#please come back. im so tired

[heartorbit]

WHEEEEEE

[a-dragons-journal]

Forgive me for showing my fangs a little here instead of being as delicate in phrasing as I usually am, but. Periodic reminder:

sweeping "humans suck, humans are evil, the world would be better off if humans disappeared/had never evolved" statements may be cathartic but they're thoroughly inaccurate (ie, the vast majority of uniquely bad effects of humans on the planet are a) extremely recent, like within the last couple centuries, b) the fault of an extremely small minority not the entire fucking species, and c) fixable)

hating being human isn't the same as hating humans. I get species dysphoria is a thing. I get that it's often hard to fit in as a nonhuman in human social groups and that can make it easy to slip into hating everyone around you. Please fight that instinct

villainizing people for traits they didn't choose, such as the species they were born into, is neither cute nor fair. No species is inherently good or bad

misanthropy is cathartic in short term vents or whatever but genuinely embracing it wholesale as a philosophy is liable to lead to you hating humans, human society, and being in a human body more and more over time and thus make your life worse by constantly reinforcing a thought pattern that makes you angry and upset

you are not immune to being part of human society (translation: just because you're nonhuman doesn't mean you're not included in statements about the effects of the human population on the world, ie "humans are killing the planet")

related, you are not better than humans for being nonhuman. looking at my fellow dragons in particular on this one. I get it, draconic pride is a thing, dragon brain probably says you're the supreme being and all else is beneath you especially anyone who annoys you. Mine does too. Please recognize that is an instinct you are supposed to FIGHT, not something that's TRUE AND THAT YOU SHOULD EMBRACE. Good fucking gods.

some nonhumans are also human (it's me, I'm some nonhumans) and you are making sweeping "humans suck, why would I ever want to be human, all humans do is kill the planet" statements in the presence of people included in those statements, which is insanely rude (and no, you don't get to "but you're different because you're nonhuman" me! you do not get to decide to ignore half of who I am because you don't like it, you do not get to decide I'm not "really" human, and also see the previous bullet point). this goes doubly if you're in a space like a DIscord server where people have expressly stated they're not comfortable being tacitly included in statements like that

saying "but I don't REALLY mean all humans, I just mean the specific ones at fault!" after the fact does not actually change anything if every other thing you say is constantly "humans humans humans" and not the group you're actually referring to, or at the very least doesn't change how it reads to everyone around you

[ssstrawberryflowers]

pink lace

(more info under the cut!)

this is a lingerie set by the brand Loveran!! a friend that shall remain unnamed sent them somewhere and. uhm. yeah.

links to their stuff:

store: x

insta: x

twitter (post with the specific coord) : x

(again thanks to that one specific friend, you know who you are :))

[lottieurl]

i'm well aware there are single parents out there working full time but i think working full time and living alone with my dog is about to put me in a psychward

[thisismeracing]

Since when did we start charging money on patreon for fanfics 😭😭😭😭 is this for real😭

hi, love. I haven't seen that many people doing the Patreon thing when it comes to fanfic, but it's pretty common for people who draw for example to set up a Patreon. I believe that everyone who does, just like myself, needs the money. I wouldn't be doing it if i didn't need to. I figured the Patreon setup was the best idea since it's not really that common for people to tip writers, we've been struggling with getting reblogs and comments, so you can imagine.

Right now, I'm applying and doing tests to get an internship, which still won't be enough because I'm also trying to apply for a master's. So, yeah, I'm really thankful for everyone who tipped me on ko-fi and subscribed to my Patreon, last month my savings were over, and the Patreon money was what helped me pay for some medical stuff I needed (Idk if you saw the whole mick schumacher's sick club, but yeah — huge thank you for everyone who subscribed/donated btw).

We often see fic writers as little robots who don't eat, drink, or sleep. We request stuff, and expect an instant reply, and when we get the content we don't even go back to the page to tell the writer our thoughts. We don't reblog, nor leave comments, but still, we expect them to keep writing and keep sharing everything as if it didn't take hours, sometimes days to come up with a 1k piece polished to what we think readers will like best. I hope I don't sound rude, I'm just trying to make a point because I'm tired of seeing writers deactivating, tired of seeing my friends getting writer's block and then people still demanding things.

