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Imagine a world where the words you speak appeared on your skin. ⠀ ⠀ Would you be more careful of what you say?⠀ ⠀ Too often adults tell children what happened, what caused it to happen, how the child should feel about it, what the child should learn from it, and what the child should do about it.⠀ ⠀ It is much more respectful and encouraging when we ask...What happened, what the child things caused it, how the child feels about it, what the child has learned, what idea the child has to solve the problem, or how the child can use what she has learned in the future.⠀ ⠀ It is imperative that we use only kind words when we talk with children.⠀ ⠀ ⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ #meditation #kidsyoga #support #kidsyogateacher #yogaforkids #yogaforkidsandteens #kidsyogainstructor #yogaforchildren #zenchildren #yogafun #yoga #kidsyogaphotography #breathe #calmingkids #parenting #meditationforkids #mindfulnessforkids #selfawareness #antibullying #meditationpractice #teenyoga #yogateachertraining #mindfulkids #onlineyoga #childrensyoga #weekendtraining #mindfulness #kidsmindfulness #selfregulation https://www.instagram.com/p/CQXpBGVJGN6/?utm_medium=tumblr

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By teaching our children the feeling words appropriate to their age—and encouraging them to use them—we support their emotional growth now, into their teen and adult years.⠀ ⠀ How would you use and teach this word to your child? ⠀ Please share suggestions in the comment section.⠀ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #baby #earlychildhoodeducation #earlyyears #family #happy #instagood #kids #love #meditation #mom #momlife #motherhood #natasharamchandani #parentingcoach #parentingtips #parentsupport #positivedisciplineindia #roughandtumble #yogaeverydamnday #yogaeveryday #yogaeverywhere #yogainspiration #yogalife #yogalove #yogapractice #yogateacher #parentinggoals #babygirl #children #parentinglife https://www.instagram.com/p/CQXosqCp4m_/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Yoga has the potential to have a significant impact on a child’s development because it requires a youngster to be able to be calm, avoid sensory disturbance, and remain focused.⠀ ⠀ Yoga also encourages youngsters to be comfortable and confident in their own skin, which is an important life skill.⠀ ⠀ Good self-regulation in children allows them to accept responsibility for their actions and exert control over their own behaviour.⠀ ⠀ They become more aware of how to recognise and control stressful circumstances that would normally drive them to behave poorly.⠀ ⠀ It is evident that the ability to do this function can be quite beneficial in a variety of situations.⠀ ⠀ Three perfect poses for kids⠀ ● Tree Pose (helps with balance)⠀ ● Bridge Pose (stretches the thighs and the spine)⠀ ● Cat Pose (good for the back and your core)⠀ ⠀ ⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ #meditation #kidsyoga #support #kidsyogateacher #yogaforkids #yogaforkidsandteens #kidsyogainstructor #yogaforchildren #zenchildren #yogafun #yoga #kidsyogaphotography #breathe #calmingkids #parenting #meditationforkids #mindfulnessforkids #selfawareness #antibullying #meditationpractice #teenyoga #yogateachertraining #mindfulkids #onlineyoga #childrensyoga #weekendtraining #pescefulwarriors #mindfulness #kidsmindfulness #selfregulation https://www.instagram.com/p/CQXnWVopDcZ/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Research indicated children make better decisions when given honest information. ⠀ ⠀ They tend to discount adults who are moralistic and make statements they don’t believe. ⠀ ⠀ “Hurry up or I am going to leave without you.”⠀ ⠀ “You will get sick if you don’t eat your vegetables.”⠀ ⠀ “Stop crying or the police or bad guy will come get you.”⠀ ⠀ “When I was your age….” ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ This is how we end up teaching young children to discount our statements… and then when we wonder why teenagers don’t believe a thing we say about drug use. ⠀ ⠀ So satisfy their curiosity honestly now rather than conditioning them to not trust you later. ⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ #blendedfamilies #stepfamilycoaching #coparentingatitsfinest #stepfamilylove #divorcesupport #divorceparents #consciousparenting #daddytime #dadslife #dadstuff #fatherdaughter #fathers #girldad #nrparentcoach #mindfulparenting #momblogger #natasharamchandani #newparenttips #over40 #parentingadvice #parentingcoach #parentinghacks #parentingproblems #parentingtips #parentingtipsandadvice #parentsupport #peacefulparenting #positivedisciplineindia #positiveparentingtips ⠀ https://www.instagram.com/p/CQXnP9SpTCY/?utm_medium=tumblr

