#ridleyytheriddler

[daydadahlias]

actually michael wins the best titties award sorry girly

ashton irwin has the best titties ever please think about what ur blog ur on before u sPEAK

[bookwyrminspiration]

list five things that make you happy, then put this in the ask box of the last ten people who reblogged something from you. spread the positivity!!!

I typically don't pass on chain asks myself, but i have no problem answering them!

Cold fruit <3. I love love love a nice cold apple or pomegranate or kiwi or blackberries or pear or--

Language and stories! Whether that's writing or reading them, the love and the care that goes into them, the messages and understanding you're given is so comforting. And the ways languages work to convey things, how things work in different languages...it's fascinating

Giving gifts to the people I care about. I love gifting little trinkets or handmade things, I love giving things to people. I love finding things that remind me of others

Intentional imperfection. I tried very hard to be meticulously good growing up because I was always top of my class, the one with the answers, that intentionally allowing things to be imperfect--a little messy, a little uneven, a little clunky--has become so cathartic and euphoric for me :). It's like...I can do it like that? I can let go of the nagging in my head? and I can!! it's so much fun!

Music!! My biggest stim is repeating music and I have timestamps memorized for hundreds of songs for the parts I like to repeat. Love love love sounds :)

there are, of course, many other things that make me happy, like hair dye and eyeliner and tattoos and cats and various foods etc. but these are some of them!!

[myinterestsvary-writes]

If you get this, answer with 3 random facts about yourself and send it to the last 7 blogs in your notifications, anonymously or not! Let's get to know the person behind the blog :D

I’m not sending this to anyone else but:

I enjoy hiking as a pastime.

I think people are inherently interesting and simultaneously very boring.

I think anyone who is actually invested in my blog are pitiful.

[afafmasoud]

Wait! You won’t believe what happened!

A humanitarian catastrophe is threatening our lives right now!

My family’s tent was completely flooded last night in Khan Younis after the sea waves surged due to rain, and with winter approaching amidst the ongoing Israeli genocide in Gaza. Now they are suffering from the cold and urgently need your help! We are witnessing injustice and torment every moment.

I beg you, if each person donates the price of their morning coffee, you can save lives and help a family survive. Donate now and show your humanity.

Click here to donate and help the affected families!

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[mysoftboybensolo]

Caedsexual vs Asexual and why they aren’t interchangeable

@booksandteaonarainydayislife, you had asked “In real life, is it not possible for people to be ace due to trauma? Like, would someone who experienced a traumatic event that made it impossible for them to feel sexual attraction not be considered ace?”

This isn’t a clear yes and no answer, which is why I had to make a new post about it. Also, I would like to say that I had been recently education on this new term I am going to explain from the replies from this post (x), I am no way an expert on this, someone asked for my opinion, and here it is, so if anyone who is more experienced/has this sexuality wants to add on, please do so kindly.

I learned that there is a term called “Caedsexual”, which is described as “ is a micro label on the asexual spectrum which describes an individual who identified as allosexual—or not a part of the asexual spectrum—at one point in their lives, but are now on the asexual spectrum due to past trauma. This label should only be used by those who are survivors of these past experience.” I am not sure how recent this term is, but as there is a term for it, people should start using this if this is what they mean when they headcanon a character as “asexual”, when really they mean caedsexual.

Caedsexual is part of the ace spectrum, but it would still be considered incorrect to refer to someone who identifies as this as simply asexual, in my opinion, because not every asexual person is such because of trauma. For example, I am demisexual, I would say I am on the ace-spectrum, but I am not asexual. As I had talked in the post I linked above, the problem with identifying certain characters as asexual and say that it’s due to trauma is because so often, having experienced it myself, is that have a hard time believing those on the ace-spectrum that we are this way not because of trauma. Many people who are on the ace-spectrum suffer prejudice because people will assume that they are ace because of trauma and will try to convince the aces that they need therapy, that maybe they just need to find the right person and they’ll no longer be ace. Some allo-sexual people feel that somehow there ace-spectrum people are “broken” and need “fixing”, which is not true, but when you get people who misidentify certain characters or people as asexual because of trauma and it fuels the myth that we somehow need to be fixed in order to be “proper humans”, because the notion that sex/romance are not necessary for a happy life is crazy to them. Some people are ace the same way some people are gay, they just are, and people should respect that.

So, if you want to say that Kaz and/or Inej, or any other character in fact, identify as being caedsexual because of trauma, that would be correct, but saying that a character is asexual because of trauma is incorrect and helps to fuel the harmful notion that everyone who falls under the ace-spectrum is there because of trauma. They are not interchangeable and I don’t think people should say someone is asexual when they mean caedsexual. I hope that makes sense, and like I said, I am not a huge expert on caedseuxality, but this is from the observations and thoughts on this whole thing.

@foxhellvar @darklingswhore  @freddycarterus @arany-studio @ridleyytheriddler 

[writingandwritten]

starting a picrew chain because I am in love with this picrew. Make yourself as a villain.

Tagging: @cosmxc-ars3hol3 @stranglingfigs

@frogs-and-flowers-and-faeries @treehouse-arson @planetsoupo @but-theyll-be-real @frostedforestfairy @ridleyytheriddler @ashyashton-deactivated20230515 @madam-libraaarian @ketterdam-snack-bar @violets-arent-blue-art and anyone who wants to.

[ridleyytheriddler]

this has been here for a while

╒═════════════════════╕ @ridleyytheriddler pronouns :: they!them classifications* :: here we go, nonbinary - agender , abroromantic , demisexual , greyromantic , toric , i have lost track of anything else alt :: @justanother-greyro-ace ( warning - very larry ) fandoms :: swiftie , directioner 5sos , osemanverse , literally any gay book , riordanverse , kotlc , hunger games a bit ?? , defo something I've forgotten tries to be aesthetic and fails, just your average depressed psychopath <33 ╘═════════════════════╛

*once i asked my (straight) friend if they were lgbt+ and they said “no im not classified as lgbt” so i just- yeah- its hilarious imo

[i-may-be-an-emu]

hi! this is a bit random, but what denomination of Christianity are you a part of? (or are you non-denominational?)

@ridleyytheriddler I dont really know much about different denominations but I do go to a baptist church and I love it there, its really casual (clothing wise) and welcoming :)

[daydadahlias]

samesiesss i just wasnt sure bc i *think* i've seen u post about lashton b4 but whatever-

that was years ago, my friend, I've since outgrown my lashton phase ✋

[daydadahlias]

love the headerrrrrr

he's just a pretty boy <3

[writingandwritten]

WRYN YOU GOT YOUTUBED

https://youtube.com/shorts/ErBOPXhsKmU?feature=share

Holy Cow. Now way. I don’t think that post even reached 10k let alone be worthy enough to be YouTubed. Wow.

@cosmxc-ars3hol3 @thefoxysnake @ridleyytheriddler

Have you guys seen this??

[ridleyytheriddler]

fyiii

if u guys have wattpad, ao3, or quotev, SO DO I!!! so lmk what your users are!

e-elysium- (wattpad)

ridleyytheriddler (quotev & ao3)

[ridleyytheriddler]

hey yall! just a heads up, im on quotev and ao3 now, haven't really made anything yet but if u wanna follow me I'm @ridleyytheriddler on both