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🌸 how to stop overthinking & start enjoying life 🌸

Girl, it’s time to stop letting your mind run wild with a million what-ifs and start living your best, most romantic life. Overthinking is the ultimate mood-killer, and we do not have time for that. So let’s soften up, take a deep breath, and step into our dreamiest, most effortless selves. Here’s how to stop overthinking and start glowing ✧.*˚

✿ romanticize the present moment ~

Overthinking usually happens when we’re stuck in the past or stressing over the future. The secret? Romanticize the now. Focus on the way your perfume lingers in the air, how the sun kisses your skin, or the sound of your favorite song playing in the background. Turn every second into something beautiful.

✿ let go of the“perfect”outcome~

Perfection is an illusion, darling. The more you chase it, the more stressed you’ll feel. Instead, embrace the charm of the unexpected. The best things in life happen when you let go and trust that everything is unfolding exactly as it should.

"soft hearts attract soft moments."

✿ keep your mind busy with pretty things ~

A busy mind can be a beautiful mind if you fill it with lovely things. Make Pinterest boards of your dream aesthetic, start a darling little journal, read poetry that makes your soul flutter. Keep your thoughts in a soft, dreamy place instead of spiraling into overthinking.

✿ speak to yourself like you’re a princess ~

Would you ever tell a princess she’s doing everything wrong? No, never. So why talk to yourself like that? If you catch yourself overthinking, pause and say, "Everything is working out for me. I am loved. I am safe." Shift your inner dialogue to something sweet and comforting.

✿create a soft evening routine ~

Nighttime is when overthinking loves to sneak in, but we don’t allow that in our soft life. Instead, create a dreamy evening ritual: dim the lights, sip a floral tea, apply a delicate body lotion, and fall asleep imagining the prettiest version of your future. ✧.*˚ The energy you go to sleep with is the energy you wake up with!

✿ let life be light & fun ~

Not every decision is life or death, angel. Some things are just meant to be enjoyed—so let them be light! Laugh at the little things, say yes to spontaneous moments, and don’t overanalyze every word someone says. Flow through life like a soft melody, not a tangled mess of thoughts.

✿ trust that everything is unfolding beautifully ~

The universe adores you, and life is always working in your favor. Instead of worrying about how things could go wrong, start believing that things will go right. ✧.*˚ Manifestation works best when you relax into your dreams and let them come to you effortlessly.

✿ final thoughts ~

Overthinking is just a bad habit, and like all habits, it can be replaced with something softer, dreamier, and way more magical. Life isn’t meant to be a puzzle to solve—it’s a love story to experience. So breathe, trust, and let yourself glow. ✧.*˚

- 𝘫𝘯𝘲𝘶𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘦 🍓🧸🍰

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Become Your Best Version Before 2025 Masterlist

Hello! This is the Become Your Best Version Before 2025 masterlist. It’s a collection of all the posts from the series, gathered in one place to make it easier for you to access and follow along.

I hope you find it inspiring and helpful as you work towards becoming the best version of yourself!

Day 1: What Does Becoming Your Best Version Mean

Day 2: Understanding Yourself / Self-assessment

Day 3: Identifying Limiting Beliefs

Day 4: Identifying Your Core Values

Day 5: Setting SMART Goals That Actually Stick

Day 6: Creating Your Personal Mission Statement

Day 7: Building Better Habits

Day 8: Mastering Time Management

Day 9: Auditing Your Relationships

Day 10: Mastering Your Emotions

Day 11: Taking Care of Your Body

Day 12: Stress Management

Day 13: Financial Planning and Budgeting

Day 14: Career and Purpose

Day 15: The Power of Self-Talk

Day 16: Digital Detox and Mindful Living

Day 17: Decluttering Your Life

Day 18: Creating Healthy Boundaries

Day 19: Self-Care Rituals That Actually Stick

Day 20: Building Confidence

Day 21: Overcoming Fear & Self-Doubt

Day 22: Developing New Skills

Day 23: Personal Style & Self-Presentation

Day 24: Setting Up Progress Tracking Systems

Day 25: Designing Your Accountability Plan

Day 26: Personal Development Tools and Resources

Day 27: Hobbies & Passion Projects

Day 28: How to Keep Yourself Motivated

Day 29: Prioritizing Yourself and Your Needs

Day 30: Creating Your Vision for 2025

Day 31: The Beginning of Your Best Year Yet

*** Divider Credit: @thecutestgrotto ***

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[thestrawberrygirly]

