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the-defendery-189 · 3 months

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ASTROLOGY OBSERVATIONS #1

Venus & Neptune square and aspects in general, especially negative ones - lazy, creative, and inspirational, yet so delusional and preferring their fantasies to the relatity in their relationships and often not even realise they're doing that.

Capricorn and Virgo and Aquarius suns are imo the ones to hate astrology the most, like once they learn there are also bad things about their signs, wow!!!, they immediately hate it and GOOOD, astrology is so TERRIBLE and UNREAL and FAKE... 🙄🙄🙄

Scorpio suns are very hypocritical. Once they say some things but when it's suddenly against them, you're just making it up, it never happened! Also gaslight people and are just generally very proud and irrational when hurt a lot. Blame others a lot. Get all defensive and icky when people actually try to accuse them of something they have done.

Geminis can use fake tears to make you pity them and then act like it's all your fault, anyways.

Also sags use their feelings to try to gaslight people and make them feel sad for them and excuse themselves when they just don't care about them anymore, and just make them seem like it's all the other persons fault, when they'll still go like "its not you, it's me" in the end.

Cancer suns are very quirky in a kind of disgusting way, personally I get very annoyed by them and they still think I think they're oh so cute.

Also cancer men are very manipulative and might want to seem like the prince charming and saviour of all the women. Often matriarchal and want women to have all the power. Also submissive to them in sex and generally want women to be the dominant ones in a relationship. Often grew up in a home without a father, who left them as a child, their mother ruling the household. Might be the youngest sibling. Bullied in school and bullying others, hiding behind the "but I'm a soft boy uwu 😩😣💖💖💖🫀🫀🫀❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥💔💔💔👈👈👈" excuse and trauma that have happened to them. Either metalheads or soft boys uwu discord kittens. Often joke about furries and cringe weird communities and their obsessions. Very chronically online and may have grew up as a YouTube creepy pasta or smth else child.

Also Cancer men - Will pretend to listen to a girl because they know this is what they want --- because of that mother relationship they grew up with. But seriously just not give a fuck for real in their heads, they just know how to be smart and manipulate women. Don't feel comfortable around men BCS of their too-much-comfortable being they happen to switch on when are with women. Often put on a mask in front of men and pretend to be someone who they aren't. Men might think they're cool then, which j really don't understand. Like what???

Also cancer men and women - mommy issues, if it wasn't obvious. Can be very backstabbing and distrustful and think of themselves as mega hot and the best. Often boring texters and talkers. Rant a lot and talk about their hyperfixations and how the world is cruel and shit towards them, but really sometimes you can't help but wonder if they don't deserve it.

Saturn in 7th - Abusive relationships, getting married later in life, husband/wife popular and maybe rich, so if they abuse you, nobody might believe you and everybody will be on their side because they might be just more charismstic than you.

My parents both have this placement and it is HELL.

Lilith in 10th, 1th - Women envy you, hate you and sabotage you, men think you're too dark and edgy for them. People thinking you think you're better then them, this hating you. Being too charismatic for your own good.

Leo Venus - again, as it is with the Saturn in 7th. Could be more popular and overall likeable so if they do terrible things to you, nobody will believe you. Might just be nobody believing me cuz of crazy people around me tho.

Neptune in 1st - people might find you very attractive and ethereal, but also project on you A LOT. Meaning connections and relationships with you are just really difficult to even happen BCS people are always so judging and mean towards you.

Chiron in 1st - Body image issues, partners might abuse you and body shame you, people thinking less of you and in childhood parents often telling you you look ugly. I'm sorry people, I have this placement too tho so its not like I'm shaming you too, just I can feel your pain.

Scorpio ascendant - Too assertive and proud of your uniqueness and too opinionated for your own good. You guys are so clear with your speaking and always speak your mind and aren't fearful to express yourself how you feel and how your think and are always so like colorful with the things you say if you know what I mean. People will despise you for that and try to shut you up. And as somebody who did this to my scorp rising friend before subconsciously,,, yep. It happens even from your trusted friends.

