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can i be controversial about addison cheating for a second

i think the reason so many people (mainly man centered straight women) dislike addison for cheating but don't dislike mark and derek is because (other than just misogyny, thats connected but i wanna talk a bit deeper about this) they do not think she is on their level

first of all greys is a very morally grey show especially in the early seasons the story line and the characters make it a point to actually show us the other side and this was the case with addison

when we first meet her we are kind of conditioned to hate her right (i didn't i watched the damn show for her but thats just me) and then she admits openly to having cheated and the audience is like HAH we have something now

but she is unquestionably a good person and we see that over and over again. then we remember she cheated and we are confused because this doesn't add up with the character we have grown to like. this whole time derek is treating her like FUCKING GARBAGE.

and then we get a bit of insight into their marriage and we see how compatible they supposedly were and then we learn more about how derek started distancing. and how he never wanted to spend time with her anymore, how she was alone all the time. he was too busy with his career. now mind you from when we meet her and when we meet him we can outright say that she was a better surgeon, she was world renowned and part of a neonatal elite even before we met her. derek was just a good neurosurgeon. so this man had a world class surgeon wife and he was just a guy and he was the one to not be available not her.

now there is an argument to be made that the reason he was acting like this is much of what he later did with meredith when he stole her work essentially which is he couldn't stand that addison was so much further in her career and he had to step it up to feel better. this hypothesis would also add up with his god complex and his need to be the smarted person in the room. he thinks he is the sun after all.

and then there was mark, who was a damn good surgeon (from my understanding he too had a bigger reputation than derek when we meet him) but unlike derek, mark made time for addison. he was there and he noticed her when derek didn't. and addison is chronically underappreciated thanks to bizzy and the captain (bizzy is obvious but the captain had never seen her perform her world class surgeries until private practice even tho he himself is some type of doctor one would think a father would be elated to watch his genius daughter perform miracles). so mark appreciated her and he was there and he loved her and she cheated not because she didn't love derek but because of her own weakness and lack of fulfilled needs. and yes some of this information is in private practice but... even in greys they admit a lot of this. and her cheating seems almost excusable... and if not its somehow understandable.

now derek and mark. derek cheated with meredith (TWICE). when he left NYC he did not divorce addison, he did not tell her they were separated he did nothing of sorts he just poof went away. then proceeded to have a SERIOUS relationship with mer and didn't even bother to tell his wife or meredith. he all but sexually harassed an intern into being into a relationship with him and didn't bother to end his marriage. this is cheating plain and simple this is "we were on a break" on steroids where it's even more clear that the man is a fucking scumbag. then he "gives addison another chance" only to again totally ignore the shit out of her and chase meredith around. and finally cheat again during prom. and when u re watch the prom scene, meredith participated but she didn't initiate, derek did. he was emotionally cheating the entire time he was "trying to make it work with addison". but the audience is not forced to look at it in that way because we are supposed to be rooting for merder.

mark is an even simpler case. he cheated on addison for no reason other than manwhore. he slept with his best friends wife. he cheats on lexie with addison, tried to get addison to help him raise his kid and grandkid. he like derek has an emotional affair with someone (with lexie as he is dating the lady whatever name she had after they broke up). he also arguably cheats on teddy but this is really more about how u as the audience perceives it since we don't get confirmations that they were any type of exclusive. and nobody really cares? he isn't condemned for it. be cause he is a silly guy he is mark.

and now through all this im supposed to believe that addison is the cheater? satan? the ruler of all that is evil?

now back to my original point. straight girls who center men in their lives they make excuses for men while condemning women. who aborts marks baby when he was so excited about it (HE BOUGHT A SHIRT IF THAT'S NOT INDICATION THAT THE SERIAL MANWHORE CHEATER IS GONNA BE A GOOD DAD IDK WHAT IS) and he was so good with Sloan and Sofia?? why would you do that to mark he is just a silly guy, he is mark, he is nice. for them addison is inexcusable because they want derek and they want mark. they can't fathom addison cheating on derek because they are literally falling for the in-show propaganda about him being McDreamy. who cheats on the perfect boyfriend neurosurgeon McDreamy? addison being double board certified world class "only 8 people in the world can do what i do" neonatal surgeon doesn't matter anymore she is just the woman who cheated on the perfect McDreamy.

