#attachmentparenting

[amethyst-organic]

Tumblr has changed way too much 😂 I just tried to go to my blog & ended up in whatever tf “TumblrMart” is hahah

I don’t even know if anyone follows me anymore but I can’t let Tumblr go so here’s some photos of me and Finn in our new matching bamboo outfits 😍

(The pictures in the car we were parked at the bus stop, don’t worry lol)

[hollymarlow]

Husband is going away for the weekend to watch a football game with a friend... The kids have other plans! 🤣 I laugh, but it is a bit daunting. The smallest one is furious that Daddy's going away, and has been expressing that frustration rather dramatically! 😬 #nicetry #funny #parentingmoments #parentingstruggles #thestruggleisreal #attachment #attachmentdisorder #attachmentparenting #parenting #parentingsos #parenthumour #parenthood #family #famille #familie #familia #adoptivefamily #adoptiveparents #adoptionbuiltus #adoption #adoptionmonth #adoptionawareness #adoptionawarenessmonth #therapeuticparenting https://www.instagram.com/p/CjckleUMqy-/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[responsiveparenting]

“How your child treats you will not determine how they treat the rest of the world. Instead, how you treat your child will determine how they treat the rest of the world and themselves.” J. Milburn⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ We are their safe place. Children don’t typically act the same with other authority figures, as they do with their parents. There is a connection and trust there that allows them to feel safe enough to crumble into our arms. They throw dirt at us because they know we are the only one’s who care to know what’s hidden in the debris. Disrespectful behaviour is usually misunderstood behaviour. It’s usually communication. It’s not a character defining moment when your child is emotionally dysregulated. We all become dysregulated at times. It’s important to normalize those feelings and model how to process emotions and offer grace. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I discuss this further in my latest e-book 👇⁣⁣ ⁣ Finding Your Calm: A Responsive Parents Guide to Self-Regulation and Co-Regulation⁣ ⁣ Link in bio @responsive_parenting or on the Website: responsiveparentinginspirations.com⁣ ⁣ #ResponsiveParenting #JMilburn #ParentMentalHealth #MaternalMentalHealth #PostPartum #MensMentalHealth #ParentingLife #HealingJourney #GentleParenting #AttachmentParenting #Attachment #AttachmentTheory #Parenthood #SelfHealing #SelfCompassion #EarlyChildhood #ChildDevelopment #PTSD #CPTSD #ChildhoodMemories #Triggers #HoldingSpace #SelfRegulation #Empathy #UnconditionalLove #Parent #KidLife #AlwaysLearning #PTSDAwareness https://www.instagram.com/p/Cg2Zz38p298/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[mghamster]

a baby to refuse to grow up and a mother who refuses to let her baby grow up…

🤣

the story goes like this…

last weekend, after the car was picked up from the service centre, for some reason, one of the passenger door was set to child-lock…

so, when we reached our destination, Maddie couldn’t open the door to get off the car…

later… she told me, “I’m so happy that I’m “child-locked””!

you see! 🤷

[talktoangel2]

Positive parenting is a parenting style that focuses on positive communication, empathy, and mutual respect between parents and children. It involves encouraging positive behavior in children and helping them build their self-esteem and confidence.

Some strategies for positive parenting include:

Communicating with your child in a respectful and positive way.

Providing positive reinforcement and praise for good behavior.

Setting clear expectations and boundaries.

Listening actively to your child and showing empathy.

Encouraging your child to express their feelings and thoughts.

Providing opportunities for your child to develop their independence and decision-making skills.

Avoiding physical punishment and instead using natural consequences and logical consequences.

Building a strong and loving relationship with your child.

Modeling positive behaviors and attitudes.

Encouraging your child to take responsibility for their actions and learn from mistakes.

Positive parenting can have many benefits for both parents and children, including better communication, increased self-esteem, and stronger relationships.

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[letswixitwith-sharifahnamusisi]