☃︎ 30 things to do on winter holidays ☃︎

crochet something cute like a scarf or a beanie.

bake a cake and decorate it creatively with holiday-themed designs.

make handmade christmas cards and give it to your loved ones <3.

get super cozy and watch your favorite comfort movie.

journal your entire winter holiday and fill it with memories, photos, and doodles.

decorate your room with fairy lights and christmas-themed decor.

take a christmas aesthetic photoshoot in your cutest winter outfits.

build a cute gingerbread house and decorate it with candy.

have a sleepover with friends in matching pajamas.

create a vision board for the upcoming year.

try making christmas themed diy candles or bath bombs.

start youtube channel and upload aesthetic vlogs in your style.

have a christmas movie marathon with snacks and blankets.

make handmade friendship bracelets or charm keychains as gifts.

meditate by candlelight.

list down the things you want to manifest in 2025 and stick to one manifestation method.

create music in bandlab for fun.

make some cute christmas aesthetic stickers.

do a different workout routine for a week.

make a winter themed playlist in spotify.

create christmas aesthetic pinterest board.

learn a dance choreography.

write a handwritten letter for your bestfriend and add up cute stickers and cute doodles.

create a pinterest board on how your life will be in 2025.

listen music of new genre and explore more of it.

research about something interesting.

watch aesthetic vlogs on youtube.

write a poem.

read a book.

design some clothes inspired by the winter aesthetic.

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✨️thank you for the tag @huellitaa <3☘️✨️

telephones by vacations 💗

home is a question mark by morissey 🌱

everyone adores you (atleast I do) by malt maltese🌸

sunny day by beabadoobee 🫧

the perfect pair by beabadoobee 🎀

right side of my neck by faye webster 🌿

apple cider by beabadoobee 🍎

white mustang by lana del rey 🌷

blue by yung kai 🪼

eyes don't lie by isabel larosa 🦋

romantic lover by eyedress 🍃

rises the moon by liana flores ✨️

ykwim? by yot club 🪷

glue song by beabadoobee 🧃

i bet on losing dogs by mitski 🥨

roommates by malcom todd 🍙

loneliness by ginger root 🎈

you get me so high by the neighborhood 🍵

(too long 😭)

𓍯 tags : @bunnysdollette @dollywons @haerbai @fromheavensent @lovecorrin @universalitgirlsblog2 + anyone 🌸𓍯

Username Song Game

rules: pick a song for each letter of your name and tag that many people

tagged by @rabbitplanet <33

L: lonely hearts club - marina

O: old friend - mitski

V: V.A.N - bad omens, poppy

E: everything to me - porter robinson

R: relax / divide - hail the sun

S: softly - mannequin pussy

H: hunnie - locket

E: easter sunday - don broco

L: lover's hell - 愛是唯一[Love_1]

L: let's get married - the bleachers

tagging @kavabar @griefprophecy @gothicpoets @sl3epyvamp @onlinelvrs @taxidermycatgirl @staratomizer & anyone else who wants to do this

[thestrawberrygirly]

