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We are so back

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shes cool

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14 years of a Conservative government has royally fucked us all over here on the small side of the pond, it'd be fantastic if some awareness of British trans people could be spread, because its bad enough that I'm considering learning German and moving there JUST to be able to transition properly and live life as a woman. Certainly hope it won't be long until we have a left wing government again, though I can't see Kier Starmer fixing many problems relating to the transgender community here.

Apologies if this is incoherent, I am eepy

guys why the fuck aren't we talking about what's happening in the uk right now

nobody outside the uk is talking about this. why is nobody talking about it

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Could be a bit of fun, who knows if I'll get any

Reblog if you want your followers to anonymously ask you one thing they want to know about you.

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lmaoooooo so a video popped up on my TikTok of a story time of some guy trying to buy his wife tampons and some woman going up to him thinking he was a trans man saying, “see? you’ll always be a woman!”

and he turned to the woman like “I’m buying tampons for my wife because I’m a good fucking husband. do you think if they were for me, I’d look this lost about where the brand is she wants?” he shut her up so fast lmfao. and she walked away looking pale and teary because transphobic people always have to play the victim.

(but also this is what I mean when I say transphobia can affect anyone and being transphobic literally takes over your mind. you cannot think critically at all about anything to do with gender or sex and anyone diverting from the image you have of how things are in your black and white world view is automatically The Enemy)

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Link ~~~

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another night with no kisses or hugs. sigh

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Anyone who's interested in webcomics and hasn't heard of Azulcrescent, would definetly recommend checking out their 'I want to be a cute anime girl' series! Really helped me understand a few things about myself

And, of course, while reblogging this also go and check out @izumi-is-blah 's blog too! Fantastic artwork

Quick fanart of Cheryl, @azulcrescent's webcomic MC!

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sometimes you just have to let yourself be a bit neurodivergent.

i hate going out, it gives me a lot of anxiety and sensory input that i dont like, and i am often forced to talk to people.

so i do this thing on more difficult days, or sometimes just for fun, where i "bring a fictional character with me". i walk and imagine Fictional Character walking next to me. they talk to me, reassure me, hype me up, whatever i need them to do.

today dean winchester came christmas shopping with me. he went over the list with me of stuff i needed to get, told me i was doing a good job every time i finished in a certain shop, reminded me to take a deep breath when i got a little overwhelmed.

and yea. its kinda silly. and i know its just me talking to myself in a different voice, but it Works! especially since all of my special interests/hyperfixations tend to be tv/movie related.

so do what you gotta do to Get Shit Done. stop holding yourself to neurotypical standards. if you need Fictional Character to tell you you're doing a good job, do it! if you need Favourite Singer to walk you to school, do it! yea it might feel silly but you're literally fighting against your own brain to get stuff done every single day. you can have a little self indulgent daydream, as a treat.

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The packaging is reminiscent of LGBTQ+ Joy and Whimsy, but the cookie inside is giving depressed twink

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🎶✨️when you get this, put 5 songs you actually listen to, then publish. Send this ask to 10 of your favorite followers (positivity is cool)🎶✨️

AH I LOVE THIS I GET TO TALK ABOUT MUSIC I'M LISTENING TO *AND* MAKE A LIST

Ok so the 5 songs I've kinda been listening to the most recently would be:

Glastonbury Song, The Waterboys (good vibes)

Faithul Departed, Christy Moore (fun to sing, almost makes being AMAB worth it)

Terms and Conditions, Seb Lowe (criticising rich people, need I say more?)

Mykonos, Fleet Foxes (good vibes, I can enjoyably close my eyes to this one and just take in the song)

A Girl Called Johnny, The Waterboys (listening to this on full volume makes me very emotional)

All of them have absolutely immaculate vibes in one way or another, literally the top 5 in my Spotify 'on repeat'

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Fucking want to cry but I hate how I can't because of growing up amab, I physically haven't in years and I want to know what it feels like because not knowing makes me feel like shit because I feel like i just don't gave emotions and I want to cry please fuck god I want to cry

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I thought this was inherent but you have to care about trans people you don’t want to fuck too

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Fuck I forgot to make a tumbeler post to let people know I'm thriving (not crying) because I've been super productive (wrote a paragraph of my work due in 24 hours time)

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It's nice but i think I've had enough of the year

What a year this week has been.

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Hey, happy new year you all!!! Taking new year new me to a whole new level this year (as a trans person i am legally obligated to make this joke, however I am not doing this BECAUSE of the legal obligation, I'm doing this because I WANT to)

I love you all ofc