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THE SIMS 3 STORE PRE-INSTALLED

Today marks 25 years of The Sims. Since EA forgot TS3 exists, I’m releasing the entire The Sims 3 Store as an Anniversary Gift. It's all pre-installed and works flawlessly!

It comes with all available fixes and collection folders I’ve personally created for every set. You'll get over 5000 new Buy/Build and CAS items, 11 new worlds, and tons of new gameplay!

INSTRUCTIONS

Go to "Documents/Electronic Arts" and rename the "The Sims 3" folder (or move it).

Create a new folder and name it "The Sims 3" (or whatever the name is in your language).

Extract the contents of the ZIP file in "The Sims 3." Now launch the game.

You'll have to adjust your setting again. Don't forget to disable the in-game Store so you don't get duplicates.

Quit the game. Copy the "Saves" folder from the folder you have previously renamed. You can also copy your Mods and CC in package format.

CAUTION

Never copy over or overwrite the DCCache folder.

If you have content installed through the Launcher (Sims3Pack), you'll have to reinstall it.

I strongly recommend you don't install things through the Launcher from now. It already has a lot of content and it is a known fact the Launcher becomes more and more unstable the more content it has to handle.

Since the entire Store has been decrapified, if you want to install lots or world that contain Store content, you'll have to decrapify those too using MATY's TS3 Recompressor.

If you encounter any issues, feel free to reach out to me. I've put a lot of effort into making the installation process as smooth and straightforward as possible. Dag Dag!

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Will you be reposting Chosen Family or finishing Runaway Train? I loved both.

Maybe one day but not now. I took everything down because I didnt think it was fair to leave things up when Im unsure Ill ever finish them. Too many things have happened and too many bad memories.

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intresting Addek divorced story. It’s only 4 chapters long but it covers a year. Highly suggest if youre into AUS to check this out. 

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Chapters: 19/?

Fandom: Grey's Anatomy, Private Practice

Rating: Not Rated

Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings

Relationships: Addison Montgomery/Jake Reilly, Meredith Grey/Derek Shepherd, Addison Montgomery/Derek Shepherd, Arizona Robbins/Callie Torres, Lexie Grey/Mark Sloan, Owen Hunt/Cristina Yang, Alex Karev/Jo Wilson, Cooper Freedman/Charlotte King

Characters: Addison Montgomery, Meredith Grey, Derek Shepherd, Derek Bailey Shepherd, Zola Shepherd, Jake Reilly (Private Practice), Angela Reilly, Amelia Shepherd, Owen Hunt, Jackson Avery, Cristina Yang, Mark Sloan (Grey's Anatomy), Lexie Grey, Leah Murphy, Heather Brooks, Shane Ross, Jo Wilson, Alex Karev, Henry Montgomery, April Kepner, Archer Forbes Montgomery, Nancy Shepherd, "The Captain" Montgomery, Kathleen Shepherd, Lizzie Shepherd, Callie Torres, Arizona Robbins, Richard Webber, Miranda Bailey (Grey's Anatomy), Sofia Sloan-Torres, Original Characters, Charlotte King, Cooper Freedman, Sheldon Wallace, Violet Turner, Pete Wilder, James Peterson, Sam Bennett (Private Practice), Naomi Bennett, Mason Warner, Sloan Riley, Carolyn Shepherd, Stephanie Edwards

Additional tags: Second chances, Love, Family, Children, Family Reunions, Trauma, past relationships, Alternate Universe, Blended family, if addek had a kid, what if, MerDer, addek, jolex, Calzona, Crowen, addimelia, charcoop, charmelia, Kidnapping, Jaddison - Freeform, slexie - Freeform

Summary: A 15-year-old girl walks into the Denny Duquette Memorial Clinic with her parents to get her mom the chemotherapy she needs. While there, she meets Dr. Mark Sloan, who can’t shake the feeling that he knows her. When Mark discovers who she really is, it changes everything.

Chapter summary: Derek celebrates Audrey’s new spot on the volleyball team by taking her and her friends out for ice cream with a little surprise of his own while everyone marvels at how well Audrey’s adjusting to her new life and newfound family. 

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Chapters: 18/?

