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Bad news

I got harassed on the street while walking my dog last week and it has really affected my PTSD and anxiety negatively.

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Good news

So some good news happened recently. I have met someone and have had two dates with them. We have texted constantly for the last couple weeks and I really think we connected and have something special. We are both nonbinary and on the ace spectrum which makes me feel super comfortable being with them because I know they don't expect intimacy. They are super respectful to me and my personal boundaries. I smile every time they text me. I haven't felt this way in years.

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🥳Congrats for the coming outs!🥳

Thank you

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I recently started coming out to almost everyone I know and it feels so good to be able to be myself and no longer have to hide how I feel. It took me a long time to even realize I was nonbinary, not because I was unsure of my identity, just because I didn't know there was a word for it. For years I thought I was the only one who felt this way about gender. I have always felt like I was in between woman and man, never a man but never really fully a woman either. I thought I was broken, that something was wrong with me, that I was a freak. But there is nothing wrong with me, there is nothing wrong with how I feel gender is a spectrum and humans are not meant to fit nicely into societies gender binary. We are individuals and no two humans are exactly alike. And that's OK.

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So I came out as nonbinary on Instagram on Thursday and have been really anxious since. I keep checking instagram to see if people liked and or commented on the post but very few people have.

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🌈 some soft things to stay alive for:

seeing a heart-shaped cloud

music you could fall asleep to

warm blankets straight from the dryer

gifts with a lot of thought in them

surprise breakfasts in bed

hot cups of cocoa when it’s cold

rainbows during a sun shower

cute artwork that you connect with

little hopes that come true

feeling safe with someone you love

taking care of a used plushie

yummy edible cookie dough

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I support all people who have their periods. You are all so incredibly valid and beautiful.

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reblog if you fully and intentionally are referring to aspec people as well when you use the word queer to refer to the community

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Today's Gender is feeling like your art hasn't improved and having some ideas on how to improve it, but not having the motivation to execute those ideas

Oof. Valid

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Source _@/

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Should children under 10 be allowed to pick their gender?

People can pick their gender? Which supermarket is selling gender? How much does gender cost? How is the taste of gender? Can I buy a gender+ premium service?

I am a cisgender male, I didn’t pick my gender, I just am. My gender is my inner feeling, my gender is how I see myself and want others to perceive me. My gender is my birthright and my property.

Instead of assuming shiit, do proper research on the subject and educate yourself. And children no matter how old they are should be allowed to express their gender, for fuccks sake don’t silence them.