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By teaching our children the feeling words appropriate to their age—and encouraging them to use them—we support their emotional growth now, into their teen and adult years.⠀ ⠀ How would you use and teach this word to your child? ⠀ ⠀ Please share suggestions in the comment section.⠀ ⠀ ⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ #intentionalparenting #strengthinmotherhood #emotionalregulation #onemonthold #parentinggoals #parentinginapandemic #mindfulparenting #letschat #gentleparenting #nrparentcoach #randomactsofkindness #practicallifeskills #babytips #mindfulmama #parentsupport #playtherapy #mytinymoments #empoweringparents #honestmotherhood #positiveparentingsolutions #followthechild #fatherhood #parenthoodunlocked #openendedplay #familyiseverything #consciousparenting #mummyblog #showinglove #peacefulparenting #babysfirstyear https://www.instagram.com/p/CQXnCTlpO6T/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Research indicated children make better decisions when given honest information. ⠀ ⠀ They tend to discount adults who are moralistic and make statements they don’t believe. ⠀ ⠀ “Hurry up or I am going to leave without you.”⠀ ⠀ “You will get sick if you don’t eat your vegetables.”⠀ ⠀ “Stop crying or the police or bad guy will come get you.”⠀ ⠀ “When I was your age….” ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ This is how we end up teaching young children to discount our statements… and then when we wonder why teenagers don’t believe a thing we say about drug use. ⠀ ⠀ So satisfy their curiosity honestly now rather than conditioning them to not trust you later. ⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ #blendedfamilies #stepfamilycoaching #coparentingatitsfinest #stepfamilylove #divorcesupport #divorceparents #consciousparenting #daddytime #dadslife #dadstuff #fatherdaughter #fathers #girldad #nrparentcoach #mindfulparenting #momblogger #natasharamchandani #newparenttips #over40 #parentingadvice #parentingcoach #parentinghacks #parentingproblems #parentingtips #parentingtipsandadvice #parentsupport #peacefulparenting #positivedisciplineindia #positiveparentingtips ⠀ https://www.instagram.com/p/CQWAW06Jh4Z/?utm_medium=tumblr

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By teaching our children the feeling words appropriate to their age—and encouraging them to use them—we support their emotional growth now, into their teen and adult years.⠀ ⠀ How would you use and teach this word to your child? Please share suggestions in the comment section.⠀ ⠀ ⁣ ⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ #blendedfamilies #stepfamilycoaching #coparentingatitsfinest #stepfamilylove #divorcesupport #divorceparents #consciousparenting #daddytime #dadslife #dadstuff #fatherdaughter #fathers #girldad #golfer #mindfulparenting #momblogger #natasharamchandani #newparenttips #over40 #parentingadvice #parentingcoach #parentinghacks #parentingproblems #parentingtips #parentingtipsandadvice #parentsupport #peacefulparenting #positivedisciplineindia #positiveparentingtips ⠀ https://www.instagram.com/p/CQV_Ce4pLxi/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Statistics of Harm⠀ Some studies have revealed that parental manipulation of children is present in 11 to 15 percent of divorces with children. ⠀ ⠀ Children who are victims of this conduct often suffer from depression, low self-esteem, and trust issues, all of which increase their chances of developing substance abuse problems.⠀ ⠀ Severe cases of parental alienation can lead to self-hatred. Children learn to internalise the hate exhibited by their parent to the other party. ⠀ ⠀ Often, they believe that the alienated parent did not ever love them, making it difficult to form attachments to others in the future. ⠀ ⠀ And it’s a perpetuating cycle: one study has revealed that half the children studied who had experienced alienation later were alienated from their children. ⠀ ⠀ Children of manipulative parents learn how to create drama instead of resolving disputes.⠀ ⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ #parentingtips #parenting101 #parentinglife #familymoments #unitedinmotherhood #boymomlife #learningathome #raisingboys #specialeducation ⁣#conciousparenting #familymatters #blendedfamily #boymomlife #fatheranddaughter #toddlersofig #unschooling #attachmentparenting ⁣⠀ #parentinglife #publicspeaker #family1st ⁣#divorcedmom #divorceddad #seperatedparents #traumarecovery #parentingtips #parentinglife #empowering #opinions #nrparentcoach https://www.instagram.com/p/CQIKakZJOHm/?utm_medium=tumblr

