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Just a quick sneak peek at my new psychological thriller, Elusive. If you're one of the few people who are interested enough, you could follow me on the tweeters for daily updates. Thanks, love ya guys!

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My blanky and I. #nohomo

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My Heart is Open

I know you're scared I can feel it It's in the air, I know you feel that too But take a chance on me You won't regret it, no One more "no" and I'll believe you I'll walk away and I will leave you be And now's the last time you'll say no, say no to me It won't take me long to find another lover But I want you I can't spend another minute getting over loving you If you don't ever say yeah Let me hear you say yeah Wanna hear you say yeah yeah yeah Until my heart is open Now you gotta say yeah Let me hear you say yeah Wanna hear you say yeah yeah yeah It's just a moment go and seize it Don't be afraid to give your heart to me And if you do, I know that I won't let you down, no Yeah, so hand it over, trust me with your love I'll do anything you want me to Cause I can't breath until I see your face Oh and I don't need time to find another love But I want you I can't spend another minute getting over loving you If you don't ever say yeah Let me hear you say yeah Wanna hear you say yeah yeah yeah Until my heart is open Now you gotta say yeah Let me hear you say yeah Wanna hear you say yeah yeah yeah

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"Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life."

Bob Marley

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"You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something – your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life."

Steve Jobs

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Even the biggest smiles can be the ones that aren't real.

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Change

You never know when one person can change your life, and you never know when that one person is you.

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"There are moments when troubles enter our lives and we can do nothing to avoid them. But they are there for a reason. Only when we have overcome them will we understand why they were there."

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Let it all go today.

You can spend all day living in pain and regret; but if you never just let all of that go, you will never find the one thing that will make your day the best.

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There is no limit to what you can do, where you can go, or what you can discover.