Fandom: Grey's Anatomy, Private Practice

Rating: Not Rated

Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings

Relationships: Addison Montgomery/Jake Reilly, Meredith Grey/Derek Shepherd, Addison Montgomery/Derek Shepherd, Arizona Robbins/Callie Torres, Lexie Grey/Mark Sloan, Owen Hunt/Cristina Yang, Alex Karev/Jo Wilson, Cooper Freedman/Charlotte King

Characters: Addison Montgomery, Meredith Grey, Derek Shepherd, Derek Bailey Shepherd, Zola Shepherd, Jake Reilly (Private Practice), Angela Reilly, Amelia Shepherd, Owen Hunt, Jackson Avery, Cristina Yang, Mark Sloan (Grey's Anatomy), Lexie Grey, Leah Murphy, Heather Brooks, Shane Ross, Jo Wilson, Alex Karev, Henry Montgomery, April Kepner, Archer Forbes Montgomery, Nancy Shepherd, "The Captain" Montgomery, Kathleen Shepherd, Lizzie Shepherd, Callie Torres, Arizona Robbins, Richard Webber, Miranda Bailey (Grey's Anatomy), Sofia Sloan-Torres, Original Characters, Charlotte King, Cooper Freedman, Sheldon Wallace, Violet Turner, Pete Wilder, James Peterson, Sam Bennett (Private Practice), Naomi Bennett, Mason Warner, Sloan Riley, Carolyn Shepherd, Stephanie Edwards

Additional tags: Second chances, Love, Family, Children, Family Reunions, Trauma, past relationships, Alternate Universe, Blended family, if addek had a kid, what if, MerDer, addek, jolex, Calzona, Crowen, addimelia, charcoop, charmelia, Kidnapping, Jaddison - Freeform, slexie - Freeform

Summary: A 15-year-old girl walks into the Denny Duquette Memorial Clinic with her parents to get her mom the chemotherapy she needs. While there, she meets Dr. Mark Sloan, who can’t shake the feeling that he knows her. When Mark discovers who she really is, it changes everything.

Chapter summary: Amelia stays with the Montgomery-Reilly’s after her breakup with James while Audrey gets settled in her new life at her new school with her new friends.

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Chapters: 18/?

Fandom: Grey's Anatomy, Private Practice

Rating: Not Rated

Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings

Relationships: Addison Montgomery/Jake Reilly, Meredith Grey/Derek Shepherd, Addison Montgomery/Derek Shepherd, Arizona Robbins/Callie Torres, Lexie Grey/Mark Sloan, Owen Hunt/Cristina Yang, Alex Karev/Jo Wilson, Cooper Freedman/Charlotte King

Characters: Addison Montgomery, Meredith Grey, Derek Shepherd, Derek Bailey Shepherd, Zola Shepherd, Jake Reilly (Private Practice), Angela Reilly, Amelia Shepherd, Owen Hunt, Jackson Avery, Cristina Yang, Mark Sloan (Grey's Anatomy), Lexie Grey, Leah Murphy, Heather Brooks, Shane Ross, Jo Wilson, Alex Karev, Henry Montgomery, April Kepner, Archer Forbes Montgomery, Nancy Shepherd, "The Captain" Montgomery, Kathleen Shepherd, Lizzie Shepherd, Callie Torres, Arizona Robbins, Richard Webber, Miranda Bailey (Grey's Anatomy), Sofia Sloan-Torres, Original Characters, Charlotte King, Cooper Freedman, Sheldon Wallace, Violet Turner, Pete Wilder, James Peterson, Sam Bennett (Private Practice), Naomi Bennett, Mason Warner, Sloan Riley, Carolyn Shepherd, Stephanie Edwards

Additional tags: Second chances, Love, Family, Children, Family Reunions, Trauma, past relationships, Alternate Universe, Blended family, if addek had a kid, what if, MerDer, addek, jolex, Calzona, Crowen, addimelia, charcoop, charmelia, Kidnapping, Jaddison - Freeform, slexie - Freeform

Summary: A 15-year-old girl walks into the Denny Duquette Memorial Clinic with her parents to get her mom the chemotherapy she needs. While there, she meets Dr. Mark Sloan, who can’t shake the feeling that he knows her. When Mark discovers who she really is, it changes everything.

Chapter summary: Amelia stays with the Montgomery-Reilly’s after her breakup with James while Audrey gets settled in her new life at her new school with her new friends.