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By teaching our children the feeling words appropriate to their age—and encouraging them to use them—we support their emotional growth now, into their teen and adult years.⠀ ⠀ How would you use and teach this word to your child? Please share suggestions in the comment section.⠀ ⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ #parentingtips #parenting101 #parentinglife #familymoments #preggers #unitedinmotherhood #boymomlife #learningathome #raisingboys #specialeducation ⁣#conciousparenting #familymatters #blendedfamily #boymomlife #fatheranddaughter #toddlersofig #unschooling #attachmentparenting ⁣⠀ #parentinglife #publicspeaker #family1st ⁣⠀ #bodyacceptance #stopbullying #parentingtips #parentinglife #bodyimage ⁣#instawoman #empowering #opinions #nrparentcoach https://www.instagram.com/p/CQIJxPeJ5H5/?utm_medium=tumblr

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"Yes, Parents" take an entirely different approach to parenting. Parents who ascribe to the yes parenting movement don't believe in telling their children no. ⠀ ⠀ Instead, these parents go to great lengths to listen to what their kids want and then make it happen for them.⠀ ⠀ So, if their child wants to jump on the couch, the answer is yes. Basically, "yes parents" attempt to say yes to all of their kids' requests. No request is too crazy or too out of line. ⠀ ⠀ However, the majority of yes parents fail to establish rules or boundaries to keep their kids safe.⠀ ⠀ For instance, one "yes parent" reports discovering that her child cut through a cable in the home. Instead of explaining why this is dangerous, she simply gave him more things to cut. ⠀ ⠀ On the one hand, it is remarkable that she recognised his desire to cut something, but on the other, he never learned that cutting through cables in the house is a dangerous thing to do.⠀ ⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ #parentingtips #parenting101 #parentinglife #familymoments #preggers #unitedinmotherhood #boymomlife #learningathome #raisingboys #specialeducation ⁣#conciousparenting #familymatters #blendedfamily #boymomlife #fatheranddaughter #toddlersofig #unschooling #attachmentparenting ⁣⠀ #parentinglife #publicspeaker #family1st ⁣⠀ #bodyacceptance #stopbullying #parentingtips #parentinglife #bodyimage ⁣#instawoman #empowering #opinions #nrparentcoach https://www.instagram.com/p/CQIJhI1pnof/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Are you ready to try an experiment?⠀ ⠀ Go to your child and say, “I need a hug.”⠀ ⠀ Do share your findings in the comments or via DM.⠀ ⠀ An excellent way to encourage children is to help them feel valuable by contributing—what a perfect way to let them contribute -- by making you feel better when they hug you.⠀ ⠀ Of course, the fringe benefit is that they also feel better. ⠀ ⠀ Remember, a misbehaving child is a discouraged child. ⠀ ⠀ Perhaps encouragement is enough to change the behaviour.⠀ ⠀ Too many people think children must pay for what they have done in the form of blame, shame, or pain (which are other words for punishment). ⠀ ⠀ Try a hug instead!⠀ ⠀ ⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ #parentingtips #parenting101 #parentinglife #familymoments #preggers #unitedinmotherhood #boymomlife #learningathome #raisingboys #specialeducation ⁣#conciousparenting #familymatters #blendedfamily #boymomlife #fatheranddaughter #toddlersofig #unschooling #attachmentparenting ⁣⠀ #parentinglife #publicspeaker #family1st ⁣⠀ #bodyacceptance #stopbullying #parentingtips #parentinglife #bodyimage ⁣#instawoman #empowering #opinions #nrparentcoach https://www.instagram.com/p/CQFebOKJOmG/?utm_medium=tumblr

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By teaching our children the feeling words appropriate to their age—and encouraging them to use them—we support their emotional growth now, into their teen and adult years.⠀ ⠀ How would you use and teach this word to your child? Please share sentence suggestions in the comment section.⠀ ⠀ ⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ #parentingtips #parenting101 #parentinglife #familymoments #preggers #unitedinmotherhood #boymomlife #learningathome #raisingboys #specialeducation ⁣#conciousparenting #familymatters #blendedfamily #boymomlife #fatheranddaughter #toddlersofig #unschooling #attachmentparenting ⁣⠀ #parentinglife #publicspeaker #family1st ⁣⠀ #bodyacceptance #stopbullying #parentingtips #parentinglife #bodyimage ⁣#instawoman #empowering #opinions #nrparentcoach https://www.instagram.com/p/CQFeLjiJNhm/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Rescuing children from all suffering can create weakness.⠀ ⠀ A little boy felt sorry for a butterfly struggling to emerge from its chrysalis. He decided to help so he could save the butterfly from the struggle. So he peeled the chrysalis open for the butterfly.⠀ ⠀ The little boy was so excited to watch the butterfly spread its wings and fly off into the sky. Then he was horrified as he watched the butterfly drift to the ground and die because it did not have the muscle strength to keep flying.⠀ ⠀ Like the little boy, parents too often (in the name of love) want to protect their children from the struggle. ⠀ ⠀ They don’t realise that their children need to struggle, deal with disappointment, solve their problems, develop their emotional muscles, and develop the skills necessary for the even bigger struggles they will encounter throughout their lives.⠀ ⠀ Parents mustn’t make children suffer, but sometimes it is most helpful to “allow” them to suffer with support.⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ #parentingtips #parenting101 #parentinglife #familymoments #preggers #unitedinmotherhood #boymomlife #learningathome #raisingboys #specialeducation ⁣#conciousparenting #familymatters #blendedfamily #boymomlife #fatheranddaughter #toddlersofig #unschooling #attachmentparenting ⁣⠀ #parentinglife #publicspeaker #family1st ⁣⠀ #bodyacceptance #stopbullying #parentingtips #parentinglife #bodyimage ⁣#instawoman #empowering #opinions #nrparentcoach https://www.instagram.com/p/CQFd6HWJPm4/?utm_medium=tumblr

