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You allistics with adhd aren’t safe. Remember that when you’re expressing ableist sentiment against autistic people when the United States health department is rolling out a registry for people with autism. You have an adhd diagnosis, or god forbid, any form of developmental or intellectual disability, you are not immune to governmental suppression as the United States leans towards more and more violently ableist conservative legislation aka “Make America Healthy Again.”

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The reason why the average callout post does not make the narcissist take accountability and change for a better, a lesson from a covert narcissist who has been called out plenty of times for abusive / toxic behavior (and as someone who has written callout posts for other people for toxic / abusive behavior):

- It gives the person incentive to bask in victimhood instead of taking accountability for their actions. They will go to another group and portray themselves as a victim of social ostracization and claim they were never confronted on their initial negative behavior.

- A lot of the time, a callout blows up their initial behavior (black or white thinking or a defense mechanism to an abusive or even confrontation action), ousts someone’s intimate, private affairs to the public e.g a callout claiming someone is a danger to children because they shared to the person who made the callout they privately ship an adult x child ship.

- Airing someone’s intimate endeavors out to the public is a classic abusive trait to socially ostracize them which can be found in cluster b sufferers such as borderline narcissism histrionic or people with reputation defending antisocial. If you are writing callout posts for people you should be questioning if you have a cluster b personality disorder or are suffering from hypervigilant behavior from trauma.

- a callout proclaiming a sexually abusive action should have legal consequences as well. If you are a sexual or physical abuse victim you NEED to move with authorities and disclose your abuse to your intimate friends. Social ostricization online will not change or better a narcissist who happens to be abusive.

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Average ASPD culture is post: ASPD culture is *inserts the most common, non-pathological thing ever* or *inserts the most abusive thing ever* or *inserts misinfo* or *lists an experience of another disorder*

ASPD culture blog when you challenge their submissions: blocks

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i realize that this is a big ask for this website but i really think a lot of yall (looking at you MRAs) need to realize that "oppressor" and "oppressed" are not neatly separated categories. please learn about intersectionality and i mean actual intersectionality, not the buzzword that people use on tumblr

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i didn't know the palestinian authority had us funding like that's a huge thing cause the fucking executioner dogs of the iof have been actually halted by him? by trump? of all people? done more than most american leftists with one stroke of the pen like wtf 😭

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not enough people understand that disability benefits are basically what it would look like if you turned "if you're too sick for school you're too sick for video games" into an official public policy

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Me: reblogs posts about transmisogyny

This dumb fuck: YOURE HARMING TRANS PEOPLE!!!!111!1!1!

I guess I am harming the fragile fucking feelings of entitled ass men who sees the joke url “transmisandrys” by a trans masc who doesn’t believe in “transandrophobia” as a valid term because we already have words for what you’re looking for: misogyny and transphobia. Someone fucking finding the MRA movement rebranded into some transmisogynistic dog whistle doesn’t mean they’re the bane to the transgender community. Trans men who see me as a threat for calling out their fucking misogyny and shit are no better than those “not all men” cis mother fuckers I have to deal with daily. Cry some more male tears, I see you’re stuck on that victim complex you claim all women have.

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You're grotesquely unaware of what standards you're setting by gatekeeping being fat. ALSO Being trans doesnt mean you cant do harm to trans ppl ya fucking idiot. Stop spreading hate and lies about other people you sick freak.

Fatphobia is a tiered oppression. Salem would experience less fatphobia than I would where I would experience less fatphobia than someone who is bigger than me. Also, how am I harming trans people? By not believing in a TERFy rhetoric that harms trans fems? By not believing in the trans version of “not all men” when a trans woman is talking about her experience with transmisogynistic trans men? I’m so sorry but you can’t remove yourself from being TME, misogynistic, transmisogynistic, lesbophobic, and transphobic just because you are trans masculine, especially not when the vast majority of transandrophobia truthing freaks insist that trans masculinity and trans men are a monolithic group that experiences the same thing, erasing people like me and then lumping allies such as myself into their transmisogynistic rhetoric. Just say you’re a TWERF and go.

