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theloveinc · 2 years

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#ok ive been thinking about it bc it was itching at me and i guess what feels weird is like...#i think everyone wants interaction . big blogs AND small blogs and everyone in between #even if they don't write regularly #so to ignore the kind words of ur anons trying to reassure u ... AND misunderstanding their points? just feels super nazsty to me #people leaving tumblr also means fans leaving tumblr too ???#quote unquote fans #esp since like. why are u blaming ur followers for this? people SHOULD interact w/ everyone but no one is really at fault for #talking to their fave ppl and not to u #PLUS there are way more polite ways to ask than 'i miss doing this!!! ppl don't want me except for content'#idk. u voluntarily write content?#so u should expect a mix of responses to it vs. like the automatic assumption that u want to be told random stuff so u can respond to it #idkkkkkkkk #just felt like she was saying:#'i want ppl to interact with me bc i like it... and not bc ppl actually want to interact with me'#and maybe i justsay this bc im unfamiliar with one place #but...#ur in the stranger things fandom so it might not work the same as the anime fandom #dunnnnnnooooooooooooooo #i think WE ALL work hard for more personal interaction but it takes time #i was also gonna say........ hmmmm #i cant remember but ill come back and edit this if i do #OH it was something like... also if u cant support other writers too / sustain interaction w/ them................#what are u really asking for? it's not like the message is making the community better #it's just making ur situation better when ur in a very specific niche #caitie blabs

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skunkes · 5 months

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#prefacing this with I Know Spanish. i cant not know spanish‚ my parents don't speak english #but im the only one of my siblings that didnt get to go to school over there 🇲🇽 (just pre school)#adn the thing is like. my siblings wld talk to me in eng of course #(if they talked to me at all! what do u say to a baby when you're 9 12 and 15 yrs older.)#and my parents wld similarly jst not talk to me? i did not have conversations with them from birth to now lol.#thjere is something about how like. my sisters kids are also learning the languages at the same time #but when they mess up in spanish theyre corrected‚ by my sister (their mom)‚ my other sister‚ my parents #why not Me. why wasnt that extended to Me as a child...#the same reason I have the least amount of baby pictures while my siblings all have one full book each i bet #the same reason why my and my eldest sister are 15 yrs apart LOL #igts so crazy to me. i hate mentioning this bc people assume #im one of those ppl who isnt fluent bc their parents speak english and spanish and never taught them #my parents dont speak english❗❗❗❗#my nephew thats older than me who is my fave family member and also only speaks spanish #is coming up on sunday idk that i can fully carry convo with him!#pure spanglish bc i didnt grow up having convos in it writing it reading it #thats why im so desperate to read books in spanish now. im so deeply ashamed #igts so crazy. i hate it.#saw a comment on smthng the other day thats like ''idk how u can have parents that only speak spanish and not know it lol''#well can you take a guess. can u take a guess as to how that would happen via interactions. lack thereof.#idk why but its even more embarrassing this way. genuinely how cld u not know...?#its like i was born to feel isolated from my family in every single way...youngest by so many years #the language thing. the Hates Eating thing. the trans thing. most severe failure to launch #im so embarrassed to be alive....!#and i dont belong anywhere. and i am Alone wherever I am.#abandoned by direct and distant relatives. ancestors.

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coffin-flop · 5 months

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i found this on canva and totally forgot I made it at some point. so here's a list of some of my personal fave authors who use they/them, neo, or multiple pronouns :3

Aiden Thomas

Rivers Solomon

Emery Lee

Anna-Marie (A-M) McLemore

Sarah Gailey

Akwaeke Emezi

(the links lead to author's website or wikipedia page, depending)

#trans authors #trans books #nonbinary authors #nonbinary books #transgender books #trans pride #queer books #trans book recs #nonbinary book recs #anyway the featured images aren't necessarily my fave by each author if u want book recs pls dm me i'm always wanting to talk abt trans boo #there are many ppl (some of my other faves too!) tht include btw!#lgbt books #queer authors #book recs

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memehayes · 10 months

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writing my 10th essay to my friends on how frustrating it is to watch fans and hgs alike downplay and undermine the distress women face from being stuck around men who make them uncomfortable while simultaneously needing to retain those very men’s approval / favor for any number of valid personal and professional (ie game) reasons but not clicking send bc it’s 4am and their sweet unsuspecting selves don’t deserve to wake up to that

