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ask me stuff! been wanting more community interaction

reblog if you’d like one of these in your inbox

- ask me things you want to know about me

- why you follow me

- what’s on your mind/what you’re thinking about

- a compliment

- make me choose between two things

- ask for advice

- tell me a secret

- things you associate me with

- anything!!!!

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the demons are saying call her. she’s also probably sleeping and won’t pick up. my brain is saying there’s no reason to call but a part of me just wants to hear her again before tomorrow

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massive fuck you to my uterus !!! why have you forsaken me !!!

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am i developing feelings or is she just a safe emotional space?

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got on one knee and proposed to a friend with a plastic ring at her party… you guys can lay off on the flirting now i’m a taken man… 😔😔😔

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welcome to the club ig 🤝🏼

I'm seriously going to have to put "This post was made by a minor" under my posts aren't I...

I keep getting NSFW/18+ blogs following me and I'm already *really* tired of having to go through my following to look through blogs and block them. I'm tired of having to look at porn just to know if I have to block them.

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owala water bottles for the win i'm drinking so much more water because i love sipping through the straw it's such an amazing stim

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you should like, gently lean your head on a loved one's shoulder. methinks

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once again mourning a life i never lived

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i know damn well it's you and who

Chaos femme 4 goofy butch

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men dni, this is about lesbians - op of this post is a minor

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i love being cared for and spoiled just as much as the next lesbian, but it's so important to do the same for the other person in the relationship.

helping them out when they've had a bad day, give them a shoulder to cry on or a neck to hide their face in, reassure them that they'll be ok no matter how much the world feels like it's crashing down on just them and them alone. or if they're not that much into physical touch, just lending an ear helps. even if you can't give them great advice, just being there and letting them get their bad day off their chest says a lot, and it means even more. and some people don't like to talk about their bad days. that's ok too. sometimes it's just space that they need but sometimes they just need to be distracted from their bad day. indulge in some of their favorite hobbies with them, watch a comfort show/movie of their's, cook them their favorite meal.

remembering the little things and doing them just because. adding in small details that you've remembered they hold so dear to their heart for whatever reason. it always feels good to know you're actually being listened to.

can we pls normalize femmes paying for stuff? just a little bit???? please queens/kings????? listen guys, i'm not complaining if you want to take care of me financially, i am a broke bitch! but WHEN i do have money, (not very often😞) at least let me buy you some ice cream with it or SOMETHIN'- PLEASE! i know ice cream isn't a super big responsibility but it's always felt weird to me seeing the relationship dynamic where one person supports themselves and their partner financially, and the partner doesn't even reciprocate it occasionally???? THIS IS NOT ME DEMONIZING THIS LIL DYNAMIC OR WTV, i just personally do not vibe with it. but do whatever makes you happy, bbgs. i know there are other ways of taking care of someone other than supporting them financially but i'd love to even be able to do it just once in a while, if not all the time. (all the time is not likely bcs once again i can't save money for shit....)

i know i mentioned this for like five seconds in my first or second lil paragraph but cooking is such a reassuring thing to do. cooking someone their favourite meal or just any meal is a love language that we look past too often and i am sick of it!!!!! (this is coming from someone who tried to make homeade hamburger helper with burrito beef two nights ago btw... don't look at me.) it's such a quiet way of love admittance. but then genuineness is there and it's abundant. mostly if your partner is of culture, i bet that would be an amazing and quite heartwarming surprise for them to see. (meow:3)

i could go on and on and on about reciprocity but it's 2am and i don't feel like writing anymore...

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...hi, I draw 💕

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yall go check out a close friend of mine! they've got some concepts for all kinds of people :)

🌕🌗🌑

i’m lowkey sad my posts get no attention idk what i’m doing wrong to get no traction while koi gets a bunch 😭

my posts are written w/ gender neutral stuff not only cus that’s what my partner uses but because i hoped more people could enjoy it because it wasn’t gendered.

i’m just butthurt ig lol

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it is my hope and dream that everyone on tumblr can go outside and visit a gay bar or go to a queer event and see that our community is very beautiful and very diverse and that half the internet discourse isn’t real

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kinda inaccurate but ykw it gets the job done

@femmeprincessjulia & @harlowevan

Starting a Picrew chain because I've been on that site all morning

Look, it's me😙✨

[ Tagging ] > @stayconnecteed @starlostastronaut @myboyfriendjake @rikislady @rikilove4 @afelia-123 + anyone else that wants to join!!

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too sweet (female v.)

OH MY GOD IM CONVULSING ON THE FLOOR. DEAD. DECEASED. THE LITTLE VOCAL FRY AND GROWL. SOMEONE TAKE ME OUT NOW I NEED TO BE RESTRAINED.