#oing oing pong

[sirbird]

Chapter 15 has had me in a chokehold for a while 🧍‍♂️

[brazaesthetic]

Ping Pong ‘O Rei Leão’ (1994)

[grendelsmilf]

im a really good girlfriend. unless being emotionally available is something you like in a woman

[keeps-ache]

ggoyrghhh

[patches-and-her-selfships]

ask game time, send me a 🤝 and i’ll tell you which one of your f/os i’d be besties with (remember reblog karma)

[everyyoomia]

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[dlstmxkakwldrlarchive]

(230322) KEU CREW PING PONG EP. 38

O: Can I call you 'hyung'?

KY: Okay, you're 89-line right?

O: Then I'm going to call you 'uncle'-

KY: ...what did you say?

O: I said, 'hyung'

trans

[silverselfshippingchaos]

HIS SMILE...

[when-is-tuesday]

so my cousins are in town for a bit and me and my cousin decided to play stupid ping pong. (stupid ping pong is when you use a yoga ball and your arms). anyway It was silent so I just went "murder", so we talked about murder for a while and we were laughing, as you do when you talk about murder, and I said "i'm bad at throwing when i'm laughing. especially knives." and we laughed really hard and she was about to pee her pants from laughing and she went to the bathroom and when she came out we continued out murder bit. she was a masseuse who massaged her victims then swung them around and threw them in the river. I worked at a knife throwing place (idk) and threw knives at my victims then framed my boss.

also we did funeral improve where one person was dead and the alive one had to make the dead person laugh.

this is what we find funny. death.

[oldsamarie]

∞ Hiiii nik

mietTE MIETTTEE ARGHEHFFFHH I MISSED YOU have a song

ping pong - hyuna&dawn

[three-moving]

i think, aside from alphadad, jaiden is the fan favourite here

[powdermelonkeg]

Important rules/tips I've learned as an adult that helped with anxiety

If people are mad at you, it's their responsibility to tell you, not your responsibility to guess

If they're mad at you in secret anyways, they're the ones in the wrong, not you

If people don't like what you're doing, it's their responsibility to tell you

If they say it's fine when it's really not, they're the ones in the wrong, not you

People are allowed to be wrong about you

If they are wrong about you, wait for them to bring it up, because if you try to, you will inevitably overcorrect

Some people are committed to misunderstanding you. You will not win arguments against them. Yes, even if you explain your point of view. They do not care. Drop it

The worst thing that will happen from a first-time offense is being told not to do it again. Maybe with a replacement if you broke something

You can improve relationships and gauge willingness to talk to you by giving compliments. It's like a daily log-in bonus and nobody thinks twice about it

Most things are better after you sleep on them

Most things are better after you have a meal

Most things are better after you shower

Your brain makes up consequences that are irrational. If the worst DOES come to pass and someone acts like they do in your head, they are overreacting, and you are entitled to say "what the fuck"

If your chest hurts after you feel like you've made a social error, that's called rejection-sensitive dysphoria. It means your anxiety is so bad that it's causing you physical pain, which is a good indicator that you're overreacting. Tense yourself, hold it for 20 seconds, let it go, then find a distraction

If you're suddenly angry at someone after you feel like you made a social error, that's also rejection-sensitive dysphoria. You are going to feel annoyed about it for awhile, but being genuinely pissed off is your anxiety trying to find something to blame to take the responsibility off your shoulders, and getting scared because it can't justify itself. Deep breaths, ask yourself how much you ACTUALLY want to be angry at that person, then find a distraction

"Sour grapes" is more healthy for you than stewing. Deciding you don't like someone who's perpetually annoyed with you, won't talk to you, etc. makes letting go of anxiety over them easier

If people don't like you, they will find reasons to be annoyed with you when they otherwise wouldn't. If people do like you, they will find reasons NOT to be annoyed with you when they otherwise would. People do not ping-pong between the two

You DO have to make a conscious choice not to think about something. If you're having trouble circling back to it, say out loud that you're done thinking about it and why. Then find a distraction

When you're upset, part of you is going to want to make false bids for attention (suddenly texting differently, heavy sighs, etc. but when someone asks you about it, you tell them it's nothing). Do not listen to it. You gain nothing from it except more misery

People like to help people they care about. It makes them feel good about themselves

If you think you're insufferable for needing help, see above. Yes, really. They get a serotonin kick from it

