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[purplehairedshinigami]

Symbols for the genogram

[weirdiswhatyoucallnormal]

MMK! JUST WATCH THE VIDEO! :)))

ENJOY!!!

[smbmperdev]

[itsmejasonibay-blog]

My dream girl...

            My dream girl is kinda bit shy because I'm also a shy person. Also she's into basketball so we can relate each other but not necessarily. I like a girl with a beautiful smile and do fun things but also down to just have nights in with lots of cuddling. I also like a girl with great sense of humor, honest and trustworthy. And also let me do my hobbies and doesn't get pissed. A girl who encourages me to become better person everyday. Believes in me and understands that sometimes I'll have crazy ideas and work until I achieve them. But right now there's a girl who is making me smile everyday. I can say that she is not my dream girl that I was trying to describe but she's a one of a kind and she’s my kind of love that I want to. The one thing that I mostly like about her is her attractive smile and she’s funny. I couldn't resist to stare at her. I'm very obsessed to her hahaha.

[airakng]

My Kind of Love

My kind of love? I never really thought about it. I don’t know. But I do know that I crave him. Every. Single. Day. Not crave him in a sexual way. His lips pressed to my neck. His body against mine. Our legs intertwined. No, no. I crave him in a deeper sense. I crave him in an innocent form. I crave his goodnight’s and his forehead kisses. I crave him say he adores me when I feel at my worst and I crave him in ways where I just want to be next to him and nothing more or less. I crave him. I crave him constantly, so deeply it became a physical ache. I wish I could explain his eyes, and how the sound of his voice gives me butterflies and every time he smiles my heart skips a beat and every time I’m with him, I feel complete. Tell me what kind of love this is cause I don’t know. The way I felt when he held my hand for the very first time, like fire within my bones, like my soul has returned to the water, like every part of me that came from a dead star is alive again. Oh God. I could move mountains with what I feel for him. He’s a risk, a mystery, and the most certain thing I’ve ever known. His laughter warmed me in a way a blanket couldn’t and I swear, his arms felt like home. My mother once told me I deserve something I don’t need to question and someone who is sure about me. But goddamnit, how would I know he’s so sure about me? Cause deep down I know that I’m sure about him. Of all the love I felt. I choose his. And I’ll choose his love over and over. Without a pause. Without a doubt. Without a heartbeat... I remember how he traces the lines in my hands just to feel close to me and told me he believes the ocean is trapped in my eyes. I remember how he told me he admires the skin that I live in and loves every single bone in my body.. And you know what? In that actual moment I felt relieved. I felt relieved that someone might actually accept me. He helped me see the beauty he sees in me. He helped me love myself. This kind of love, it’s driving me insane. I have completely fallen for him. Everything he does.. Everything he says.. Everything he is. He’s my first thought in the morning, my last thought before I fall asleep and shit he’s almost every thought in between. I think I’m finally getting it.. I think I finally know what kind of love this is.. I think.. He’s my kind of love.

[miiilimetersaway-blog]

This is a COLLABORATION GIFS with Ashley Mejias, Nicole Kirstine Bayron, Sergs Justine Balanay, Sarah Desquitado and Jana Calit and etc.

there are hundreds of ways to cope up with stress

We should get enough sleep

Think positive

Travel

EAT

Be with great company

Do what you love

In this GIFS, these are one of the techniques to cope up or manage stress. 

Ideas are coming from the survivors of stress. 

[autumnrho-blog]

What makes a good leader?

A leader is someone who tells the subjects and leads them to what is good for the betterment of all. 

A leader is someone with intimate knowledge. This means, that he knows his strengths and weaknesses as a person and he knows that he is not perfect and right at all times.

A leader is someone who is effective. He/she is organized and knows when to get things done.  He/she know how to generate energy for projects, to calm oneself when angered. You can make decisions quickly when necessary.

A leader is someone who knows their goals. Someone whose mind is easily made up.

A leader is someone who is emotionally stable. Someone who can control himself and be patient with the people around him.

A leader is someone who is socially aware. He/she knows when an individual is having a hard time and be completely okay with it.

Being a leader takes a lot of responsibility, but when you’re a leader you actually just serve with the other people as well. The only difference is that you’re in charge to keep everyone else stay in track.