✨️🌸 thank you loviee @huellitaa 🌸✨️

𔓘 a mood board for my favorite song 𔓘

アンディーヴと眠って

𓍯 tags : @bunnysdollette @dollywons @haerbai @fromheavensent @lovecorrin @universalitgirlsblog2 + you 🌸𓍯

thank u @taxidermycatgirl and @dollrunopka 4 tagging me in this ♡♡

🍒 ˖⋆࿐໋ ݁ a moodboard for my favourite song…

yayo - lana del rey since it’s not letting me put it on 😭

「tags: @dollysweetdolly @a-daisys-secret @euphoriavaiii @ange111girl @angelblvd444 @qvruz @rottenswan @angel1sm @cantmakeitonmyown 」

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omgg thanks for the tag @bunnysdollette <3

✿ favorite colour - pink 💗🎀

✿ artist that you’re gatekeeping - ley soul,wasia project, grentperez, lamp, dosii 🌸✨️

✿ hobbies - singing, listening music, writing stories, drawing lil bit, crafting cute stuffs and i really trying new things out!!!

✿ aesthetic - pink dollette and strawberry shortcake 🍰

✿ clothing style - very girlish and pinkish also sometimes comfy baggy with cute baby tees ✨️🤌

✿ favorite animals - turtles, dogs, cats, fawns 🎀

✿ a goal of yours - i want to be a singer, author , youtuber and a business owner of coquette aesthetic journals made by me <3

✿ a photo you love :

i found this photo on pinterest and this girl looks very similar to me and is literally my aesthetic <3

loved this game 🫶✨️🌸

✿ tags : @huellitaa @dollywons @haerbai @lovecorrin @fromheavensent @universalitgirlsblog2 ✿

tag game!

anyone can reblog even if you're not tagged!

here's mine:

fave color: pink

artist you're gatekeeping: cozy st. jean

sports/hobbies: tennis, cheer/baking, girlblogging

aesthetic: ethereal angel coquette?

clothing style: basic, Stockholm, coquette, brandy melville

fave animals: sugar gliders, fawns, lambs

a goal of yours: have a pretty and clean room ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི

a photo you love: (no nsfw allowed!)

thx for playing!

tags: @monavwall @mydarlingangel333 @diorbows @angelblvd444 @dollymess @ashcvie @fubonim @elyseomg @bunnysdollette @b4byd0lldiaries @the-anxious-acrobat

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tumblr just deleted a huge swathe of palestinians who were on here trying to fundraise. if you've been helping any of these fundraisers please take this time to 1) check in with palestinians you're in contact with 2) help them submit support requests if needed 3) keep these campaigns circulating while the beneficiaries are being silenced. these campaigns are life or death, this isn't just social networking. do not let these fundraisers languish.

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Sham...

A Childhood Stolen by War 💔

When I think of my little sister Sham, the first thing that comes to mind is her innocent laughter that used to fill our home with joy.

Sham, who is just four years old, was once a lively, energetic child, full of innocence and unaware of anything but playing with her toys 🧸🎈.

But now, she carries a burden too heavy for her tiny shoulders, a burden that has stolen her childhood and weighed down her little heart.

Since the war began, everything has changed.

We have been forced to flee several times, each time hoping that it would be our last stop 😔🏚️.

Sham would watch us silently as we packed our few belongings, her eyes reflecting fear and confusion about what was happening around her 😔.

With every move, Sham lost a part of her little world—leaving behind her friends, her toys, and even the sense of safety she once knew at home 🏡.

In the last place we sought refuge, Sham started developing a health problem that began to appear on her skin.

At first, we didn’t know what caused it, thinking it was just an allergic reaction due to the constant changes in environment 🌍.

But as time passed, red patches began to appear on her small body, and each day the patches grew worse, turning into painful sores 😢.

Sham cried from the pain, and we couldn't afford to get her the necessary treatment😢

Access to doctors or medicine became almost impossible due to the ongoing conflict 🚫🩺, and we now live in a place lacking the most basic necessities.

Sham would ask us innocently, "Why can't I play like I used to? Why does my skin hurt?" 🥺, and all we could do was reassure her that everything would be okay, even though deep inside, we felt completely helpless.

Our constant displacement has also affected her nutrition 🍽️.

