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Happy lesbian visibility week everyone 💜

Image ID: Text - Lesbian, Lesbianism is a queer attraction to women. Subverting society’s expectations and loving women in a non traditional cisheteronormative way©Flag: u/akoudagawaismywaifu on Reddit in 2020; lesbian flag colors top to bottom - dark purple, light purple, white, pink, dark magenta

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One of the worst ones I've seen is "don't shame me because I'm trans blind!"

.... buddy as dark as this sounds, it's called grab a sharp object and just fall on it. Bam, no more "trans blind."

I saw something for "transnarcolepsy" and as someone with narcolepsy, I fucking hate it.

"uwu I'm so cute and sleepy all the time 😴."

Nah bro fuck you.

You don't suddenly want to fall over from a sleep attack during grocery shopping and risk cracking your head open and unless you grab an energy drink within the next 5-15 minutes, YOUR ASS IS GOING DOWN!

Oh your at a friend's birthday party or some other nice social events but your brain goes "haha, fuck you, you gotta sleep now" so you need to find a couch or chair in the middle of a crowded room to DOZE OFF IN despite wanting to have fun.

Oh you need to go to work? Have fun barely functioning with the risk of losing your job because all your energy is going to staying the fuck awake.

im very sleepy rn so ill keep this short but im a former rq!

they convinced me everything was a transid. oh you like being autistic and want people to know you're autistic irl? you must be transseverity and want worse autism! oooh you love your cat? you're obviously a zoo! you like hanging around kids, and you like short people and height differences? such a map thing!

it was so shit. everyone kept saying how much they hated suibaiting but a day after i left my radqueer ex practically begged me to kill myself.

i was transnpd (i actually do have npd but i thought i didnt and i felt connected to it 'for some reason' lmao), trans maladaptive daydreaming(i actually want to IMMERSIVE daydream, not maladaptive, i found out the difference later), transnarcolepsy for no reason other than i thought i was cute when i was tired.

i was transage(i am actually chronosian and an agere). and worst of all i was pro-contact for a while- they had fully convinced me that children and animals could consent.

and IM EIGHTEEN. im a GROWN ASS ADULT(despite my immaturity) and i fell for this shit. if they can trick an adult think what they do to a 13-14yo(i saw MANY of those in the discord servers i was in)

They treat everything like a transid, oh you think pink hair is pretty and wish your hair was pink? You must be "transpinkhair"? Oh you have agoraphobia and wish it was worse (so you can feel justified in suffering)? You must be transseverity :)

I was suibaited an uncountable amount of times for being anti-contact and calling someone out for being pro-contact for harmful paras (this person was bait, they misused trigger warnings, claimed everything was anon hate, refused to translate their extremely unreadable tq, and more)

It was terrifying, especially because I was there when I was in the worst avoidant episode and dependent episode of my life, they convinced me it was alright.

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As soon as internet babies learn what maladaptive behavior is y'all will want to change it - it's deliberately doing or thinking things, knowing it's making a problem worse

Self pitying and self hating absolutely counts.

Take it from your 30 year old big queer sis - I've got PTSD and a myriad of other mental health issues - this is a cycle that if you further lean into will only make it that much harder to get out of.

TikTok is straight up toxic in some circles as well as other forms of social media that openly encourages others to self harm, hurt others, etc. STOP FOLLOWING THOSE CREATORS!

You ARE actively making yourself worse. Start new, start fresh. Follow cute animal videos. Follow cute memes that don't put others on the gallows. Follow funny voice overs that don't lean into self down talk humor.

Btw when someone says "don't talk to me like that, I don't know you" the normal thing to do is apologize for the perceived overfamiliarity and correct the behavior. Just in case anyone was wondering

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garlic bread to share to your aspec friends :)

rb to share

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Bigots don't get privacy 💜

Asexuals deserve all the love and kindness in the world. Period. We are one of the most underserved communities and need help.

Happy asexual day of pride 💜💜💜

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You literally can't win with these assholes. If you reference something from the 90s or older they say "lol that's ancient history and doesn't matter." If you reference something from the 2010s they say "lol it's made up Tumblr shit." Like I'm not going to bend my ass over backwards because you refuse to acknowledge how real people ID cause you can't get over your own bullshit.

I don't like queer discourse because it shouldn't exist but I came across a post yesterday where someone was like "I hate when pro mspec lesbians tell me to read stone butch blues it's outdated" ????????? Queer. Queer history is outdated???? HUH?

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The racist origins of nonman and nonwoman

Image text: Gordon, Lewis R.. Bad Faith and Antiblack Racism. Humanities Press, 1995. ISBN 9781573925150.

