Did you know, if you try to search for "travesti" on this site, you know, a whole fucking transfem identity with centuries of history, you get a warning message telling you that that's a baaaaaaad word and that you shouldn't be searching for baaaaaaad words. But you can still search for "trans" or "transgender". I guess it's only acceptable to not be cis when you're not from the third world.
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Did you know, if you try to search for "travesti" on this site, you know, a whole fucking transfem identity with centuries of history, you get a warning message telling you that that's a baaaaaaad word and that you shouldn't be searching for baaaaaaad words. But you can still search for "trans" or "transgender". I guess it's only acceptable to not be cis when you're not from the third world.
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there is literally nothing better than being seen by a butch… being watched so intently.. in the way they do.. it makes me warm and dizzy… I love it. I love them.
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Daily memedump
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change my mind
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@progressivejudaism Thank you for your amazing post. I have a little comment to do. I think the emphasis on embracing diversity would be better shown if rather than just saying that (cis, trans, enby) women and (cis, trans, enby) men wear women’s/men’s clothing, which is already an important statement that our gender identites are real and genuine (I speak this as an enby futch mspec lesbian trans woman who’s very interested in conversion), we should also state that femmes wear femme clothing, butches/mascs wear butch/masc clothing, androgynous people were androgynous clothing, to emphasize how you talked about gender presentation and gender expression… Maybe the point would be reinterpreting the sentence further more. Yes, girls wear girls’ clothing, but maybe that’s precisely what it means that we experience this clothing as a girl, that if we’re femme, we’re gonna wear a particular clothing, if we’re butch, another, if we’re androgynous another set of clothings… So it would be still girl clothing precisely because it’s clothing appropriated for girls because there’s a diversity of styles and gender presentation among girls. Chag Pessach Sameach and thank you once more for this post. I’m gonna save it for future study later on. I think it’s an important perspective on the topic. :)
I'm worried about men having sexual relations being forbidden in the torah. As a member of the LGBT community this scares me, do you think it is just because it was a different time and this was more considered a sin of man against his wife? That's all I could come up with, but I just can't make myself believe that G-d would condemn something as such between to married people who are in love.
Hi there,
You have an extremely valid concern. I believe that a literary analysis of the material can help to illuminate why “the two verses” exist in the text and how we can better understand them as contemporary Jews. The most quoted verses of the Tanakh which aim to indignity LGBT+ folks are Lev. 18:22 and 20:13 (”man shalt does not lie with man”) and Deut. 22:5 (“a man shalt not wear women’s clothing”). I apologize in advanced for the massive amount of text present, but it is all important in order to validate and illuminate your concerns.
Keep reading
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OKAY so I haven’t drawn (or had) a Star trek OC in like at least 8 years, but I was struck two weeks ago with inspiration and here they are - Vulcan science liaison Ych’a (pre-transition) and her Klingon escort, Kras!
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Geni and the Zeppelin
Composed by Chico Buarque and in this video sang by the actress and singer Letícia Sabatella, it’s a famous Brazilian song from a 1960s musical. It portrays a transfem character mainly a travesti who is also a cabaret singer. In this song and in this musical, she is always shown in a humanized way respecting her identity and her pronouns.
I myself translated / adapted translations to the lyrics because I think that the other available English translations are not good enough.
“Of all deviant folks
From mangrove and from haven’s pier
She was once a girlfiend
Her body is there for roamers
blind people and immigrants
It’s for those without possessions
She gives herself since a young age
In the garage, in the cantina
Behind the tank, in the bush
She’s the queen of prisoners
Of female crazy people, of lepers
Of internship boys
And she often goes as well
With unhealthy elders
And widows without future
She’s a well of goodness
And therefore the city
Goes repeating on and on
Throw stones at Geni!
Throw stones at Geni!
She was made to be beaten!
It’s good to spit on her!
She has sex with everyone!
You cursed Geni!
One day appeared glowing
Between the clouds, floating
A huge zeppelin
It hovered above the buildings
Opened two thousand holes
With two thousand cannons thus
The city, terrified
Remained still
Ready for becoming jelly
However from the huge zeppelin
came down its captain
Saying: “I changed my mind!”
When I saw in this city
Such horror and atrocity
I decided blowing it all
But I can avoid the drama
If that charming lady
For this night serves me
This lady was Geni!
But it can’t be Geni!
She was made to be beaten
It’s good to spit on her
She has sex with every one
You cursed Geni!
But in fact, her of all people
So poor and so simple
Captivated the foreigner
The so showy warrior
So feared and powerful
Was now her prisoner
It happens that the maiden
(And it was her secret)
Also had her whims
And rather than laying with such a noble
Smelling so much glowing and cupper
She would prefer laying with beasts
Listening to such a heresy
The city in pilgrimage
Came to kiss her hands
The city’s major on his kness
The bishop with flusing eyes
And the bankowner with a million bucks
Go with him, go, Geni!
Go with him, go, Geni!
You can save us all
Bring us all into redemption
You have sex with every one
You blessed Geni!
There was so much asking
So sincere, so felt ones
That she came over her disgust
In this lagging night
She gave herself away to such paramour
As someone does it to their hanger
He made such a dirt
Besmirched himself all night long
Till he got satisfied
And not even full dawn
He went away in a cold cloud
With his silver zeppelin
In a sigh of relief
She turned her side
And even tried smiling
But soon came in the morning
And the city in a choir
Didn’t let her sleep
Throw stones at Geni!
Throw shit at Geni!
She was made to be beaten!
It’s good to spit on her!
She has sex with everyone
You cursed Geni!
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ADHD can feel like it gets 'worse' when we get older and have to organize ourselves more - the same thing can happen when we start working from home. For me, wfh is a double edged sword. It has it's upsides, but was also the reason I almost got fired and had to seek a diagnosis.
While I learned that I can generally concentrate better at home where I'm able to be inunterrupted or walk around when I need to, I was also unable to get myself to work for WEEKS without medication (and sometimes even now). I want to make a comic about how to deal wih this, but as I'm still trying to figure this out for myself (I feel like hardly any coping strategies work for me), I'll need a some more time to make it right. Also, this isn't trying to make a case for or against wfh!
Pomodoro technique = set a timer to 25minutes, then take 5 minutes break, repeat and adapt to your own time preferences
Body doubling = sit with someone in voice chat (without chatting) as you work, so you're less likely to wander off and start procrastinating
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This ADHD and Autism Venn Diagram was requested even more highly than the ADHD and PTSD diagram, and I finally got round to making it…
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friendly reminder that asexuality and aromanticism exist on a spectrum, and people can use whatever terms they feel most comfortable with to describe themselves!
this especially goes for demis and grays: your identities are REAL and GENUINE and anyone who says otherwise can fuck off
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Fluidity goals. 😍😍😍
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First | Previous | Next
Don’t feel forced to use a certain label
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A very simplified overview over the 3 diagnosable types of ADHD. It’s highly likely that you have symptoms from across the spectrum and not exclusively “hyperactive” or “inattentive” - that’s why I see ADHD( and ADD) as one big family. Look up the DSM-V for the actual symptom list!
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“Why criticism hurts so much"
I’ve been working on a series aiming to explain why we can get so deeply hurt and afraid of disapproval that it will interfere with our life decisions.
Coming soon:
2/4 "Where does it come from?”
¾ "How can I spot it?”
4/4 “What can I do?”
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