We can no longer provide healthy food, which has weakened her immune system, making her vulnerable to illnesses 🤒.

Sham, who was once a healthy child before the war, is now frail, her body unable to fend off the diseases that keep chasing her.

Despite all this pain, Sham remains a child 🌸.

Even in the hardest moments, she tries to smile 😊, searching for small moments of joy in anything she can find around her.

But those smiles have become rare, filled with sadness that no child her age should ever know 😞.

Her story is the story of thousands of children who have suffered because of the war 🕊️.

The war did not spare anyone, young or old, and it did not show mercy to Sham's childhood.

Her life has been suspended between pain, fear, and deprivation.

All we want is to give her back a piece of the life she deserves 🎨.

We are doing everything we can to provide Sham with the treatment she needs and to restore the sense of safety she has lost, but we cannot do it alone 🤲.

We need your support, not only to secure medicine and treatment but to give Sham the chance to live her childhood as she should 🌸.

Every contribution can help heal her wounds and bring back the smile we’ve missed 💖.

We hope her story touches your kind hearts, and that you will extend a helping hand to a little girl who has known nothing but pain. 😔❤

We want to give her a better future, free from pain and fear 🌟✨.

Vetted by @gazavetters , my number verified on the ( list #8 )

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Thinking of you.

🤍🖤💚❤️

Fundraiser under the cut.

Please follow this link and read @ahmedpalestine's story. His fundraiser is currently at €6.030.

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hii pretty people!!!!🎀✨️ im so happy to announce that i finally started my subliminal youtube channel🌸 you can go and checkout my very first subliminal!!!!🌿💗 i hope this works for you and I love youuu <33🫶💗✨️🌸. you can give me ideas on which topic should i make subliminal next 🫶.

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How do I manifest my sp faster ( I tend to struggle because I miss him sm)

🌿 manifest your sp faster 🌸

to manifest your sp faster or to manifest anything, you just need to release all your worries and anxieties, do not tend to overthink about the situation alot, this way your manifestation will just delay more. don't get too desperate about the result okay? i know it's hard but in order to manifest something you need to surrender to universe and trust universe completely ! just know that universe has your back and is working behind the scenes to bring your sp into your life, then why to worry? believe that your sp is right beside you, sitting with you, loving you.

trust that the universe is aligning all the right circumstances to bring your sp to you. just forget thinking about how and when you will get your sp. just know that you will be with your sp on the right time which will make you surprise and it will happen in just in blink of an eye.

while you’re waiting, turn your attention inward. focus on your own growth, happiness, and self-love. don’t dwell on the absence of your sp. by loving yourself and nurturing your own well-being, you become even more attractive and aligned with your desire. before you go to sleep, spend a few minutes visualizing that you are with your sp. imagine different situations and scenarios with them. this practice is crucial as it imprints these images on your subconscious mind, which works on them even while you sleep. visualization helps to create a sense of reality in your mind, making your desire feel attainable and real. upon waking up, the first thing you should do is write while visualizing being with your sp. describe in detail how you are already together, what you’re doing, and how it feels. this morning practice sets a positive tone for the day and reinforces your belief in your manifestation.

understand that manifestation works on its own timeline. stay patient and positive, knowing that everything is unfolding as it should. keep your vibration high always. i hope this blog helped you.

i hope you manifest your sp faster. love ya 🌸 🍓 🌿

thank you for reading <3

[thestrawberrygirly]

BEST BEST BLOG!!!!!

The Doll Project

I sulk way too much, I get depressed and fall into my bad habits, sleeping late, overthinking and maladaptive daydreaming; I am through letting my mind get to me. I will fix my mentality by finding the root of my issues and working on healing the wounds. For the next few months I will be turning into my “Model” self; reaching my goals, teaching myself things I don’t know and improving my life.

Phase 1 - Mentality

My model has the mentality of a monk, she worries about nothing and focuses on the present, she avoids temptation easily and never has second thoughts. She doesn’t know what insecurity is and always believes in herself.