"Our descriptions of sexuality in an antiblack world pose a gender problem. From the standpoint of an antiblack world, black men are nonmen-nonwomen, and black women are nonwomen-nonmen. This conclusion is based on our premise of whites-white men and white women-being both human, being both Presence, and our premise of blacks, both black men and women, being situated in the condition of the 'whole, being both Absence."

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I simplified the lotussexual flag. It's when one still has desires, fantasies, etc. but when it comes to "the act" they feel like they become doll like, almost like a husk of themselves.

As someone whose always been into doll play and my own trauma, this is kinda perfect for me.

Obvious if this makes you uncomfortable or fills you with dread, please seek out professional help. It's within the asexual umbrella.

Original flag and coining was made in December 2022

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“asexuality is just the lack of a sex drive, or a really low one” uuhhh no. really, no. that is incorrect, you have been lied to, i’m sorry.

asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to anyone. sex drive is your horny meter. you can still be horny and not be sexually attracted to people! similarly you can be sexually attracted to people and not be horny!! amaze

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Lotussexual / Lotusromantic!

I wanted a asexual label that fit me so here is me coining that label!

Lotussexual: an asexual spectrum label where one still has desires, sexual fantasies, and/or sexual attraction due to their libido, hypersexuality, societal pressures, or something else entirely. But when attempting to have sexual intercourse, or sexual actions with someone in general, they do not feel attraction to them. They may feel like a 'doll' who cannot recuperate these feelings when having sex or receiving sexual things like touching.

This sexuality can be fluid or fluctuate depending on the person using this label. This label can also be described as being in between cupiosexual and orchidsexual. This label can be used with other aspec identities (Ex: Aceflux and Lotussexual)

Lotusromantic: an aromantic spectrum label where one still has desires, romantic fantasies, and/or romantic attraction due to ones romantic libido, being hyperromantic, societal pressures, or something else entirely. But when attempting to do romantic activities with someone in general, they do not feel attraction to them. They may feel like a 'doll' who cannot recuperate these feelings when on dates or receiving romantic actions like kissing or dates.

This romantic orientation can be fluid or fluctuate depending on the person using this label. This label can also be described as being in between cupioromantic and orchidromantic. This label can be used with other aspec identities (Ex: Aroflux and Lotusromantic.)

Flag stripe meanings!

Lotussexual

Attraction

Acespec

Sexual fantasies

Lack of sexual attraction

Desiring to be in a sexual relationship

Hypersexuality

Hyposexuality

Lotusromantic

Attraction

Arospec

Romantic fantasies

Lack of romantic attraction

Desiring to be in a romantic relationship

Hyperromantic

Hyporomantic

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Coined by me on Thursday, December 22, 2022. Flags also made by me!

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Feasexual (fay-sexual): a person who feels like they experience sexual attraction but upon acting in sexual acts, it disappears

Flag and term creation unknown, it's been around since at least 2021.

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Despite the huge queer community here, I'll be ducking out because I'm so done with this horse shit. I'll probably move over to neocites.

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As a pan ace 30 yo lesbian/pan dyke I'm begging young queers

Stop trying to speak over IRL queers who say "hey this is my personal exp so I feel comfortable id with (term here)". Your discomfort and trauma lens ain't our problem. Get therapy for your trauma lashing out and stop pushing your closed views on strangers

Photo dumping some lesbian history photos.

And some more.

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Image ID: a screenshot of Google search for the movie "alleluia the devil's carnival"

Hey Hazbinhotel ,

you want something that flips heaven and hell and heaven is the bad guy?

A great musical?

Amazing costumes and make-up?

Check out "alleluia the devil's carnival" it's a rock opera and has a sequel that further explores heavens lore. Great musical 😍💜 it also stars the cast of Repo! the generic opera.

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Seeing prn bots infiltrate the asexual tag on here is fucking weird as shit

M'am you tried to hijack literally one of the most anti-sex tags on this very site where majority of people who use this tag are sex repulsed, sex negative, or just don't like XXX media (visually) on some level, esp since many aces on this site are in their teen years.

*If you are an ace SW more power to you, but you also have enough common sense to not tag your XXX material with the ace tag unless you're doing it just to bring kind of awareness to being ace and a SW

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It's similar to that scene in barbie where the teenage daughter ends up saying (paraphrasing)

"you might not be able to completely change things, but you can at least make it better!"

That's the key phrase there when it comes to politics - make it better. Very rarely can a single or group of politicians completely change a system during the term they're in. However, they can fight like hell to at least make it better

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Tumblr has been a home to queer people for years. It was the last place we felt safe online. If you attack trans women, you attack all of us, and if the tumblr polls are to be trusted, about 90% of your clientele will leave and never return. Pick your fucking battles Matt. Justice for predestrogen.