[micadalin7-blog]

IT'S HARD TO DEPICT WHAT IS THE INTERCONNECTION BETWEEN THE PHOTO AND WHAT I AM SUPPOSE TO DISCUSS HERE. WELL, WHAT IS EMOTIONAL MANAGAMENT? EMOTIONAL MANAGEMENT IS MAINTAINING A POISE EVEN ALL THEM BAD VIDES ARE SUFFOCATING YOU - A MANNER OF WEIGHING ALL THE FEELS. AS SUCH, I HAVE BEEN TAKEN AWAY FROM MY FIRST LOVE FOR 2 QUARTERS OF 2016. JANUARY WAS THE LAST TIME I FELT THE GRASS ON MY FEET, THE SUN'S SCORCHING HEAT ON MY SKIN AND THE SMELL OF TRIUMPH AFTER A DAY'S HARD WORK. COMMONLY, PEOPLE SAY THAT WE MUST REMAIN CALM DESPITE ALL CONTROVERSIES YET I FIRMLY DEVIATE ON THAT NOTION; IF ALL THESE ASPECTS ARE MAKING YOU SEEK GO BACK WHERE YOU FEEL HAPPINESS. YOU NEED NOT TO CONFORM WITH ALL THESE SOCIETAL NORMS, PLEASURE YOURSELF. CHEER YOUR MATES IN THEIR GAMES, GET SOME SHORT TALK WITH YOUR COACH, HAVE SOME ME TIME AND AT LEAST PUT YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE THESE PRESSURES AND RESPONSIBILITIES. NO ONE EVEN TOLD YOU THAT YOU AREN'T ALLOWED TO CHILL. AND FOR EVERYONE'S INFORMATION, CHILL DOES NOT ALWAYS DEFINE AS DRINKING DEM ALCOHOL WITH BITCHES IN YOUR SIDES, CHILL CAN BE DEFINED TO AS BEING FREE FROM REALITY WHILE YOU ARE IN YOUR WORLD, YOUR HAVEN, YOUR SANCTUARY. SO I'VE PERCEIVED THAT, THERE ARE NO SUCH THINGS TO BE ACQUIRED IN HANDLING ALL OF YOUR EMOTIONS BECAUSE WE HAVE OUR OWN WAYS ON HOW TO AND I CHOSE IT TO BE AT THE FOOTBALL FIELD.

[weirdiswhatyoucallnormal]

watch the video! no description/s needed!

[smbmperdev]

‘’THIS WORKS FOR ME TOO!’’

[terridestura-personaldevelo-blog]

Dear Ate Terri

Dear Ate Terri,

    For the past few months, I have been experiencing too much hardships and struggles. Everybody seems to see me as a person who is always happy, problem-free, and happy-go-lucky. Not much to the knowledge of most people, I sometimes feel insecure about myself. I sometimes feel that everything I do is not always enough no matter how much I try. The hard thing about this is that my disappointments are not due to people trying to drag me down, but it is due to my mentality.  

    I also easily get angered by things which makes me frustrated and sometimes, it affects the people around me. I am the type of person who strives for the things I want but gets easily disappointed but not in a way in which people would notice. Some people may see me as an egotistic person but this is my way of making me forget and turn away from my insecurities. There are times that I cry myself to sleep. I feel that telling other people my problems wouldn't mean much because as what they always say, we all have problems, right? They would always say that there are people experiencing more severe problems and in that, I am too blessed to worry so much.

Ate Terri, I hope that by the time you’ll receive this letter, you would be able to help me in coping up with my problems so that I’d be able to exist peacefully and see the better side of things.

Dear Young Terri,

Reading your letter, I can say that you are quite a perfectionist. You want things to always go your way and if not, this gets you disappointed. Being a perfectionist, I say, can be a good thing. It motivates you to always do your best in things. Despite this, you need to accept the fact that sometimes, you need to go through struggles and failures in order for you to be better the next time around. You need to consider struggles and failures as lessons instead of a permanent failure. With regards to your insecurities, it is always best to keep in mind to count your blessings instead of your failures. Always remember that many people love you just the way you are. There is no need to hide your true self from others. It is because you’ll only achieve true happiness when you are true to yourself. With regards to your anger issues, I suggest that you follow some of anger management techniques:

Leave the place before you are tempted to say something.

Think about the consequences before saying something.

Take deep breaths.

 “Anger is a form of stress”. Consider the stress busting techniques I have listed in the previous post.

FORGIVE! Never hold a grudge on someone as it will only consume you.

