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#then the house hunt stress
cerbreus · 1 month
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Starting to feel like I have been beset by a white woman etsy curse based on how this year has been for me.
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skellydun · 3 months
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bound my first journal today!!!! and boy is it fucked up!!!! can't wait to try my hand at a book next!! we're doing it lads we're fighting the depression with poking yourself 4738292 times with a needle
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lenaellsi · 1 year
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baby pictures
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cemeterything · 2 years
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Adult friendships aren't distant and "never meet" I think you just need better friends.
1. it was an exaggeration for comedic effect about how hard it can be to organize meetups as an adult 2. when you and all your friends have full time jobs and live in different parts of the city or even the country because you met at college it's pretty normal to not see them in person for a proper hangout as often 3. my friends are great and i love them we just don't see each other every day
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myriahkamm · 5 months
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So, uh...I'm officially a homeowner.
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Moving over the weekend. It's a small house (less square footage than my old 1-bedroom apartment), but it's mine, and I get a yard and a garage out of the deal or something.
Also......
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I'm so nervous about this hopefully helpful new step in life. 😅
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I have found a beautiful perfect humble rock specimen that is light yellow with a weird dark yellowy brown lining, somewhat resembling a chunk of smoked gouda cheese... effervescent
#I am still very into trash collecting at the moment and even went out and got one of those grabby sticks for cheap and a little#bucket I can carry around and put trash in. so I am going on walks in nature a bit more (not really to enjoy nature but more to play the#very fun Real Life Hidden Object Point And Click Game that is 'hunt for bottle caps and cans' .. but eh.. whatever gets me out of the#house lol).. anyway.. some nature places near water will have cool rocks#Which I know you're not supposed to take them and I MOSTLY dont.. but every once in a while it's like... when else will I ever find a#gouda rock... I have cleaned up 4 buckets of trash today.. I have helped the environment.. mayhaps.. i could take a One Single Rocke as a#treate... ANYWAY. but yeah. I don't know the names of rocks but there's a rock that's a matte muted marigold yellow sort of#color and I call them 'cheese rock'. I'm pretty sure this one is of the 'cheese rock' species but it just has weird brown coloration#like maybe it got stained or something on one side of it. Most of the other cheese rocks have no markings. though sometimes there will be a#auburn reddish sort of hue on a corner or something.. hrmm.. curious. I also got a Beginner's Hobby rock tumbler and some supplies#so I might try polishing some of the rocks from my enormous rock collection. even though they're all street rocks I picked up from sidewalk#and stuff. I saw a video where someone put random gravel and stuff in a rock tumbler and none of them were Stunning Gems or whatver#but some still turned out cool enough that I would be pleased with the result... OUgh.. I want to post more I need to like do costumes and#sculptures and stuff and be Active On Social Media and think about my Future and Career and how it always benefits artists to keep an#active social media or etc. but I just feel so tired and bad lately. I think the summer heat waves have really exhausted me. I also have#been trying to make new friends + on a weird schedule so I've been socializing and also watching media too much. I notice I always start#to feel this kind of unsettled stress of not making any forward progress in my life if I do that for too long. like 'Okay this week I've#done nothing but meet up with two friends & watch like 10 episodes of tv and only worked on a few projects on the side.. this is HORRIBLE!'#(ppl who follow me here that I talk to on discord: this isn't about you! Im specifically just referencing being tired of introductory talks#with a new round of random strangers during my Friend Hunt. Just clarifying so it couldn't be misinterpreted as vaguepost implying that I'm#secretly bothered by talking to you or etc. lol.. anyway) . Which I know to MOST people 'I talked to a lot of friends and watched some cool#stuff!' sounds like a GOOD relaxing time but.. to me it is not ghhj.. Those are 'external' focuses on things outside myself which bothers#me if not moderated. Like.. i MUST retreat internally to work on my worldbuilding and my own thoughts and etc. at very regular intervals or#it will really start to bear on me too much. Brain Mandated Hermit Isolation lol. Just being too detached from my world and stuff for#too long feels increasingly bad. PLUS. every day I don't make tangible progress towards my goals is a day wasted that I could have been#investing in my future by working on novels/games/sculptures/actual career relevant stuff. Not even in a Capitalism way i just genuinely#enjoy Completing Tasks & feel miserable if I don't for too long. EVEN the media I'm watching I turn into A Task since I rank in a detailed#google doc list after viewing lol.. Like EW movie too boring on it's own. NEED to turn it into something I can categorize and analyze ghghj#LOVE to make things more complicated than they need to be. like YAAAY organizational tasks! yaay meticulous sorting!! BOO ''mindless fun''!
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daandori · 3 months
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i am doing not great today lads
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bjurnberg · 1 month
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Roommate stress.
I live in a three bedroom apartment, one person renting each bedroom. One roommate had to move away unexpectedly (no fault or blame) three weeks ago and she was extremely kind in offering to pay next month’s rent if I can’t find someone to fill her spot.
A neighbor at the apartment complex across the street said she’d love to check out the space - she’s living alone right now but rent is so expensive this would help her save money to move a couple states away in December when the contract at her current hospital is over (she’s a nurse). So it would be a short term roommate, but give me time to find someone more permanent.
She liked the room and said she started the online application process but then didn’t respond for a week. I know she often works 16 hour shifts but some communication would be nice. So I asked and she said the application was taking time. Okay, it does that, cool.
Another week goes by with nothing. “Hey, can I get an update?” And she responds with “I’m still deciding.” So I gave her a deadline of this Friday (3 days before the month is up and rent is due) to decide. Offered any help she might need with the application (English is not her first language and legalese is hard) and said I’d be happy to go talk to the office manager in person together.
And my other roommate just let me know he got laid off his job at the airport. Oof. He plans on staying here and is job hunting, but oof.
