hell. And that is that Nozel, at the very least when they were younger, had the biggest, ugliest crush on Fuegoleon. It was probably unrequited, not that Nozel ever brought it up, because Nozel would’ve been absolutely furious at himself for having a crush on Fuegoleon for three reasons. First: he’s a Vermillion and Nozel is a Silva, enough said. Second, Fuegoleon is his rival for becoming Wizard King, goddamnit!!! And third, he’s crushing on a dork who fixated on how to perfectly cook eggs with his magic. (And he probably, to this day, still secretly finds that both offensive and adorable)

I don’t really have any more for the Captains, so now a brief summary of some other characters that I have very firm headcanons about:

Marx is aroace, Rhya is pan (and his type is canonically people who can kick his ass), Letoile is aro (and some flavor of nb, not sure what), Sol is absolutely lesbian, David is bi, Fragil is a trans woman and very gay, and Vanica is aroallo. I also get strong Vibes from Yuno, but I’m not sure whether they’re gay, ace, or nonbinary vibes or a combo of all three.

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I'm sorry if this isn't the normal asks you get but how did you discover your sexuality and gender? my parents don't support LGBTQ+ so I can't talk to them about it

I’m so sorry if you’ve been waiting awhile!! Our internet was out most of today!! I think it’s okay now though!

Anyway, firstly, anon you can always dm me if you need to talk to someone 💜

Okay...um...well.

Sexuality; I’ve always??? Found girls??? Super pretty??? Like growing up I always just “*choose the girls* ew the boys ugly >:(((” when I played games with my brother griuofdsdjks yah I was childish. I was just??? Never really attracted to guys???

It took me awhile too to figure out my sexuality cuz until I was 14 I didn’t even know wtf the lgbt was??? I had a few boyfriends but I always felt bad when we broke up because I was never sad about it??? I didn’t even put effort into the relationships. So when I was 14 I was like “ok maybe I am bisexual”

time skip to me at age 18 saying “yeah fuck it I literally am not attracted to men” because I CANNOT see myself with a man in the future. I just,,, can’t. Everytime I imagined married life, I imagined myself with a woman.

ALSO for the demisexual bit..? That’s just something I realized after dating a few girls, that I have absolutely no sexual attraction or urges whatsoever until we were super deep into our relationship ! I do feel things but only after I care them much...other than that, no. I really don’t care/am pretty disgusted by sexual things.

Gender; This one is abit more complicated??? At least to me it is. I started hearing the term cis when I was about 17 and it always made me uncomfortable, especially when people suited me solely into a girly category, called me a girl, called me cis.

But like, hell I wasn’t sure if I was just being one of those overly sensitive cis people who bitch over the term (”what happened to STRAIGHT?” yanno the ones) and I was fine with people referring to me as she/her, so like??? Surely I was just being dumb???

But then a few months ago I finally talked to my friend about it and he was like “wow you’re not cis” gewhdjfils and I tried the nonbinary label with they/them pronouns

I liked it. Allot. Actually when I told my friends to try out they/them for me they were like “LISIAN IS MY FRIEND THEY’RE SO COOL” just as little examples for me to test how I like it, and wow I vibed hard

I still go *vibrate vroom vroom* when I see people use they/them for me (I’m neutral with she/her, it doesn’t bother me, I just prefer they/them)

Sometimes I’m still questioning if I’m a valid enby though since there’s times where I go “*put sparkly colored bobby pins in hair* *wears pink dress* *does makeup*” and I’m like huh am I just a girly cis

But I think that’s normal..? Iunno

anyway

TLDR; Just think it over, take your time figuring yourself out!! Experiment around a little!! And if you wanna try something new but no one you know is willing to experiment with you, then turn to the internet. Make some posts, maybe???

Just,,, if you think you’re faking it, you’re likely not.

I’m 22 and I only barely found out I’m enby, and I was only 18 when I found out/accepted I was a lesbian. So don’t push yourself and think you HAVE to know who and what you are !! 💜💜

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i was supposed to be laying in bed but i forgot my tumblr password so i had to come sit in this cold uncomfortable computer chair to log into tumblr and see if i can remember what it is but i decided its night and i hada thought earlier and its quite a thought so im gonn a telly ou about it so story time!

i identify as nonbinary and will take any pronouns, but i am uncomfortable being shoved into the category of female; i was a huge tomboy from about fourth to sixth grade and then i tried to push femininity onto myself in seventh grade and stuff but whatevER THAT DOESNT MAYYER HERE@! the beginning of this school year i was home schooled so i was like yoo this is nice i dont have to like... be anxious in a social space AND explain that gender binaries aren’t for everyone! but alas i was kicked out of homeschooling because I’m A Lazy Shit. anyways i was put into the closest public school (which was an ok experience nothing rly special but not bad) and was like crap ok i should be fine right? i mean. i was mostly fine. but there was this girl i used to know from like years before, she just sorta disappeared one day and whoomp here she is again!

im gonna call this girl hanna bc i didnt know of any people there named hanna. so basically i was like yo hanna didnt we like.. know each other before and she was like holy crap is that you? you look so... different?? and i was like uh yeah and she was like wow ok so yeah school was chill. this boy one day came up to me during third period and introduced himself and i introduced myself and all that stuff and we like hit it off and i was like omg i get queer vibes and theyre cute? pls tell me im right and during lunch that day i cracked a gay joke and BAM that sets it in stone we are friends and we are gay and wowowow this is great! i later learn that he is out to a number of people in the school as trans and stuff and so people learn that im hanging out with this “girlboy” (i got mad every time someone said something like that abt him and still do bc i love this boy a lot ok?) and were like omg you’re (his birthname’s) friend! wow that’s so cool and stuff but then he had to leave after like two weeks bc he was going to another school and then i was alone again but yeah, school went on, i spent most of my time alone, reading in the library bc i had no friends, nor did i wish to make any friends because i had barely gotten into this school and all the friend groups and cliques seemed to be established but every once in a while the library helpers, including hanna, included me in their activities and then things got uncomfortable

once i was walking out of the locker room and there was this group of girls, including hanna, who were just talking, then as i passed by them they were like hey you! are you a girl? and then someone else came in and was like why are you asking that?! that’s rude and then hanna came in and said obviously she’s a girl, she has boobs. yeah that wasn’t cool.

anyways ever since then, i felt really uncomfortable around hanna for obvious reasons! and after realizing i never responded to the person asking if i were a girl, it was almost like she was trying to figure me out! there were a few rumors of me being a lesbian going around the little social circles in the classes i had and like i didn’t care but things just felt really off

basically she kept making small comments abt how im a girl and there were other girls who were telling me i would look so much prettier with long hair (more on that later) and then one day, one dysphoric day, i almost cried in the locker room.

i was later than usual to last period because i had to finish up a test for sixth period, so i changed out and stuff when most of the girls were out of the locker room. however, as i was walking out to get to roll call, Hanna randomly tapped my shoulder and looked at me straight in the eyes. She was blank faced but her eyes glinted with something, like she had accomplished something. She stated, her voice low but her tone clear, “I caught you. You’re a girl.” Ever since then, I had massive anxiety whenever changing out because our lockers were practically next to each other and I always felt watched. It was horrible, and ever since then, I try my best to just avoid “public private” areas. I literally felt like throwing up and crying that moment and for the rest of the week.