THE CYCLE OF ATTACHMENT The start of healthy attachments begins in the womb. Optimal fetal development occurs when the expectant mother cares for her emotional & physical health. Also, when a mother is experiencing a happy outlook concerning her pregnancy. Good nutrition & avoiding stress provides an environment for the fetus to flourish. When the child is born, immediate comfort from the mother is needed. She provides nurturing & soothing for her new baby. When an infant has a need, which is normally due to hunger, pain, illness or the infant being overly tired, they will cry out due to their discomfort. An infant learns to communicate their needs in this way. As the parent soothes & meets the infant's needs the infant becomes satisfied, relaxed & regulated. The cycle of trust begins & happens over and over each day. The infant learns to depend & rely on the caregiver as this cycle repeats hundreds of times in an infant’s first year of life. These experiences are a large part of the bonding process between mother and child. This creates an optimal environment for the infant to receive the mother’s loving energy. As the infant is being rocked or held and glazing into their mother’s eyes, the baby mirrors the mom’s smiles & facial expressions. Mother & child become finely attuned to one another as this bonding process continues. This cycle aids in stimulating brain development. When a baby experiences discomfort & the mother does not respond or her responses are inconsistent, the cycle of attachment is disturbed. An infant is unable to self-regulate thus resulting in a heightened level of anxiety and rage. As the baby’s needs are not being met & the neglect continues an infant will eventually cease crying. The infant can shut down completely or go into survival mode, all of which can interfere with healthy brain devolvement. If the mother is inconsistent with her caregiving, the infant can remain ANXIOUS not knowing if or when his needs will be met. DISCLAIMER Assalam Alaykum Warahmatullah Wabarakatuh #attachmentstyles #attachment #attachmentparenting #attachmenttheory #attachmentissues #relationshiptips #relationshipgoals #marriagegoals https://www.instagram.com/p/Cpmr0ieLb23/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[theacemichealsshow-blog]

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[pinkfeathergurl]

We love our children and we want the best for them, but without hopes and dreams for your child, he or she may get stuck. 🪄 💭

Parents should provide their children with emotional support and encouragement. This can include praising their child's efforts and accomplishments, as well as offering words of encouragement when they face challenges or setbacks. 👪

Another way parents can help is by providing their children with resources, such as access to education or extracurricular activities that can help them develop the skills and knowledge needed to pursue their dreams. ✨ 🔮

Parents are role models for their children, by demonstrating the importance of hard work, perseverance, and determination in achieving one's goals. 💫💗

More about Parenting Skills: https://bit.ly/3iDO5ue

[geekandbutter]

baby 1 goes back to school today, (baby 2, since tuesday),

so, I told baby 1 that, I’m going to miss her…

she looked at me,

I explained, that, for the past few days, after I sent baby 2 to school, came home, she’s at home…

but from today onwards, she’ll be in the school, and I will have the whole house by myself…

I’ve always talked about attachment parenting… (I still like this parenting style~)

and I sometimes do share with others that,

it’s not the children attached to me,

I’m the one who’s attached to my children…

[therapy-gems]

Sharing The Freelove: Psychology Today

CW: Mental healthcare perspectives/research on BPD.

Support our beautiful neighbours who’s lives are touched by BPD by giving this article a quick read ❤️

The diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder is notoriously controversial in the mental healthcare community (I can’t even describe how quickly some clinicians are ready to throw hands - pretty dodgy).

Put simply, there tends to be two rivalrous camps: BPD is a traditional personality disorder; BPD symptoms indicate complex trauma, rather than a personality disorder. Many of us are nomadic, whether it’s out of advocacy or (oppressive) neutrality.

While I absolutely, wholeheartedly advocate for fiery public discourse amongst clinicians, sometimes we lose sight of our clients’ lived experience. It happens far too frequently.

So when I encountered this article, and its relatively simple and transparent content, I felt relief. It gives readers (like us) a much needed break from detangling research from opinion.

I was further impressed by it naming the nasty aftertaste of 20th century mother-hating psychotherapy. I know many amazing mothers of adult children with BPD, personally and clinically.

With love,

Meghan Elizabeth

[rksaha]

Life Lessons - #attachment #attach #attached #attachments #attachmentparenting #attachmenttheory #attachmentstyles #attachmentparentinginternational (at Kolkata) https://www.instagram.com/p/CltoC00tKfI/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[fromanotherealm]

What's Your Attachment Style? 

Usually our attachment styles develop in our early years of life (before 2 years of age). But we can also develop different attachment styles in abusive or toxic relationships.

How do attachment styles develop in early childhood?

Our parents (or caregivers) behaviors form the way a child perceives close relationships. Since a child is dependent on their caregivers for everything: food, shelter, comfort, support, protection and love.

When a child's emotional, physical and spiritual needs are met, this is how they become securely attached. If a child's needs are not met they often display signs of anxious, fearful, avoidant or disorganized attachment styles particularly in intimate partnerships.