Phase 2 - Health

My model doesn’t consume processed food or fast food! She knows the damage that they cause and has no intent on becoming a diabetic or overweight, she doesn’t suffer from insomnia and can sleep as soon as she hits the bed, she always gets 8 or more hours of rest. She loves to workout! Exercise is her best pal and she loves it unconditionally.

Phase 3 - Hygiene

My model is obsessed with being hygienic, she showers every day or every other day,

She has a strict shower routine that she goes by and never changes. Her dental health is good hands, she watches lectures by professionals and uses non chemical grade toothpastes on her teeth. She always looks clean and smells amazing.

Phase 4 - Faith

My model follows her own path in faith, she prays to God and keeps in touch with her Ancestors, she recites ancient Kongolese chants and keeps in touch with her culture. She reads the Bible and practices the scriptures as she goes on about life.

Phase 5 - Facial Aesthetics

My model has a very symmetrical face, her smile is even and her face is well balanced and defined, she accentuates her Afrocentric features in the most majestic ways.

Phase 6 - Body Aesthetics

My model has a perfect body, not society’s standard but her own, she has a slim figurewith curves and embraces her natural body by always keeping herself in shape.

Phase 7 - Hair Aesthetics

My model has type 4 hair and knows what her helps her hair best, her hair touches her knees and her fro is her crown 👑 Her hair is her veil and it embraces her beauty and grace.

Phase 8 - Voice tones

My model has an incredibly soft spoken voice, she speaks elegantly and clearly, she uses well thought sentences and has a strong sense of vocabulary, she is fluent in multiple languages and speaks all tongues in the most formal manner.

Phase 9 - Mannerisms

My model has exquisite manners, she shows her elegance while walking, sitting, eating, standing and so on, she always boasts her feminine energy by showcasing her manners and respect towards others.

Phase 10 - Education

My model is the smartest person I know, she is incredibly disciplined and dedicated to self studying. In her free time she writes research papers and studies linguistics in various languages. She has a profound love for Mathematics; the basics all the way to vector algebra. Her best subject is science, all types. She reads 24/7! You never see her without her nose in a book.

Phase 11 - Organization

My model is incredibly organized ✨ She has a planner as well as a tracker, for everything. School,bookkeeping, weight loss trackers, cleaning schedule. You name it she’s got it, she always keeps herself in check by writing all of her plans and goals down, she is the master of organization.

Phase 12 - Personality & Aura

My model naturally has an attractive aura, everyone feels safe in her presence and urges to be near her when given the chance, she is many people’s “safe spot” and enjoys the company and compassion of others. She has a good personality, always willing to listen to others and offer support, she doesn’t judge others and despises the idea of backstabbing. She is caring, soft and kind.

Phase 13 - Hobbies

My model has various hobbies, editing, sewing & Knitting, Cooking & Baking, Calligraphy and more. She balances out everything and is very talented at each one of them.

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very helpful!!!!!! LOVED IT ☘️💗

mental diet game⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧋

this concept is from solar subs THE CREATORS CODE. shes also on youtube (she makes subliminals) her work is rly amazing and i highly recommend reading it to anyone who is new to manifesting.

i wanted to introduce a concept of a mental diet game that i learned about in something called the creators code. it rly helped me to understand the concept of mental diets and i think it’ll help you to understand it, AND put it into practice. 

the objective in the mental diet game is to NOT LET YOUR OPPONENT SCORE, opponent being opposing thoughts/limiting beliefs. so basically how you do a mental diet is to be conscious and attentive to your thoughts. you start by asking yourself 

what am i thinking right now? 

is this a useful thought?

what makes a thought useful is entirely dependent on you and what you are manifesting. if your answer was YES then awesome, continue thinking about it. if the answer was NO then the next course of action would be to think ;  

is it productive and true to who i am?

