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so in love with myself lately. by being intentional with myself, i appreciate who i am even more. there’s so much value in living life with intention.

connecting with God and strengthening my faith, finding a routine, retail therapy, giving myself a little “treat” for every win in the day, outlining study schedules, sticking to my hobbies, prioritizing a relaxing space at work and at home.

every little seed you plant in your mind with love and discipline eventually grows into a garden through faith.

by lacking faith, you will never see it grow. remember, you have to work and pray. you have to be patient in the waiting. it’s hard to do all of these things consistently, and im still finding a balance.

but by having faith in a small seed, by being patient with yourself and God… you will confidently reap your harvest.

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I need to see the world.

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hey boss i can't come in today it's a sunny day and there's a lovely breeze coming in through my window, yeah it's rustling the branches of the tree outside that's finally bloomed so it's pretty serious

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that constant nagging of ambition and fear of stagnancy literally rules my life. sometimes it paralyzes me and i end up barely doing anything for the day and sometimes it energizes me. the need to get better, the need to improve skills, and the need to reinvent myself. it still shocks me that the average person doesn’t feel this ache to BECOME. to evolve. to flourish. to kickstart a metamorphosis every month. hell, maybe every week. like who am i without gutting my wardrobe or deciding a new career path? idk. but at least I’m another skill smarter, another look hotter, and another business wealthier. better than nothing at all.

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honestly there is nothing like living your own quiet life in peace. highly recommend cutting your losses with people who no longer serve you and moving on. block for a month and watch. after that month passes, you realize they took up way too much of your time. your growth can’t happen with certain people in your life, especially if they don’t wanna see you win.

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You deserve to be surrounded by people who bring out the soft side of you, not the survival side of you.

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Messages of support and strength from Rafah, Palestine to the US student movement.

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hiii i’m this anon https://www.tumblr.com/thevirgodoll/747790843224653824/right-now-im-in-a-long-distance-relationship-we

so we finally had the chance to talk about it and he keeps saying he don’t like calling and is with everyone even at work not just me and that if i want i should just call

the other day i was bout to call him and he said he was watching something but if i wanted to i could call and just threw me off lol maybe im overthinking but feels like not interested?

Welcome back love. Have you tried asking him why he puts so much energy into everyone else? Y’all are in a relationship, why can’t you openly ask these types of questions and discuss your anxiety without it being brushed off? Even if he has a preference, compromise is necessary in a LDR. I don’t know, I would’ve lost interest by now.

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had this problem of fantasizing of guys after i meet or spend time with them. to end this i just started not paying that much attention, being kinda dry and purposely not thinking about them when they are near me. (Never purposely been mean ew) This results in me literally ignoring guys who just wanna have short convos with me in my friend group esp in school. I just want to strike a balance of not fantasizing but still talk to guys without being rude

The way to fix this is to continue being yourself while also having things to distract you. There is no need to be a mean person to a guy… he can definitely call BS on your behavior. Contrary to popular belief, most people like feeling wanted and needed.

If you’re too busy with a hobby or working on a new skill, you won’t have time to fantasize over a man. It’s normal to have a crush but you don’t want anything to become limerence. While you’re sitting there strategizing on how to speak to that guy, he’s living his life - working out, partying, socializing. That embarrassment is enough for me to stop caring so much lol.

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Why would a guy I’m talking to saying he wants to get to know me and a relationship be (it seems to be) only complimenting me swiping up on my stories then be dry otherwise and not be opening up?

You know why lol. Because he is bread crumbing you and is only saying what you want to hear. He wants to get to know you to get in your drawls that’s why he’s dry and only about your appearance. No effort, he don’t like you.

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Dolls, advice of the day is to have a delusional relationship with yourself the way a stan does with their fav.

they never miss any moments in their fav’s life and they always defend them readily without any regret. they are involved in the most useless comments just to be able to discuss how great their fav is. who says you can’t do that for yourself?

there is nothing wrong with living your life as if you’re a celebrity. document your favorite looks, overly exaggerate the features you have that others don’t, highlight your talents and skills, brand yourself cohesively and see life as a runway to market yourself.

do this for at least two weeks. it’ll feel fake and cringe, but the more you pour into yourself instead of giving that to all of your friends or loved ones, the faster you can level up.

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the overwhelming, inescapable truth is that they know what they’re doing is hurting you. they’re literally choosing to do it anyway. people have common sense. don’t give them the benefit of the doubt anymore. they would never do it for you. they literally know their behavior isn’t something they’d condone themselves. respect is just the minimum… and they can’t even do that? let them be. that person will answer for what they are doing to you.