#urtoospoiled

[lipstvcked]

Fav blogs?

My current favs are : @urtoospoiled @dreamgrlarchive @staszki @babiestleo @goddessglo @milliondollaprincess @k-luna @luvdiosa @theperfectgrl @black-finesse @dabirkinbae @daprettyprint @bbybirkins @sarabianqueen @teighlorrenee @spoiledsilly @trip2venus @jluxsymone @billionairebabes 🤍

[luxuryandlilacs]

I was tagged by @samatonin 😘

Rules: Go to pinterest and type in “[your name] core aesthetic” and create a moodboard using the first nine images. No need to reveal what your name actually is.

I tag: @thesapphireprincess @femefetalelevelingup @h0listic-heartthrob @opal-angel @memoirsofmimimango @urtoospoiled

[haruharuz]

who are some of your favorite tumblr accounts ?

I don't have many people that I follow/favorite to be honest! I like @boujeeceo 's work ethic and honesty. I like @urtoospoiled 's content sometimes as well! As for anyone else, I love some of @luxurybrownbarbie 's takes. Otherwise, I dont have any true "favorites" i suppose. Aside from maybe "aesthetic" blogs for luxe.

To be honest, I follow a lot of studying/learning blogs. I prefer it. The majority of the heaux/etc community here are lying through their teeth. They also have downright horrible takes most of the time and come off as having superiority complexes.

Because of this, I don't often look into luxury and spoiled blogs!

[theessenceaesthetic]

Soft Life, Black Girl Luxury and Consumerism

Hey loves, today I want to discuss an interesting topic!

The YouTube girls have been talking, and we've been labeled! The title of choice is consumerist!

con·sum·er·ist

/kənˈso͞omərəst/

OFTEN DEROGATORY

adjective

characterized by a preoccupation with the acquisition of consumer goods.

Lets take a small dive into the soft life, clean girl and black girl luxury trend.

As a clear starting point I'd like to reference the definition of #blackgirlinluxury defined by Rokeya Rodney The Black Girl Luxury trend  - (carbonmagazine.co.uk)

"Black girl luxury shows black women doing luxurious and expensive things like go on exotic holidays, buy designer items, drive around in top of the range cars and eat at 5-star Michelin restaurants."

Lets be honest, the consumerist narrative that surrounds black girls in luxury is being drug all the way out. Luxury shouldn't be defined as how high end your hair, clothes and dining experience are. Lets be honest we've all gone to a $50 bottomless brunch at local a establishment and lived our best affordable luxurious life.

When asking one of my favorite blogs on tumblr @urtoospoiled how master the "lux" look 24/7 this what she had to say : (1) (ur name here), Urtoospoiled on Tumblr

"Can I be frank? I’m too grown to be out here pretending as if I’m ever going to be luxe all the time. Sometimes the best you’re getting out of me is a wig, lip gloss, a lil perfume and basic ass sweats. When I started from scratch, I started with buying my starting wardrobe from Pretty Girl and Rainbow (outfit, shoes even the underwear. No shame.), a synthetic wig from the beauty supply next door and Body Fantasies body mist because that was all I could afford. You couldn’t tell me I wasn’t luxe and I attracted the luxury lifestyle I now have as my playground"

While this stern response was well understood, I believe that my idea of "lux" was misunderstood. When I say I lux I mean well put together all the times. Perhaps I'm envisioning the clean girl aesthetic (who knows these days!) Please refer to exhibit A.

The classic movie "Love Don't Cost A Thing" 100% embodies my soft life and clean girl aspirations. In my opinion, successfully mastering the ability to effortlessly slay from head to toe qualifies as black girl in luxury. You must invest in yourself CONSTANTLY in order to obtain this level of femininity. As @urtoospoiled stated, "even if your items come from rainbow shop" or the like, its the constant serve that counts.

Lets address the consumerist aspect of self care

In all honesty, if you are going on massive skin care hauls on a weekly basis you may be a consumerist! Did you finish your last batch of eye cream before you traded it in for the next big thing?

[boujeeceo]

Rules: tag people who you want to get to know or catch up with

Tagged by: @undiamantnoir (thanks hon! 💖)

Favorite color: Rose Gold

Last song: Subin Circles Dream

Last movie: Helen Skelter (2012 Japanese version)

Last series: Kill La Kill

Sweet/Sour/Savory: Sour!

Currently working on: healing from SMILE eye surgery, planning my rhinoplasty trip, planning to drop another 5lbs and planning a launch party for my next line of Planners.

Tagging: @ikkimikki @keepmefocused @urtoospoiled

[vetripetraraani]

Girl/Femme Blogs I love - Part 3!

@damaincharacterrr

@urtoospoiled

@princess-wisdom

@affluentmelanin

@indiaarielt

@xo-indulgence

@thesapphireprincess

@daphne-dauphinoise

@highblkfemsociety

@thehypergamyproject

@hyperga-me

@chichiscloset

i love allll these pages too ❤️❤️❤️ they have nice advice for lifestyle related matters :)

[pinkprincessphin]

manifestation success story!

i had been affirming for a while that i have money to support my (as my favorite blog @urtoospoiled taught me miss you, saving up to join the penthouse!) too spoiled life, and i got a message early saturday morning in the work group that we would be getting paid weekly starting in january

me, looking at numbers at first, panicked.

i would be going from a big number every two weeks, to half that every week, and it would be more obvious that i took out money to do things. thinking that way, i was extremely sad at first, but my fiancé reassured me that in this way, in a way, i would have more money to play around with than before, especially because he wants to help me!

look out 2023, here i come 😌💕