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260 calorie or less pizza

1 low-cal tortilla (mine are 100 cals)

½ cup tomato sauce (60 cals)

¼ cup cheese (mine is 100 cals but you could use low-cal cheese instead)

Put it all together and pop it in the oven on around 400 for about five minutes. Or until the cheese starts to bubble.

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It’s not the UK, it’s the UGay, right?

Hayley Kiyoko, 23/10/18

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I C O N I C

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she came from hevan to bless the european gays last night ~ 🏳️‍🌈

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lesbian jesus said it herself - 20gayteen isn’t just a year, it’s a movement 🏳️‍🌈

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not all trans men are precious skinny white flower boi princes

support masculine trans men

support chubby trans men

support trans men of colour

support trans men who don’t fit into tumblr’s conventional idea of trans men

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Hey. Please take a moment to read, this is really important.

Four friends and I recently created an app that helps the LGBT+ community, teens with mental illness, teens in countries that censor internet content, and anyone else who needs support to find an anonymous, safe, and close community.

We have finished the beta for our app and plan to release it in June during Pride Month.

But, we need your help to make this app possible. You can sign up for it here.

If we don’t enough sign ups, then we won’t get the funding to keep our app safe for our users. The organization that wants to fund us needs validation that there are enough people in need of our app.

We need the funding to hire moderators that will go through reported posts and keep our content safe for the LGBT+ and mental health community.

We have just started collecting sign ups, but not nearly enough to make our app a reality.

Please, sign up for our app. No matter your sexuality, gender, preference, race, or anything of that matter.

We really need your help to make this possible. You can sign up here. It only takes an email, no name is necessary.

This app’s existence is dependent on your support. If we can’t get enough sign ups, then we will won’t be able to release our app and will have to abandon our hopes for this safe space online.

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Transfeminine resources:

Presentation:

Tucking

Chest area

Voice

Broad shoulders tips

Body hair removal

Feminine walk

Curves

Waist training

Hair

Clothing

Makeup

Passing

Medical transitioning:

Not medically transitioning

Estrogen & anti-androgens/testosterone blockers FAQ

The types of surgery available

Surgery: A guide for transfeminine people

Facial Feminization Options

Breast Augmentation

Genital surgery

Other:

Representation

Transfeminine period dysphoria

Yes, Transfeminine People Can Get Period Symptoms

Slipping into masculinity

Women’s restroom etiquette

Transfeminine people can breastfeed

Having sex or masturbating

Transmasculine resources:

Presentation:

Binding FAQ

Clothing

Fake beard & masculine makeup

Getting short hair / Masculine long hair

If you can’t start T

Lowering your voice

Packing and standing to pee

Passing as male

Shaving

Swimming

Medical transitioning:

Not medically transitioning

Puberty blockers

Testosterone FAQ

Top surgery

Hysterectomy and oophorectomy

Lower/bottom surgery (meta and phallo)

Other:

Periods and related things

Help! I need to see a gyno

Pumping

Masturbation and sex

Using the men’s bathroom

Hudson’s FTM Guide

More resources:

What am I? (gender questioning)

Info on choosing a name

Coming out page

Dysphoria info and tips page

Mental health coping page

School page

Non-binary resources

Resources to send allies/friends

A page to send to parents/guardians

Convincing someone to respect name/pronouns 

Here is how to get hormones in the US

Here is how to get hormones in the UK

Here’s a US resource with info on changing legally changing your name and gender marker 

Here is a UK resource with info on changing legally changing your name and gender marker

How to buy a trans-related item online without parents knowing

Choosing a swimsuit info here

Info on sleeping and dysphoria

Traveling by plane

Does transitioning help mental health?

Trans identity isn’t a mental disorder

Being religious and LGBT

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you are valid!!

shoutout to nonbinary people who default to presenting as their assigned gender bc it’s easier

shoutout to nonbinary people who default to presenting as their assigned gender bc it’s safer

shoutout to nonbinary people who default to presenting as their assigned gender bc they don’t feel like they can pull off anything else

shoutout to nonbinary people who default to presenting as their assigned gender bc presenting as their real gender is impossible

shoutout to nonbinary people who present as their assigned gender bc they want to

shoutout to nonbinary people whose presentation is mistaken for their assigned gender but is in fact how they express their real gender

just because we might “look cis” doesn’t make us any less nonbinary and tbh fuck anyone who says otherwise

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Trans Youth Statistics

TW: suicide and self harm

Did you know that almost half of transgender pupils have attempted suicide? Despite instances of LGBTQ related bulling has decreased trans youth are still hugely susceptible towards being discriminated against. The Stonewall Organisation did a survey on 3,700 LGBTQ identifying school aged people and found the results to be astonishing ~ finding that 84% transgender youth have self-harmed and 45% have attempted suicide.

The Stonewall Organisation conducted their School Report in 2017 - only last year!

As a queer person I can relate to these statistics and I understand why they are so high. Social media has allowed LGBTQ+ people to believe that the world is all accepting and loving. But this social media bubble isn’t reality, we are made to believe we live in a post-discriminatory society, where people can love and be loved but this isn’t true! In reality, people are facing immense prejudice in a world where, in a large number of countries, they can be murdered for being their true selves.

We can and will do something about this!!

With a voice come power, and with power comes change. We need to speak up, educate people, talk to people in positions of authority and demand that they do something to change this! We cannot stop until every LGBTQ+ person can be out and proud and safe, no one should ever feel as if they no longer deserve to live because of other people’s prejudices.

If you are struggling or know someone is struggling, please, seek help,talk to someone. remember you are loved no matter what anyone else can tell you! 💕