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toolsofmyenemy · 1 month

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The audacity of people demanding that Gwyn not be shipped with anyone because it makes them uncomfortable. And not just Gwyn but all women who have not shown romantic interest in someone.

Seriously, what the fuck is that nonsense.

She is not real. Her life isn’t real. Her feelings are not real. None of it is real.

Don’t ship her with anyone if you don’t want to. Look at that. Problem solved.

She can be shipped with whoever, whatever and whenever anyone wants because it is not real.

Are they looking for ways to suck all the fun out of everything?

And have they been to the internet? Cuz damn if they only knew half the shit people ship out there. It ain’t pretty but everyone has a right to ship what they please. And they don’t owe anyone any justification.

#anti e/riel #pro gwynriel #pro gwyneth berdara #self important people are annoying #is the fictional character in the room with us now #gwynriel #elucien #pro elucien #gwynriel supremacy #gwyn x azriel #azriel x gwyn #gwyneth berdara

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walrus150915 · 9 months

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I feel like a lot of people in the fandom tend to forget this, so I'm just here to give a kind, thoughtful reminder :]

Ambrosius Goldenloin in the movie is an East Asian man (Korean-coded), his skin is tan, his eyes are monolid and his nose is big

He's voiced by Eugene Lee Yang - a Korean-American actor who also has Chinese and Japanese heritage. Eugene Lee Yang looks like this:

During the production, when Ambrosius was decided to be East Asian, artists looked up queer East Asian-American men, and based Ambrosius off of them. Ambrosius is literally drawn to look like Eugene Lee Yang

Please draw him as such, thank you

#nimona #ambrosius goldenloin #no but its so annoying bro #why do people literally forget hes EAST ASIAN #AND HIS CHARACTER TACKLES THE “MODEL MINORY” MYTH EAST ASIAN IMMIGRANTS WERE MET WITH IN USA #race in nimona is important because as one person said #you cant make a movie about a police state and not touch upon the race subject #HE IS EAST ASIAN #PLEASE IF YOURE DRAWING NIMONA THE MOVIE FANART (in the comic hes white yea) THEN PLEASE LEARN HOW TO DRAW MONOLIDS AND BIG NOSES I BEG #why am i so pressed abt this??#he looks like me bro #his features are my features and im not joking #so when i see ppl erase them #its not well for my self-esteem lets put it this way #please stop erasing his race while drawing #thank you :)#ofc i havent made this post bc of one person who blogged that Golitzine should play Ambrosius what r u talkin abt #Golitzine is a slavic man hes russian #a russian prince #ambrosius is east asian #plus we dont need a nimona live action itd be stupid #a short animated film abt bal's and ambrosius's childhood? sure #thats it #live action remakes SUCK #can you believe i made this post purely out of spite

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gideonisms · 1 month

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I want to write I want to make girls be weird about each other in MY word docs I want to have creative projects and goals againn :/

#but i am. so tired #i also don't want it to be something i'm forcing myself through because i feel like that always backfires #this year to me has really been about figuring out what is actually important to me and in what ways i can push myself to grow without #sending myself back to square one again #i can kind of feel myself gearing up to create things again and have wants and goals again but it is sooo slow #absolutely everything wipes me out mentally which i guess it always did but now i can like. comprehend it!#i know what is happening in there but i am so clumsy at working around it. i hadn't practiced that a lot before #it's taking like multiple years to recover from stuff that other people seem to recover from easily #it's sooo annoying and it's not really about feeling like i wasted my 20s anymore #i am where i am it was my life and i spent it the way i did so far. i just can't change that #it's more about like Wanting to do so many things and feeling like there is the potential for so much and feeling held back by my own self #there are so many things i want to try now that i'm doing more than bare minimum surviving and it's like i want them all at once #but i can't possibly do them all at least not yet there just is not time or energy or money to do them all right away #i have trouble prioritizing

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throwawayasoiafaccount · 18 days

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question: how can you adore elia when she’s barely a character?

we do not know enough about this character for her to even have stans.

stanning elia is illogical at best, completely delusional and very concerning at worst.

because what even is it that is being stanned and adored? your self insert?