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Chapters: 1/3 Fandom: Grey’s Anatomy Rating: Teen And Up Audiences Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Relationships: Arizona Robbins/Amelia Shepherd, Penelope “Penny” Blake/Callie Torres Characters: Arizona Robbins, Amelia Shepherd, Sofia Sloan-Torres, Callie Torres, Penelope “Penny” Blake Additional Tags: Domestic Fluff, Family Fluff, Family, mom!arizona, stepdad!amelia, this story villianizes callie a little IM SORRY Summary:

Welcome to the end of being alone inside your mind. You tethered to another, and you’re worried all the time. - The Mother, Brandi Carlile

Sofia decides she wants to spend her summer break in Seattle, and Arizona is so thrilled that her daughter is living with her for the first time since she moved back to Seattle four years ago. Well, she should be thrilled. Instead, she is so. damn. anxious. Set sometime in the future (2028-ish? The Greysverse timeline is all out of whack). Married Amezona. Established CalliexPenny.

Title taken from “The Mother” by Brandi Carlile.

My new Amezona fic is FINALLY up! Let me know what you guys think <3

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Chapters: 17/?

Fandom: Grey's Anatomy, Private Practice

Rating: Not Rated

Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings

Relationships: Addison Montgomery/Jake Reilly, Meredith Grey/Derek Shepherd, Addison Montgomery/Derek Shepherd, Arizona Robbins/Callie Torres, Lexie Grey/Mark Sloan, Owen Hunt/Cristina Yang, Alex Karev/Jo Wilson, Cooper Freedman/Charlotte King

Characters: Addison Montgomery, Meredith Grey, Derek Shepherd, Derek Bailey Shepherd, Zola Shepherd, Jake Reilly (Private Practice), Angela Reilly, Amelia Shepherd, Owen Hunt, Jackson Avery, Cristina Yang, Mark Sloan (Grey's Anatomy), Lexie Grey, Leah Murphy, Heather Brooks, Shane Ross, Jo Wilson, Alex Karev, Henry Montgomery, April Kepner, Archer Forbes Montgomery, Nancy Shepherd, "The Captain" Montgomery, Kathleen Shepherd, Lizzie Shepherd, Callie Torres, Arizona Robbins, Richard Webber, Miranda Bailey (Grey's Anatomy), Sofia Sloan-Torres, Original Characters, Charlotte King, Cooper Freedman, Sheldon Wallace, Violet Turner, Pete Wilder, James Peterson, Sam Bennett (Private Practice), Naomi Bennett, Mason Warner, Sloan Riley, Carolyn Shepherd, Stephanie Edwards

Additional tags: Second chances, Love, Family, Children, Family Reunions, Trauma, past relationships, Alternate Universe, Blended family, if addek had a kid, what if, MerDer, addek, jolex, Calzona, Crowen, addimelia, charcoop, charmelia, Kidnapping, Jaddison - Freeform, slexie - Freeform

Summary: A 15-year-old girl walks into the Denny Duquette Memorial Clinic with her parents to get her mom the chemotherapy she needs. While there, she meets Dr. Mark Sloan, who can’t shake the feeling that he knows her. When Mark discovers who she really is, it changes everything.

Chapter summary: Audrey learns more about Angela and Amelia’s lives before starting her first at her new school.

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If you love Mark&Addison (Grey’s Anatomy) and you want reblog or like,this is the link of my reblog couples :)

thank you!

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Late post since I actually posted this on Monday (the 19th), but new chapter!

Chapters: 15/?

Fandom: Grey's Anatomy, Private Practice

Rating: Not Rated

Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings

Relationships: Addison Montgomery/Jake Reilly, Meredith Grey/Derek Shepherd, Addison Montgomery/Derek Shepherd, Arizona Robbins/Callie Torres, Lexie Grey/Mark Sloan, Owen Hunt/Cristina Yang, Alex Karev/Jo Wilson, Cooper Freedman/Charlotte King