#bb25 #it’s mostly on twitter but god i’m so tired #the vilification of america for existing both as a gamer and a woman ends HERE !#like take a fucking wgss course idk what to tell you anymore if you don’t get why cameron making her uncomfortable & wanting to work w/ him #are two things that can coexist esp given this specific house dynamic & america’s current place in it #not to mention ppl who still bring up her & izzy shirting on cam (prior to him ramping up his harassment) only for america to softly walk #it back when l8r speaking to cory (AFTER telling him he wouldn’t get it as a man mind u) as some sort of gotcha … like yea why wouldn’t #she walk it back negative things she said about cam to cory who at the time had a positive perception of cam?#cory is also a MAN in this house and this game #you don’t have to like america or appreciate that she is in opposition to your faves to not completely miss the bigger picture #and regurgitate misogynistic talking points that blame women for men’s poor behavior

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angelsdean · 1 year

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no but actually. looking at gifs from that IG vid again seeing how happy jensen is after they show dean on screen makes ME so happy like !!!! he truly does love dean so much and i get it !! it’s the same joy i feel whenever i see dean too !!! he really was so upset abt dean’s death and we see it every time he has to talk abt it and the whole finale and just. yeah he wants dean to live !!!!! he wants him to LIVE !!!!!!!!

#and he's trying to make that happen. and maybe we will see cas in the prequel and maybe we won't #but i know this man wants dean alive and i know he also knows the main fanbase that shares that desire are us destielies #and he's got his WIFE in one ear talking abt her fave cas and he's got misha in the other ear talking abt time traveling angels. y'all #anyways. i love JOY !!!!!!!!!!!! i love seeing ppl HAPPY ABOUT DEAN !!!!!#ironic hate is boring when u can just revel in the joy of dean being ALIVE !!#vic.txt

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mwagneto · 6 months

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any time i remember time lord victorious arc i start shaking like a sick fucking dog

#having an extraordinarily hard time watching waters of mars rn literally episode of all fucking time #they dont make them like this anyMOOOOOOOOOORE OHHMY GODDDD #icould talk abt it for hours istg it's so. grips you shakes you shakes you shakes you shakes you sh #the WAYYDYDYDHDHDJDJDJDUJDJDHDJDUDJD THHHEEEE THE THE THE . HTHHEHEH #the way u can see glimpses of what's to come in all 4 seasons but especially in voyage of the #damned and then s4 onwards but u dont realise JUST how much he went insane until now #like there's echoes of this in votd but you might not even pick up on it if you dont Know #n here he's just fully gone it's sooo. IT'S SOOOOOOOOOOO. CHARACTER OF ALL TIME #man so profoundly tragic his entire story is abt speedrunning losing everything and #going insane and dying. and yet he still spends like 20 entire minutes crying and begging not to die. okay #i cant rank drs they're my best friends so idk who my fave dr is but 10's is easily my favourite story it's so. it's SOOO.#anyway sorry. stops shaking you and pats your arms down awkwardly. carry on #doctor who #dw lb #10th doctor #the waters of mars #time lord victorious #i was today years old when i learned there's apparently a whole audio series about it that #came out in the past few years. well i aint listenin to that. everything i need is on my screen already #also. the way most ppl havent even seen these specials coz they're impossible to find online..#even tho waters of mars is like. not just extremely important but also yknow. extremely good

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cosmicdenro · 1 year

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ermmm

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alloutshirt · 1 year

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#one day there’ll be a day where i don’t have to read dumb shit when it comes to zayn #but like on both sides!!!#like if you don’t like him fuck the fuck off #and if you like him you don’t have to shit on the other boys #like i Do Not Understand #they’ve all matured and made peace and have so much respect and genuine love for each other #why can’t you do the same #or at least be quiet #no one wants your opinion when you literally know nothing #like imagine getting your fave talking for the first time in six years and you still take time to put down ppl you pretend u don’t like #this isn’t a competition #these boys have been through fucking shit way too young and huge shoutout to them for where they are now #each for their own achievements that are all equally admirable #here we love we love zayn and we love the boys and we love 1d and if that makes you mad then get well soon i guess <3 #x

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tomlivingspace · 9 months

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warrior cats fans want complex female characters until the female character is written to be antagonistic or in the wrong without showing womanly contrition and then she's irredeemable and should die

#like idgi.... if u dont actually want morally complex female characters don't like. pretend you do....#like the way ppl have been talking abt ivypool recently has my head spinning.... like idk its clear to me ger characterization is #pretty intentional? especially for erin hunter??? so yeah shes a bitch but like.... there's character motivation for it...???#anyway lemme tag my favorite girlies here #ivypool #needletail #star flower #mapleshade #bluestar #nightcloud #idk comment ur problematic fave female warriored cat!#sparkpelt doesn't rly count imo but respect to her!