#her biggest contribution to the story was her death #sorry to say it #but it really is odd that people so fervently stan this character who’s barely a character #at least rhaegar and lyanna have more narrative importance #elia is another character who’s been ruined for me by the fandom #she’s a walking victim aesthetic at this point #i wouldn’t be so annoyed by elia stans if their stanning ended with adoring this barely a character character #but it doesn’t #it’s simply dany hate disguised as rhaegar hate by attempting to take a morally defensible position #stanning elia the not a character character that has no faults because she’s not important and we know nothing about her #is the position elia stans have decided to take in order to cleverly hate on dany #you people are obvious and it’s simply annoying like seriosuly go read a different book series #dany is not a monster and never will be and rhaegar was never even remotely close to being the scumbag you make him out to be #you people don’t like george’s books you like your self inserts. go read twilight please #asoiaf fandom critical #anti elia stans #asoiaf

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hiveswap · 4 months

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Im going to fucking throw up

#i hate posting about how im insecure abt my drawings because that just makes people rb them out of pity thats annoying as shit dont do that #but then i try for hours to draw something and its honestly not important to me but by the end im pretty pround #so i post it knowing no ones gonna give a shit #and yeah pretty much thats what happens #and i feel like shit bc no one owes me attention ffs #and i know it isnt anything special and i should have drawn something actually interesting instead of another portrait #and i complain to my mother and shes like #'well this is something a child would have drawn it isnt good'#and im like oooh i should kms got it #like obviously im the one who craves validation without putting any effort into making it actually cool #so this is like no one's fault and im self aware of it and it drives me INSANE #and i need to vent this but it will make someone go pity rb all of my stuff and it's gonna feel like shit bc i hate begging for notes #like you know if someone wasnt going to reblog why beg them to. thats not them actually liking the art thats bullshit guilt tripping #i dont even need exposure i dont sell any drawings exposure is useless to me i dont even know what i want #i just want to make something that people like what the fuck

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hijklab · 11 months

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I really feel like Malta Vestrit and Sansa Stark are the same character written by different authors where one of the authors has this… love and admiration for the experience of being a stupid vapid 12 year old. and the other thinks you have to destroy that child to make a strong woman instead

#they both start self absorbed and obsessed with societal expectations #they both grow into these amazing powerful people #they both massively leverage their social standing and they both start out as important for marriage agreements they’re too young to grasp #Malta it’s more like the person she becomes was always going to be her #but the things that made her annoying are the growing pains that make her who she is #strong and persistent and aggressively aware #the little girl in her didn’t have to die #rote #rote read through #liveship traders #malta vestrit

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burymeinwillow · 8 months

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#IM NOT DONE!!!#When my mom got sick and died- during that period I only watched Bonanza. It was my escapeism. It made me happy watching it-#it made me laugh during a time my life was falling apart around me. I was loosing the person most important to me -#I dont remember much from that time but I do remember how much I watched that silly western and how happy it made me #and that's what it means to me!!! that's why Bonanza is so dear to me!!! and it breaks my heart that I was scared to be more self-indulgent #with it. I was led to believe that I shouldn't like it. That I was strange for liking such an old show. My closest friend made feel weird-#about it. So Bonanza being my fav show was like... my little secret. I felt if I told people I liked it they wouldn't wanna be my friend.#Then Juni became my friend and she just changed all of that. She swooped in and just 'Hey you should be more self-indulgent!'-#and I remember thinking 'Is that okay?' She encouraged me about everything. About drawing... about Bonanza... she made it possible for me t #do things i thought were impossible. Like traveling to the US alone and go to a Bonanza Event?? She changed my life.#Made me realize it's okay to be self-indulgent. Made me realize liking niche and obscure things is NOT wierd.#as you can tell im very passionate about this #Juni came into my life during a very dark time and she changed my life and she changed me #and now im sitting here giggling and drawing this silly stupid cowboy from this silly old western #AND NOW IM REAL ANNOYING ABOUT BONANZA HEHEHE

