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i keep on hoping that one day i’ll wake up. sometime soon i’ll become worthwhile. something different, someone new.

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i have ocd and it is literally soul crushing

my bsf has adhd and always uses the wrong term like using intrusive when she really means impulsive. like baby i promise you wanting to dye your hair isn’t an intrusive thought

it’s so aggravating because it makes people not understand that an intrusive thought is a BAD thing that usually goes AGAINST your morals and values

no im not gatekeeping mental illnesses just because i said you can't diagnose yourself from a single thing.

no you don't have ocd just because you "are a clean freak".

no you don't have bpd/bipolar just because you have mood swings.

no your abuser isn't a narcissist or narcissistic just because they abused you/manipulated you and no im not invalidating your trauma by saying this.

no just because you don't like people you don't have aspd. what?

no just because you thought someone called your name while you were listening to music doesn't mean you have schizophrenia/paranoia.

no just because you're "quirky😜" doesn't mean you have adhd.

no just because you like something very much doesn't mean you have a hyperfixation/autism.

no just because people have low/no empathy doesn't mean that they are evil.

no pwNPD don't relish in manipulating and abusing the innocent.

no just because you cut your hair at like 4 am doesn't mean you have intrusive thoughts, that's called an impulsive thought.

and NO just because someone has intrusive thoughts doesn't mean they want to act on them. they're called intrusive for a fucking reason.

fuck you.

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Art by Essi Välimäki

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probably the best advice I've ever got was from my grandpa when I moved from my town and started a university, he told me to leave the house everytime when I start to feel down, just to go to the park, a supermarket, a bookstore, to even drive in a bus or tram, just be around other people because staying at home all the time kills you; and you know he was right

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How to make someone feel loved <3

Write them a cute letter.

Carefully listen to what they are saying and ask genuine questions.

Wait for them if you notice them falling behind.

Ask them how their day was. <3

Show them your favourite songs, films, and books.

“I miss you”, “I love you, “I’m thinking about you”.

Bake them something. Like the heart jam cookies from Pinterest (should I post the recipe??)

Make them a playlist. :)

If they get interrupted, ask what they were going to say.

Remember their favourite coffee/drink order.

Offer them encouragement and support.

Surprise them with a small gift, something that made you think of them.

Buy them flowers.

Send them links to stuff that you think they might like.

Let them know how grateful you are to have them in your life. <3

As always, Please feel free to add more suggestions and tips in the comments!

���‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

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I think some of you need to realize that some men just fall in love with themselves when they’re with you.

They fall in love with the idea of being the perfect boyfriend, the perfect husband. They fall in love with the reactions they get when they say their perfectly recited pick up lines. The faces girls make when they move the perfect way in bed.

They fall in love with the idea of being the perfect lover, the perfect catch, the partner every single man wants to be.

And then you will sit and wonder why he replaced you so easily, why the words he said to you felt so true and sincere and unlike anything you’ve ever been told before, yet held no weight.

Darling, you weren’t ever really loved. You were the third wheel in a man’s relationship with his own ego.

And his new lover will hear those same words and think: “God, I am so lucky to have found a man like him.”

And he will always and only ever think:

“God, She is so lucky to be with a man like me.”

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i love maren yearly with all my heart

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the things i text my friends when im high is so weird. like why tf did i say "the vibration of my pussy is a poet" after writing in a journal

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“‘What is a ghost? A tragedy condemned to repeat itself time and time again? An instant of pain perhaps. Something dead which still seems to be alive. An emotion suspended in time like a blurred photograph, like an insect trapped in amber.’”

— Guillermo Del Toro, The Devil’s Backbone

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"love is what makes us human" actually it's 'select all images with boat' but go off I guess

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What to do if you suddenly find yourself homeless

FOOD

Find your nearest food bank or mission, for food

grocery stores with free samples, bakeries + stores with day-old bread

different fast food outlets have cheaper food and will generally let you hang out for a while.

some dollar stores carry food like cans of beans or fruit

SHELTER

Sleeping at beaches during the day is a good way to avoid suspicion and harassment

sleep with your bag strapped to you, so someone can’t steal it

Some churches offer short term residence

Find your nearest homeless shelter

Look for places that are open to the public

A large dumpster near a wall can often be moved so that flipping up the lids creates an angled shelter to stay dry

HYGIENE

A membership to the YMCA is usually only 10$, which has a shower, and sometimes laundry machines and lockers.

Public libraries have bathrooms you can use

Dollar stores carry low-end soaps and deodorant etc.

Wet wipes are all purpose and a life saver

Local beaches, go for a quick swim

Some truck stops have showers you can pay for

Staying clean is the best way to prevent disease, and potentially get a job to get back on your feet

Pack 7 pairs of socks/undies, 2 outfits, and one hooded rain jacket

OTHER

first aid kit

 sunscreen

 a travel alarm clock or watch

 mylar emergency blanket

 a backpack is a must

 downgrade your cellphone to a pay as you go with top-up cards

 sleeping bag

 travel kit of toothbrush, hair brush/comb, mirror

 swiss army knife

 can opener

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Jude and Cardan 🥀

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more of my jason prompts ♡♡

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Thinking about that series on TikTok where canon batfamily characters meet their fanon counterparts and I think all canon characters would have a sort of disdain to borderline hate for their fanon versions EXCEPT BRUCE. Canon Bruce would be seething with jealousy

Canon Bruce: so you’re saying… most of them live with you. In Wayne manor. And it’s not burned down every week.

Fanon Bruce: yup! All of them except Jason, he and I don’t get along very well you see… he’s always angry with me so the weekly family dinners are always tense ://

Canon Bruce, through gritted teeth: you see him regularly? Must be nice.

Fanon Bruce: it is! The kids can get a bit rambunctious at times but thankfully their older brother Dick is always there being the good responsible mentally stable older brother he is so there’s not much damage except the broken vase or two

Canon Bruce, glaring daggers: is that so.

Fanon Bruce: there’s also Tim, he can’t get enough of his coffee, sometimes I have to replace it with decaf just to get him to sleep!

Canon Bruce, who has found Tim napping in places he didn’t think was humanely possible to sleep in: hnn

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“Bruce Wayne’s superpower is money” Bruce Wayne’s superpower is the ability to actively have a full-fledged panic attack and still look Superman himself dead in the eye without any of his vitals changing. Heart rate is a solid 60 BPM. You can’t even see him breathing. Put some respect on my man’s name.