STOP and block the ball (the ball = opposing thoughts)

be still and know that you’re literally god (or whatever empowering affirmation you use to remind yourself that you’re the creator)

keep in mind that mental diets do in fact require effort, as does becoming a master of your mind but that's what this blog is about isn’t it? the stricter you are with your mental diet, the more you are aware of your thoughts and you’ll eliminate limiting/contradictory thoughts quicker. 

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as I said in the last line of the blog that I made it for myself and people can follow it if they want. also i made this because my exams are very near and my daily schedule is becoming little unhealthy so that's why it's like this :(. you all can adjust it in your own preferences and use it if you want <3

✮ ⋆ ˚｡ healthy routine 𖦹 ⋆｡°✩

wake up at 5 am walking for 10 minutes brushing teeth workout drink 1 glass of warm water go to toilet (stooling) bath skin care breakfast at 9 am [recipe : oats with peanut butter, milk, cashew nut + almond sprinkled and honey (overnight in fridge will be great) ] study lunch at 1 pm [ lunch : any vegetable curry with rice ] study clean house at 4 pm workout + walking for 10 minutes drinking green tea at 6 pm study having dinner at 9 pm [ same as breakfast ] study drinking milk before sleeping brushing teeth skin care sleep

i actually made it for myself but you can follow if you want to <3

[thestrawberrygirly]

⋆ ˚｡⋆୨୧˚ romanticise nourishment˚୨୧⋆｡˚ ⋆

full tummies, fuelled bodies and freedom from ‘good’ or ‘bad’ foods!

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Hii! Can you maybe give a guide to how to heal and reset myself again after a flu? I was sick for 4 days and now I'm not really feeling myself even though I'm kinda better and I don't know how to motivate myself 🫶🏻

i understand you so much, i hope this guide helps you <3

🪷 guide to get back on track 🪷

firstly , i would say to not rush things, take your time and do things slowly. if you rush things like doing multiple things at a time like you used to before, you might get overwhelmed or burn out. i'm actually saying this cause I have been through it, I hope you be productive as well as take care of yourself <3

☘️ simple routine ☘️

create a simple routine for yourself which includes fewer and easier tasks for you, like reading 10 pages of any self help/motivational book, you can also give 1 hour time daily in your academics, doing some house chores and not using any electronic device for sometime. you can sit under a tree as tree can help your energy to cleanse and make you feel more lively. add "walking" in early mornings in your routine, i bet you will love it!!!!

🌱 picking tasks 🌱

now, this is kind of interesting! you can add a fun twist to your daily routine by creating three chits with tasks or hobbies written on them and placing them in a box or jar. each day, pick one chit at random and whatever task or hobby it suggests, go ahead and do it! write down the tasks you feel like doing each day and make chits for them. this activity might also motivate you to be productive daily! plus, add one new task chit daily to keep progressing baby!!!!!

🌿 pinterest board 🌿

pinterest always helps me get back on track, and it could do the same for you!! here's the plan: create a board on your pinterest account focused on being 'productive.' write something motivational in the description of the pinterest board so that every time you visit it, you feel energized and inspired. add pins about pretty hobbies, study motivation, self-help book recommendations, and anything else that catches your eye – you know pinterest is an endless source of aesthetically pleasing content. by envisioning your board daily in the morning, you'll feel motivated to be productive and work on yourself even more!"

🍀 regular breaks 🍀

it's very important to take regular breaks and allow yourself time to rest. taking things slowly is perfectly fine; in fact, it's often necessary for maintaining well-being and productivity. so, don't hesitate to pause, recharge, and then tackle your tasks with renewed energy and focus.

please be kind to yourself during this process of getting back on track. appreciate every little achievement you do in your entire day. don't get sad if you can't meet your goals, remember even if you did 1 task in a day, it's actually still so much better than doing nothing at all right? take care of yourself and don't forget to compliment yourself how much an amazing person you are!!!! <3

I hope this blog helped you :) <3