Just learned that men are making around 80% of the suicide rate and it's mainly due to lonliness. I think it's important to make people aware of it and maybe encourage others to be nice to the men in your life. You never know what they are going through
Agree and thanks for the info. Please, don't push people beyond their limits. Be mindful.
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In the context of bullying, not just the victims but also the perpetrators of bullying have a higher suicide rate. By the age of 13, a third of bullies have already considered ending their life, according to a study published in the Journal of Adolescent Health. Children living in families having guns have suicide rates four times higher than those living in families without a gun.
Bharat Dogra, ‘Widely Pervasive Mental Health Problems Indicate A Dysfunctional Society Requiring Wider Social Reform|’, Countercurrents
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Suicide Rates For Girls Are Rising. Are Smartphones To Blame?
Hospitalisation rates for self-harm have increased by 140% since 2010
— Graphic detail | The Jury Is Still Out | May 3rd, 2023
In 2017 Jean Twenge, a Professor at San Diego State, wrote an essay entitled “Have Smartphones Destroyed a Generation?” Her answer, “Yes”, was provocative at the time. Now, it is a common refrain.
Spurred by recent data showing a rise in depression among American teenagers, both the British and American press have barraged readers with stories about social media ravaging young people’s mental health. Jonathan Haidt of New York University has compared social media to waterboarding. The public has noticed: in a recent survey, 53% of Americans said that social media were mostly or fully responsible for increasing teenagers’ depression.
Smartphones went global long ago. If they are causing an epidemic of sadness, evidence should appear around the world. Data support the claim that young people, particularly girls, have deteriorating mental health. But they leave room for doubt that mobiles are the main culprit.
Mental health is hard to measure. Questionnaires are affected by survey design and psychological diagnoses vary between countries and over time. Instead, we focused on suicides and hospitalisations for self-harm among 17 Countries.
Both indicators look worrying for girls. Suicide rates have been falling overall, but girls—who kill themselves less often than other groups—are an exception. Among girls aged 10-19, suicide rates rose from an average of 3.0 per 100,000 people in 2003 to 3.5 per 100,000 in 2020. The rate among boys, although higher at 6.1 per 100,000 population, has barely changed.
Girls engage in more non-fatal self-harm, like cutting, than boys do. This measure shows even steeper increases. For teenage girls, rates of hospitalisation for self-harm have climbed since 2010 in all 11 countries with available data, by an average of 143%. Boys’ average rise was 49%.
Are Smartphones to Blame? In America and Britain, rates of suicide and self-reported sadness were steady until roughly 2010, when Instagram launched, and then took off. Although these simultaneous increases do not prove that one trend caused the other, such a correlation would probably arise if phones really were at fault.
Elsewhere, however, the evidence is mixed. Some countries, like Sweden, saw sharp rises in hospitalisations for self-harm in 2006, with a plateau in 2010-18. In others, such as Italy, this rate was flat until covid-19 arrived. A few countries had no rises at all. Suicides varied similarly.
Because smartphones were adopted at different rates in different countries, the timing of any increases they caused in suicides or self-harm should vary on this basis. Mr Haidt says that smartphones are especially risky for girls, because boys spend more time on video games and less on depression-inducing social media. However, we could not find any statistical link between changes over time in the prevalence of either mobile-internet subscriptions or self-reported social-media use in a country, and changes over time in that country’s suicide or self-harm-hospitalisation rates, for either boys or girls. After adjusting for the impact of covid, which raised these rates Globally, this was true for all age groups, and for a range of time lags.
Absence of evidence is not evidence of absence. Numerous studies using randomised or natural experiments have implied that Social Media can cause Sadness or Anxiety in teenagers. And smartphones could still inflict Grave Damage without driving people to hurt or kill themselves. But if social media were the sole or main cause of rising levels of suicide or self-harm—rather than just one part of a complex problem—country-level data would probably show signs of their effect.■
Chart Sources: National Statistical Authorities and Health Agencies of: Australia 🇦🇺, Austria 🇦🇹, Belgium 🇧🇪, Czech Republic 🇨🇿, England 🏴 & Wales 🏴, Estonia 🇪🇪, France 🇫🇷, Germany 🇩🇪, Japan 🇯🇵, Mexico 🇲🇽, Netherlands 🇳🇱, New Zealand 🇳🇿, Norway 🇳🇴, Slovenia 🇸🇮, South Korea 🇰🇷, Sweden 🇸🇪, Switzerland 🇨🇭and United States 🇺🇸; United Nations 🇺🇳; The Economist
— This article appeared in the Graphic detail section of the print edition under the headline "The Jury Is Still Out"
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Dear boy parents, your little son’s aggressive and violent behaviours are not cute. Teach that little shit some manners or don’t cry when he grows up all lonely and miserable and ends up contributing to male suicide rate, because no girl parents are teaching their daughters how to be good partners to your dusty sons anymore. Girls are no longer growing up learning to provide emotional support to boys with low emotional quotient and lacking basic manners. Women like me are teaching the upcoming generation of girls to decenter men, be selfish and only care about themselves. So male suicide rate is only gonna go more high from now onwards. Better option, don’t bring these XYs into this world. Abort them! Cause they are gonna go extinct very soon anyway. Times have changed! It’s not men will be men anymore, it’s men will be dead.
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For those who enjoy cottagecore, please read what I have to say.