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just-spacetrash · 8 days

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rules: choose 4 of your favorite characters from 4 pieces of media as options and let ur tumblr pals decide which one most suits your vibe !! <3 ((kind of) tagged by @bluehairedspidey :Dd)

Tagging: everyone who sees this! Yes you as well

#all my faves are crazy people so i left out like dr andre insidejob and george costanza and whatnot on purpose.. ig mandys still there tho #and i wanted to pick blorbos ppl might actually know so no maladict or melina here..#also i thought leon and dean are a bit too similar so i just picked one of em #and honestly i mean it when i say anyone who sees this its very fun #yes even if we dont talk yes even if we dont even follow eachother. consider urself tagged #my post #mutuals #i dont rly know if any of these characters fit my vibe but ^-^ pick the closest one i guess #or the one u think id like to be like fshsjdjd #uh oh also accidentally put it at just 24hours so. answer fast pleaseeeeee :>

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fisheito · 14 days

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@bad-theory say sike right now bro i always wished to be powerful enough to . influence someone's Affection Levels for a Character like that 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

#i felt such a sunburst of glee DO YOU UNDERSTAND #bc i'll see other ppl vouch for their faves and say all these smart things and draw crazy good stuff #and eventually it wins other people over to that char's fanbase and. wow. isn't that so nice #(scoops more people into the basket of creating content for that char. just entering the cycle of feeding each other)#i didn't think i would ever help yakumo's case LOL i'm just dunking on him all day #you walk onto my blog and it's just me violently shaking his shoulders like #[WHAT ARE YOU. YOU ARE HOPELESS. I HATE YOU. WHY ARE YOU LIKE THJIS.#YOU HAVE NO ASS OR TITS. YOU'RE THW BEANPOLE-EST OF THE NOTHINGEST OF THE BL GENRE. YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO STAND UP FOR YOURSELF #WHAT IS GOING ON WITH YOUR YAOI HANDS. GETOUT OF MY HEAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *throws him into a lake*]#...#then again #i feel like if someone else were to start smacktalking yakumo and they said the exact same things as me #i would turn contrarian like YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT. NO I DID NOT JUST SAY THE SAME THING. IT'S DIFFERENT #(it was not different.)#look i'm gonna shut up before i go on a whole nother. rant. about nothing #but thank u for your tags.... people actually liking my interpretation of a character is amazing to me #I HAVE A VERY SPECIFIC VIEWPOINT AND A VERY SPECIFIC SET OF LIKES. ALL OF WHICH I WILL PUSH AS AN AGENDA (quite conspicuously)#the tags tho

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starlooove · 3 months

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Racist white ppl who don’t realize they’re racist getting mad about gojo is so funny

#y’all do the same shit #making them hot cheeto girl edits using AAVE USHER!!#helloooooo call in house etc.#but also I’ve been saying this for awhile #where ppl don’t want complicated characters or interesting arcs bc then they have to think about themselves #I’m not just yapping y’all u can look back #this is the second time feeling so vindicated #bc when it happened with Sokka and everyone was confused I literally said this is a product of this mindset #like grand scheme the reason they removed that from Sokka is that y’all can’t stomach ur faves having biases even when they improve #look at how y’all are reacting to gojo #I may tell a joke but I will never tell a WHAT #well no I lie a lot sorry #anyways point is y’all running to say gojo isn’t racist even tho the point of the scene is him unlearning that bias #and then turning around and saying you want complex characters #like it’s so telling when the only flaws u give ur characters is insecurity and maybe assholeish tendencies that don’t actually mean a lot #like y’all want these ppl to be you till they’re actually you #ugh #anyways y’all are so lucky I resisted adding my hate for another character for this #you ALRDY know who #just know he’s in here too #oh obvious obligatory duh ppl didn’t write sokka or gojo bc of eachother I’m talking about behavioral trends across media consumption dont #piss me off like with the way y’all act I wouldn’t be surprised #I’m not saying they’re related Like linearly or whatever I’m saying this shit isn’t coming out of nowhere it’s YOU!

