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Tips for relieving fang dysphoria

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not always accessible

- buy glue on fangs

usually accessible

- study animal fangs or people with enlarged canines

- eat foods that require ripping and tearing (ex: most meats)

requested by anon, might be updated later when i think of more

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Tips for relieving stitch dysphoria

[text: tips for relieving stitch dysphoria]

not always accessible

- stitch tattoos

- stitch henna

usually accessible

- drawing stitches on with pen or marker

- drawing self with stitches

- doing research on stitches

- fake stitch tattoos (the kind that you use water to make it stick on)

requested by anon

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Tips on relieving scar/wound dysphoria

[text: tips on relieving scar or wound dysphoria]

not always accessible

- use sfx makeup to make "scars" on your body

usually accessible

- clean your skin as if you did have wounds/scars there (ex: running cold water over your arms)

- wear bandaids on your skin

- draw "scars" in red or brown pen/marker

- use lotions on your skin (people do this to make scars fade)

requested by anon

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Tips on relieving (one) eye loss dysphoria

[text: Tips of relieving (one) eye loss dysphoria]

not always accessible

- using black out eye contacts

- using an eyepatch

- commissioning art of you with one eye

usually accessible

- covering eye with fabric or hand

- closing one eye at a time

- drawing self with one eye

- thinking about the circumstances of the eye loss/what couldve happened

this one was difficult, requested by anon

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maybe harsh take. but. shitting on people who can't care about selves. who live with parents. who rely on partners in 'basic' tasks. (yes even body care tasks). who got chores done for them. who don't work. is ableist. even if clarify 'this specific person isn't disabled.' it still perpetuates stigma. it still ableist.

say exactly what wrong. have they overstepped someone's boundaries? have they pressured someone into care? have they manipulated abused etc.? something else? point wrong behavior. n critique this behavior.

'they're 30 n live with parents' not bad behavior. 'their parent cut their nails' not bad behavior. 'they don't work' not bad behavior.

'but they're abled!' 1) you don't know for sure. can't know for sure. undiagnosed n invisible disabilities exist. not every undiagnosed individual able to take care of self. recognize undiagnosed n invisible disabilities existence not only when they look 'nice' for you. 2) it still contributes to stigma around needing care. disabled people often not seen as disabled. even if visibly disabled. every individual presumed abled because ableism. so disabled individuals will be shitted on because need care. because presumed abled.

to destigmatize needing care. have to destigmatize getting care. even if not see as 'reasonable' n 'justified.' can't destigmatize needing care if say 'getting care depending on others living with parents etc. is bad but disabled is exception.' because still stigmatize process of getting cared.

people don't need allowance n approval of society to get care.

(not say not call out bad behavior. ask call out bad behavior specifically. not stigmatized neutral things).

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Hey, btw. If you misgender people because they're "bad"... you have fallen for fascist propaganda.

The idea that someone has to earn the right to be gendered correctly is fascist propaganda.

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Hey, listen here. Psst, down here.

Disability isn't a competition. You are not less or more disabled than another disabled individual. No one is "disabled enough." Saying that certain disabilities are not valid is ableism. You are not immune to ableism just because you're disabled.

If it affects your ability to do activities negatively, it's a disability.

Yes, this means chronic pain, yes this means joint pain, this means sensory issues, this means mental issues, this means brain damage, this means deformities, this mean developmental disabilities like ADHD, this means tic disorders and tics themselves, this means all disabilities. All disability is disabled enough.

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"Brain damage" only sounds like a harsh and offensive way to describe brain injuries because people constantly use it as an insult. It's a totally neutral descriptor of what it is. I have brain damage. My brain is damaged. It's not ableist to call it that, it's ableist to call people you don't like brain damaged because you think it's an inherently bad thing to be.

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Alterhumans (especially ones on tiktok) need to recognize that not everyone can do quads, not everyone can make masks, not everyone can make yarn tails, not everyone can buy masks, not everyone can buy tails, not everyone can go camping, and not everyone can make or find a territory. That's not what alterhumanity is.

If you're not including disabled alterhumans, alterhumans in unsafe places, and alterhumans in poverty, you shouldn't be making spaces for alterhumans at all.

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　⟢　Selective Mutism　𓃉

This flag can be used by anyone who is selectively mute, no matter the reason. Could be caused by autism, trauma, anxiety, or any other reason.

　— Requested by anonymous. Alt flag.

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mutt ➝ a term for a trans man ( / transsexual man / transmasc / trans guy / etc ) who feels outcast from general society*, looked down upon, or pitied because of their transness, as would a stray mutt. though based on trans struggles, this label is meant to be used in a positive way, celebrating perseverance and strength through dark times.

( *see monachoric by @rabidbatboy. this is loosely based off of the 2023 film mutt. while similar to terms like butch, bear, and otter, mutt has no visual or presentation aspects. )

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We recently have just completed a post about a very concerning individual. This person's username is Sloxet/Qonvet/Ceroba/ and many more, as she is a system. Sloxet is a pedophile rapist who moved from the US to New Zealand to be with a minor in order to make and distribute CSEM of her. The reason Sloxet moved to NZ to be with this minor, referred in the document as "C", is because the age of consent in NZ is 16. However, there is proof that Sloxet has known C since she was 13.

C has been admitted to being abused all her life while on the pediverse, so of course Sloxet is using this to her advantage to further groom and abuse this poor child. If you are in NZ or know someone who is, please take action and report to the proper authorities.

This is some very vile content. As with anything on that instance, take caution with reading.

You can find out more about her on the telegram by clicking this sentence.

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fag

is this harassment

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Tips for relieving wing dysphoria

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not always accessible

- buy wings/wing harnesses from online to wear

- commission art of you with wings

- go ziplining

accessible most of the time

- draw yourself with wings

- wrap a blanket around your neck/around yourself and act like its your wings

- watch avian pov tiktoks

- try and induce wing phantom shifts

reccomended by @entity56 , sorry for late posting!

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Please report the Radbugs Discord server if you see it on Disboard or Tumblr. It is a pro-contact prat server where members believe that kids as young as 8 can consent. It is a haven for child predators.

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The amount of times I've seen wheelchair door buttons and they're like 5 feet up the wall is wild. I CANNOT REACH THAT!!!

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I feel so gross after what the rad*queer community did to me. Fuck those guys who supported and celebrated my groomer. Fuck those guys who told me I should be happy being groomed. Fuck them for ruining me. Fuck. Rad*queers.

If any of them read this, I hope you burn in hell. You're sick.