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gopakku · 1 year

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I feel like I see a fair amount of people say that they find the writing and ending of IBO season 2 to be of worse quality in comparison to season 1. Honestly it just leaves me mostly confused. It’s almost certainly a personal taste thing, so overall no biggie, but considering IBO’s overall thematic points regarding the structural integrity (resiliency?) of systems by their nature, how even minor change requires great work and sacrifice, and how that sacrifice is ultimately worth it for those who can live a happier life because of it, I find those themes to be well served by the events in and conclusion of the 2nd season.

#iron blooded orphans #gundam #I know it’s old discourse but I keep seeing it and whenever I do no one ever talks about how the events serve the themes #it’s always oh the bad guys got to gloat or the characters were so annoying without any consideration for the purpose behind those choices #Iok sucks in order to make you aware of how inherited power deluded people about their own importance #in fact most of season 2 follows the idea of how delusional self-importance leads to the destruction of both you and everything around you

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solitaireships · 3 months

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Going all in trying to figure out how to make an l/ok self insert with consideration to my ethnicities and then seeing most people either give zero consideration to this being a universe largely based on Asian and Indigenous cultures or being white and just giving their self insert a vaguely Asian sounding name 😭 Trying to look up things related to race and ethnicity here was a mistake

#my posts #vent #and granted i probably wouldn’t even make a self insert for it #for a while bcs i want to rewatch the show first #but like. ough. it’s so annoying #how so many people don’t seem to consider like #cultures are important #yes atla/lok uses a kind of amalgamation of different cultures from asia #but they’re still based on asian and indigenous cultures #and it’s very annoying how white people seem to have no consideration for that

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krea2re · 1 year

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Im about to become an oc guy

#I still love doing fanart n shit but I'm getting increasingly annoyed as kind of just being know as a fanart guy #Which is to the fault of no one but myself #My fears of my ocs never being received among people outside of friends became a self fulfilling prophecy...#And i just leaned into it for years #But I really don't want to do that anymore! I have a lot of stories i want to tell. And my creative price that I want to share #It's all important to me and I'm not going to let the waves of social media effect how much EYE can post my ocs #Goodnis gracious sorry for VENTING in the TAGS on ART BLOG #Process* sorry im falling asleep

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stop-stealing-my-username · 10 months

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Idk who needs to hear this, but I'm a fairly tall, deep voiced, broad shouldered, muscle-y cis woman, I promise you that there are other women who look like you. "Woman" describes so many different people who all look very different and all of them are good and valid and beautiful in their own right

#also you don't owe anyone passing #but it's also okay if passing is important to you #and if it is then I promise you pass better than you think you do #people tend to be their own worst critic #this was intended as trans positivity but halfway through I realized it's probably something cis girls need to hear too #because there's a weird pressure put on us to be small and dainty and feminine and take up as little space as possible #and it ends up giving a lot of us a weird sense of self because we just Aren't Built Like That™ but told we should be #it's fucking stupid and annoying and I hate it #anyway I love you guys you're valid and fine the way you are and I'll drop kick anyone who argues otherwise #💞#positivity #minor rant #lgbt+#lgbtq #trans positivity

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icewindandboringhorror · 2 years

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is this actually that uncommon? I don’t even unpack just the DAY I return from somewhere, but it’s literally the first thing I do. I do nothing else until I’m unpacked, I have everything organized back in it’s proper place in the house within an hour of getting home lol.. I thought this was typical??? What’s the cultural norm?