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cosmobrain00 · 2 months

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well🙂

#*visibly trying not to burst into tears* hey guys whats up #surprise surprise another absence bc my life can’t stop getting WORSE evry day it seems haha!#so. now who’s gonna tell me how u deal w the loss of ur fave person n the one person u were 100% certain truly loved u no matter what #who also inspired u to be an artist in the first place n who's been there for u ur ENTIRE life #like idk how to start dealing w it lmao. one min ill be basically okay n then the next ill feel like smthing just tore a chunk out of me #looked outside just a sec ago n thought “oh so she'll never see my progress in art. oh ill never get to make another painting for her”#n yk part of me just wants to pretend like none of it happened honestly #like “hey that was a fucked up dream oh well let me call [x] n tell them I love them”#n I dont fucking KNOW how to deal w this grief n idk whats normal n what isnt #no I havent cried rlly but almost every day I feel like I cant breathe n tht my chest is collapsing in on itself #no I cant talk abt it but i can’t draw like I used to n thinking abt my last art project makes me wanna throw up #< considering it was going to be a present for her tht she'll never get to see. Haha so funny right guys #fuck I need to get so entirely drunk over this now RELAPSING TIME BABY!!#anyways. will try to be normal tm n talk to ppl again instead of isolating as a way to cope n sorry to ppl who have msg'd me Ill be back

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k8felge · 2 months

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nothing hurts more than seeing ur fave character depicted in an official au story or elseworld where details ab them r different but it explores the character in a new way -- its good in a vacuum, but u know it isn't the Definitive Version of that character. Just a new exploration (cool!). but because the adaptation brought in so many new fans and/or was a huge success it ends up being treated like its the Definitive Version and all discussions of prev versions are overshadowed bc of it... even worse when studios / execs see the success and try to pivot to this New Version only and never try to explore new routes for the character ever again (can you tell this is about comics yet)

#like its not as bad as it was but when the batman (2022) came out...#like this is not hating on ppl who are fans of these depictions at all. if u like the riddler in the batman (2022) ur fine #i like the riddler but eh i dont think that version should be the new riddler. my two cents #but dc isnt marvel so i wasnt worried ab them changing the comics riddler to him moving forward #now MARVEL on the other hand...#i dont rly go there tho so take everything with a huge huge huge pile of salt. but sigh #anyways. this post is NOT about shaming ppl who are fans of these new versions #you can be a fan of any of these new versions. idc.#this post is about STUDIOS and EXECS changing the character completely to capitalize on the new versions success #this is just mostly ab mcu i guess i dont know #i want more explorations of characters gimme moreeee there shouldnt be one defined version #i guess my talking points r confusing. i hope this is coherent and comes across well #ALSO SOME RETCONS / NEW VERSIONS R GOOD SOMETIMES!!! it just depends i guess :p #i hope this post didnt come off as malicious to fans of these versions.#HOWEVER. new fans u gotta try to read some of the other stuff too! maybe u will find another version u like TOO!#u can have two cakes... and eat them... lets hold hands and appreciate diff versions of our faves 2gether #a good example of a retcon being good is arcane i guess... not comics but just the designs r so much better #but i wouldnt say everything ab arcane SHOULD be the new runeterra canon...#it works bc its only focused on zaun and piltover characters. to fit it in with everything else is... hard #BUT THATS OK 👍

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himejoshiangels · 4 months

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I forgot how endlessly annoying the fh fandom is jesus christ

#fantasy high #yall do not treat certain characters like they are intelligent human beings who make intentional decisions or at least are played by ppl #who make them engage in certain behaviors INTENSIONALLY #it feels like yall are consistently engaging with KRISTEN AND FABIAN specifically in bad faith #for some reason ig some of yall got it into ur heads that some of the bad kids are just bad people and only view their actions thru that #lense #maybe its this like new wave of fans but fuck man are yall making this so annoying to engage with #rewatch all of s1 & 2 before you talk abt my faves thank u vry much!#thought bubbles

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mikanotes · 7 months

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thinking about insane unhinged bloody hyunsu in s1 if this keeps up it’ll end with a new fic

#my love fr he’s so. aaa #i love him so bad likeeee my cha hyunsu i will protect u #Also thinking abt the amount of ppl crushing on monster hyunsu…. U FAKES!!! /j #real ones love loser hyunsu whos depressed and terrible at talking and like everything but also the kindest boy ever…#AND THEN the crazy one . but not without the first duh ?#Hyunsu brainrot sorry i gatekeep my faves #mika is speaking or crying or yelling

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