On top of that, I'm still posting a lot here, from smau to blubs and long fic requests (and I won't even talk about how some pieces aren't even getting a hundred notes, which always makes me wonder if I'm doing something wrong, if my writing is bad, or if there's anything that I could do to make the reader's experience more enjoyable), and it takes a lot of time, it's even harder to balance the two profiles now, but still, I keep sharing some of my work for free. so please, please, don't make me feel bad about needing money. thanks ❤️.

[soldier-poet-king]

I literally just do not understand how full grown ass adults go thru life like this. 0 self reflection. 0 concern about the impact of their behaviours on others. Continuing said behaviours even when they're pointed out as hurtful. Like????

[dj-wayback]

Short robots rise up

I agree, short kings band together!!! No Ass ever!

[never-enough-13]

[toastsnaffler]

woke up randomly in the night and my flatmate is in the bathroom so I can't go pee and immediately go back to sleep incident 7493 dead 19923 casualties

[flamboyant-king]

Ya know what inktober or cringetober, what have you, I'll be drawing all these Isaac au shitpost nonsense baby. I FEEL ALIVE. WITNESS MY CRINGE OR LOOK AWAY IN DISGUST. IM LIVING! WRAAGGHHH

[creepy-scrawl]

Not even having a barely low wage, and not having social live hurts me as much as the way my boss treats me as stupid over and over again. And it fucking hurts even more that my boss is my dad...

[oh-gh0st]

stuff is all packed see u guys in 4 days

[saintirulan]

just saw your comment you left in the tags about moving to the other side of the world alone and now I'm curious. You moved to japan? Or is it just vacation? And you're alone? Sorry to ask so many questions but your life seems so interesting and lowkey adventurous if you wanna talk about it more feel free to do so I'm very invested haha. Wishing you a good time :)

hi sweet anon <3 first of all, thank you for the well wishes, hope you're going to have a lovely time as well 💖 and dont't be sorry for the ask, you're giving me an excuse to ramble fhewuwueye to answer your questions, I basically did move to japan but it's going to be 4 months for an overseas uni exchange! i was super scared at first but now that i'm here i'm sososo happy and excited for it all <333 and what i meant by alone was moreso the super long flight there (which was a hassle tbh) but luckily for the last leg of the trip i met with like 3 other people who needed to go to the dorms as well from the airport so it was easier than expected! and everyone here has been so so so lovely and im already bonding a lot with some people 🥹 today was amazing and i had loads of super yummy sushi for like. 4,30€ total which is insanely cheap. and im getting addicted to konbini onigiri 🫡

[b3stg0r3b3stg1rl]

im so tired of being trans. idc how "ugly" (ugly women dont really exist but u get the point like not conventionally attractive) i am. i just wanna be a real "real" girl. i hate this so much. im so sick of this and just being trapped like this i hate it so much like i cant word how horrible it feels i genuinly feel so paralyzed by it i hate it so much. i hate being like this so much. i espescially hate how disgustingly hairy i am its horrible its how my mom is and my dad was im so fucked genetically. i would give just abt anyhting to be an attractive cis girl. i dont care what comes with that im so sick of this flesh prison like how tf am i gonna have dysphoria abt not having a period how of all things does that a negative ugh why am i like this.

[creativebrainrot]

also ngl i also want my energy & good headspace back because i miss TALKING TO PEOPLE IN FANDOM xddddd I WANNA AMKE MORE FRENDS....... I WANNA CHATTTER WITH FRIENDLY AQAUINTENCES AND be a little louder in other fandoms i like bUT WHOUFHDGAN. brain.

[soldier-poet-king]

U know when u reach that point of mentally unwell that it's like, u realize it's stupid and dumb and your (mal)adaptive coping mechanisms and inbuilt trauma responses aren't helpful and aren't logical and you're complete aware of this and yet can't eradicate it and it's so frustrating and in some way you're more upset about not being able to force ur brain into being normal and stop being Like That, than you are upset about whatever thing happened in the first place