If your moon is in the same sign as your friends/anyone's ascendant... You might feel instantly understood by them. Like I have this with my friend and it's an absolutely great and fantastic relationship, I love her. She absolutely understands me and gets me on a spiritual level - maybe caused by the fact that we have this with Scorpio - like no one else. It's a great relationship, savour this.

If you have a moon sign same as somebody's sun sign, you might enjoy their cooking.

If you have a sun sign same as somebody else's rising, you might try to be more like them and adore them for no reason.

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aphrostarot · 1 year

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Cancer Women

Title: “The Pearl”

For simplicity's sake, I will use the pronouns “he/him” for the male versions of the signs and “she/her” for the female versions of the signs. This is not to say that the people who identify with the male or female versions of each sign identify with those pronouns. This post is focusing on the different sexes (male vs female) not gender. Gender is fluid and I am in no way labeling people with these posts. Also, these posts are focusing solely on the Sun signs of each zodiac, other birth chart placements may cause someone to not fit into everything I have described.

Masterlist

Mind (how they think):

Cancer woman is the most emotive sign in the zodiac.

She wears her heart on her sleeve, needing to express her emotions even when others would say it is unwise to do so.

She often grew up in a female dominated household. Where her mother is the master and her father is a vague, if not, mellow figure.

Her first instinct when she is young is to fight her feelings. She will ignore her whole emotional state all together.

She typically feels overly exposed, which is why you can see a Cancer woman become very cold and hardened. (a nod to her crab rulership)

She is a walking-talking harbinger of hope. She is all smiles all the time, even when she is crying. Furthermore, she is the epitome of sunshine in a person.

She embodies the Mother-Goddess archetype.

The thing with the Cancer woman is, her emotions are meant to wash away negative influences from her life environment and allow for a new, pure future.

The home life she is typically born into is one that is in “ruins” with emotional unrest and most often ransacked with divorce.

She will typically be the offspring of a first marriage and will be faced with step siblings from her parent's second marriage.

Contrary to popular astrological belief, the Crab female is not the nurture of the zodiac (this will be a relief to her) she is the type to try and “fix” things for others, particularly men, as a substitute to facing her own self-improvement process.

The archetypal blueprint for the Cancer woman’s condition is revealed in the story of Cinderella.

Cinderella doesn’t merely overcome her upbringing, she scores real big – landing a prince and a palace and all that happily ever after stuff – while never compromising her own moral character, getting even with all life’s bitches without so much as uttering one moan.

The Cancer woman knows that complaining is a waste of emotional energy that’s meant to be channeled into one and only one emotional action: having hope.

Cancer isn’t going to be “saved” by playing the victim but must instead pull herself up by the emotional bootstraps and take action, letting the world, particularly that of men, see her very best self.

Her best self comes from going through, not around, the negative aspects of her condition.

All Cancer women are witches without quite realizing it.

She feels things are going to happen, and by trusting these inklings, they do.

She goes with her gut with almost all things in her life

Cancer women normally grow up in a female dominated household. One where their mother subconsciously places herself between the Cancer and her father.

In some cases, the Cancer woman is under her mom’s thumb, “enslaved” by constant chores or restrictive curfews.

Her mother may be something of a doormat to men, which does not set an example for the cancer woman on what feminine strength is.

Her mother will oftentimes overcompensate for her being so submissive to men by being cruel to other women.

Growing up under this type of mother sends the Cancer woman mixed signals on what it means to be a woman.

From an early age, the Cancer woman starts to bottle up her emotions for fear of some punishment, emotional or otherwise.

Usually as soon as she is legally able to do so, she will move out of her childhood home.

This sets up Cancer's main perspective in life. Being ruled by the 4th house, the house of the home you come from and the home you make.

More than any other woman in the zodiac, Cancer is the most likely to shack up at an early age. Usually with the first man who gives her hope for a better future.

In an effort to escape and transcend her own mother issues, Cancer may be so grateful to the first prince who comes along that she gives her full self to him, unquestioningly, making a god of him much in the manner her mother made of men.

