#selfdeclared

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[weaselbeaselpants]

Since I don't want to link it back to two scenarios so...um...immediate, I'll just say; the "Suffering just makes you hurt"-mantra is one I def subscribe to in day to day life, even in small, trivial' things like fandomwars.

I had a person get pissed at me once cuz I defended antishippers. They explained and showed me how they'd been harassed and abused by antis for no reason other than calling themselves a proshiper - no, NOT for actually liking anything with r@pe/cest/p3doshipping - just Reylo *in theory*. They got treated like a literal predator not for anything they actually did but for the title that genuine creeps have decided to use for their kink as this person did for their safe shit and they got blasted for it....and then this person proceeded to call me a cword and accused me of condoning their abuse by proxy of me saying " I don't think antis are inherently evil, actually".

I get it. When you put up with harassment from people touting their selfdeclared fandomom as some kind of badge of honor, of COURSE I understand turning your back on everyone who calls themselves that same thing! That's just, like, a survival instinct. You don't want to be reminded of your tormentor(s) because you really shouldn't have to be reminded of your tormentor(s) while you're browsing fandumb inbetween school or work. You want to keep your tormentors at bay so no triggering shit ppl are romanticizing or covert bigotry someone's hiding under the language of criticism to get in the way of your vibes when this is your fandom and your space to be creative and unwind and be you. I really get it.

The problem is, and the reason I DON'T put up with antianti or antiproshipper shit, that's labeling a whole lot of strangers inherently bad over not having the exact fandom takes and conflating that with your legitimate ethics of outing predators and bigots...THAT is what's shitty.

I know for a fact that not all the people who tag their shit #proship even fully agree on what proship means. I know they are not all predators or even don't care about predators being in their fandoms. Trust me, they care. Some of the #antiship folks I know are the most lax mf w it comes to content warnings, horror, kinks and nuance and also really hate call out posts and want to avoid them as much as they can. I know they are not all self-righteous prudes and bigots trying to get kink out of pride or some shit. THAT SAID- if I haven't already seen creepypredatorybs from proshippers or bigotedbully-tactics from antis, I can definitely believe those things exist in those spaces. But again, those behaviors exist whether or not a person uses these self-given labels. You shouldn't throw your hands in defeat anymore then your shouldn't declare yourself the sole liberator.

Blocked the proshipper-stan I was of talking about because I kind of don't like being called a cant and told I'm okay with death threats...just like I did the antishipper who was sending me death threats that same day =). I know I don't have to deal with that bs and I'm glad I took that advice from a mutual abt my own personal boundaries.

Call out shitty behavior all you want, but the absolutist-rhetoric is not healthy and, more importantly, not doing anything to help people being abused by fandomculture anymore than you were when you first got accosted for disliking a thing that made you upset/liking a thing that made someone else upset. You gotta share your fandom with everyone so long as they're not bigoted, abusive or predatory. And yeah, I kind of reserve all those notions for people I can tell ARE doing those things...so, y'know Lily Orchard.

[nature-played-a-trick-on-me]

From "there should be more research around conditions such as PCOS, endometriosis, and women who are in pain are frequently dismissed" to "im a selfdeclared expert on balancing your hormones by never eating dairy or gluten again, drinking 1 litre of horse piss a day and taking these overpriced uncontrolled supplements"

[wikagirl]

local selfdeclared baby hater continues to make cute/silly edits of the baby of one of my valheim buddies because everyone thinks it's funny (I put the baby in a little viking helmet)

[babyawacs]

@ufob0t  didthey butcher quark and moogie from the gasstation ridehome o r wasit morelike the evil faschist ideolgy deformed leader of geneticallym odified eugenics selfdeclared superhumans playign mankind as suckers as a liens from afar tried to conquer sth then lunch . @potus . @vp highfive

@ufob0t didthey butcher quark and moogie from the gasstation ridehome or wasit morelike the evil faschist ideolgy deformed leader of geneticallymodified eugenics selfdeclared superhumans playign mankind as suckers as aliens from afar tried to conquer sth then lunch .@potus .@vp highfive I am Christian KISS BabyAWACS – Raw Independent Sophistication #THINKTANK + #INTEL #HELLHOLE…

[bayouinfused]

Wednesday, August 10, 2022

#Living as a #Homosexual #Black #King 👑 in #America 🇺🇸,

I’ve adjusted to having #Enemies.

That #SelfDeclaration left me #Classified a #Traitor to my #Gender.

Then;

EVERYTHING changed.

#Allies became #Enemies.

Worst;

The people who used to fight at my side, became the ones who wanted to hurt me the most -

@BayouInfused

[sparrowsfall]

@selfdeclared​ confessed : 13!

from: 42 character development questions | no longer accepting

13. How do they greet the world — what is their typical attitude towards life? How does it differ in different circumstances, or towards different subjects? Why do they take these attitudes, and why do they change? How do these tend to be expressed?

he greets life with an easy sort of confidence. one does not speak to him and sense much unease about his role in the world, about his mere presence on Earth. he is here and therefore he belongs, soon settles into the crowds more skeptical of him thanks to such a convincing and charismatic aura. not because he boasts it --- if anything, he blends more easily simply because he doesn’t boast much at all. 

he is quietly sure of himself. sure of the plans God has for him and the trajectory of his life. maybe a little too sure, in some respects. has a little too much faith that everything that happens around him is all for the best, save maybe a few hard-drawn lines. because he can be all-too-quick to accept the unacceptable being laid bare before him. has trouble labeling the horrible as just horrible, no silver lining to be found. excusing it if he initially thought it good. until it no longer benefits him and his plans, no longer benefits God’s plans. GOD’S EVER-CHANGING WILL is the true deciding factor of his approach to life and all of the things that happen around him. and in this respect, he expresses himself in a web of contradictions. over and over, to convince himself and those around them that this must be so. reassurances that God does not negate personal responsibility can quickly degrade into excuses for himself, for others, if he believes it is all part of His plan. the end will surely justify his means. will justify GOD’s means.