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Oh yeah he’s so fat. I’m 5’3” and 220lbs with a BMI almost at 40. My waist is 42 inches. You’re so stupid.

wOW YOURE SERIOUSLY CLAIMING SOMEONE ISNT FUCKIN FAT. YOU'RE SO FUCKING PHOBIC AND DISGUSTING. You're literally saying I cant be transphobic bc I'm trans and then saying they're fat phobic even being fat and THEN you're like actually you're not fat bc I say so. PICK A STRUGGLE

He’s physically not fat, or at least not to the degree of social and systemic oppression in comparison to myself. What are you on about.

Also if you think making fun of transmisandry when it’s men whining when trans fems complain about their transmisogyny and you’re mad at me, a trans masc who is affected by misogyny for making fun of transandrophobia truthers who are notoriously misogynistic and spout off TERF rhetoric, maybe you’re a TERF using transphobia claiming “queer infighting” to silence trans fems and lesbians in trans spaces.

You are genuinely stupid for defending someone who is besties with a real child groomer. Who is physically average weight / not noticeably fat.

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wOW YOURE SERIOUSLY CLAIMING SOMEONE ISNT FUCKIN FAT. YOU'RE SO FUCKING PHOBIC AND DISGUSTING. You're literally saying I cant be transphobic bc I'm trans and then saying they're fat phobic even being fat and THEN you're like actually you're not fat bc I say so. PICK A STRUGGLE

He’s physically not fat, or at least not to the degree of social and systemic oppression in comparison to myself. What are you on about.

Also if you think making fun of transmisandry when it’s men whining when trans fems complain about their transmisogyny and you’re mad at me, a trans masc who is affected by misogyny for making fun of transandrophobia truthers who are notoriously misogynistic and spout off TERF rhetoric, maybe you’re a TERF using transphobia claiming “queer infighting” to silence trans fems and lesbians in trans spaces.

You are genuinely stupid for defending someone who is besties with a real child groomer. Who is physically average weight / not noticeably fat.

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ik you’re upset with wolfertingers fatphobia and whatnot but that callout blog is very ableist and antiblack towards him and transmisogynistic towards his gf.

Yeah I’ve noticed in the past few days the more I read into it with how he and his gf is being grilled over every micro transaction ever. It’s bad enough that he’s friends with groomers and is lying about being fat when he’s not, being fatphobic and weird about fat people, and from what I’ve seen, bad with boundaries and emotionally toxic. Idk anything about his gf to comment on her. But I really don’t think he and his gf would be grilled this much if they weren’t popular artists on top of one of them being black and the other being transmisogyny affected. It is pretty much harassment and posturing at this point. They may be horrible people to be around, but would someone give this much care if either of them were cishet straight white people like come on.

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Wis your partner isn’t even fat. What are you on.

as a fat tranny if you think you speak for all fat people you are a delusional narcissist, which isn’t surprising because every single person that runs an account like this one that engages in constant discourse in order to posit themselves as morally above the rest of us is just very simply run by an unchecked narcissist. you’ll read this and deny it too just like every dangerous unchecked narcissist would

Me when I'm mad.

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FACT: trans women experience greater rates of violence, homelessness and unemployment than trans men. mentioning that transmascs do in fact experience a privilege in comparison to their transfeminine sisters isn't "transandrophobic" nor is it "dividing the community" or "infighting", and the only reasons to suggest that are because you want to dismiss transfeminine attempts to describe & analyse their own oppression.

it would be nice if "we were all oppressed equally" or if the state truly did see us all as faggots, but Trump's executive order specifically highlights trans women, and many of the anti-trans bills specifically focus on "boys in girls' sports" and make no attempt to stop trans boys from competing alongside cis boys. so when you say shit like "we're all oppressed equally" or "they don't care what flavour of trans you are" just know that you are denying institutinal transmisogyny and are fundamentally no different to any other conservative antifeminist.

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Didn't Salem also like... Laugh at a Palestinian man asking for his campaign to be rb'd or am I mixing up my popular Tumblr artists. I feel like I also remember grooming allegations but I can't keep up with these people anymore honestly

He did allegedly and blamed it on a manic episode. He is also friends with a groomer.