Body + Soul (what they look like inside and out):

She typically only shows her “dark” side to other women, due to her mother wound, while keeping a smile on her face for men.

She may at times trade in her sweetheart pin for a party girl routine. However, if you ever come across a Cancer who is the proverbial party girl, this is usually a sign of a Cancer in a lot of pain and denial. Often, literally dancing as fast as she can in an effort to escape the chaotic emotions being put into her self-evolutionary path.

Cancer women typically look like they are always about to cry. It’s their default expression, a pouty mouth and welling eyes. They can also cry at the drop of a hat.

No other woman in the zodiac inspires more jealousy than the Cancer woman. She is typically stealing most if not all the male attention, and this makes other women jealous.

There are two types of ways to spot the Cancer woman. She is either the one laughing too loud and talking too loud, or she is the one moping in the corner, whispering only to her partner.

She typically wears colorful, curvaceous cut clothes that portray some sort of feminine stereotype.

When she is interested in someone, subtlety is not her approach. She will throw herself at the object of her affection, leaving no questions as to her interest.

Whether she is in a relationship, she requires, even demands, regular sex.

Cancer women either have big boobs, or tiny boobs, there's really no in between.

They tend to embody the stereotype of a blonde woman, whether they are blonde or not.

Usually, though, she does have relatively light hair when compared to the other members of her family.

She will often wear her hair loose and long.

If her hair isn’t naturally straight, she will straighten it most of the time.

She usually isn't one to wear a ton of makeup. She prefers the natural look.

Generally, she will enter the job force at a young age and work her way through school. This is because she finds an anchor at work that she does not find at home.

She is rarely content being the low lady on the totem pole and, from her first day on the job, she will begin anticipating her own advancement.

She may use associates as stepping stones, blurring the lines between professional and personal involvements, specifically with men who’ll make up the bulk of her supporters.

When it comes to her own fulfillment, Cancer takes an all-others-be-damned attitude, particularly sandbagging fellow women.

What friends she has that are women will be unapologetic types, just like her.

Sex + Sexuality (what they are like in bed and what they look for in a mate):

Cancer Woman Interested in Men:

Most of the time she is the one who was in a serious, steady relationship in high school.

Her type is usually the traditionally minded, athletic, all-American male version of herself.

Even when she is sixteen, she is actively thinking of marriage.

She makes a man feel like the big, strong protector.

She is drawn to stoical males from stable, if not rigid, backgrounds.

Because of the void left by her father, she will often gravitate towards the stereotypical unemotional, insensitive, or even unattainable types. This is because she believes these qualities are linked to conventional masculinity.

She is not one for casual crushes. She swoons, cries, and pines for her love and the desire for it to be returned.

More than most women, sex to the Cancer woman is far too easily confused with love.

She believes that sex is a means to emotional repair.

She doesn’t require a man who’ll come to her emotional rescue, but one who’ll sacrifice himself to the watery rush of her emotions, willing to be swallowed into her delightful vortex.

She is far too often being drawn to such loveless creeps, domineering guys whose tyranny she misreads as loving attention.

She needs a true equal partner, a prince among men, not some tyrannical king who’ll expect her to do his bidding.

She prefers to be on the giving end, in sex, even when she is in a submissive role.

She gets the most pleasure from pleasuring her partner.

She isn’t into rough sex. She wants it long and deep, both literally and figuratively.

She wants you to be very enthusiastic, if you are not, she will lose interest.

She loves to go down on a guy. After all, the Moon rules both saliva and vaginal lubrication.

She may be a total bitch to other women, and completely dismissive of men who don’t make her stomach flip, but toward a guy she has feelings for, she will act like the wide-eyed, baby talking, overly adoring, and indulgent worshiper.

She will fawn and fondle her partner, always having to touch or kiss or cling in some coy manner.

She is predisposed to being a sex addict.

Nobody uses sex to fill the emotional void, much like a Cancer woman.

Her looking to lovers and lovemaking for emotional rescue is not done in vain.

