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All characters are aro/ace/aroace until proven otherwise

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im creating a character for dnd, and I'm basing her backstory on Siffrin lol

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Nonbinary people don't owe you androgyny. However, one does owe me money (you know who you are. I need my $20, Malakai)

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gotta give credit to gravity falls for having a cartoon explicitly set during the summer but going

“hey we wanna do a halloween episode” “but it’s summer” “the town has a regional not!halloween called summerween fuck you”

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Yep

Okay seriously. Reblog if you're OLDER than 11.

Yep.

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1 kissing is weird to me. I don't understand why 2 people shoving their faces together and putting their tongues in each other's mouths is supposed to be nice, let alone romantic

2 I don't like hearing it, but that's a thing with me being grossed out by mouth noises (it's why I don't like mukbangs). Far as seeing it goes. If it's a quick one, idc. If they're making out, ew, gross, stop.

3 I pecked my first partner on the lips but I was very against anything more than that even though they wanted in (I felt bad, but I wasn't willing to make myself do that). I don't plan to do it again or go any further than that. I just don't enjoy it and I especially wouldn't be comfortable doing it with someone I'm not with romantically, and I don't feel romantic attraction or want a romantic relationship.

4 I don't really remember. I didn't really care for it, but I can't remember it that well (it was only a few times pre COVID)

5 idk, you do you ig, but I don't really get it. Like I can understand kissing an established partner, it's weird to me, but yk. I don't really get the appeal of kissing someone you don't know

okay question for all the aspec folk: what are your thoughts on kissing?

more specifically,

what do you think of the concept?

what do you think about watching/hearing about other people kissing?

have you ever kissed someone? do you plan to? why or why not?

if you have kissed anyone, what did that feel like for you?

what do you think about kissing an established partner vs a stranger?

that is all thank you for your time

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thank you Canada 🇨🇦

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Did you figure out how to kill Loop or something? What?

Think I just figured out how to do something I both do not want to do and have no intention of ever doing

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What did you figure out?

Think I just figured out how to do something I both do not want to do and have no intention of ever doing

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Since there’s that huge heat wave that’s about to fuck up like 3/4 of the US, I’d like to stand on my soapbox for a second. I’m not a doctor, I’ve just lived somewhere with summer temps over 110 for most of my life.

Obviously, the best thing to do during a heat wave is STAY INDOORS. Of course, that’s not always possible.

Get a couple washcloths, or rags, or old shirts you don’t care about. Get them nice and damp. If you wanna get fancy with it, throw some essential oils on them. Who cares. The important thing is that they are WET. Next step, fold them into rectangles (so they hold the coldness longer!) and put them in their own zippy bag or an old grocery bag or whatever. Doesn’t matter, just don’t let them freeze in a clump. ANY TIME YOU LEAVE YOUR HOUSE, GRAB A FROZEN RAG. Drape it on the back of your neck. Dab yourself like a fancy Victorian lady. Do whatever helps. One of my friends keeps them in her bra. Whatever works!

Windows. They let heat in. Blackout curtains help a lot, but they’re not magic. Get a nice thick blanket (not a comforter, too heavy) or fold up some sheets. Pin or nail your blanket/sheets above your window like dorm curtains. Block that heat OUT!

HYDRATE. Everyone says it because it’s TRUE. Dehydration sucks. Heat stroke sucks more. Learn the symptoms and what to do if it happens to you or someone else. On that note…

Replenish those electrolytes! It’s gonna be hot. You’re gonna sweat a LOT. If you’re chugging water and not replenishing your electrolytes, you can actually have a heart attack. Even if you don’t have a heart attack, you can still faint (medical emergency, especially in the heat!) or best case scenario, feel like garbage. Pedialyte is nasty but it works. Sports drinks, sure whatever. Those little pouches of powder that you add? Whatever you like. If you don’t have any of those, eat something salty while you drink your water.

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Clay looks really tasty. Looks like it has a good texture, too

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What if I tell them and they don't want to be friends anymore and I'm left with no one but the people I can only talk to through my phone? (Not to sound ungrateful for my online friends. All of you are amazing, really. I love y'all so much. But I like being able to go out and hang out with my friends out at parks and malls and wherever, and I can't do that if I only have online friends)

I'm gonna do this

10 notes: y'all can have pictures of my cats

20 notes: I'll do a full hygiene routine (everything shower, washing my face, properly brushing my teeth, etc)

40 notes: I'll make a dessert

80 notes: I'll make a healthy dinner

160 notes: I'll clean my bathroom

320 notes: I'll go a full day with no short form content (yt shorts, tiktok, etc)

640 notes: ill deep clean my room

1280 notes: I'll try to work out more (if anyone knows what kind of exercises I can do at the gym or at home to make a female body look more androgynous or even masculine, please lmk)

2560 notes: I'll ask my friends for a hug

5120 notes: I'll try to get medicated for adhd

10240 notes: I'll talk to my friends about what's been going on and how I've been feeling

20480 notes: I'll order a properly sized binder

40960 notes: I'll come out as nb and aroace to my friends

Man, I should not have done this on a day I knew I couldn't do much of it

So technically speaking, I didn't come out, but she's calling me by my preferred name and pronouns, so she knows and I'm really confused

Not started

In progress

Done

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decentralize and clean up your life!!!

use overdrive, libby, hoopla, cloudlibrary, and kanopy instead of amazon and audible.

use firefox instead of chrome or opera (both are made with chromium, which blocks functionality for ad-blockers. firefox isn't based on chromium).

use mega or proton drive instead of google drive.

get rid of bloatware

use libreoffice instead of microsoft office suite

use vetted sites on r/FREEMEDIAHECKYEAH for free movies, books, games, etc.

use trakt or letterboxd instead of imdb.

use storygraph instead of goodreads.

use darkpatterns to find mobile game with no ads or microtransactions

use ground news to read unbiased news and find blind spots in news stories.

use mediahuman or cobalt to download music, or support your favorite artists directly through bandcamp

make youtube bearable by using mtube, newpipe, or the unhook extension on chrome, firefox, or microsoft edge

use search for a cause or ecosia to support the environment instead of google

use thriftbooks to buy new or used books (they also have manga, textbooks, home goods, CDs, DVDs, and blurays)

use flashpoint to play archived online flash games

find books, movies, games, etc. on the internet archive! for starters, here's a bunch of David Attenborough documentaries and all of the Animorphs books

burn your music onto cds

use pdf24 (available online or as a desktop app) instead of adobe

use unroll.me to clean your email inboxes

use thunderbird, mailfence, countermail, edison mail, tuta, or proton mail instead of gmail

remove bloatware on windows PC, macOS, and iOS X

remove bloatware on samsung X

use pixelfed instead of instagram or meta

use NCH suite for free software like a file converter, image editor, video editors, pdf editor, etc.

feel free to add more alternatives, resources or advice in the reblogs or replies, and i'll add them to the main post <3

last updated: march 18th 2025

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Why not?

I'm gonna make a nonbinary playlist on Spotify. Anyone have suggestions for what should be in there?

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odysseus absolutely does present a threat to penelope if he perceives her as at all unfaithful, and i feel the unfairness of this, and i think people tend to undersell how much tension at least potentially exists between odysseus and penelope. but i'm also like. his reaction, all speculation aside, his actual reaction in the odyssey to her flirting with the suitors is delight, because he immediately ascertains that she is running a con. sorry that they're so in-sync in spite of the forces that try to drive a wedge between them, including their own misgiving hearts. sorry that they invented homophrosyne ¯\_(ツ)_/¯