#pete walker

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Penny Irving in House of Whipcord (1974)

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''A fawn type/codependent is usually the child of at least one narcissistic parent. The narcissist reverses the parent-child relationship. The child is parentified and takes care of the needs of the parent, who acts like a needy and sometimes tantruming child.

When this occurs, the child may be turned into the parent’s confidant, substitute spouse, coach, or housekeeper. Or, she may be pressed into service to mother the younger siblings. In worst case scenarios, she may be exploited sexually.

Some codependent children adapt by becoming entertaining. Accordingly, the child learns to be the court jester and is unofficially put in charge of keeping his parent happy.

Pressing a child into codependent service usually involves scaring and shaming him out of developing a sense of self. Of all the 4F types, fawn types are the most developmentally arrested in their healthy sense of self.''

-Pete Walker, Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving

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Cool it, Carol (1970) // dir. Pete Walker

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House of Whipcord (1974), dir. Pete Walker

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On June 22, 2015, The Confessional was released on Blu-ray in the United Kingdom.

Here's a new portrait of Susan Penhaligon as Jenny Welch to celebrate!

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13 steps for managing flashbacks

by Pete Walker

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House of Whipcord (1974) - Italian posters

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Honestly this is so relatable. Interacting with people is so much easier when there's a structure like this. I always thought it was just the autism, but it's good to know it's a common cptsd thing too.

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“Real forgiveness depends on the adult child clearly remembering the specifics of her parents abuse and neglect. It is not humanly possible to forgive injuries that are still causing us pain. Un-remembered and un-grieved traumas block the tender feelings that are the matrix for feeling forgiveness.

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When we authentically forgive our parents, we know what we are forgiving them for and what specifically was blameworthy about their behavior in the first place. If we do not recognize the exact nature of our parents’ transgressions, we risk tolerating the similar kinds of hurtfulness in the present. Children who are not allowed to blame their parents’ bad behavior often become adults who do not protect themselves from abuse... If we do not register a negative feeling response to hurtfulness, we cannot tell we are being abused. Instead, we tacitly forgive our abusers just as we were forced to tacitly forgive our parents, no matter how much ongoing abuse they dish out.”

- Pete Walker; The Tao of Fully Feeling

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Pete Walker, The Comeback, 1978

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On January 27, 1984, House of the Long Shadows debuted in Indianapolis, Indiana.

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''Realizing that I had just apologized to a chair suddenly made me feel enraged. I felt furious that something had happened to me to give me a Pavlovian “I’m sorry” response.

I had been pursuing family of origin exploration for quite some time, and the accumulated evidence quickly convinced me that my parents deeply imprinted me with a fawn response. I was brainwashed with a default program to ingratiatingly apologize when anything in the natural order of things changed around me.''

-Pete Walker, Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving

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House of Mortal Sin (1976) - Italian poster

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HOUSE OF THE LONG SHADOWS Carradine! Cushing! Lee! Price! - reviews and free on Pluto TV

‘Room for every nightmare… A nightmare in every room’ House of the Long Shadows is a 1983 British comedic horror film about an American author who stays at a dilapidated Welsh manor to write a novel but is interrupted by the elderly residents hosting a bizarre family reunion. The movie was directed by Pete Walker (The Comeback; Schizo; House of Mortal Sin; Frightmare; House of Whipcord; Die…

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Sobre a feira de artes ontem, eu amei esse adesivo aqui, enfatizando uma das 4 respostas quando um conflito surge.

Eles chamam de 4Fs:

Fight - confrontar, embater

Flight - fugir, evitar o conflito

Freeze - paralisar ficar sem ação

Fawn - agradar, para desescalar o conflito

As pessoas geralmente respondem usando pelo menos uma das formas, e esse adesivo dá a ênfase de não fugir, confrontar. Para algumas pessoas isso é difícil de se fazer. E o sapinho me lembra Fraeru, do meu livro do pássaro e a fonte 😊

É algo fantástico estudar isso porque não são apenas traços negativos. Por exemplo o lado positivo do Fight é servir como liderança, apoio.

Tem tudo isso no livro fantástico do Pete Walker: Complex PTSD.

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The Big Switch (Strip Poker) (1968) Pete Walker

June 2nd 2024