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When children cry, throw tantrums or display any kind of misbehaviour, they are speaking to adults in code. ⠀ ⠀ These children are feeling discouraged and their primary goal is to feel a sense of belonging and significance.⠀ ⠀ Unfortunately, children develop a mistaken belief about how to go about seeking this belonging and significance. As adults, it’s our job to decode their behaviour and meet their needs.⠀ ⠀ Most parents don’t understand that there is a belief behind every behaviour so they make the mistake of trying to change just the behaviour.⠀ ⠀ The behaviour will stop only when the belief behind the behaviour is changed.⠀ ⠀ ⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ #parenthood #familyovereverything #parentingskills #empowerment #firsttimeparent #dobetterbebetter #parentingproblems #parenthoodunplugged #peacefulparenting #parentcoach #respectfulparenting #gentleparenting #mindfulparenting #parentinggoals #indianparents #natasharamchandani #honestparenting #welovebabies #personaldevelopmentjunkie #parentingwin #behaviormanagement #familyday #parentinglife #publicspeaker #parentingtip #grandparentsarethebest #parentingtips #family1st #parentingcoach #nrparentcoach https://www.instagram.com/p/CQD0Lc_JvRQ/?utm_medium=tumblr

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By teaching our children the feeling words appropriate to their age—and encouraging them to use them—we support their emotional growth now, into their teen and adult years. ⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #parenthood #familyovereverything #parentingskills #empowerment #firsttimeparent #dobetterbebetter #parentingproblems #parenthoodunplugged #peacefulparenting #parentcoach #respectfulparenting #gentleparenting #mindfulparenting #parentinggoals #indianparents #natasharamchandani #honestparenting #welovebabies #personaldevelopmentjunkie #parentingwin #behaviormanagement #familyday #parentinglife #publicspeaker #parentingtip #grandparentsarethebest #parentingtips #family1st #parentingcoach #nrparentcoach https://www.instagram.com/p/CQDz_RTpPmr/?utm_medium=tumblr

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The mother bird knows instinctively when it is time to push her baby bird from the nest so it will learn to fly. ⠀ ⠀ If we didn’t know better we might think this is not very nice of the mother bird. If the baby bird could talk, it might be saying, “No. I don’t want to leave the nest. Don’t be so mean. That’s not fair.” However, we know the baby bird would not learn to fly if the mother bird did not provide that important push.⠀ ⠀ Kindness is not always nice. It would be very unkind to allow her baby to be handicapped for life by pampering—an unkindness practised by many parents today.⠀ ⠀ I think we all know the mistakes made in the name of firmness without kindness. In a word, it is punishment. However, many do not know the mistakes made in the name of kindness such as:⠀ ⠀ ● Pleasing⠀ ● Rescuing⠀ ● Over-protecting⠀ ● Pampering—providing all “wants”⠀ ● Micromanaging in the name of love⠀ ● Giving too many choices⠀ ● Making sure children never suffer⠀ All of these parenting methods create weakness.⠀ ⠀ ⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ .⁣⠀ #parenthood #familyovereverything #parentingskills #empowerment #firsttimeparent #dobetterbebetter #parentingproblems #parenthoodunplugged #peacefulparenting #parentcoach #respectfulparenting #gentleparenting #mindfulparenting #parentinggoals #indianparents #natasharamchandani #honestparenting #welovebabies #personaldevelopmentjunkie #parentingwin #behaviormanagement #familyday #parentinglife #publicspeaker #parentingtip #grandparentsarethebest #parentingtips #family1st #parentingcoach #nrparentcoach https://www.instagram.com/p/CQDu4z3DdPC/?utm_medium=tumblr