Choker? I hardly know 'er!
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shoutouts to lesbians with weird genders!!
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Oh it鈥檚 lesbian day of visibility uhhh I鈥檓 a dyke and I exist
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made a nsft twitter for things tumblr doesnt like, go follow me at theysieee!
reply or dm me with ur twt if u want a follow 馃槑
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hey cowboy jen! im sure you get this question a lot but do you have any advice for a baby butch looking to present more masculinely? im so much happier when i feel more masculine, but no matter hard i try i feel like i always look too femme for my liking. any tips?
Don't make yourself smaller in the presence of others. We are sometimes conditioned to shrink in and move aside. Stand tall and look people in the eye as you nod hello or acknowledge you see them. Don't pull your shoulders in when passing people or walking in a crown. I am not saying be a "bull in a China shop" in a group of people but don't be the one who pulls your body in. This eventually seems to come naturally to butches once we shake off the need to make ourselves less seen.
Start with boxers or boxer briefs as underwear. It is the weirdest advice I was given from an older butch and she spot on. Shrugging off the bikini underwear with flowers did wonders to make me feel more attractive and confident as a butch.
Shop at farm supply stores or check out old man fashion at estate sales and thrift shops. You can find unique and fun clothing for less until you find a style you love.
Lastly, don't worry about what others think. As a butch you will get perceived as masculine no matter what. While butch is how we are perceived in many aspects it is also how we move in the world and relate to women. So enjoy opening doors, making women smile and feel safe and your butch confidence will get stronger all the time.
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A pretty girl told me I'm "scary lookin'." I wonder what she was so afraid of.
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summer is almost here which means butches get to be blessed with femmes in sundresses again can i get a hallelujah amen
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Been a long time coming, but last night the Hot Wife and I got out for date night. Ran into another pair of butch4butch folks on the metro down to Audi Field. Gave each other the look and nod of acknowledgment. At the soccer game fans were waving a lot more rainbow flags than usual.
Happy Lesbian Visibility Week!
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Today I was not only visible as a butch lesbian I was visibly lesbian together with my butch girlfriend <3
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