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I fear if I love you anymore it’ll be harder for me to bear when you realize you’re done here

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I lose my mind when I look into your eyes

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I am attaching to my weaknesses because as hard as I am making it for myself, it is still easier than facing my fears

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Silence is the only way. In every situation let go of expectation and relax, let go and relax. The more relaxed, the more you flourish.

Jeff Foster

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the wisest people live in a state of autonomy

they understand that every emotion feeling thought action comes from them and only them

Ultimately everything has to be done on their own

so they suffer most and in private

any support or care from others doesn’t fix anything but just delays dealing with it internally

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The next time you begin to underestimate your worth in regards to your appearance I want you to think of this

Yes there are people that are idolized for their beauty and because they have fame we begin to categorize this group of people as the standard

Our brains low sorting information we like grouping things people into this or that categories, it makes our lives easier

But with doing this you fail to remember that things exist outside these groups and not all these categories are necessarily true

Think about it you go about your day and notice random strangers and think something positive about them and they aren't part of this group of ideal beauty

Everyday you walk about this life, someone is looking at you and finding beauty in you

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as the day comes to a close I realize how little I have done but how much I thought

yet if you asked I wouldn't be able to tell you a thing

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don’t be fooled by INFJs- although they will never be caught as the center of attention in a room full of people, they expect their partners to treat them as the center of attention in private

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anxiety is ending the day unfulfilled and overwhelmed because your brain couldn’t focus on completing any tasks throughout the day no matter how hard you tried

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INFJ partner-“I am committing to your forever I love you, will you marry me?”

INFJ- “I want to I love you but I am just not sure that you will be enough for the new next versions of me”

INFJs know they are on this journey of constant self discovery and development, they have love for so many people but they know they will be changing and growing and would never want someone to hold them back from their path

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I love the hidden but present confidence and security in INFJs

They express this in putting themselves first always

Their minds and bodies are sacred to them

They will protect it nourish it care for it above all else

Nothing is more important then their health and mental well being

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Three songs I know all INFJs will like

(Please let me know if you disagree)

1- when I see U: fantasia

2- show my love for you: Demise

3- Alaska (sofi tukker remix- maggie rogers)

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“INFJs are nonchalant because they focus more on their internal world and do not waste energy on the physical external world”

I’d like to disagree

INFJs are highly observant, if anything they are the most capable to pick up on subtle changes and shifts in the external world

However they don’t react, they take it in for processing and put it all together to gather a complete understanding of what is going on before acting or saying anything

And because of this pause for processing they become able to decide whether or not sharing any of the information they have gathered is beneficial

Most of the times it’s not, they understand that not much has to be said

This is what makes them nonchalant

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“Sensuality often makes love grow too quickly, so that the root remains weak and is easy to pull out.”

— Friedrich Nietzsche, Beyond Good and Evil

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who an INFJ needs:

1- someone they know actually wants to listen

2- someone who is truly a caring person

3- someone who sees the best in them through all flaws

4- someone who can sit with them without having to speak

5- someone who does not value the superficial things in life

6- someone who will never stop showing them they love them

7- someone who knows how deep they can be in their heads but loves them for it

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a typical INFJ dating experience:

doesn’t wanna get attached after a couple dates…after three dates..

Finds a little bit of miscommunication and runs away..

“I feel too insecure.. they aren’t showing me enough love.. they don’t know me enough, they should know me better to know that I want them”

This is coming from a true INFJs way of wanting deep connection and love but turn away so easily. They know when they have no control they know that’s when they will fall the hardest

So they protect themselves they say no when all they really want is yes yes yes

they want someone to know they need the yes yes yes

But will never ask for it

INFJs need to keep their thoughts buried in their head

They know how delicate their mind is

So they don’t release it it’ll get stolen away

It takes the most beautiful kind of thief to be able to understand where it is but keep it where it is

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growing up I remember saying “I wish I were oblivious”

as an INFJ this comes from a place of feeling too much to the point where it is unbearable

INFJs love to feel their emotions and often their thoughts are their most valued characteristic of themselves

But if they aren’t appreciated by the people they surround themselves with it becomes difficult and they feel these feelings are holding more negative space than doing good