#same with groceries or anything else I;m bringing home from outside - i put it away or d o soemthing with it immediately #I just don't like looming tasks in the background taking up my mental space like 'oh i still have to do that later' etc.#I can't relax until everything is taken care of. If i try to relax or rest when I just got home from a trip there's just always the nagging #sense that I'm going to have to get up and do something else LATER (put the stuff away) so why not just do it now #It's the whole principle of 'be more uncomfortable in the present in order to help yourself in the future'#Samme thing with covid like. Follow the social distancting tules and wear masks and do everything extremely dillignently NOW no matter how #annoying or inconvenient it is at the MOMENT because the future pay off will save you more discomfort later (more vairants coming out - long #er lockdowsn because of wider spread - you or your family getting sick - etc.)#I am ALWAYS willing to inconvenence myself and ''suffer'' temporarily in the present if it will help my future self or get me a larger #benefit down the line. etc. etc. But to me that just seems like.. literally the only rational thing to do #what's more important? my temporary emotional satisfaction or my long term wellbeing ? always the long term #it might feel good to just come home and flop onto the floor and shove the suitcases aside but is that like hour or so of rest worth #the annoyance later when you realize you've still got to put everyhting up and now you REALLY don't feel like it and etc. etc. ?#just save your future self the trouble and get it out of the way #But again I just thought it's like... everyone would also do that??? If not then when do you unpack? days later???#Kind of like how in childhood I still had a lot of issues (hadn't developed cognitive empathy really at all - no affective empathy - don't u #nderstand social cues well or people at all - etc.. which is a recipe for frustration when Living In A Society since people are always #doing things you don't understand and you struggle to communicate properly or be understood like everyone's just speaking a different langua #ge than you) and worse anger problems and there were a few times I would come home from shcool or something and just freak out and #knock my shelves in my room over and break things or etc - and it's like OKAY that feels fine in the moment but.. consider the aftermath!#now I have to spend like a whole fucking hour cleaning my room and putting everyhting back together and etc. etc. and it's like a negative #feeling on top of a negative feeling. not only am I still kind of mad but now I have EXTRA work to do when I just want to go to sleep #So in a more minor way it's the same thing like.. If I feel shitty from traveling I don't want to DOUBLE the shitty by having extra stuff to #do later and some task looming over my head. I want to get all the bad out of the way first so I can just have uninterrupted peace later lol #if that makes sense? idk lol #The one exception is once recently I had been somewhere and got legit heat exhaustion and was throwing up by the time I got home so #I didn't unpack everything then. But after cooling off and having pedilyte and stuff I still shakily unpacked before I went to bed lol

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astrxealis · 2 years

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hi good afternoon!!! take care of yourself, if you see this! <3

#⋯ ꒰ა starry thoughts ໒꒱ *·˚#today is kinda :(( bcs i hate irresponsible people! even if you're family/friend not sorry :))#but UWAH HELLO GOOD AFTERNOON!! i look great today hehe (ofc!! self-love hooray!!)#random thought (unrelated to why i currently am vv annoyed by irresponsible family members/friends! & also /nbh) hm. i don't understand why #hm.. more like i DON'T LIKE. when. friends r like haha don't snitch like HELLO ... if you deserve it i am not giving you special treatment #hello ?? even if i love you yes! even if youre my best friend! esp w friends tbh bcs. idk if my way of thinking is common but #literally anyone around you could be your friend. so tbh yeah treat everyone the same. tho i love my friends ofc so !!#its interesting how friends :O there are so many friend groups and potential friends but the ones you have are the ones you have! rlly cool #i still very much believe people should get what they deserve though. even if youre important to me. :))#AGH OKAY I GOT THAT OUT NOW! uhhh i am out today but i will do hw when i can <3 rn ill just think and write and listen to music hehe

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mako-island-moon-pool · 11 months

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You want to know how bad my memory is?

I was writing last night and I just straight up forgot that Sanji exists. I have been watching this show since 2012, he was my fave Strawhat outside of Luffy pre-TS, and I FORGOT HE EXISTED.

