Atypical marriage flags
[PT: Atypical marriage flags /END PT]
and queer marriage flags that I made
1: Green chrysanthemum flag, aromantic marriage, for aromantic couple
[IMAGE ID: The image features a color scheme of grey, purple, and black, along with the pictured central subject which is a purple flower. The flower is surrounded by a grid of alternating gray, purple lines, and black squares creating a checkered pattern. The overall impression given by the image is of a bright, fresh, and vibrant atmosphere. /END]
2: Violet flag, asexual marriage, for asexual couple
[IMAGE ID: The image features a color scheme of grey, light green, and green, along with the pictured central subject which is a green flower. The flower is surrounded by a grid of alternating gray, green lines, and light orange squares creating a checkered pattern. The overall impression given by the image is of a bright, fresh, and vibrant atmosphere. /END]
3: Sunflower flag, platonic marriage, for platonic couple
[IMAGE ID: The image has a color scheme of pink, light yellow, and orange, along with the pictured central subject which is a yellow flower. The flower is surrounded by a grid of alternating light pink, light yellow lines, and light orange squares creating a checkered pattern. The overall impression given by the image is of a bright, fresh, and vibrant atmosphere. /END ID]
colors are taken from the 3 original flags
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Warnings: homophobic and transphobic parents
Okay, hear me out. I drew my flags okay?
I couldn't buy lgbt+ flags because my parents are homophobic and transphobic (i still live with them) so i decided to draw my flags. And i put them in my closet. Yes, inside my closet! Look at this:
(this isn't the best try and the colours aren't the best either but that's all i had for now)
And my mother opened my closet because... I don't even know why! And she saw the flags. (I told her that the first and the third flag are both bisexual flags because I don't want more drama in my life, neither i want to give more explanations. Sadly, i couldn't lie about the trans flag because she already knows how it looks). And after she saw the flags she was like:
"Take them off of the closet because i don't want anyone to see them!"
What a stupid way of saying "I don't want to see them" 🙄
Like, who's gonna open my damn closet except me?? (And you for some reason).
And then she said: "Your teacher might see them!"
Bro, wtf? Is my teacher going to open my closet or something? Why would she do that? To see my jackets and rate them out of 20?
Mother: "I don't want to see the flags!"
Finally, speaking the truth! Okay, i get that, you are homophobic. So, if you don't want to see my flags, then don't open my closet out of nowhere!!!
End of the story
*takes deep breath* yeah, that's it. Thank you very much for listening.
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I didn't make this post just to share this specific event and just to calm down my nerves. It's not about the flags in my closet. It's much more than that.
Since i came out to my parents, everyday something is happening that just makes me angry or sad again. The day goes perfectly fine until "my mum opens my closet out of nowhere" and here we go again. More drama, more anxiety, more anger and more tears. Can't we have some peace?! It's not like I'm bothering you or something! So why do you always bring this up and bother me? Can't we let some days pass without trouble? Do we always have to say the same things over and over again? Do we always have to fight?
I mean, be patient! It's one fucking year! I'll have my own house the next year so just be patient until then! That's what i also do. I'm patient.
I'm in a state where I can't do anything about transitioning. I can't even buy a hoodie from the male section because they say "that's the male section, you are a girl" and stuff like that, even if it's just a single colour hoodie! (Let's be honest, the only difference is the sizes. Single colour simple-classic hoodies are always the same).
I don't say my opinion about transsexuality or bisexuality (or about anything LGBT+ related) because i already know their reaction. I don't express my thoughts or opinions, I don't ask my questions and i don't discuss my troubles. Although i want to do it!
I'm patient... But they aren't.
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And i know it might be hard for them, i understand that. I'm willing to give them time to think about it and to search and to learn and to understand me better and to have as many calm discussions as they want. The problem is that they are wasting this time. They do none of those things. They just complain. Can't they just be patient for another year? It's not much if you think about it.
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Anyway, if i say everything that I want to say now about me and my parents and my experience, this post is never going to end.
So let's get in the important part:
I wish you all good luck with the "come out to parents" thing. I wish you to have lots of patience (you might need it). I wish you to be happy and healthy, always. Be strong. And... Yeah... It might go well but if it doesn't just remember that you are not alone. Be positive and know that better things are about to come in the future... So... I might be terrible with words, but i just wanted to say that you are not alone even if you think that you are, you are not. You'll find your way I promise. Good luck.
Take care of yourself okay?
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Non boring pride flags.
I made them as posters here:
NonBinary Cool AF Flag
DICK Dinosaur LGBT Flag
Bisexual AF Flag
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(ID : rectangular flag made up of six equally-sized stripes. The colors, from top to bottom, are : purple, light purple, baby pink, light pink, a mid-tone between light pink, and dark pink.)
Acefucked/Aceweird: A term for when someone's asexual identity and/or their relation to it is inherently so complex and transient that it feels unable to explain or comprehend. It can have ties to neurodivergency.
I made this because I couldn't find an ace version of Arofucked/Aroweird. I will also make an AroAce version. Anyone can use this or make variations there of. I can't make symbols, so there is no ace symbol for this flag.
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