If you think you're insufferable for mannerisms you have, you either have to consciously choose not to do them, or accept that they're part of the package that comes with you. Being apologetic about existing does nothing except make you more miserable

If you do things you don't like when you feel meh about it, it makes it easier to do them when you hate it

If you avoid things you don't like when you feel meh about it, it reinforces and magnifies how bad it feels when you hate it

Seriously. Read those last two points again. If you can make yourself make a phone call when you've got nothing to lose, you will slowly lose that panic you get when you have to make a phone call you haven't prepared for. You do have to CONSCIOUSLY take that step

Hobbies that make you care for something get rid of that nagging feeling that you're not doing enough. Go grow some rosemary

If you don't engage with your hobbies regularly, you will feel miserable, and anxiety will spike

Hobbies are things that give you a bit of happiness. They do not have to be organized or named to do that. Go be creative in something. Play with coins. Make up lists. Start a new WIP

No one cares what you look like

If people point out things they don't like about how you look unprompted, they are being rude. You are entitled to say "what the fuck"

People who like you will find you pretty to some degree. Minor things about your appearance go completely unnoticed. Literally, scars and dots and blemishes do not register to someone who likes your company

You looking at yourself in the mirror is 10x more closely than anyone is going to look at you

If you're anxious about your body type, and you're creatively inclined, make/write an oc with that same shape. Give them nice things and make other characters love them. Put them on adventures. You'll start to see yourself in the mirror more kindly

You care about wording and perfect lines/colors way more than anyone who views your work ever will

Sometimes when you're upset, you're going to feel like not eating. Do not do that. Not eating makes you more miserable

Same with things you normally enjoy. Denying yourself helps no one. You are punishing yourself for being sad. Stop it

Both of these will take conscious decision to break the habit of. Make yourself do it anyways, and it will slowly get easier

And again, to reiterate: If someone is mad at you, it is THEIR responsibility to tell you, not your responsibility to guess

[etoile-gracieuse]

i had a Ruff Day so i am going to think abt my self indulgent 'american women's soccer player is jamie's half sister from a one night stand no wants to think about. chaos ensues' au

[heliopixels]

I don't make blueprints I THINK with my CENTRAL PROCESSING UNIT

[patches-and-her-selfships]

🌹romantic s/i ask game🌹 (from your f/o’s pov)

there’s all kinds of ask games for you and your s/i(s), but i’d like to shake it up a little! you can answer these asks from your f/o’s perspective! and the best part is, they’re themed around romance, just to make it extra special ;)

also, remember to practice reblog karma! send an ask to the person you reblogged this from and whoever sends you an ask!

love letters 💌: do you and s/i ever write poetry or love letters to each other? if so, what do you like to write about?

saxophone 🎷: what kind of music do you and s/i like listening to? have you ever listened to their favorite songs/genres or vice versa?

wine 🍷: what kinds of dates do you love going on with s/i?

cologne 🪒: what does s/i smell like? do they smell like their usual body wash/cologne, or maybe something different?

honey 🍯: what are some endearing pet names that s/i likes to call you? what are some that you like to call them?

chocolate 🍫: what thing about s/i are you absolutely crazy about?

cupid’s arrow 💘: what made you fall for s/i?

lipstick 💄: where is your favorite place to kiss s/i?

cherry blossom 🌸: what’s one memory with s/i that you never want to forget?

high heel 👠: what’s one date with s/i that you remember most vividly? was it good or bad?

handbag 👛: how do you like to hold s/i?

rose 🌹: who usually takes the initiative in your relationship, you or s/i?

blush 😳: how does s/i like to fluster you?

wedding ring 💍: if you and s/i ever wanted to get married, what would your dream wedding be like? if you’re already married, what was your wedding like?

passion ❤️‍🔥: when was a time that s/i defended you?

teddy bear🧸: when was a time you had a moment of vulnerability with s/i?

heart ❤️: what’s your love language with s/i?

bouquet 💐: how did your love confession to s/i go? if s/i confessed first, how did it feel when they said that they loved you for the first time?

sunset 🌄: when did you fall in love with s/i? was it during something small, or in an important moment that made you realize just how much they mean to you?

[diteach]

At a party where I'm incredibly engaging in a conversation that lasts 3 minutes until I have to go sit in the dark next to the old fat dog that's peacefully snoring