As you may or may not know, cottagecore has stemmed from colonist ideals, is racist, and has ties to tradwives. However I will not go in depth on it as it has already been talked about in a few articles and some posts on tumblr. The articles are here, here, here, and here. The tumblr posts can be found here, here, here, here, and here. However I say this person, Zoe Bee, has done a really good job on her video here as she summed up everything I already linked before.
I will say this article came out more recently if you wanted something newer about tradwives.
In this current day and age it’s understandable to want what cottagecore promotes with its aesthetic. Beautiful flowers as far as the eye can see, a garden you tailored yourself that you like specifically, billowing dresses, cute animals that provide you eggs and milk, and so on. Especially having your own house is very appealing at a time where it’s unattainable for many people. But going out where you’re isolated from everyone, with just yourself and your animals, is not the answer. Going out to land that once belonged to indigenous people who have not been able to go back home is not the answer. Continuing to think of ideals of the past is not the answer.
Instead what we can do is transform cities to be more green, safe for people, and work with the environment around it. This is the answer. To move forward. To think of the future and create it.
One of the first things we should do is improve accessibility. As you know not everyone can walk, see, or hear as a few examples. Having better public transportation is important to ensure everyone is able to get to where they need to. As it stands being in a city, not everyone has enough spoons, or ability, to walk where they can go. Trains are very popular, especially when it comes to going to other cities or towns. However when it comes to North America compared to Europe it’s not as widespread. Trams (or streetcars or trolleys if you’re from North America) are also a wonderful example. We must be able to ensure that entryways are large enough for even the biggest set of wheelchairs to go through. Ramps for easy access are important as well as wheelchairs cannot simply “step up” into vehicles. And this is not just for wheelchairs, it would be good for parents who are taking their baby or small child around in a stroller. There’s also those who use walkers, people with wheeled luggage, carts and so forth.
But most importantly, it is vital for people with disabilities to be part of the designing process of a city, to ensure that their voices are heard and to ensure they take part in that everyday easy access that most abled people already enjoy. Like Braille, audio description, large print, and subtitles as a ready option that’s there from the get go.
Another thing with more access to public transportation, people would need cars less and less. And should they need to go somewhere a train or tram cannot, buses are still options. However with fewer cars, the roads would be used less. Parking lots would be smaller. We could a: make roads and parking lots smaller; b: take out roads and parking lots completely; c: transform roads and parking lots into community spaces; or d: do a mixture of all of the above. Some roads could turn back into the wild environment that existed there before, while we could turn parking lots into more parks. Streets could be like they were before cars became mainstream, where street vendors would sell their wares, where children would play games, and anyone would hang out. Parking lots could become a space for events like farmer’s markets or a place to shoot off fireworks. Or even instead of parks in place of parking lots, it could be transformed into a community garden.
When it comes to housing, apartment complexes are where we should go in cities. To keep from city sprawl, we can go up. We can transform rooftops to community gardens, water harvesting spaces, solar panel spaces, or a community space.
However in some spaces, like in the suburbs, or even some spaces where there are houses in a neighborhood in a city, we can turn them into “pockethoods”. We can turn a neighborhood into a village. In the city we could have tiny houses on the same plot of land one house would typically be on. In a regular neighborhood, picture a series of houses without fencing and the series of backyards turn into a common area.
We can plant more trees alongside sidewalks, both fruit producing and pollen producing, more fruit bearing than pollen bearing, to help keep the allergies down and to keep a variety of plants. We can plant native species in cities, and we can have non-natives in our community gardens, or even inside city farms, for both practical use, such as eating or creating fibers, or enjoyment, like flowers to cut into bouquets. We can create rain gardens to help collect rainwater to put back into our water table.
I know that cottagecore lovers love the idea of going out into the country and perhaps finding a community there, but the cities are here, we’ve been here. It’s people’s homes, their lives. Cities have been around for such a long time, one of the most well known oldest city is Mesopotamia’s Babylon. (Very famous for their hanging gardens I might add.) Most importantly it can be done. Even now we can go talk to neighbors, go to events others are holding, or even create our own events, create a big pot of food to share with others, and have community. We can make a difference and we can have that sense of love. We just need to band together, demand change, and create our change. It can be hard, yes, but it will be so rewarding. This, you might find yourself doing, is something that aligns more with Solarpunk. Something that people look to strive for a brighter future for everyone.
Thank you.
(And thank you so much @cwicseolfor for helping me edit this TT^TT)
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I didn't really get into wrestling until I was an adult and in my first serious relationship. It's one of my boyfriend's special interests. However, in the periphery, I always liked Chyna.
I don't remember the exact year but I do remember reading If They Only Knew during a pretty bad time in my life. It wouldn't be until years later that my self-esteem got to where it is now. But I remember her talking about her childhood and being bigger than the boys and struggling with her femininity. And it just...healed so much of my inner teenager. When I hit puberty I got fat and I was already SO fucking goddamn tall. I struggled with gender because it made me feel masculine and gross and undesirable. And knowing she had those same feelings? And seeing where she got? She became my hero.
She deserved better than what the world gave her. But she blazed a path for what female wrestlers could look like. That they could be physically strong, that physically strong people could be sex symbols! She was feminine while strong and beefy as fuck.
I'm sorry for all that you went through and I'm sorry life turned out that way. I think she sees where the Divas are at, hell not even Divas anymore, she sees how women are respected (well...sorta) as wrestlers again, as fucking beefy powerhouses. As sex symbols while being strong as fuck. And I like to think she's happy. I like to think she tunes in on Monday night, wherever she is, and roots for all of them. I like to think she saw Rhea's studded get up in homage to her and cheered louder than any of us living cheering for her.
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