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shining bright bc i am a lovely little star :) (print!!)

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man up and lez out

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Visual

I can see you in everything—

I see you in windows lit late at night,

in strangers with your posture,

your glance,

the way they gently tilt their head when listening.

You are the way the coffee cools too fast,

and how the steam curls like breath

from a sleeping mouth.

You’re the song stuck in my head,

though I haven’t heard it in years.

You are everywhere I don’t expect—

in mismatched socks,

in cracked mugs,

in laughter that ends

a little too suddenly.

You even live in my rituals now—

the slow pour of tea that is too bitter for my tongue but just enough for yours,

the folded corner of a page,

the way I say goodbye

to no one in particular.

Even the silence speaks of you—

not loudly,

just enough to bruise.

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literally though if you feel like your life is slipping through your fingers and every day goes too fast… try doing hard things, not just taking the easy route, like reading and making art and exercising and cooking a meal from scratch and journaling, doing these things without distraction, without being absorbed on a screen… the time will stretch and you’ll be reminded that life is long and beautiful if you make it so.

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oh man. oh jeez

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daily affirmations:

i am kind

i am in control of my emotions

it does not bother me when someone is in the kitchen while i was planning to be in there alone

everyone in the house has the right to be in the kitchen

i am kind and in control of my emotions even when someone is in the kitchen while i was planning to be in there alone

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kansas city how I love you.

- shot by me on canon EOS30D

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Amazing shot I got from Pride KC last year. 📸🏳️‍🌈

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can someone teach me how to be emotionally regulated and not be sensitive or take things personally

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POV This is your 46th time dying to Jevil and Kris is starting to Snap

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when it’s really bad again and it’s still way better than it used to be but it’s still really bad. and you do all the right stuff and you try and try and it still really hurts but it’s working but it still hurts and you go see the beautiful majesty of nature and your soul is so close to being at peace but your mind is still in pain. and it’s better but it’s still bad. and the sun is setting.

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David Lynch's "Angriest Dog in the World".

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Set of glazed ceramic tiles, 17th century, originating from the Netherlands. Collection: Museum Rotterdam.⁣

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on being yourself

@ brainsoupp_ on twitter// @stmichaelthearchangel// @ cybermrcury on twitter// @throughmy-eyez // @ shellerina on twitter// @caesarsaladinn// @ nelsoncj4 on twitter // @ heimberg_a on twitter// make your own kind of music by cass elliot// @ soledadfrancis on twitter// ? // @ sourcenectar on twitter// @superorganism

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anecdote of the pig, tory adkisson // achilles & partoclus // house of dragon, 1x07 // plainwater, anne carson // the truth about forever, sarah dessen // lighthousekeeping, jeanette winterson

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hi, a lot of you need a perspective reset

the average human lifespan globally is 70+ years

taking the threshold of adulthood as 18, you are likely to spend at least 52 years as a fully grown adult

at the age of 30 you have lived less than one quarter of your adult life (12/52 years)

'middle age' is typically considered to be between 45-65

it is extremely common to switch careers, start new relationships, emigrate, go to college for the first or second time, or make other life-changing decisions in middle age

it's wild that I even have to spell it out, but older adults (60+) still have social lives and hobbies and interests.

you can still date when you get old. you can still fuck. you can still learn new skills, be fashionable, be competitive. you can still gossip, you can still travel, you can still read. you can still transition. you can still come out.

young doesn't mean peaked. you're inexperienced in your 20s! you're still learning and practicing! you're developing social skills and muscle memory that will last decades!

there are a million things to do in the world, and they don't vanish overnight because an imaginary number gets too big

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there you are