Characters: Addison Montgomery, Meredith Grey, Derek Shepherd, Derek Bailey Shepherd, Zola Shepherd, Jake Reilly (Private Practice), Angela Reilly, Amelia Shepherd, Owen Hunt, Jackson Avery, Cristina Yang, Mark Sloan (Grey's Anatomy), Lexie Grey, Leah Murphy, Heather Brooks, Shane Ross, Jo Wilson, Alex Karev, Henry Montgomery, April Kepner, Archer Forbes Montgomery, Nancy Shepherd, "The Captain" Montgomery, Kathleen Shepherd, Lizzie Shepherd, Callie Torres, Arizona Robbins, Richard Webber, Miranda Bailey (Grey's Anatomy), Sofia Sloan-Torres, Original Characters, Charlotte King, Cooper Freedman, Sheldon Wallace, Violet Turner, Pete Wilder, James Peterson, Sam Bennett (Private Practice), Naomi Bennett, Mason Warner, Sloan Riley, Carolyn Shepherd, Stephanie Edwards

Additional tags: Second chances, Love, Family, Children, Family Reunions, Trauma, past relationships, Alternate Universe, Blended family, if addek had a kid, what if, MerDer, addek, jolex, Calzona, Crowen, addimelia, charcoop, charmelia, Kidnapping, Jaddison - Freeform, slexie - Freeform

Summary: A 15-year-old girl walks into the Denny Duquette Memorial Clinic with her parents to get her mom the chemotherapy she needs. While there, she meets Dr. Mark Sloan, who can’t shake the feeling that he knows her. When Mark discovers who she really is, it changes everything.

Chapter summary: Everyone’s greeted by a friendly familiar face at the office while Audrey learns a little more about how her parents coped after she went missing from Naomi while she hangs around the office.

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Jessica Capshaw is checking back into Grey Sloan.

The actress, who spent 10 seasons playing Dr. Arizona Robbins from 2009-2018, is returning to reprise her role in the upcoming 20th season of ABC’s Grey’s Anatomy. Capshaw will be joined by Alex Landi, who returns as Dr. Nico Kim, and franchise newcomers Natalie Morales and Freddy Miyares as guest stars in the milestone season of the Shonda Rhimes-produced medical drama. Additional guest stars are expected to be announced as the show inches closer toward its strikes-delayed return on March 14 at 9 p.m.

Capshaw exited Grey’s in 2018, at the end of its 14th season when Arizona moved from Seattle to New York so her daughter, Sofia, could be in the same city with her other mother, Callie (former series regular Sara Ramirez), as the fan-favorite former couple “Calzona” appeared poised for a reunion.

Capshaw was written out alongside Sarah Drew (April). Both actresses have since returned to Grey’s as the series has made it a point to provide closures for some of its most beloved characters. At the time of their exits, producers said their departures were creative decisions, though sources maintained both Capshaw and Drew attempted to negotiate a higher payday together.

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Hey! Not sure if you’re interested, but I am writing an ongoing fanfic with Amelia as a central character. The pairing though is an odd one , with Archer Montgomery. But if it peaks your interest would love for you to hopefully recommend it.

https://archiveofourown.org/works/49372414/chapters/124591246

Hi! thanks for reaching out. Ill admit I attempted this several times in passing and I never get past the first chapter. Honestly once I realize who Derek's patient is I back out.

Your pairing does intrest me but I can't get past what happens. If you ever wrote something else with them that didn't involve killing off that character I'd read more.

Good luck with your story! and hopefully you gain some followers. :)

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Still not a big fan of the ending (felt it was a bit arrupt and overall not a very good one imo) but its still a solid re read! just recently reread this!

Derek and Addison had a daughter early in their relationship forcing them to split attention between their education, their careers and their family. They never realized that 14 years later they’d be in a struggling marriage with a daughter who wants nothing to do with them and a son who is too young to understand what was going on [Addison M., Derek S.] OC 

Just found this in my bookmarks. I didn’t really like the ending but overall it’s a good fic.

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It has been a while since I've actually posted anything but I need to get back into that. Anyway here's chapter 16 of Chosen Family!

Summary: Amelia convinces Erica to go to Seattle to get Derek’s help after learning there might be something wrong with her pregnancy.

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Fake by Cornyamelia on A03

Amezona fic. Hot. Not much to it so far but so good! early beginning, starts off innocent but gets pretty steamy. This was sent in from a follower-or at least I hope they are. 

Ps. If you’re reading this please send me more recs! 

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Not sure why it isn’t showing up but this is called Impossible Pain by Rizzlestiva on www.fanfiction.net. Please note Trigger warning for infant loss.

oh look. I branched out. Sorta. This is the friendship we were robbed of and I will unlive on this hill. April and Amelia talk after Samuel.