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since different pics got posted on Thomas' Instagram + on Thomas' Twitter + on Aleksandr Wilde's Twitter + Aleksandr Wilde's Instagram + Thomas' Facebook page *deep breath*

i decided to make this simple post with no worrying about doubles and every one of the 14 pics present! check the reblog for the other 4!

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happy first day of pride to amab nonbinary people, bi women who love their boyfriends, bi men who love their girlfriends, straight trans people, and everyone still in the closet I hope y’all are having a good morning

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Making a pride ask game because I'm bored

Questions:

❤️ - What's your sexuality/gender identity?

🧡 - Are you out to your parents?

💛 - Who was the first person you came out to?

💚 - Who's your best friend?

💙 - Do you have any pride merch? (flags, clothes, bracelets, etc)

💜 - Have you been to a pride parade?

💗 - How are you feeling right now?

💖 - Fairy lights, LED strips, or natural light?

🖤 - Stargazing or walks on the beach?

💋 - Have you had your first kiss?

💕 - Have you ever been rejected due to your identity?

💝 - Are you in a relationship?

💟 - Do you trust easily?

🌊 - Ideal date?

🌺 - List three things you like about yourself

Dares:

🍓 - record yourself singing the verse/chorus of your favorite song and post it

🎨 - Draw/paint your pride flag!

☀️ - Anonymously send one of your mutuals a compliment

🌹- Choose two words to describe your personality

🍫 - Describe your crush

🍿 - change your blog theme to match your identity for ten minutes

📸 - Look to your left and take a photoshoot of the first thing you see

📱 - Take a picture of yourself and post it (or make a picrew of yourself and post that instead!)

🥤 - Drink some water you dehydrated f

👕 - Put together an outfit based on your pride flag(s)

🗓 - Schedule a self care day

Feel free to add more if you'd like!

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Ok this has been on my mind a lot, too many times have I come across people who don’t get this

The asexual spectrum and aromantic spectrum are TWO. SEPARATE. THINGS. Fighting against ace exclusionists is great but you need to fight against aro exclusionists, too

Including the ace pride flag and not the aro pride flag is not fully inclusive

Saying ace people belong at pride/in the LGBT+ community but not mentioning aro people belonging at pride/in the LGBT+ community is not fully inclusive

Responding to something talking about the entire A spectrum with things like “Yea, support aces!” is not fully inclusive

“Aspec” and “aphobia” refer to the ace and aro spectrums combined. If you only mean aces then it’s “acespec” and “acephobia”, if you only mean aros it’s “arospec” and “arophobia”. Don’t call something aphobic if it’s only attacking the ace community, and don’t call it acephobic if it’s clearly attacking the aro community

To my knowledge, the concept of queerplatonic relationships was coined by the aro community, not the ace community

If you’re going to say you support aspecs, then include arospecs as well as acespecs, and treat them as their own independent identities

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Happy Pride, ya’ll

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Omg did you guys know that if you go on Google Docs and go to File -> Page Setup and change the paper size to A5 (5.83″ X 8. 27″), it will give you book sized pages???? 

This is kind of a game changer tbh. Seeing how the paragraphs would really look is helpful!! And it’s motivating to picture it as real book! Weee

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Just a heads up, there appears to be some sort of scam group calling themselves SpiritCoreHealth or some variation of that, and they’re reaching out to me and a couple of other chronic illness bloggers looking to “recruit” us into what looks like some sort of multilevel marketing/cult wellness bullshit thing.

I’ve had multiple messages from different accounts, all claiming to be affiliated with it and “wanting practitioners such as yourself to be part of our group.”

If you see them on any of my posts, please report them, either to me or Tumblr itself. I won’t have charlatans using my blog to exploit the chronic illness community.

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since the old version of this post was flagged for 'adult content'...

reblog this post if your account is a trans safe space or owned by a trans person!

along with that, reblog if your account is a trans non-binary spectrum safe space or owned by someone on the trans enby spectrum!

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Reblog if you write fan fiction

Doesn’t matter if you write in a frequent basis, or once in a blue moon, just how many of us are there?

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Hi um

I just wanted to see something, people tell me that demi is just straight with standards and its not a valid thing and Im just trying to be queer

So

Like if you think demisexual is NOT a valid sexuality

Reblog if you think demisexuals are valid and not just 'straight with standards'

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Me scrolling through tumblr, casually sips my honey. We’re fine. On a different note, I am getting close to finishing my fic, and I’m hoping to find someone to beta read it. If anyone is interested, please DM me! It’s Logince with background Moxiety. There is some miscommunication, but they figure it out eventually. <3<3

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moms b like “your emotional pain causes ME emotional pain and that is what we will be focusing on today”

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Throwback to all these Jesus comics I drew in 2012…

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this is an allo aro positivity post <3

because why the hell not

y’all are amazing and ily/p