Read more: 

 https://fromanotherealm.wixsite.com/fromanotherealm/post/attachment-style

[hollymarlow]

At forest school today (I was a parent volunteer, if you missed my previous post), one of Jake's little friends wasn't feeling it. He was really quiet and didn't want to do any of the activities. I chatted to him for a bit, and he explained that he had woken up very early and he was tired. He walked around with me and Jake for a bit, but still didn't want to join in, and eventually announced that he was too tired to walk, and sat down on a log. Jake went over and sat next to him, and asked "Are you sad? Do you want my Mummy to sit next to you?" I thought that was such a sweet thing! He thinks that sitting next to me makes people feel better! 🥰 Well, that's how I'm interpreting that anyway. I did sit with his friend for a while and he told me a very long story, that I struggled to follow, but he seemed to enjoy telling it, so that's the main thing! And Jake happily wandered off, leaving me to chat to his friend. I'm happy that he's secure enough in our attachment and the knowledge that I'm HIS Mummy, that he could offer my listening ear to his friend, and not feel threatened. . #attachment #attachmentbuilding #attachmentdisorder #attachmentparenting #buildingattachments #therapeuticparenting #connectedparenting #connection #parenting #adoption #wholesome https://www.instagram.com/p/CpQKpb-owX9/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[responsiveparenting]

“Mess is my biggest trigger. How am I supposed to avoid that with 3 kids?” You can’t! That’s why we’re learning skills to process the triggers we can’t avoid like mess, whining, crying, disobedience, etc. Parenting brings up triggers that we can’t avoid, such as mess. I think the impulse for many is to resolve this trigger by constantly trying to keep things clean. The thing is, this often suppresses the feeling and perpetuates the cycle of frustration and anxiety. Let’s look at some of the very valid reasons why mess can be overwhelming. - Reflection of your worthiness as a parent/partner - Feel overwhelmed by too much clutter - Feel unappreciated - Feel unsupported - Sensory overload - Feeling disorganized - Feel like all the house work is your responsibility - Feel like others don’t respect the space the way you do - Feel tired with the constant work So all of these are very valid reasons to feel triggered. Now with a trigger like this, we are not INVALIDATING. We are validating the emotions. So instead of trying to talk yourself out of these feelings, your going to validate them. Why? Because YOUR TRIGGER IS VALID!! Once you’ve validated yourself, you can self-regulate and once your are self-regulated, you can think about how you want to deal with the situation. Learn more about this in my latest E 📖 Finding Your Calm: A Responsive Parents Guide to Self-Regulation and Co-Regulation Link in bio @responsive_parenting or on the Website: responsiveparentinginspirations.com #ResponsiveParenting #JMilburn #ParentMentalHealth #MaternalMentalHealth #PostPartum #MensMentalHealth #ParentingLife #HealingJourney #GentleParenting #AttachmentParenting #Attachment #AttachmentTheory #Parenthood #SelfHealing #SelfCompassion #EarlyChildhood #ChildDevelopment #PTSD #CPTSD #ChildhoodMemories #Triggers #HoldingSpace #SelfRegulation #Empathy #UnconditionalLove #Parent #KidLife #AlwaysLearning #PTSDAwareness https://www.instagram.com/p/Cgz-TVkv7Yu/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[blumenkinder-eu]

Viele, viele bunte Windeln... 💛🧡❤️💜💙💚 Ich bin gerade so durch mein Lager gegangen und habe mich einfach an den vielen schönen Designs erfreut. Das ging mir schon früher bei den #stoffwindeln meiner Kinder so... Wickeln mit Stoffwindeln macht so viel Freude! Und wenn die #kinder etwas größer sind, können sie die Freude teilen und ihre #windel sogar selbst aussuchen. #baby #windelfreibaby #nachhaltigleben #babyledweaning #attachmentparenting #eltern #mamaliebe #mamasein #mamalifehacks #familienleben #babyzeit #babyausstattung https://www.instagram.com/p/CeoZTX2MeL-/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[letswixitwith-sharifahnamusisi]

Sharing Knowledge & Insights On What I've Learned On ATTACHMENT THEORY Attachment styles refer to the particular way in which an individual relates to other people. The style of attachment is formed at the very beginning of life, and once established, it is a style that stays with you and plays out today in how you relate in intimate relationships and in how you parent your children. The concept involves one’s confidence in the availability of the attachment figure for use as a secure base from which one can freely explore the world when not in distress and a safe haven from which one can seek support, protection, and comfort in times of distress. Bowlby identified four types of attachment styles: secure, anxious-ambivalent, disorganized, and avoidant. PS: MY IG POSTS ARENT THERAPY. This Page Shares General Psychoeducation Information & May Not Suit Your Situation, Or Resonate With You. Take What Connects & Leave The Rest. Please See My Disclaimer(Highlight)For More Information Assalam Alaykum Warahmatullah Wabarakatuh #relationships #letsfixitwithsharifahnamusisi #attachment #attachmenttheory #attachmentparenting #attachmentstyles https://www.instagram.com/p/CpVU6QBte4U/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=