Always be open to people close to you and remember to take a break sometimes. Never be too tight on yourself. Life is too short to always be serious. It is not impossible for you to become a person who enjoys life and at the same time, achieve in life. Many people have great trust in your skills and abilities and therefore, you should too! Most importantly, seek God, whether in good or in bad times, since it is only through God can we be genuinely happy complete.

[cjdiao-blog]

●▬▬▬๑۩۩๑▬▬▬●In collaboration with Kyla Basan :) ●▬▬▬๑۩۩๑▬▬▬●

A leader must know how to bring together a certain group wherein he or she doesn’t just think of his or her own good but the good of all. A leader that is a good model to all and not being a compliant. A leader that can come up with a unique idea together with his or her group, and not just be the same with everyone else. And a leader knows how to lead a person or a group in a good way.

In this video, we listed about 5 things of what makes an effective leader.

1. Be Respectful 

2. Communicate or Listen to other’s idea 

3. Be Sensitive

4. Collaborate/ Help each other 

5. Encourage Creativity 

[airakng]

Dear Ate/Kuya

Dear love,

I do not know where to start.. I have been studying in my school for more than 10 years now and I never experienced having a different environment. My mother and father told me the other day that they have finally decided to transfer me to Manila and continue my studies there. I’m devastated. I don’t know what to do or what to feel. Just the thought of leaving all of the memories I have here behind makes me sick to my stomach. God, what do I do? I don’t want to start fresh. I don’t need new friends. I don’t need a big city or a big school campus. I don’t want huge malls, tall buildings and sossy circle of people around me. I just want a simple and peaceful life together with my family and high school friends. My life here is not much but I’ve learned to love and appreciate what this city gave me - Unforgettable memories, love, family and true friendship. I don’t know if I can say good bye to all of these. I’m not ready to get that “homesick” feeling. I will never be ready to go home just for a couple of weeks then be back again in Manila. I have few months left. I can’t do this. 

~ Aira

Dear Aira, 

 There are few months left before you transfer to a different school. Make the most out of it. I regret those days not being with you, not hanging out with you and was not able to help you with your needs as your “brother.” It’s a really scary feeling to leave the people who know you best. When you have super close friends, it’s like they’re a part of you. You’ll probably feel super sad for a bit, but then you’ll be able to adjust. Knowing you as my "sister”, I know that you’ll able to adapt to your new environment easily. Just remember the reason why you’re transferring to that school, and that is to start your journey to your dream, to become a doctor. You will start feeling comfortable after you meet new friends. I want you to remember that your family is always there supporting you on your plans for your future. If you ever feel sad, I am just one call away. As a saying goes, “Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.”

~ Love

[miiilimetersaway-blog]

A Genogram is a graphic representation of a family tree that displays detailed data on relationships among individual.

[primpotato-blog]

How Do We Love

Are we going to find it in a shore? Well, no one is sure. We see that some people are blessed, with a love that we’re obsessed. While others are busy building a dam, In order to stop the river that is approaching its conclusion, the flow they  want to hinder

Some love to seek pleasure, but with great measure. We love for envy, some for money For me love is everything it inspires us to do something but it must not be fake because our lives are at stake But love, will you stay? After all those countless skirmishes would you not leave me astray and burn everything into ashes?

Well, suppose those are the things that we see in other people that we fail to realize. We appreciate people who have better love stories than us, especially those relationships that only happen in our dreams. While others are successful with their love, there are also people who are trying their best in order for their love to never reach its conclusion. There are also insensitive people who only value their own pleasure. I hope that all people will come to realize that we shouldn’t take the person who value us more than anything else for granted. Let’s start appreciating the people who are always there for us; The person who are ready to give you their genuine love.

LOVE. The only thing that I want is that it should be honest and forgiving, where you can love without the fear of losing. We are doomed to make mistakes, arguments will never cease but I know deep in our hearts, we love that person and we’ll never leave them no matter what because I believe that’s how it should be. In short, the kind of love that I seek is something that will never end, though simple as long as it is straightforward and true. Love that waits; love that’s sincere; love that ensures you that you are not alone. I can go on but I choose to share only these words that I want to see in the kind of love that I seek.

[nicolememaybe]

MY KIND OF LOVE

Love that is...

Not selfish But selfless

Not jealous But patient

Not illusion-based But a reality

Not blinkered But full of understanding

Not callous But sensitive

Not obdurate But cordial