for most of his adult life, he has taken the attitude that he is where he needs to be. that it all happens for a reason. now, he struggles to grapple with the truth: an old man in his state never should have been sent on pilgrimage. alone. he never should have been able to stumble into the mouth of a beast. alone. it had nothing to do with God’s plan for him, and everything to do with oversight on the part of his congregation. their ultimate fates? everything to do with his own inability to take the horrors of life at face value, and his refusal to give up on the family he so desperately wanted a chance with.

some 84 years later, he finally learns the answer to the question that led him deep down the path of his faith and career: why do terrible things happen? because life, sometimes, is just that. fucking terrible.

[fatestricken]

                                        ❛   i’d   end   my   days   with   him   ,   in   a   hail   of   bullets .   ❜

@selfdeclared​    //    lyric   sc .

[potentempath]

📜 uwu

incorrect quotes meme: accepting.

@selfdeclared said: 📜 uwu

[dralanabloom]

everybody's always on about hannibal's red sweater, BUT LOOK AT ALANA'S RED SWEATER. BABE.

that sweater, those pants, those less high boots than normal. she's got hannibal's red sweater vibes beat.

[cardiomyapathy]

@selfdeclared​ : "You look more generic white guy than I do, so your opinion holds even more irrelevance."

“ Yeah, to anyone who isn’t ALSO a white guy, but when    it’s just you and me, our opinions are EQUALLY bullshit.    You can’t be a minority white guy, I D I O T. ”

[notthedyingtype]

@selfdeclared gets a random thing from RILEY

        Parts of him still remember that first night in that cell. The kid that had tossed that Bible into the trash to never be looked at again -- wishing the same that could be said for the nightmare that played on loop in the dark whether his eyes are open or not. That girl with the glass in her face. Tara -- if memory serves him well ( &&. it does, he never forgot; even after all the years. )

        Hazel hues fixate on the bunk above him, one arm beneath his head &&. the other crossed over his stomach, debating if he should speak what is on his mind or not. He didn’t know if Zee was awake or not &&. he didn’t want to disturb his slumber if he was. Nerves, &&. a brief wave of excitement, were keeping him awake. They were both out of here tomorrow. Back to a life that they don’t belong to anymore.

        “...are you awake?” There’s a brief hesitation in when Riley draws in a breath &&. when he speaks, as if he’s terrified of waking the rest of the world up.

[babyawacs]

#aynrand is a program of sinister usa to twist rational into self s erving upperlayer of power asymmetry or wealth asymmetry like trying tofind excuses why you as selfdeclared evil toddler deserve more ic ecream than theother toddlers but thatthey agree s @gop stuff not @dnc

#aynrand is a program of sinister usa to twist rational into self s erving upperlayer of power asymmetry or wealth asymmetry like trying tofind excuses why you as selfdeclared evil toddler deserve more ic ecream than theother toddlers but thatthey agree s @gop stuff not @dnc

#aynrand is a program of sinister usa to twist rational into self serving upperlayer of power asymmetry or wealth asymmetry like trying tofind excuses why you as selfdeclared evil toddler deserve more icecream than theother toddlers but thatthey agree s @gop stuff not @dnc I am Christian KISS BabyAWACS – Raw Independent Sophistication #THINKTANK + #INTEL #HELLHOLE…

[dangermoved]

@selfdeclared​ . . . said: [ almost kiss ] 

            ❛❛ quick, get in here! ❜❜ hand darting out to grab zeller’s shoulder, daphne yanked him into the closet, closing the closet just in time to hear the front door open. the front door to an apartment that was definitely not theirs. as she held her breath, daphne’s eyes slowly adjusted to the darkness in this tiny space, cramped with shoeboxes and overflowing with coats. and of course, there was also zee, pressed close enough to her front that she could feel his every inhale. 

he was looking down at her with that look again, the one that made her go all wobbly inside. as she inhaled slowly, all she could smell was him –– and all she could think about were zee’s lips. ❛❛ I... ❜❜ she whispered, leaning into him. and then the door slammed. the lights outside the closet had gone dark again.  it was safe to come back out. ❛❛ we... we should get out of here before he comes back. ❜❜

[potentempath]

i’m sensing hostility 🤔

[dralanabloom]

brian zeller was one of the few people in this world who without fail always knew how to make alana smile. even before the two of them had gotten close the way they were now, in the middle of one of the most serious days, alana would have one interaction with zeller and she would laugh. without fail. some days, when things were hard ( before everything changed ) she would purpoesfully go down to see him. find an excuse or another to be around him. 

now she didn’t need an excuse. he was hers. and she was his.

‘ yes you are.’ she tells him, hand pressing against either side of his cheek, fingers massagging his beard before holding his face gently. ‘ but you happen to be my lovey-dovey dumbass, and i wouldn’t change that for the world. ’ finger gently runs across his lips, before leaning in and pressing a soft kiss to them. and then another. ‘ ever. ’

she laughs. ‘ it’s also a little contagious, i think i too, am becoming a lovey-dovey dumbass. ‘ she sighs dramatically, teasing. ‘ what am i going to do with you brian zeller ? ’

*      ╰       ⋮     “ yes, the rumors are true.  i’m a lovey-dovey dumbass.  ”  ━━  a meme (accepting)  ━━ @selfdeclared​