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me: this is harmful and you’re spreading fatphobic rhetoric

wolfertinger666: uh how dare you criticize me and accuse me of spreading fatphobic rhetoric? it’s a JOKE!!!!!!1!!!1!!11111

grox: makes a joke post about not caring about a ftm furry with a fat ass

wolfertinger666: OH MY GOD you are LITERALLY SPOUTING OFF NAZI ECHO CHAMBER SHIT!!!!!!!11111

😭💀 pick a fucking struggle. Things are only harmful when they impact YOU. You are so hideously ugly and hypocritical. You are blatantly fat fucking phobic but CRY when you feel like someone’s discriminating against you. But oh yeah okay, you’re fat so you can make these “jokes” and if that’s your fursona you’re drawing with your “exact proportions,” congrats, you have a conventionally attractive body type for fat people! You’re one of the “good” fat people. The type of fat people chasers fetishize, but you get off on fetish content. You don’t give a fuck about diversity unless it’s a means to get your rocks off. Meanwhile you drew this bitch, thinking you cooked when she’s a caricature!

Spreading even more fatphobic rhetoric! But like. The meme about your furry with a fat ass is sooooooo bad. Idgaf atp. Have a panic attack you fucking hippo crate fatphobe.

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Remember when you shot down my criticisms of you spreading fatphobic rhetoric? Oh, wait… I guess things are bad only when they affect you, huh? @ wolfertinger666

Why did fat assed ftm fursona guy tell you to die over furry cheeks this tumblr shit is serious

Oh I didnt even know he said that what happened

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Anyway, this character was drawn with the exact features that I have as a fat person. I have large hips, huge thighs, a round, soft stomach that slightly hangs with slender arms. But yeah, yes. It's so neat to take the fat body type that is typically one of the most fetishizable IRL by chasers along with fat pear shapes & hourglass shapes. There is barely any diversity of fat bodies in wolfertinger's art, and when a fat person criticizes the fetishism and the artist spreading fatphobic rhetoric on a post that has reached 1k-2k people who agree in unison with him, that is concerning to me as a fat person on how people, both fat and thin, see IRL people like me who have this exact body type. I have gotten fetishized before IRL by freaks who wanted to see me eat a lot and wear cow outfits or live out their fat milf-y maid girl fantasy. Like idfk. Salem and his gf are weird for this one. Their responses to me felt very inappropriate and dismissive, and then the harassment I have gotten where my criticism / opinion pretty much got shot down is pretty disgusting to do to a fat person, especially a fat person who HAS experienced this level of fetishism because they have this exact body type IRL. And idk what Salem looks like and quite frankly IDGAF. The same concept would exist if I was drawing fetish art of people who had an "apple shape body" aka a body I do not have, who experiences the most fatphobic discrimination compared to me at the current, especially if they are larger than I am. The bigger you are, the worse the fatphobia gets, and fat people honestly think they are immune to fatphobia against other fat people like be so fr. Fat fetishists who happen to be fat think they're immune to dehumanizing and sexualizing a fat person just for existing bc it "gets their rocks off." especially when that fat person has an "ideal" body shape or traits that are seen conventionally attractive. But yeah, lets like. Go the RCDart route with fat characters and draw every fat character ever in revealing clothing and emphasize their hips and breasts, and make their waist notably smaller than their hips and ass. That isn't diversity, that's fetish shit.

Wis jusy HAS to inject herself into EVERY argument/petty drama she can. She's somehow on Salem's level of attention-seeking

Delfecting. Someone tells you they dont like your fat fetish joke, and they are unable to accept that people don't like your joke. Sometimes jokes aren't funny or are offensive to people. They don't care unless they're offensive to THEM both specifically.

wis, of course. bad faith responding.

wis knows that the person, is directly referring to salems overt and fetishized overlooking, of serious issues regarding a fat character. many fat people now, have spoken about how harmful it is, that people are willing to overlook a harmful stereotype character, because "sexy cow girl" like what salem is doing, and acknowledges he is doing, exactly.

stay out of your boyfriends fights, wis. he is an adult. you do not have to step in, every time he is spoken to.