I don’t want to ask my old roommate to pay for a room she doesn’t live in anymore, but it wasn’t an empty offer either so I’m not going to feel guilty if I have to. It’s just… stress.
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secretariatess · 6 months
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Waiting for some good news regarding this manhunt for a mass shooter, and all we get is news of more places closing down to follow shelter in place orders for a couple of cities and neighboring towns.
Local grocery store has shut down all of their state locations, regardless of how close the shooter is suspected to be, until 10.
City thirty miles away from shooting location shut down their schools.
I swear the whole state is going to shut down, and then they'll like find the guy drowned in a river.
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bootyful-seventeen · 8 months
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hey y'all, anyone have any good stress relief tehniques or habits they'd like to share cuz I've been more stressed in the last 3 weeks then I was in the last 6 months
#to cut the long story short my mom had to sell the old house cuz her broke ass couldnt afford to keep it up#eventho it is a whole ass hoarders house and was in shambles with a flooded basement a collapsing ceiling in at least 2 rooms plus mold#and the stench a dirt and dog piss and shit all over the floor really made it worse then it was#but yeah so shes been staying with me and my grandma and its been awful#she hasnt been taking any of the medicine the doctors gave her when she snapped and started a fight and also started screaming at neighbour#so shes been terrorizing us here while the house has become her second hoarders den since she dragged so much crap here#my backyard side entrance and front porch are full of her shit and my grandma hates it since she can barely step into the house#so since she kept looking for places way out of her budget i had to go do house hunting since my useless sister is busy getting lit again#so ive been showing her shit in her price range that was under 420k cuz im not a moron who looks at 800k homes when i have 570k#and each time she has a new complaint saying its too expenive or its too small or its too old when she said she wants to do renovations#but shes saying she wants to renovate a newly renovated place instead of an old one#so i just showed her a house near my sisters uni and she liked the inside & backyard but she complained that 400k for newly renovated 3 bed#that is literally a 9 minute drive from my sisters uni is too expensive when shes the one who was looking at an old ass unrenovated bungalo#that is a street over from us that is 800k and she says it looks like garbage cuz an old lady previously owned it before dying#like no shit it looks old cuz older people lived those decades and like it and she just keeps doing her bullshit again & again#cuz when i tell you her mind is gone i mean it is GONE and she starts up all these wild stories to just explain some shit#like something goes missing? the neighbours are hungarian and stole it and left the hoard of junk in her old house#she has more stupid stories to harass and stress us out with but if im gonna share that ill have to write a book about it cuz fuck#and you know its bad when no one else can stand being in any contact with her cuz she starts screaming at people about it#so the only one who even likes her anymore is my sister and thats cuz shes deep in denial about just how insane she is & how abusive she is#so yeah i need some stress relief help that maybe isnt constantly hitting up maryjane cuz i dont do weed often especially since shes here#cuz weed 'burns your brain & makes you crazy like this' when shes the only one whos ever infuriated me to astronimical levels#i know retail therapy helped before she came here but i dont want to keep spending money i dont really have#it would be great tho but shes refusing to give me the 70k she said was mine from the house sale so i can cut her out for good
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harperbrynne · 9 months
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Hunt in Crescent City vs Bryce in Prythian
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jtownraindancer · 9 months
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the struggles of hunting down a recording of a radio show that aired in another continent when you were only 10 years old
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your-jellyfish-senpai · 6 months
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My friend / boss just called me after work to tell me that I'm probably going to be laid off tomorrow :)))
My partner and I just closed on a house yesterday :)))))
We're moving on Saturday :))))))))
Our mortgage is double our rent and I will have no income :)))))))))))))))))))
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trans-cuchulainn · 10 months
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had a dream that i opened my emails and the letting agent was like. you can have the house you want but it's 250pcm more than you were expecting to pay. you have ten minutes to say yes or no
needless to say this was a stressful dream
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opens-up-4-nobody · 11 months
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#woof. if all goes to plan Tomorrow is the last day i have to take measurements forever. if all goes to plan. if all goes to plan. but im#not holding my breath bc thats asking for chaos. i think this week ive done a good job of not pushing it#in terms of not torturing myself and making myself insane. which is good bc its exhausting taking measurements with the ambient stress of#apartment hunting from across the country. ive toured 2 places from afar and applied to them. and im meeting with someone to talk abt#potentially being roommates tomorrow. which is terrifying bc i really just wanna beg them like pls pls like me so i can stop looking pls#like i have to rely on my charisma i guess when im a bit asocial and odd. not unlikable but idk maybe they want someone more normie idk#its exhausting. ive sent so many emails and so many places r like no u gotta physically visit. ugh#and i have to clean my whole apartment by Tuesday for my landlord to inspect bc i had to give them a 30 day notice or else they wouldn't#release my info for like referal on background checks. there should b flexibility in when i can leave tho. its just stressful#at least im doing this when im pretty stable and i stop taking measurements tomorrow but i haven't taken a break since last Saturday#and haven't really had time to properly draw which annoys me and apparently i wont get a break this weekend with all the cleaning i gotta do#but oh well. at least im better off than the other person i kno who is moving Tuesday across the country and currently doesnt have a place#to stay. so i guess theyre gonna b living out of their car for a while. im stressed enough a month out from leaving#sigh. im just v tired and my heart is beating too fast and i wanna start cleaning now but im sleepy#whenever we go sampling we joke that we have to make sacrifices to the weather gods for good conditions. i guess i gotta make sacrifices#to the housing gods 🙏 ugh. pls. i dont wanna still b doing this for another week when i wont have time bc ill actually have to focus on#things. ugh. cant wait to b in the future where i dont have to deal with this#unrelated
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gentlethorns · 6 months
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i have always been and will always be utterly fucking insane. help
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