I was like 'hm yes well the ones who would understand are Nami and Robin... W- wasn't there one more I was thinking of a moment ago? Wasn't there another one who'd Get It?????'

'it's not Chopper. Definitely not Usopp. And it's not Zoro. That's all the remaining Strawhats at this point in the story. So... Why am I convinced I'm forgetting someone? Let's go through the arcs in my head agai- OH MY GOD, I FORGOT SANJI'

#When I tell you my memory is shit... 😭 I used to own a Sanji shirt. What the fuck??#When that post about the memory issues finally leaves my queue #Like I joke about it but this shit can be genuinely terrifying. Like knowing my brain is getting worse. Knowing I'm probably forgetting #Seriously important things and just 'oops I can't remember haha'#It's scary.#I'll never get better because I'll just relive the pain over and over because my brain refuses to remember the help and progress I make #Every day I wake up back at step 1 it's so depressing and scary and horrifying and I hate it #I can never process anything bc I just forget and if I do remember it's like a punch to the chest for the first time every time #And people get SO sick of you after a while. Constantly asking for help. Never remembering anything. They get so annoyed with you.#Anyway. On a lighter note (not actually) I'm trying out a new one-shot :)#Not to speak ill of the 'soon-to-be' dead but Garp was a shit grandfather #So I was like What If Me And Luffy Had The Same Reaction #Because self love starts in recognizing your self through the other god damn it #Even if I finish this idk if I'll post it bc of how personal it is but it has been very cathartic to write #Then again I could just publish it anonymously so my irl friends won't see it. No harm no foul.#I (kid) once pushed my mom (grown adult) out of my room when she caused me to have a meltdown so I could 100% see Luffy doing the same thin #In my defense she had a habit of taunting me and destroying my stuff to punish me after inciting meltdowns and I just wanted to be alone #I was like 7 years old at the time (hell year hell year) so I doubt I actually hurt her. She just looked surprised. I remember that.#Sometimes I wonder why I identify so much with werewolves and then I remember ah yes. The childhood of being treated like a monster.#Like a freak because when people kept pushing your boundaries you'd rather bite than let them do whatever they want to you #Oh boo hoo such a terrible thing for a child to be... Protective of themselves...#ANYWAY. like I said this wasn't going to be much lighter.#I want Luffy to punch the lights out of Garp to protect his friends. Not even in-canon just in this fic #Ik in-canon Garp is a complex guy and loads of fans love him but... Smash eggs make sandwiches know what I'm saying?#Yeah GROOVY

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pochapal · 1 year

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email sending had a bad outcome gonna need 1 million business days to recover

#:)#too overenthusiastic in sending over material and now i'm in no contact jail until october (when the course actually starts)#i tried to be the prettiest and most special student and i just ended up looking like an annoying entitled tryhard. spiralling about it btw #it wasn't even a bad reply it was just 'we can't technically talk to you about anything until october but you're on the right track'#and it still burns!! because i should have known better than to bother these people with this inflated self importance #pochapal booboo the fool arc you hate to see it #anyway i'm gonna shake cry throw up for a few hours then keep going on umineko because my writeups don't make me feel bad at least

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sourkitsch · 2 years

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Not to be the bitch ever but the infantilization of Van Gogh on here is so fucking weird

#point of origin that doctor who episode #like he wasn’t some sad suffering misunderstood artist He Was Not An Outsider Artist #he was very much involved in the kind of movements that were occurring in European art in regards to the import of Japanese prints #and the whole thing with the ear was triggered by a fight with the famously morally bankrupt Gauguin #who among us has not thought about self mutilation when our toxic fucked up friends friend-breakup with us #and hey I don’t even like his stuff I just am annoyed about how people don’t know how to look at art #i know im complaining about the fandomization of an artist on the fandom website #it’s not lost on me

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