She is not one to skirt over any issues that come up in a relationship. Rather, she uses her sign's motto, “I feel” and feels their full importance. She embraces her feelings, finds closure and moves on.

For most Cancer women, life is about securing emotional balance. And sex plays a huge part in Cancer’s feeling her way toward this destination.

Even if she has been with her partner for a million years, she will still seek to stir something fresh into the sexual mix.

She can juggle more than one man at a time. Though, she is always looking for the man she believes is the ideal mate; a clean-cut Clark Kent type who she’ll put through their sexual paces.

She may even keep a few men on a leash that she will only use for sex.

She could also be into swinging, or polyamory.

Most of the time, a Cancer woman is conducting sex magic, whether she is aware of it or not. She is so completely involved in the act and is naturally attuning herself to the experience, never letting it consume her, she harnesses the transformative power of sex, forever conjuring from it what she needs as emotional sustenance.

Her perfect partner will not be a sexual player, and he will not judge her for being one.

Once she finds this man, she will leave her old ways behind and be all in with him.

She will eagerly take on the role of happy homemaker in the light of day – even if she is a more nine to five type – while playing the role of the happy hooker at night.

She can easily leave the kids at home with the sitter and accompany her partner to the strip club or swingers club.

She is down for a threesome with her guy and another woman.

Cancer Woman Interested in Women:

Cancer woman knows that she is typically more sexually advanced than other females, and she thrives on the idea of seducing a straitlaced, more “proper” type than herself in bed.

Unlike an Aries woman who wants to dominate another woman and teach them a lesson, a Cancer woman wants to open a woman up, demonstrating her knowledge of how to pleasure another girl.

She is particularly good at oral, and it is her favorite thing to do.

More likely than not, she will take on the role of both nurturer and the one to rule the roost.

It is the way that she goes about life at her own rhythm, being an emblem of self-sufficiency, by which she primarily attracts other women to her.

She appears a beacon of female strength and womanhood.

She is a gently pushy partner. She invests more than other women into her partner's well-being.

She is an emotional mentor, not a logistical one, never barking orders but nonetheless cautioning and careful, rather like a second-grade teacher as opposed to a headmistress.

Age typically isn’t a factor in her pursuit of a partner, but her type is typically the wholesome girl-next-door who she seeks to instill her own intensely feminine wiles.

Foreplay, especially, may be a fulfilling, extended affair, filled with lingering, touching, and kissing.

Worship is the keynote to the gay Cancer’s sex life. She expects to be ravished and if you satisfy her she will return the favor.

She loves to have her boobs fondled, sucked, nibbled, and squeezed, giving and receiving massages, cuddling, and mutually stroking for hours.

Reciprocation in the bedroom is a must to the Cancer woman.

There will be an emphasis on gender issues and self-help in the relationship. This is because she wants to help her partner reach self-realization.

She will usually be the type to not shave any part of her body because she is looking to make a statement against societal images of, and constraints put upon, women.

She feels sex is something to be practiced as a spiritual discipline; and she endows each and every erotic experience with that sort of significance.

She generally embraces the lesbian cause, politically, and tends to use the platform or her sexual preference as a means of wielding power, not only whiting the gay community, but in society at large.

While the straight Cancer might employ her sexuality as a viable means of getting to the top of her profession, the gay Cancer, will instead ball-bust the big boys all the more in ensuring she gets the gold if she’s the right individual for the job.

For both the gay and straight Cancer, they will usually find their perfect match in the workplace.

She maintains a high opinion of herself and her accomplishments.

Regardless of particulars, she will always think of herself and her partner as the power-couple-to-beat, making key social appearances together at functions of social, culture, or political import.

She is not one for a quickie, she strives to profoundly pleasure her partner, never coming up for air.

She expects the same in return, and she will not tolerate any beating around the bush.

Sex is a private affair to her, and she will be opposed to having a third party enter the bedroom with her and her partner.

She is ultimately concerned with establishing a stable home life.

To her monogamy is of utmost importance and sanctity on that score is a most effective aphrodisiac.

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